Casual Conversation: DAE struggle to maintain friendships?

Casual Conversation: DAE struggle to maintain friendships?

Baada ya kupitia michango ya wadau nimepata Mwanga kidogo

Binafsi tangu Utoto sinaga Rafiki wa kusema huyu sasa ni huyu, na wala halinipi shida wala. Kwangu mimi ukitaka kukaa kaa, usipotaka kukaa wewe nenda tu kwa sala safi. Mara zote huwa napenda mpenzi wangu ndiye awe rafiki yangu wa ukweli.
 
Fendi said:
U might be rig

U real real need friends.. Humjui tu opportunities mnazopoteza just kwa kuamua kuishi hayo maisha.. Hasa kama ni mfanyabiashara marafiki ni muhimu sana but kama Wewe ndio wale wa maofisini wanaosubiri kukinga mwisho wa Mwezi labda marafiki hawakusaidii chochote..
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mi nawaangalia tu hapa wanavyojitutumua na comment zao za I dont need friends.. vikitaka kuoa au kuolewa ndo vinaanza kusumbua na text na kujipendekeza kwa saaaana.

vikikosa kodi ya nyumba ndo tunakumbukwa. vikiishiwa hela ya kula bip bip haziishi.

binadam bana. hatujawaigi kujielewa.

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Hii thread imejaa watu wenye ego na waliongalia a lot of Hollywood movies.

Ewe mtu unaesoma uzi Huu as a member or as a guest Kutokuwa na marafiki it's not normal it's a problem. Na ndo maana wazungu wenyewe wanatafutia solution. Utakuta these days wana reading clubs au social gatherings ili watu wakutane watengeneze urafiki. Why? Coz loneliness has killed lots of people more than AIDS will ever do.

Tena kwa mazingira yetu ya kiafrika you need friends kusurvive . Find people, call them when you miss them create your own networks wakuu. Maisha ni mafupi Sana.
Hayo mambo ya kuwa your own best friend yako theoretical Sana.

This is Africa. Ohooooo.

Psychiatrists.
 
Paula Paul said:
Kabla hatujalitafutia utatuzi inabidi tujue kwanza kama ni sahihi kuliita ni tatizo au sio tatizo.

Kweli tumefanana, tunapenda kupata marafiki wapya ila kuuendeleza urafiki ni tabu.
Mimi ukikutana na mimi siku ya unaweza kusema mimi nitakuwa rafiki yako wa kufa na kuzikana. Ila baada ya hapo kuendeleza huo urafiki ndio shughuli.

Haujawahi kupokea malalamiko Mnazareth?
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Labda nikuulize umeolewa au una Boyfriend maana hao wote ni marafiki.

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Krikichino said:
Hii thread imejaa watu wenye ego na waliongalia a lot of Hollywood movies.

Ewe mtu unaesoma uzi Huu as a member or as a guest Kutokuwa na marafiki it's not normal it's a problem. Na ndo maana wazungu wenyewe wanatafutia solution. Utakuta these days wana reading clubs au social gatherings ili watu wakutane watengeneze urafiki. Why? Coz loneliness has killed lots of people more than AIDS will ever do.

Tena kwa mazingira yetu ya kiafrika you need friends kusurvive . Find people, call them when you miss them create your own networks wakuu. Maisha ni mafupi Sana.
Hayo mambo ya kuwa your own best friend yako theoretical Sana.

This is Africa. Ohooooo.

Psychiatrists.
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Unachozungumza kwangu nakupa 100% yes.
Very yes!

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Krikichino said:
Hii thread imejaa watu wenye ego na waliongalia a lot of Hollywood movies.

Ewe mtu unaesoma uzi Huu as a member or as a guest Kutokuwa na marafiki it's not normal it's a problem. Na ndo maana wazungu wenyewe wanatafutia solution. Utakuta these days wana reading clubs au social gatherings ili watu wakutane watengeneze urafiki. Why? Coz loneliness has killed lots of people more than AIDS will ever do.

Tena kwa mazingira yetu ya kiafrika you need friends kusurvive . Find people, call them when you miss them create your own networks wakuu. Maisha ni mafupi Sana.
Hayo mambo ya kuwa your own best friend yako theoretical Sana.

This is Africa. Ohooooo.

Psychiatrists.
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Sasa mkuu kama kila ukijitahidi kutafuta marafiki na kufanya kila jitihada wabaki maishani mwako lakini mwisho wa siku bado wanaondoka unadhani utafanyaje ??
 
Zoë said:
Sasa mkuu kama kila ukijitahidi kutafuta marafiki na kufanya kila jitihada wabaki maishani mwako lakini mwisho wa siku bado wanaondoka unadhani utafanyaje ??
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Then unatatizo mahali, either uko na wrong circle, au biased au unamaringaringa
 
Paula Paul said:
Hello Guys,

I have a hard time making friends. I am not really shy or anything but it's really hard to me to stay in touch with people. It's like I quickly become bored with them. Na sio kwamba I want to be alone and enjoy my own company, Nah! I am pretty sociable and good at talking to "new" people and getting to know them, we would eat together, travel, watch movies and go out to event, party kwa kifupi kufurahia maisha but keeping them is next to impossible.

Baada ya hapo mawasiliano yanakufa kama vile hatujawahi kujuana kabla. I effort a lot but I usualy endup becaming unmotivated to even reply to people. Naweza nikaona text massage or emails ila I'll ignore it for days or a month. I really hate feeling obligated to talk to talk to people constantly unless kuna vitu muhimu ila sio "umeshindaje dear, jamani nimekumiss, shemeji ajambo? enhee nipe story, it gets annoying .

Nimejaribu kubadilika ila najikuta hata nikianza kujibu text messages naishia tuu "ha ha ha okay, fine, good, me too". Yani nakosa story za kupiga.

I had my old friends , from when I went to collage. Ila kama kawaida I am such a bad conversionalist. I Sometimes go a month or so without even massaging each other, and we just forgive eachother whenether we do see each other. Baada ya hapo tukiachana tuu najikuta siwezi tena kutuma tuma text, au kuwapigia simu, labda tuwe na kitu kingine cha kujadili mbali na mambo ya urafiki.

Nani mwingine anateseka na hii hali?

Guys is it okay not to have friends?

How do you maintain friends?

And people who don't have friends, Why don't you have friends? Is this what you want?.

G'day.
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You're selfish, insecure and lacking self-confidence. I can easily say that you have a mental struggle arising from opposing demands and impulses.

Kama umeweza kujitambua, nakushauri just work on every issue, break it with solutions, na tekeleza kwa usahihi. Kwamba, badilika. Sio kawaida kwa mwanadamu (social being).

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NB:1.usimwamini sana rafiki.
2.dont expose your personal issues to Friends..(it will be used against you later)
3.rafiki hatafutwi bali anakuja mwenyewe
4.know ur circle
5.real friends care ..all time at all circumstance.
6.ikishindikana pambana na Hali yako..and relax..Kwa sababu katiba ya nchi haijasema ni lazima uwe na rafiki😎😀
 
Doppelganger said:
You're selfish, insecure and lacking self-confidence. I can easily say that you have a mental struggle arising from opposing demands and impulses.

Kama umeweza kujitambua, nakushauri just work on every issue, break it with solutions, na tekeleza kwa usahihi. Kwamba, badilika. Sio kawaida kwa mwanadamu (social being).

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This has been noted. Thank you.
 
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