You wish You Weren't Married?

[LazyDog]

Mwanzo nilijisemea, "mbona Bimkubwa kaandika mno kwa swali dogo hivi?". Nimesoma nikafika mwisho, sasa natamani nikupe kalamu nyingine.

Thank you!





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[Calnde]

Its because most people start expiriencing love in the marriage and during preparation for marriage every one expected great things from other.But the truth is if marriage is well arranged and couple are well prepared,marriage is the place for eternal happiness.

 

[Kinyau]

Interesting!
Can u shade some light on the legal ownership of ur mate plzz?

ha ha ha, knew a question would rise up. ni ile kuwa free na huyo mmoja, hata mkikumbatiana barabarani, si wako, mwaweza fanya chochote kwani ni ruksa; tofauti na magirlfriends! ukitaka kumkis girlfriend restaurant si wafanya hivyo kwa mashaka? ever found out why?But there is that complete free feeling when u know huyu ni mke wangu, u just feel ur whole being belongs to her. I have been there for yrs and never regretted.

 

[Fugwe]

Regret is always there, not only in marriage relationship even in other matters. to me what is important is how you handle the situation than resorting to return to single life. Remember being single is not safe, you need to have someone who acts as a control mechanism to what you're doing. Marriage normally is good, what we need to do is to regard your partner in a very positive way.

 

[Aunty Lao]

not why married to the ugly, coward, foolish, irresponsible man.

Oooh what has been said with mama is what am passing through now. I sincerely wish not being single to look for a new partner.

 

[Mbu]

not why married to the ugly, coward, foolish, irresponsible man.

...ur definately right mama,

when my better half gives me 'that' look, i know for sure those words cross her minds...ha ha ha, the good thing, come tomorrow, vicheko na vikofi vya mgongoni kama kawaida, yalopita si ndwele...!

Once married you become adddicted, as i am, 'addicted' to my wife's vituko!

 

[Mama]

...ur definately right mama,

when my better half gives me 'that' look, i know for sure those words cross her minds...ha ha ha, the good thing, come tomorrow, vicheko na vikofi vya mgongoni kama kawaida, yalopita si ndwele...!

Once married you become adddicted, as i am, 'addicted' to my wife's vituko!

may be she is bitterly tolerating your vituko, ooh..... this is tooo bad for a man.

 

[Mbu]

may be she is bitterly tolerating your vituko, ooh..... this is tooo bad for a man.

...ndoa ndoana, shurti kutegana, akibadika unabandua, bila 'vituko' the journey is not worth travelling.

si unakumbuka ile thread ' why women are so complicated.'

 

[Mama]

...ndoa ndoana, shurti kutegana, akibadika unabandua, bila 'vituko' the journey is not worth travelling.

si unakumbuka ile thread ' why women are so complicated.'

Kumbuka mtenda akitendewa.....unajua mwanamke akiamua kukutenda unaweza hama nyumba? we tega tega na ubandike bandike, siku kibao kikikugeukia tutakuja kukupa ushauri hapa .

 

[Yona F. Maro]

Mama eti umeshaolewa ?

 

[Mirabella]

Just want to point out that in for example Tanzania, it is customary for the bride to cry at the wedding, whereas the man shines like the sun!... This is because she will have to part with her family and everything from the life she knew, whereas he has brought home a new whife to his life!

 

[Mama]

Mama eti umeshaolewa ?

haihusu, if so na babu yako.

 

[NaimaOmari]

Am enjoying here... Am getting something from you guys!

Inafurahisha kujua wangapi hawajutii maamuzi yao na wangapi wanahisi walikurupuka!

Daima na Milele - MarLaw

Kibao hicho nawapa wenye ndoa tu, kama bado basi sikiliza kidogo tu!

hey guy just fasten your seat belt and dont leave your prayers yet .. yours is still young .. Mungu apishe mbali .. with time utapata upara .. and it will be like everyone elses .. i advise that you keep praying .. be extra patient, close your ears, shut your mouth and just keep your eyes open .. i would advise not to blink but i know its only natural so keep blinking ... otherwise dont count your eggs as yet

Kwani hujiulizi kwanini wanawake wengine wana administer Limbwata .. mwanaume mfanye kondoo tu mtaishi .. kwani wanaume wamezidi visa

 

[Mbu]

Kumbuka mtenda akitendewa.....unajua mwanamke akiamua kukutenda unaweza hama nyumba? we tega tega na ubandike bandike, siku kibao kikikugeukia tutakuja kukupa ushauri hapa .

...najua mama, ndio maana mambo yakizidi (wenye roho ndogo) inabidi kuhamia 'nyumba ndogo'

 

[Yona F. Maro]

Girl you're the finest na u be the finest I've ever seen, the
wey u dey shine , u dey bling Like me, eh when it comes to
Renting your the lead, my princess my only one lover,
Now I guess its time to let you know that no one be like u
So many things, so many things, every thing, without u ,
There's no possibility, there's no positivity only, always
Negativity, thank god I found you, you are my everything,
You are my destiny this is reality

PSQUARE Lyrics - NO ONE LIKE YOU

 

[TzPride]

Kila la heri mnaofurahia ndoano zenu...kwa wengine imeingia haitoki......na realy painful!

Regrets +++++++++++++++

 

[Triplets]

...najua mama, ndio maana mambo yakizidi (wenye roho ndogo) inabidi kuhamia 'nyumba ndogo'

hivi inawasaidia kweli? au ndio kujiongezea matatizo tu...huyo wa nyumba ndogo nae si mwanamke mwenye mapungufu yake kama binadamu wengine?? na huko nyumba ndogo kukiwashinda?...itabidi watafute nyumba ndogo zaidi!

 

[Rodelite]

Duh....Nimesoma na kupata ushauri mwingi katika majibu ya hii Topic....lakini kuna cases nyingine ambazo ni unique.
I Love my wife but sometimes she does things that I wish I wasn't married to her. She's one person who can't let "bygones be bygones" and this puts our happiness at a standstill.........
I can only pray.....That's all....

 

[Chupaku]

Mchongoma,

Mnajisikiaje wanaume mnapoenda nyumba ndogo na kugeuzwa akili mpaka mnafanya vitu vya hovyo hovyo - mwanaume mtu mzima? Ndio mnadai mapenzi?

Ila twende mbele na kurudi nyuma, jamani kuna wakinababa wanakera na wakinamama hali kadhalika, nyumbani hakukaliki, unajitafutia vi trip vya hapa na pale na mtu akisafiri inakuwa eeuuh!

 

[BAK]

once beaten twice shy .... wahalalishe tu ndoa ya mkataba jamani .. haya mambo for life ni kama kufungana kamba tu

Aisee umeongea point jubwa sana. Nilikuwa naangalia kipindi kimoja kwenye TV kilikuwa kinazungumzia high divorce rate ya Marekani. Na baadhi ya wachangiaji ambao waume na wanawake walizungumzia hili la kuna na ndoa za mkataba labda wa mwaka mmoja halafu mnaongeza mkataba ukiisha kama wote wawili mnaona kuna umuhimu wa kufanya hivyo, vinginevyo kila mtu anashika hamsini zake.

Hakuna ndoa ambyo iko perfect lakini matatizo kati ya ndoa moja na nyingine yanatofautiana sana. Mengine yanaweza kabisa kuvumilika na kusamehewa ili ndoa iendelee lakini mengine hayavumiliki kabisa.

Sasa hivi Marekani wanadai divorce rate zimeanza kupungua, wengi wake kwa waume wanadai kuwa na 'free marriage' na 'swingers life style' kumesaidia sana kupunguza divorce lakini kwa wengine ndoa za namna hii bado haziingii akilini.