Mh!..............Ukweli huu wauma
Ni kweli ukweli huwa unauma. Hata watalaamu hutuambia kuwa 'ukweli unauma'. Watu wengi hasa sisi Watanzania huwa tunaogopa kusema ukweli kwa sababu eti tutawaumiza wahusika. Lakini ikiwa hatuambiani ukweli hatuwezi kupata kile ambacho tunatarajia. Huwa naamini mtu jasiri sio yule anayesema ukweli bali ni yule anayekubali ukweli japokuwa unauma.
EMT aksante kwa maelezo murua............what if kwenye uteenager wako ulikuwa 'saint' hukuwahiexperience hiyo feeling mpaka umekuja ukubwani, Cant someone strate with mature love right away?? Nauliza tu
How do you know mtu alikuwa saint wakati wa uteenger wake? Period ambayo teenagers huwa wanapitia wanakubwa na dhoruba kubwa japokuwa wengi hawaonyeshi kwa vitendo kutokana na sababu mbalimbali. Lakini kama ungefanikiwa kuingia vichwani na mioyoni mwao mambo ambayo ungeyakuta uliyedhani ni saint atakuwa siyo.
Kuna aina tatu za infatuation. Aina ya kwanza ni kuwa katika state ya "being carried away, without insight or proper evaluative judgement, by blind desire." Aina ya pili, mhusika ana evaluate hiyo infatuation though the craving or love remains unaffected by it. Aina ya tatu, regardeless of the infatuation, mhusika exhibits good or bad judgement and evaluation due to his/her culture, religion, upbringing on one hand and ignorance or recklessness on the other.
Kwa hayo hata kama ni saint lazima ata-fall kwenye type ya tatu.
Aksante sana this I agree with you ingawa maswali hayakosekaniki............how long should that crush last for you to know it is not love? Je kuna muda lets say miezi mitatu ikipita unawezaonyeshwa dalili kuwa noe the infatuation is fading au mpaka utendwe vimbwanga ndo utazinduka toka ndotoni?
Inategemea na kilichosababisha hiyo infatuation. Kama nilivyosema mwanzo umri unachangia sana. Kwa mfano teenager wa kike wengi duniani wana infatuation na mwanamuziki Justin Bieber. Lakini wakifikisha umri wa miaka 30 sidhani kama bado watakuwa na hiyo infatuation. Inawezekana pia kama Justin Bieber akiporomoka kumuziki na infatuation ya teenagers itanaishia hapo hapo. Au akitokea mwanamuzi mwingine mwenye mvuto zaidi kwa teenager zaidi ya Justin watahamishia infatuation kwake.
Kama sababu ya infactuation ni kuwa karibu nae distance from him/her can help maintain the infatuated state. Unawezakuwa na infactuation na member wa JF lakini Mod
RussianRoulette akimlamba ban ya mwaka na huyo member akaamua kutumikia kifungo kwa kutoingia kwa ID nyingine, infatuation yako kwa huyo member inaweza kuishia hapo hapo. Akirudi baada ya mwaka huna time nae au utakuwa umeshahamisha infatuation kwa member mwingine
A time-honoured cure for the one who has a tender infatuated is to have thrown them continually together by doing so you will cure or you will know that it is not an infatuation at all.