Wakina baba/kaka

[Sky Eclat]

1) i will take ur comment as a compliment and let it be know to you, that am not one who is afraid to go against the grain. the popularity of a certain practice does not necessarily make it right. e.g siku hzi kugegedana kabla ya ndoa ni thinking ya kisasa but it certainly isnt right. so where as my thinking myt not fit "our time" it is certainly without a shadow of a doubt right.

2) unasema hiyo ilikuwa zaidi zamani, this somehow links with the first point concerning "our time" and "their time" ndio wanaume wanaangalia mwanamke anafanya kazi gani and all that becoz tayari wanaume wa "our time" have the mentality that women should do these "extra" jobs which to me is just secondary duties. primary duty yake mwanamke ndio kama hivyo "kugegedwa, kuzaa kulea". to add to that, pamoja na kwamba wanaangalia mwanamke anafanya kazi gani it still does not extricate a man from his duties ya kuprovide katika familia, his primary duty. ask those with experience and they will testify that to marry a working woman and expect that it will go 50/50 is to live in denial. wewe mwanaume unaweka mafuta kwenye gari la mkeo, utatibia wazazi wake, utalipa school fees, utajenga wewe etc.

3) please do understand ninaposema mwanamke yeye ni "kugegedwa, kuzaa na kulea" dnt mean kwamba ni lazima ake nyumbani tuu. hizo zilizotajwa hapo juu ndio primary duties zake. kuwa pilot, engineer ni extras which have no relevance if one can not perform the fundamentals mentioned above. so kui by all means nenda kuwa marketer or rocket scientist but dnt forget the fundamentals.
usijidanganye kuwa eti wanawake hawata depend kwa wanaume financially, thats just a fallacy that "haki sawa kwa wote" preaches but only exist as a defacto. mwanamke alie olewa ata depend kwa mwanaume finacially even if she is a working class woman. that is how it is.

The majority of professional women tend to forget a wife's duty at home, she will be the one dictating when sex will be performed and if the man is not strong enough he become inferior. This can be the beginning of a man finding mchepuko where he feels he has a full power as a man. It is only my thinking.

 

[mzabzab]

The majority of professional women tend to forget a wife's duty at home, she will be the one dictating when sex will be performed and if the man is not strong enough he become inferior. This can be the beginning of a man finding mchepuko where he feels he has a full power as a man. It is only my thinking.

well said dada....they tend to forget primary duty zao. ur husband is a lucky man.

 

[mimi mkali]

We acha kunawake wanamaliza kilo ya dona na maharage,

na breakfast ni uji wa ulezi lita 5.

 

[JT2014]

Wanakataga kamba kama Samsoni wa Delila mkuu.... afu subiri hiyo ngoma ya mmakonde mzee inaitwa Mdundikoooo😱

Mwanaume hatakiwi kuishiwa mbinu,akikata kamba kesho yake
unabuni mbinu mpya.

 

[Sky Eclat]

Mwanaume hatakiwi kuishiwa mbinu,akikata kamba kesho yake
unabuni mbinu mpya.

Wewe hayajakutokea tu, shukuru.

 

[Sky Eclat]

Footage of the incident shows Grace Mugabe slapping her husband in a fit of rage. Matibiri, Mugabe’s chief police guard, rushes in and tries to calm the situation, telling Grace Mugabe that if she wants to fight her husband she must do it in their bedroom, not in public.

Grace Mugabe slaps Matibiri hard in the face and he withdraws in shame, leaving Mugabe to face further abuse from his wife, who is 40 years younger than the 92 year-old despot now afflicted with poor health.

The beating left Mugabe and his aides shell-shocked. Mugabe has previously complained of abuse from his wife, who harbours presidential ambitions and has declared: “Who has more right than me to be president?”

The failure by Mugabe’s guards to restrain his violent wife has left the president exposed and allowed Grace Mugabe to institute a reign of terror within Zanu PF where her entry as the women’s league chairperson has sparked chaos amid allegations of sex scandals.

Grace Mugabe has declared that she will not follow protocol because she is ‘superior’ to all of Mugabe’s aides by virtue of being “their boss’s wife”.

 

[JT2014]

Wewe hayajakutokea tu, shukuru.

Si swala la kunitokea,ni swala la ni nani alimtokea mwenzake akaomba
muishi wote.Kama ni mwanaume ulimtokea huyo mdada/mmama
kama amekuzidi nguvu za mikononi basi tumia akili uliyotumia
mpaka ukampata.

Hicho unachokieleza ni madhara yanayowakumba
wale waliotafutiwa wanawake na ndugu zao ,wazazi au marafiki.
yeye akaishia kumwingiza ndani hapo lazima haya yakupate
maana uwezekano wa akili ndogo kumiliki akili kubwa unahusika.

Mwanaume halisi lazima uoe mke ambaye ni matunda
ya akili yako mwenyewe na si matunda ya akili za watu
huyo lazima akudunde na udundike,labda uwe unamzidi misuli.

 

[euca]

Mimi nimeanza kwenda mazoezi ya karate juzi baada ya mke wangu kunipiga vibao vya nguvu kisa eti katukuta tunapiga story vizuri na housegirl huku tunapasiana viganja/makofi na kucheka kwa furahaa na nilishindwa kumdhibiti kabisa mke wangu, nimepata aibu sana kwani niliishia tu kulia kama mtoto mdogo!

mkuu kwahyo alikupga mbele ya huyo dada wa kazi?

 

[Sky Eclat]

Si swala la kunitokea,ni swala la ni nani alimtokea mwenzake akaomba
muishi wote.Kama ni mwanaume ulimtokea huyo mdada/mmama
kama amekuzidi nguvu za mikononi basi tumia akili uliyotumia
mpaka uampata.Hicho unachokieleza ni madhara yanayowakumba
wale waliotafutiwa wanawake na ndugu zao ,wazazi au marafiki.
yeye akaishia kumwingiza ndani hapo lazima haya yakupate
maana uwezekano wa akili ndogo kumiliki akili kubwa unahusika.

Mwanaume halisi lazima uoe mke ambaye ni matunda
ya akili yako mwenyewe na si matunda ya akili za watu
huyo lazima akudunde na udundike.Labda uwe unamzidi misuli.

Haha haha. Hivi kuna wanaotafutiwa wake dunia hii? You have just made my day😀😀

 

[JT2014]

Haha haha. Hivi kuna wanaotafutiwa wake dunia hii? You have just made my day😀😀

Ndo manake,kama yupo mtu anapigwa na mke wake
kiasi cha kutamani kumshirikisha mtu na anaona aibu
huyo ni ukweli usiopingika kwamba alitafutiwa mke,
Sikatai mke wangu anaweza kunipiga kofi la utani
nikamchekea kama sehemu ya utani na nikamwambia umeshinda
na tukaishia kucheka na kufurahi.Lakini kama ni kichapo
mpaka nikaomba po,basi lazima nirudi kwenye akili iliyotumika
kumpata na huo ndo utakuwa mwisho wa kupigwa.

 

[Sky Eclat]

Ndo manake,kama yupo mtu anapigwa na mke wake
kiasi cha kutamani kumshirikisha mtu na anaona aibu
huyo ni ukweli usiopingika kwamba alitafutiwa mke,
Sikatai mke wangu anaweza kunipiga kofi la utani
nikamchekea kama sehemu ya utani na nikamwambia umeshinda
na tukaishia kucheka na kufurahi.Lakini kama ni kichapo
mpaka nikaomba po,basi lazima nirudi kwenye akili iliyotumika
kumpata na huo ndo utakuwa mwisho wa kupigwa.

Wewe si umeona hata Robert Mugabe nae ni mhanga wa ngumi za mke.

 

[Kakole]

Yaani mtu sijui anaanza vipi kumpiga mwanaume wake kwa kweli. Sasa sijui nani anakuwa mwanaume ndani.
I want my man to protect me and take good care of me, ukianza kumpiga na yeye asitie neno self confidence inayeyuka, anabaki mwanaume jina.
Mwanaume confidence bwana.

Wish to be of that kind but fortunately nimejikuta nipo nje ya ukweli wenyewe, ila one day yes hahahaha....

 

[JT2014]

Wewe si umeona hata Robert Mugabe nae ni mhanga wa ngumi za mke.

Hicho kipande cha Mugabe ni sehemu tu ya kofi la mapenzi.
Na Mugabe ni babu,si unajua ukimpa baba yako watoto akulelee
ujue imekula kwako maana kadri umri unavyokwenda na akili inarudi nyuma.

 

[Mjamaa1]

Mijanamke haina busara sku izi, inajifanya midume .

 

[Sky Eclat]

Mijanamke haina busara sku izi, inajifanya midume .

Itabidi tuwe na waziri wa wanaume wa kutetea kipigo cha wanaume majumbani.

 

[Mustaphagentleman]

Itabidi tuwe na waziri wa wanaume wa kutetea kipigo cha wanaume majumbani.

Mke akikupiga MPE Talaka mana IPO cku Utawekewa sumu na watoto

 

[Mjamaa1]

Itabidi tuwe na waziri wa wanaume wa kutetea kipigo cha wanaume majumbani.

Hahahaha, mi hadi nipigwe labda over my dead body.

 

[TRUE TANZANIAN]

Si swala la kunitokea,ni swala la ni nani alimtokea mwenzake akaomba
muishi wote.Kama ni mwanaume ulimtokea huyo mdada/mmama
kama amekuzidi nguvu za mikononi basi tumia akili uliyotumia
mpaka ukampata.

Hicho unachokieleza ni madhara yanayowakumba
wale waliotafutiwa wanawake na ndugu zao ,wazazi au marafiki.
yeye akaishia kumwingiza ndani hapo lazima haya yakupate
maana uwezekano wa akili ndogo kumiliki akili kubwa unahusika.

Mwanaume halisi lazima uoe mke ambaye ni matunda
ya akili yako mwenyewe na si matunda ya akili za watu
huyo lazima akudunde na udundike,labda uwe unamzidi misuli.

Umeongea vile wewe umeona ni sahihi,ni kweli kwamba asilimia kubwa ya wana ndoa wanaume ndio wenye nguvu kuwapiga wake zao japo wapo wanawake wachache ambao nao huwapiga waume zao. Na tunapozungumzia mwanaume wa shoka kapigwa na mkewe haimaanishi yule mwanaume hawezi kumpiga mkewe. Zipo tabia mbaya ambazo hukuwanazo mwanzo ulipompata mkeo au ilikuwepo lkn uliificha haikuonekana,leo inatokea umejulikana mkeo akakusamehe na akakuonya isirudie tena kwani kwakufanya hivyo kunampunguzia imani ktk mapenzi yenu. Japo wapo wengine hawataki kujua hiyo unajikuta ushapasuliwa samsung galaxy yako kwenye Tv na ngumi,vibao huku ukifukuzwa kama kibaka! Inapotokea unajiona unajua Gim sana kwa kumpiga ngumi au chochote, basi subiria adhabu nyingine ya kunyimwa haki yako ya ndoa.... hapo ndio utajua nini maana ya kumheshimu mkeo. Kwa hiyo kupigwa kwingi kwa wanaume sababu kubwa ni wao kutokutii sheria za ndoa zao.

 

[bo adams]

Sheria zina mlinda sana mwanamke, sio tu Tanzania bali karibu nchi zote kwa sasa, hata mtaani ukipishana kauli na mwanamke akakurushia ngumi au kukupiga kofi inakubidi mwanaume utulie (utumie busara).

Sio kwamba inashindikana kumpiga la hasha, jamii nzima itakushangaa (itakudharau) mwanaume kumpiga au kupigana na mwanamke kwani inaamini mwanamke hapigwi ngumi bali anapigwa na upande wa khanga.

Kesi ya kumjeruhi mwanamke/mke japo kidogo tu kwa mkwaruzo, uvimbe au alama yoyote kwenye mwili wake ikifika ustawi wa jamii/ mahakamani utajuta kuzaliwa bila kujali ugomvi/shambulizi limeanza kwa mwanamke/ mke.

Unaweza kupoteza mwelekeo wa maisha yako kwa kumpiga mwanamke kwa kulipa faini kubwa kupita uwezo wako, kifungo jela au kulazimishwa kutoa talaka japo mkeo bado unampenda.

Tuliahidi kanisani/msikitini kwa shida na raha tutailinda ndoa, ndoa zina mambo mengi na zinahitaji uvumilivu sana.

 

[JT2014]

Umeongea vile wewe umeona ni sahihi,ni kweli kwamba asilimia kubwa ya wana ndoa wanaume ndio wenye nguvu kuwapiga wake zao japo wapo wanawake wachache ambao nao huwapiga waume zao. Na tunapozungumzia mwanaume wa shoka kapigwa na mkewe haimaanishi yule mwanaume hawezi kumpiga mkewe. Zipo tabia mbaya ambazo hukuwanazo mwanzo ulipompata mkeo au ilikuwepo lkn uliificha haikuonekana,leo inatokea umejulikana mkeo akakusamehe na akakuonya isirudie tena kwani kwakufanya hivyo kunampunguzia imani ktk mapenzi yenu. Japo wapo wengine hawataki kujua hiyo unajikuta ushapasuliwa samsung galaxy yako kwenye Tv na ngumi,vibao huku ukifukuzwa kama kibaka! Inapotokea unajiona unajua Gim sana kwa kumpiga ngumi au chochote, basi subiria adhabu nyingine ya kunyimwa haki yako ya ndoa.... hapo ndio utajua nini maana ya kumheshimu mkeo. Kwa hiyo kupigwa kwingi kwa wanaume sababu kubwa ni wao kutokutii sheria za ndoa zao.

Sasa hii ni sawa na kupewa warning letter kazini
kwa kosa ulilolifanya na ukaona aibu kusema kwa yeyote
kwani umeadhibiwa sawa sawa na kosa lako au tuseme
ni haki yako.
Kama tunaongelea mtu kupigwa na mkewe kwa misingi
hii,hapo haimanishi kwamba mkewe amemzidi nguvu
bali ni yule baba kujishusha ili mkewe amalize hasira yake
wayamalize.