Ushuhuda wangu kuhusu Single Mothers

Candela · Apr 22, 2023

Habari wadau. Moja kwa moja kwenye hoja.

Mwaka jana nikaingia kwenye penzi na single mother mmoja hivi, mapenzi yalikuwa mubashara mwanzo lakini ghafla akawa haeleweki, kufatilia nikagundua ana mahusiano na mtu mwingine nikajaribu kumuhoji akawa mkali nikasema sio kesi. Ghafla yakaanza masharti nikitaka kutoka nae mara yupo bize.

Katika kutafakari nikaona atanisumbua niachane nae lakini siku nimeamua kuachana nae nikamsikia akikopa pesa kwa mtu kwa ajili ya mwanae shule. Basi imani ikaniingia nikampa kile kiasi cha pesa. Nikashangaa mahaba yamerudi kama mwanzo. Nikabaini uzaifu wake ni mwanae.

Basi weekend moja nikamchukua mpaka mall flan ya watoto nikamwambia amchagulie mwanae anachotaka. Halooo, week 2 badae jamaa aliyetetelesha penzi langu nikaona anatuma meseji na kupiga simu kila mara anabembeleza penzi.

Ebana mie huyu mwanamke sasa hivi sina time nae na deal na mwanae tu, akiamka nishamuiliza mahitaji ya shule, akikaa vibaya nishamwambie nimelipia twisheni atampeleka basi hata mzigo siku hizi siombi napewa tu popote ntapokutwa tofauti na zaman mpaka niombe tupange lini tunatoka.

karume msaka · Apr 22, 2023

Candela said:
Habari wadau. Moja kwa moja kwenye hoja.
Mwaka jana nikaingia kwenye penzi na single mother mmoja hivi, mapenzi yalikuwa mubashara mwanzo lakini ghafla mbe tupange lini tunatoka.

Boss ndio umegundua leo?

Wenzio kwenye game kitambo

Dr Lizzy · Apr 22, 2023

Kwahiyo asingekuwa single mother angekuwa tofauti na alivyo sasa???

master of cities · Apr 22, 2023

Yaani wewe unachokitafta utakipata , na huyo mwanae atakuonyesha kitu kizur mda s mrefu

Aidanna · Apr 22, 2023

Nakazia kwenye comment no 1

MzeeKipusa · Apr 22, 2023

karume msaka said:
Boss ndio umegundua leo?
Wenzio kwenye game kitambo

Mnaona raha sana kupewa kinyume na maumbile au sio? Vipi kuhusu future yenu? Je vipi wewe unavyomuona ana kizalio? I mean ,..anaweza kukuzalia mtoto au ni kustarehe tu?

Mad Max · Apr 22, 2023

Her: "Siuzi, ila sitoi bure"

mama D · Apr 22, 2023

Candela said:
Habari wadau. Moja kwa moja kwenye hoja.
Mwaka jana nikaingia kwenye penzi na single mother mmoja hivi, mapenzi yalikuwa mubashara mwanzo lakini ghafla akawa haeleweki, kufatilia nikagundua ana mahusiano na mtu mwingine nikajaribu kumuhoji akawa mkali nikasema sio kesi. Ghafla yakaanza masharti nikitaka kutoka nae mara yupo bize.
Katika kutafakari nikaona atanisumbua niachane nae lakini siku nimeamua kuachana nae nikamsikia akikopa pesa kwa mtu kwa ajili ya mwanae shule. Basi imani ikaniingia nikampa kile kiasi cha pesa. Nikashangaa mahaba yamerudi kama mwanzo. Nikabaini uzaifu wake ni mwanae. Basi weekend moja nikamchukua mpaka mall flan ya watoto nikamwambia amchagulie mwanae anachotaka. Halooo, week 2 badae jamaa aliyetetelesha penzi langu nikaona anatuma meseji na kupiga simu kila mara anabembeleza penzi. Ebana mie huyu mwanamke sasa hivi sina time nae na deal na mwanae tu, akiamka nishamuiliza mahitaji ya shule, akikaa vibaya nishamwambie nimelipia twisheni atampeleka basi hata mzigo siku hizi siombi napewa tu popote ntapokutwa tofauti na zaman mpaka niombe tupange lini tunatoka.

Sio kila mzinzi ni singomama, wapo wengi tuu wanazinihadi kuvunja ndoa lakini sio singomama

Sio kila anayetafuta mahitaji ya watoto ni singomama, wapo wanawake wengi wenye waume wasiotoa mahitaji ya chakula, mavazi wala malazi kwa watoto zao

Sio kila singomama ana shida ya pesa, wengine wanajitosheleza sana tuu kiuchumi

Aizn · Apr 22, 2023

Mbarikiwe mnaoweza kuishi na MASINGO MAZA.. mbarikiwe sanaa

Kennedy · Apr 22, 2023

Wainallilah...

mshamba_hachekwi · Apr 22, 2023

sasa si kwamba anakutumia kwa ajili ya manufaa ya mwanae....

MzeeKipusa · Apr 22, 2023

Victoire said:
Kwa nini unasema hivyo?

Masingle maza wengi huachika kwasababu ya 1. uzinzi. 2. Tabia mbaya

98% afya zao huwa sio nzuri though kwà muonekano wa nje huwa hawajionyeshi.

90% huwa wanapenda kufanya mapenzi kinyume na maumbile

85% ni walevi

Yoda · Apr 22, 2023

MzeeKipusa said:
Masingle maza wengi huachika kwasababu ya 1. uzinzi. 2. Tabia mbaya

98% afya zao huwa sio nzuri though kwà muonekano wa nje huwa hawajionyeshi.

90% huwa wanapenda kufanya mapenzi kinyume na maumbile

85% ni walevi

Uongo mtupu na takwimu za kubumba tu.

mshamba_hachekwi · Apr 22, 2023

Aidanna said:
Nakazia kwenye comment no 1

ambatanisha na ushahidi.....

Victoire · Apr 22, 2023

MzeeKipusa said:
Masingle maza wengi huachika kwasababu ya 1. uzinzi. 2. Tabia mbaya

98% afya zao huwa sio nzuri though kwà muonekano wa nje huwa hawajionyeshi.

90% huwa wanapenda kufanya mapenzi kinyume na maumbile

85% ni walevi

Hapana si asilimia kubwa hivyo,kuna masi gle mother wajane kama mimi na sina HIV,kuna wengine pia hawakuachwa bali waliamua kuondoka wenyewe.

DR HAYA LAND · Apr 22, 2023

Yoda said:
Uongo mtupu

Kam upo dsm ntakupa namba za singo maza kumi pisi zote zinakula njugu shauri yako

DR HAYA LAND · Apr 22, 2023

Victoire said:
Hapana si asilimia kubwa hivyo,kuna masi gle mother wajane kama mimi na sina HIV,kuna wengine pia hawakuachwa bali waliamua kuondoka wenyewe.

Kapime kwanza Mkuu

Victoire · Apr 22, 2023

Yoda said:
Uongo mtupu na takwimu za kubumba tu.

Hasa mtu unakuwa singo modha na hauna hata tabia moja iliyoorodheshwa hapo

Victoire · Apr 22, 2023

DR HAYA LAND said:
Kapime kwanza Mkuu

Nimepima juzi tu,sina.

mshamba_hachekwi · Apr 22, 2023

Victoire said:
Hapana si asilimia kubwa hivyo,kuna masi gle mother wajane kama mimi na sina HIV,kuna wengine pia hawakuachwa bali waliamua kuondoka wenyewe.

watu wanatabia sana ya ku-generalize mambo. Afu kabisa mtu anasema eti 90% utafkiri ana ushahidi..... Ni ujinga mtu anaongea tu bila kufikiria afu hii inaleta dharau kubwa single mothers.....

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