Upweke / loneliness

[The Boss]

Kwa hiyo watu wa vijijini wanaweza wakawa better zaidi?

Hii iko wazi mbona?
watu wa vijijini sababu wanaishi maisha ya kutegemeana sana
wako better

 

[Sangarara]

I'm not lonely. I have an awesome family support system.

I have my baby, who is my number one fan and biggest cheerleader. In fact, we are each others' number one fans and each others biggest cheerleaders.

But I also have cousins, uncles and aunties, and others.

Again, who doesn't have those forks? and yet are lonely, try get a good reason to cover yourself. By the way haujaniambia is lonely desirable or not? you said it is a human condition.

 

[Sangarara]

I am not lonely, so stop imagining things.

And my baby is not 'it'. Her sex is knows. So get that right.

And yes, she is my number one fan and my biggest cheerleader and I am exactly the same to her.

I didn't know it is a baby girl how would I have put it? excuse me though.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Again, who doesn't have those forks? and yet are lonely, try get a good reason to cover yourself. By the way haujaniambia is lonely desirable or not? you said it is a human condition.

But life is what you make it. If you have them and you are still lonely then that's you and only you. Not me.

I have people around me who make me happy and because of that and their support, I am not lonely.

Now, is loneliness desirable or not? Well, that depends on how you look at it. So take a look at it, give it some thought, and then judge it for yourself.

 

[Sangarara]

Hii iko wazi mbona?
watu wa vijijini sababu wanaishi maisha ya kutegemeana sana
wako better

I can not wait to agree with you.

 

[Sangarara]

But life is what you make it. If you have them and you are still lonely then that's you and only you. Not me.

I have people around me who make me happy and because of that and their support, I am not lonely.

Now, is loneliness desirable or not? Well, that depends on how you look at it. So take a look at, give it some thought, and then judge it for yourself.

You are being so uneven here, you said folks in marriages are the most lonely, and here you are using almost all your resources to justify how people around you makes you happy? aren't people in marriage not around each other? do not take this personal, just need to share the reality just like how I asked why are we lonely and are already more than a billion of us.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

You are being so uneven here, you said folks in marriages are the most lonely, and here you are using almost all your resources to justify how people around you makes you happy? aren't people in marriage not around each other? do not take this personal, just need to share the reality just like how I asked why are we lonely and are already more than a billion of us.

Are you retarded or what? Where did I say that married people are the most lonely? Show me please.

 

[Sangarara]

SANGARA

Loneliness is when you are unhappy to be alone. Solitude is when you are happy to be alone. There is nothing with solitude, wanting to, or enjoying being alone. Alone time can be useful and enjoyable.

There is nothing wrong!! real?

 

[Nyamgluu]

Human beings these days have unreasonable expectations of life, and these are brought about mainly by tv shows, movies, magazines and etc potraying lifestyles that we are made to beleive are permenant kumbe they have been staged for the cameras!

 

[Sangarara]

Are you retarded or what? Where did I say that married people are the most lonely? Show me please.

Excuse me, I got it wrong, it is THE BOSS who said, I saw him asking you about it and thought you are the one who said it.

 

[Kongosho]

Maisha haya ya leo ya kujifungia ndani na tv mara nyumba zina mafensi mareefu. Sad!

Lakini enzi hakuna distractions nyingi maisha yalikuwa ya ushirikiano, hakuna upweke.

 

[The Boss]

Human beings these days have unreasonable expectations of life, and these are brought about mainly by tv shows, movies, magazines and etc potraying lifestyles that we are made to beleive are permenant kumbe they have been staged for the cameras!

You can say that again

 

[mwallu]

thank God am not lonely

 

[Maiki]

mi ni mpweke haswa,sipendi kabisa kuongeaongea.watu wengi wanaonizunguka wananitafsiri vibaya.ninakaukiwa na maneno.kwa muda mrefu inanisumbua sana,sijui nitamaliza vipi hili tatizo,ni kubwa sana na ni zito kwangu

 

[Chujio]

Kuna kitu wanaita anxiety hivi
nitakupa mfano
ukiwa na TV ya channel moja
utakuwa so sure ukiwasha kutazama tv yako unatazama nini
ukiichoka unaizima
but kama una channel 100?
pengine utajikuta unatumia muda mwingi kubadili channel kuliko kutazama

technology inatufanya tuwe connected na watu weengi kwa pamoja
so ni distraction ya aina fulani kwa mahusiano ya siku hizi
we end up being lonely more

that is so true ...unakuta mfano wanandoa (the loneliest of them all) wanapokuwa na tofauti baina yao, they talk/communcate less among themselves lakini wakija jf wanajiachiaaaa kwa uhuru kabisa badala ya kuongea na wenzi wao. kwa walio single pia unakuta muda mwingi mtu yupo busy say may be na kazi then akirudi nyumabni/ghetto ni tv halafu jf na hivyo wanajikuta wanajumuika less na wanajamii ..au kukutana ni mpk kilaji kiwepo.. mtazamo wangu tu

 

[The Boss]

mi ni mpweke haswa,sipendi kabisa kuongeaongea.watu wengi wanaonizunguka wananitafsiri vibaya.ninakaukiwa na maneno.kwa muda mrefu inanisumbua sana,sijui nitamaliza vipi hili tatizo,ni kubwa sana na ni zito kwangu

Find a hobby

 

[Maiki]

Find a hobby[/QUOTE]
nimejaribu lakini kuna muda najiskia kuchanganyika na kuzungumza na watu lakini maneno yanakuwa hayapo.kichwa kinakuwa BLANK,KUTOKUWA NA MANENO YA KUONGEA NDIO TATIZO.wengine wanasema naringa,najisikia.kuna wengine wananitenga kabisa.hapa nilipo ninaogopa nikija kuhama nyumbani nikianza kujitegemea nitaishije na watu wengine nje ya familia yangu

 

[Real Deal]

Very interesting thread

I have here some explanations for loneliness and its many forms. We are all lonely at one time or another, the extent and the longevity of loneliness is what matters most, the longer it is the worst. Lots of research has been done and several methods to overcome it are explained, just google the word LONELYNESS. here is an insight:

Loneliness is a complex and usually unpleasant emotional response to isolation or lack of companionship. Loneliness typically includes anxious feelings about a lack of connectedness or communality with other beings, both in the present and extending into the future. As such, loneliness can be felt even when surrounded by other people. The causes of loneliness are varied and include social, mental or emotional factors.
Research has shown that loneliness is widely prevalent throughout society among people in marriages, relationships, families and successful careers. It has been a long explored theme in the literature of human beings since classical antiquity. Loneliness has also been described as social pain
COMMON CAUSES
People can experience loneliness for many reasons and many life events may cause it, like the lack of friendship relations during childhood and adolescence, or the physical absence of meaningful people around a person. At the same time, loneliness may be a symptom of another social or psychological problem, such as chronic depression.

 

[Sangarara]

Find a hobby

nimejaribu lakini kuna muda najiskia kuchanganyika na kuzungumza na watu lakini maneno yanakuwa hayapo.kichwa kinakuwa BLANK,KUTOKUWA NA MANENO YA KUONGEA NDIO TATIZO.wengine wanasema naringa,najisikia.kuna wengine wananitenga kabisa.hapa nilipo ninaogopa nikija kuhama nyumbani nikianza kujitegemea nitaishije na watu wengine nje ya familia yangu[/QUOTE]

kwa hiyo unajisikia huru kujiassociate JF kuliko na watu wa home?

 

[Sangarara]

that is so true ...unakuta mfano wanandoa (the loneliest of them all) wanapokuwa na tofauti baina yao, they talk/communcate less among themselves lakini wakija jf wanajiachiaaaa kwa uhuru kabisa badala ya kuongea na wenzi wao. kwa walio single pia unakuta muda mwingi mtu yupo busy say may be na kazi then akirudi nyumabni/ghetto ni tv halafu jf na hivyo wanajikuta wanajumuika less na wanajamii ..au kukutana ni mpk kilaji kiwepo.. mtazamo wangu tu

yamekwenda wapi yale mapenzi yao ya mwanzo? nadhani watu wanakimbilia kwenye ndoa ili kukimbilia upweke wa kuwa single, nini tena kinatokea baada ya kupata mwenza? hizi unaozoita tofauti ni tofauti kweli au illusions tu?