Unawezaje kumwambia mtu ananuka?

Hi ukiwa na rafiki yako na anajua kuwa unuka na akakuacha hivyo hivyo bila kukwambia kuwa unanuka atakuwa rafiki yako kweli. Let us be open and call SPADE is SPADE, come on dont kick around da bush! Story nying za nini? Mwambie tu aah mshikaji unanuka kikwapa na umsaidie ili aondokane na hiyo shida. Kama atachukia basi achukie lakini wewe utakuwa umemsaidia, na atakuwa mjinga wa mwisho kuchukia! Hivi ukiwa darasani mwalimu akuliza 2+2=? wewe ukajibu 6 halafu akakusifia kuwa umepata atakuwa amekusaidia?
Mpe kavu as long as ni mshikaji wako!
 
Hii kali. Nilikua nafikiria hii ishu hivi karibuni.
Kuna mwanamke namjua na ni mzuri kweli kweli. Ila yeye asubuhi tu nikikumbana naye, kwapa hilo. Sijui nimweleze vipi. Najua mimi kama nimepiga kazi na mizunguko nikatoka jasho kwa sana, nikisikia kiharufu najishitukia, ila some pipo hawajishutikii, sasa sijui unaeleza vipi?
Huyu mwanamke nimwingie kwa gia gani?Sitaki niumize feelings zake, si unajua tena hawa kina dada usipopangilia vizuri maneno unaweza ukaua confidence yake kabisa.
 
Hii nimecopy na paste toka wikiHow.com labda inaweza ikasaidia

No one likes a foul odor, and it gets worse if the person with the BO (body odor) is your friend. Luckily, there are some subtle and nice ways of letting your friend know he/she needs to freshen up.

Steps

For Girls Who Smell Bad

 Take a detour at the mall. Stop by a drugstore or a store with soaps and scented products to pick up some deodorant for yourself. Talk about it casually and offer to buy your friend one, "If she's run out". Even if she denies your offer, she may still get hint she should make an effort to smell better.
 Say "Have you tried this deodorant? It smells so good. Here - try it, you'll love it." Don't forget the shower gel and lotion. Otherwise, you are just getting them deodorant and they will take offense.
 Come out and say it. If they are a really close friend, just say, "Hey, that deodorant you are using isn't doing what it should be. Try this." Just make sure you are alone, so they can't get really embarrassed.
 Send her an anonymous email and assure her that you just care about her and that no one knows about the email except you and her.




For Boys Who Smell Bad

 Buy some deodorant for him.
 Find somewhere to put it where he won't find it with other people around. For example, if you tape it on the outside of his locker, he'll be mortified. Sneak it in his backpack or slip it in his bedroom, and don't embarrass him.



Tips

 Boys tend to be a bit harder, probably because boys don't use any 'freshing products' except deodorant.
 Hormones and other changes can bring about odor. Some products specifically target these more personal odors. Regardless, the person may be maintaining their usual level of cleanliness but it may not be enough.
 Some people may not realize they have an odor problem and you should use great care when approaching the issue.
 Being direct is usually the best measure. The only thing worse than a friend leaving you a mysterious gift of deodorant is not knowing which friend left it. They may also not get the point unless you're more direct.
 As an adult you'll have a long list of deodorants and other products that don't work. Move on and try another brand. Deodorant failure isn't uncommon as every body and body chemistry is different.
 Just because it smells pretty doesn't mean it can keep up with your active lifestyle. Instead of going with something heavy with perfumes, try an antibacterial soap. The perfumes fade quickly anyway.
 Guys, hair can harbor odors. Try a little manscaping! Trim underarm hair and private areas for a neat look and smells that are less musky.
If you have PE with her/him go up and say, "Wow! This smells so good! Try it!" and spray them with it. At least they'll smell better for a while. Who knows? Maybe they'll agree and go and buy some themselves.



Warnings

 Don't make a big scene! You want to do this so that random passersby think you're just having a conversation, but your friend gets the message.
 Don't have the conversation anywhere it can be overheard. Have this conversation in the privacy of someone's home.
 Don't approach them during school or some other time when they will be forced to worry about it all day.
 Be considerate that financial difficulties may limit someone's access to hygiene products.
 Make sure they're not allergic to the spray, some people are.
 You should realize though, that it may be related to endurable body odor diseases. Suggesting that they have poor hygiene would be severely offensive.
 
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