Unaweza kutofautisha Ukimya na Jeuri?

[ShesRise_1]

Pole kwa kuvuka mipaka yako 🙏..

Na-enjoy uwepo wako jukwaani.

🙏

Hoja na hati yako vinanifanya nikufananishe kimtazamo. I feel SORRY.

Unanifanisha na hivyo ulivyosema hapo juu okay asante kwa maoni yako🙏

 

[ShesRise_1]

Unajua kila kitu unataka niseme Alafu unicheke nibaki nalia lia

Sawa usiseme right?

 

[realMamy]

Unaweza kutofautisha ukimya na ujeuri?

Kuna msemo unasema Silence is golden

Ni kweli, lakini not every silence is wisdom

Kuna watu wanaonekana ni wakimya, na kweli wanaweza kuwa wakimya kwa asili yao

Ila wakati mwingine sio ukimya tu, bali nyuma ya huo ukimya kuna jeuri, kiburi au dharau

Kwa mfano, huwezi ukasalimiwa halafu ukaamua kukaa kimya, au ukaulizwa jambo ukawa unamtazama mtu bila kujibu, halafu useme eti wewe ni mkimya

Kwa mtazamo wangu huo sio ukimya wa kawaida, huo ni silent disrespect

Kila kitu kina faida na hasara zake

Ukimya una faida nyingi unaweza kukuepusha na ugomvi, maneno yasiyo ya lazima na makosa mengi

Lakini hapa naongelea ukimya
kupita kiasi, sio ukimya wa busara

Too much silence wakati mwingine inaweza kukugharimu

Unaweza kukosa fursa za kazi, biashara, urafiki au hata mahusiano mazuri

Watu wanaweza kukuona una jeuri, una kiburi au unawadharau, ilhali wewe unaamini ni tabia yako tu ya kuwa mkimya

Mimi naamini kuna tofauti kubwa kati ya being quiet na being rude

Mtu anaweza kuwa mkimya lakini bado akawa na heshima

Anaweza kuitikia salamu, kujibu anapoulizwa na kuwasiliana inapobidi
Na hata kushiriki mijadala mbali mbali na kutoa hoja

Heshima haihitaji maneno mengi
Hii ni kweli kabisa


Kwako mdau🫴
Swali la Mjadala👇

Unawezaje kutofautisha ukimya wa busara na ukimya unaoficha jeuri au dharau?

Au kwako yote ni kitu kimoja?

Ni Zipi faida hasa za kua mkimya sanaa?

Ni zipi hasara za kua mkimya sana?

Una furahia ukiwa karibu na mtu mkimya sana au unakua bored?

Mimi ninavyo vyote 😅😛

 

[Gunner11]

Sawa usiseme right?

Ok Mungu akipenda

 

[Chacha Steven Mokiri]

You have a point. But we still choose to stay silent. However, just like staying silent, a single word can be misinterpreted and make people hate you, or worse get you killed.

 

[ShesRise_1]

You have a point.

Asantee

But we still choose to stay silent. However, just like staying silent, a single word can be misinterpreted and make people hate you, or worse get you killed.

That's nice

 

[ShesRise_1]

Mimi ninavyo vyote 😅😛

Kipi kime mzidi mwenzie😅

 

[Chacha Steven Mokiri]

Asantee

That's nice

Yote kwa yote one should choose their words carefully. Haijalishi mazingira maana watu wanayo tabia ya kuchambua kila kitu. Hata ukikaa kimya watataka kuchambua huo ukimya.

 

[realMamy]

Kipi kime mzidi mwenzie😅

Ujeuri 😅
Nikishakaa kimya hata ufanyeje.

 

[ShesRise_1]

Yote kwa yote one should choose their words carefully.

Yes Asante

Haijalishi mazingira maana watu wanayo tabia ya kuchambua kila kitu. Hata ukikaa kimya watataka kuchambua huo ukimya.

Huyu ni mimi kabisa 😅
Kuchambua mambo🤣

 

[ShesRise_1]

Ujeuri 😅
Nikishakaa kimya hata ufanyeje.

Mimi siwezi kununa ukiona nimenuna ujue nimenuna milele yaan ni over

 

[realMamy]

Mimi siwezi kununa ukiona nimenuna ujue nimenuna milele yaan ni over

Hata mimi ni hivo hivo naambiwaga Nina kiburi Cha uzima.
😅😅😅

 

[ShesRise_1]

Hata mimi ni hivo hivo naambiwaga Nina kiburi Cha uzima.
😅😅😅

Nimecheka shoga yangu🤣🤣🤣

 

[wasumu]

Correct na nimejifunza not to prove myself to anyone

Jamii ya kitanzania na Africa kwa ujumla watu wapo low minded na hii imechangiwa ba vitu kama dini, mila potofu, na umaskini

Wengi hawajui hasa kwa nini wapo humu duniani, so unavyo leta perspective mpya wanaanza kuona umewazidi subconsciously lazima watakuchukia tu because people hate what they don't understand.

Absolute right . sio kila kitu kibaya kutoka kwa wazungu lakini hili la kila mtu a mind his business ni kitu bora sana

 

[generationn Z]

Muonekano wa mwanaume mkimya halafu mpolee☺️

AI done it

 

[ShesRise_1]

AI done it

Yes

 

[Killing machine]

Ukimya ni ukimya na jeiri ni jeuri

 

[ShesRise_1]

Ukimya ni ukimya na jeiri ni jeuri

Sawa sawa

 

[Smart911]

Ngoja tuone...


Cc: Mahondaw

 

[ShesRise_1]

Ngoja tuone...


Cc: Mahondaw

Ila we jamaa mpka leo hujaona tu 🤣