AshaDii
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Ladies and Gentle men, imani yangu ni kua woote wazima wa afya . Na tutashirikiana katika mada hii nyingine tena ikilenga chakula na umuhimu wake katika mahusiano.
UMUHIMU WA CHAKULA KATIKA MAPENZI/MAHUSIANO
Chakula ni moja ya kitu ambayo huchukuliwa saana for granted katika maisha yetu ya kila siku
Kana kwamba hakina umuhimu wowote mpaka pale utaposikia njaa However if you are lucky enough waweza jua/tambua kua with food
Great food at that you can do wonders katika mambo mengi, - mahusiano yakichukua kipengele chake pia. Hayo mahusiano yaweza kua mahusiano ya urafiki/undugu/ujamaa na la muhimu zaidi yanaweza kua ni Mahusiano ya Mapenzi ikienda hand in hand na tendo husika
Najua na naamini kua usasa umetuingia na kututawala saana tumefika wakati tunashindwa kujua kitu gani katika culture za watu (hasa magharibi) tuige na zipi tutupie mbali. Bahati mbaya saana katika jamii saizi sio ajabu kabisa kukuta mdada mtu mzima hajui kupika na ata admit kwa wazi kabisa kua hajui kupika (sijui haoni aibu?? lkn ngoja niachane na hawa niendelee na topic!) Na wengine akina mama anaendekeza binti yake asipike kwa sababu eti yuko busy na masomo, kuna msichana wa kazi or hata eti asisumbuliwe sababu binti mwenyewe hayuko interested .Sasa akiwa busy si ndo vizuri.. unamfundisha multitasking Akina mama naomba mtafakari na mchukue hatua!
- Chakula na nafasi yake katika mahusiano ya Urafiki/Undugu na Jamaa.
- Chakula na nafasi yake katika mahusiano ya Mapenzi
(Wenza..)
- Chakula chaweza onesha or show intensity of your feelings
hasa when in love
ambapo Mwanamke (samahani nimezingatia katika jamii zetu za ki Africa sio Magharibi
) anapoamua kuandaa chakula maalum kwa ajili ya mpenzi wake
Kama nilivyosema sio lazima kutanda meza
Lah! Unaweza ukaanda vyakula concrete viwili kama Ugali Vs Ndizi OR Wali Vs Chapati
(Epuka saana vyakula kama chips, bites, hizo ni side food kwa most kaka zetu wa Kiswahili huona tu soo kuadmit
); Kisha ukaanda na mboga yako kama Samaki, Nyama ya ngombe or Kuku
ikiambatana na veggies or salads. Of course bila kusahau Matunda na Home made fresh Juice for vitu kama soda, wine, beer not recommended kuenda sambamba na food
Baada ya kupika chakula chako hakikisha display mezani ni ya ukweli na Vyombo utumiavyo navyo hu matter katika presentation of your food . In Short hakikisha kua the Food is of high quality katika kundaliwa.. (in the sense kua umepika kwa usafi, zingatia spices, cooking temp, ubora wenyewe wa ulicho pika i.e. Samaki aina gani na ina taste gani mdomoni and the like ) na pia hakikisha the Food has a quality display.. (Kama ni dinner, tumia candles, aina ya vyombo na clarity sio glass ina michirizi ya maji yalokauka baada ya kuoshwa and the like ) Andaa vyoote mezani that mkianza kula sio tena kunyanyuka nyanyuka mara umesahau kijiko mara chumvi e. t. c. (alafu tupia kitu red ikiwezekana ili jamaa apate chakula kila mahala macho, ubongo, tumbo - na you know what I mean )
- Chakula chaweza tumika na wakaka kuweza msogeza the woman he has fallen for karibu
Kwa wale wachache ambao wamebahatika kua wapishi wazuri then they are in LUCK!.. Kama unakwako mkaribishe the Lady for an evening kwako
Pika whatever food you can cook best
kama ni chips, macaroni, rice
whatever for with food we ladies are not that complicated in choosing what to eat as long as it is good food. Take note kua siku ukimkaribisha akaja na ukampikia as much as utakua na usongo
dont sleep with her siku hio itafanya the lady apate a more lasting positive impression of how good a gentleman you are. Otherwise kama ni mpenzi wako ambae mmeshawahi kuvunja amri
.Kwa wale wasio jua kupika waweza mtoa mdada out ukajikakamaa kidogo na kumpeleka sehemu nzuri ambayo kuna a good buffet and good music back ground
yaani sehemu ambayo imekaa kaa ki kuwaweka wepenzi/wenza karibu
- Chakula pia kinaweza haribu mahusiano hasa kati ya wenza/wapenzi Hii hutokea saana pale mdada/mmama mapishi nyumbani kwake yamemshinda kabisaa In short hajui kupika wakaka/baba wengine hawana makuu na huvumilia na kuona sawa tu (ni wachache by the way ) BUT Issue ni kwa wale ambao kalelewa katika familia ambayo they are Great Cooks yaani kazoea chakula kizuri na kitamu pia yaani hata kama kala tu Ugali na dagaa huo ugali ni ugali umesongwa hasa! na hizo dagaa mazagazaga yoote from kitunguu saumu, nazi, nyanya/hoho/carrot/vitunguu, curry powder to perfection. (Huyu akipata nyumba ndogo anajua wajibu wake katika sector ya chakula usishangae ukitangaziwa mke mdogo .)
- Na kwa wale ambao ni busy wifes in the sense kua kazi yake haimpi kabisa nafasi ya kupika
kila unapopata msaidizi walau msimamie mpaka ajue
na hata akijua ni vizuri once a week hasa kama Sunday unaandaa chakula mwenyewe kwa mkono wako from breakfast ya ukweli (walau hapa epuka vitafunwa vya kununua unashtulia kidogo vitu kama maandazi/chapatti/kalmati/ sambusa and the like..); Lunch ya uhakika
to a light dinner. Ni vizuri dinner ikiwa light sababu ni usiku haipendezi kula vitu vizito hivyo lunch ni vizuri kikapikwa kizito na cha kueleweka.
- Chakula katika tendo lenyewe la 6/6
DISCLAIMER
Sio lazima kua ukifanya the above kuhusu chakula kua waweza kujenga uhusiano mzuri zaidi (tumeumbwa tofauti wanaume/wanawake wengine are so selfish and fail to appreciate the little yet incredible things their love ones do for them). Ila naamini kwa asilimia zaidi ya 80% it works!!! Na naamini ukifanya hivyo kwa a person who is appreciative and loves Great Food and Sex itajenga zaidi .
Pamoja saana.
AshaDii
The above post is sorely my observation and analysis
Tafadhali JF member(s) toa mawazo/challenges/maswali kuhusu Mada... na mtazamo wako....
