Napatwa na msongo wa mawazo

[Tayana-wog]

Nimependa maswali yako gfsomwin hebu tusubiri jibu maana hata mimi yamenivutia!!!

Ameshajibu hapo juu

 

[kamkoda]

Ndoa ndoano mdogo wetu tulikueleza mapema unahitaji muda kumuangalia mtu wewe ukaharakisha kisa bwana ana usafiri na tai ya benki shingoni, Usilalamike hizo ni siri za ndani ya nyumba yako hapo ni sawa na kujivua taulo hadharani!

Nilikwambia kuolewa ni uamuzi mzito ambao hutakaa uufikirie mara nyingine isipokuwa katika mazingira flan flan, pole dada lakini hayo ndio maisha, piga magoti Muombe Mungu wako naye atakupa njia ya kutokea. Nisisikie ukilalamika tena kupitia humu sawa? ala!

 

[ram]

Yawezekana eeh!
Ila pole bidada labda anajenga kwao, tusemeje sasa, mtu hanywi pombe, havuti ni nini sasa. Manager wa bank hadi unanyang'anywa gari,mwisho si ataishi jela huyo, mtu msiri nae wakati mwingine sio mzuri.

Ushauri wangu labda ujaribu kumtumia mtu wa karibu (rafiki au ndugu waliyeshibana nae) ajaribu kumsahuri maybe atabadilika

Bi dada gfsonwin maswali yote hayo ya nini, we si umweleze tu kwamba mumewe anacheza KAMARI,za kwenye MA CASINO!
Siku hizi vijana wengi wameibukia kwenye kamari na huo ni ulevi mbaya kuliko hata Bangi za akina Arushaone LOL

 

[ram]

Mbona kama vile unamjua? Kumbe mlimshauri mapema hakuwasikia,
Kilichobaki avumilie tu ndo keshaingia ndani hivyo

Ndoa ndoano mdogo wetu tulikueleza mapema unahitaji muda kumuangalia mtu wewe ukaharakisha kisa bwana ana usafiri na tai ya benki shingoni, Usilalamike hizo ni siri za ndani ya nyumba yako hapo ni sawa na kujivua taulo hadharani!

Nilikwambia kuolewa ni uamuzi mzito ambao hutakaa uufikirie mara nyingine isipokuwa katika mazingira flan flan, pole dada lakini hayo ndio maisha, piga magoti Muombe Mungu wako naye atakupa njia ya kutokea. Nisisikie ukilalamika tena kupitia humu sawa? ala!

 

[kamkoda]

Sasa hicho ndicho kinachonishangaza kwanini amuandike humu? Yeye mwenyewe ndiye aliyemleta nyumbani, sasa anamlalamikia nani? avumilie tu no one is perfect...

 

[Johas]

mimi ni msichana wa miaka 27 nimeolewa mwaka huu ,I'm pregnant nategemea kujifungua mwezi wa 12,
Tatizo langu ni huyu mume wangu its like he's irresponsible,kila kitu kwake anaona hakina maana wakati wa uchumba hata sofa alikuwa Hana mimi ndie. nilimshikia bango hadi akanunua,alikuwa anaendesha swift akabadilisha
he's 33 years old anafanya kazi bank kwenye manager position for so many years now ila hata kakiwanja Hana,nimegundua ana deni kubwa kazini nikimuuliza alichukua mkopo wa nini haniambii,hela mwisho wa mwezi inaishia kwenye madeni mimi nabaki kuwa provider of the house for the wholy month,
mwezi uliopita gari yake wamechukua wadeni wake
Maisha yangu yamechange so abruptly,I was beta off before marriage,I can't even do shopping yangu the way I used to ,kazini inabidi nimpeleke na gari yangu asubuhi na jioni nimpitie,

mshewa2..,Kuna wimbo mmoja wa Jose Chamelioni wa Uganda...

wenye beti hizi..'' Acha kulia shida za Dunia..

ebu tulia Mungu anakujali pia"

Mtumainie Mungu siku zote katika Imani yako...devil is there to destroy..

the goodlife of yours...iishi Imani yako then you will see like...

the Storm is Over by R.kelly..

Dunia Ngumu sana hii.!!!

 

[AGNETH]

pole sana dada yangu ndo maisha komaa utatoka hakosi ulimpendea fedha pole sana dada yangu.:cheer2:

 

[King’asti]

Najiogopa manake kwa maamuzi magumu sijambo.
hivi hapa hata sijampatia jibu huyo baba. Kwamba anakopa hela zinaenda zisipojulikana, anapokonywa gari na namtembeza mjini na gari yangu?:confused2:

Mbona kawaida tu!
Ndio gharama za mapenzi hizo.

 

[Mbu]

.......Gambling is a dangerous game, followed by "kujikweza na matanuzi!"

 

[kokwemage]

aliyekushauri hapa ameandika vizuri sana, maisha ya ndoa siyo rahisi kama wengi wanavyo fikiri, mi ninachokushauri usimwambie mwingine hizi shida zako, hapa jamvini nafikiri umeishapata ushauri wa kutosha, vumilia, mfanye mumeo kuwa rafiki, matatizo yake yawe yako, lazima atafunguka.

Pole sana dada yangu. Maisha ya ndoa kawaidi siyo rahisi kama watu wengi wanavyoyachukulia kabla ya kuona. Ndoa ni mtihani, ukicheza utashindwa. Kumbuka wewe ndiye KATIBU wamaisha yenu ya ndoa, wewe ndiye muhimili wa familia. Kwanza unatakiwa kuwa mpole, mvumilivu bila kukata tamaa, kuwa karibu sana na mmeo, ongeanaye kwa upendo na kushirikishiana mipango ya familia, yawezeka naye ana stress zaidi yako, kama unavyosema kuwa ana madeni makubwa, yawezekana pesa ilitumika bila mpangilio, saidianeni kutatua swala hilo, pia muwe na family plans za muda mfupi na muda mrefu, mambo yatakwenda sawa. Mshirikishe Mungu katika mipango yenu, matatizo na raha. Mtashinda.

 

[kbm]

mimi ni msichana wa miaka 27 nimeolewa mwaka huu ,I'm pregnant nategemea kujifungua mwezi wa 12,
Tatizo langu ni huyu mume wangu its like he's irresponsible,kila kitu kwake anaona hakina maana wakati wa uchumba hata sofa alikuwa Hana mimi ndie. nilimshikia bango hadi akanunua,alikuwa anaendesha swift akabadilisha
he's 33 years old anafanya kazi bank kwenye manager position for so many years now ila hata kakiwanja Hana,nimegundua ana deni kubwa kazini nikimuuliza alichukua mkopo wa nini haniambii,hela mwisho wa mwezi inaishia kwenye madeni mimi nabaki kuwa provider of the house for the wholy month,
mwezi uliopita gari yake wamechukua wadeni wake
Maisha yangu yamechange so abruptly,I was beta off before marriage,I can't even do shopping yangu the way I used to ,kazini inabidi nimpeleke na gari yangu asubuhi na jioni nimpitie,

Ee Mwenyezi Mungu Tunaziombea familia hii na familia zote, waishi katika upendo na kuheshimiana, Uwawezeshe kushinda udhaifu na majaribu yote yayozikumba familia zetu, Tunakuomba uinue nyoyo zetu juu ya udanganyifu wa vitu tuvionavyo,uoga na uvivu, ubinafsi na uchoyo, mila na mtindo na kuzituliza kwenye ukweli wako wa milele. Amen.

 

[next]

tulikuwa kwenye relation for 1 year and I got pregnant so we decided to get married though haikuwa Kwenye plan ya muda mfupi,
2)thanks God hanywi pombe wala Sio mtu wa ofa
3)Alikuwa anataka sana ndoa hata nilipopata mimba alifurahi Sana coz alijua ameshanikamata
4)sidhani Kama ana siri nadhani ni hayo mambo ya finacial may be anaona akiniambia ntamdharau

hey, he is arleady urs so deal with him. blaming exself n loosing hope is the lane to misery

 

[BADILI TABIA]

Bi shosti hukuyajua haya kabla ya ndoa?
Au upata furaha ya kuolewa mengine ukayaignore?
Ukadhani akikuoa utamrekebisha?

Sasa nikufundishe kudeal nae the hard way?

Its simple....put your self first..... Kumbuka happy mother happy baby....healthy mother healthy baby......

Mwambie akupe maelezo ya hilo deni,
akueleze gari iko wapi......
Hela anazokopa akuonyeshe alipopeleka/invest.....

Wakati huo huo punguza matumizi ya familia.....
Gari umpe lifti pale ukipenda.....

Mijanaume ya aina hiyo usikute:-
1. Kamjengea hawara
2.kajenga kwao kimya kimya.......

Tena kuwa mkali haswa, hata ndururu yako usitoe mpaka uoate vithibitisho vya kuridhisha .......

mimi ni msichana wa miaka 27 nimeolewa mwaka huu ,I'm pregnant nategemea kujifungua mwezi wa 12,
Tatizo langu ni huyu mume wangu its like he's irresponsible,kila kitu kwake anaona hakina maana wakati wa uchumba hata sofa alikuwa Hana mimi ndie. nilimshikia bango hadi akanunua,alikuwa anaendesha swift akabadilisha
he's 33 years old anafanya kazi bank kwenye manager position for so many years now ila hata kakiwanja Hana,nimegundua ana deni kubwa kazini nikimuuliza alichukua mkopo wa nini haniambii,hela mwisho wa mwezi inaishia kwenye madeni mimi nabaki kuwa provider of the house for the wholy month,
mwezi uliopita gari yake wamechukua wadeni wake
Maisha yangu yamechange so abruptly,I was beta off before marriage,I can't even do shopping yangu the way I used to ,kazini inabidi nimpeleke na gari yangu asubuhi na jioni nimpitie,

 

[Lyamber]

mimi ni msichana wa miaka 27 nimeolewa mwaka huu ,I'm pregnant nategemea kujifungua mwezi wa 12,
Tatizo langu ni huyu mume wangu its like he's irresponsible,kila kitu kwake anaona hakina maana wakati wa uchumba hata sofa alikuwa Hana mimi ndie. nilimshikia bango hadi akanunua,alikuwa anaendesha swift akabadilisha
he's 33 years old anafanya kazi bank kwenye manager position for so many years now ila hata kakiwanja Hana,nimegundua ana deni kubwa kazini nikimuuliza alichukua mkopo wa nini haniambii,hela mwisho wa mwezi inaishia kwenye madeni mimi nabaki kuwa provider of the house for the wholy month,
mwezi uliopita gari yake wamechukua wadeni wake
Maisha yangu yamechange so abruptly,I was beta off before marriage,I can't even do shopping yangu the way I used to ,kazini inabidi nimpeleke na gari yangu asubuhi na jioni nimpitie,

tunashukuru kwa kufahamu kwamba mlikua na magari mawili, na pa kwamba shemeji ni manager wa bank..back to the point..pale mlipokua mnafunga ndoa ulipoambiwa for better or for worse..ndo hapo palipofikia sasa kwaio vumilia...ndo life..hilo usipende tu pale mambo yanapokua shega...ni hayo tu...

 

[herrypeter1]

mimi ni msichana wa miaka 27 nimeolewa mwaka huu ,I'm pregnant nategemea kujifungua mwezi wa 12,
Tatizo langu ni huyu mume wangu its like he's irresponsible,kila kitu kwake anaona hakina maana wakati wa uchumba hata sofa alikuwa Hana mimi ndie. nilimshikia bango hadi akanunua,alikuwa anaendesha swift akabadilisha
he's 33 years old anafanya kazi bank kwenye manager position for so many years now ila hata kakiwanja Hana,nimegundua ana deni kubwa kazini nikimuuliza alichukua mkopo wa nini haniambii,hela mwisho wa mwezi inaishia kwenye madeni mimi nabaki kuwa provider of the house for the wholy month,
mwezi uliopita gari yake wamechukua wadeni wake
Maisha yangu yamechange so abruptly,I was beta off before marriage,I can't even do shopping yangu the way I used to ,kazini inabidi nimpeleke na gari yangu asubuhi na jioni nimpitie,

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing.

 

[M'mafia wa Tz]

1.ulikulupka kuolewa nae kabla ya kufanya tafiti ya IQ yake.
2.huyo mmeo is not visionary person he only think of today,so, is not good to you,your kid and your future because he fail to stand as a man in the family.
1.mfanyie councelling na kumuuliza kuhusu matumiz yake na mshahara wake(income=expenditure).
2.Akigoma kabisa kukuambia matumiz yake ujue ana mwanamke mwingine ambae anamkomba na kumfilisi pesa zake ndo mana(a.)hyo pesa mwisho wa mwezi inaishia kwa mwanamke mwingine na inawezekana anakudanya analipa deni kumbe si hvyo.hizo kesi za namna hii ni nyingi.

Cha kufanya.
-akiwa mbishi acha kumpitie jion kurudi home.
-concentrate na hyo mimba ama mtoto ukijifungua mawazo yote yawe kwa mtoto na sio mwanaume.
-punguza/acha kupika vyakula vya gharama illi na yy ajisute nafsi yake mwenyewe kua amefail maisha ama ameshindwa kusimamia nafasi yake.
-washirikishe wazazi wke.
-Sali sana
-Sala isipo jibu.chukua hamsini zko.mana unaweza ukajikuta umri wa kufight unapita na huna nyumba hata ya kukumbilia
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[M'mafia wa Tz]

Dada usiwaze sana khs mumeo hata km unampenda kwa vile imetokea hvyo ww anza kuwaza maisha ya mtoto wko badae na si mwanume ambae mda wowote mnaweza kuachana na ukijikuta umeambulia patupu mf umekosa mme na nyumba huna.kwavile hatak kukuambia ukwel punguza kumpa ela hyo mwanaume mpe ya nauli na chakula tu tena chakula kisizidi $ 1 ili ajue uchungu wa kutawanya pesa lkn ww kwavile ni mjazito kula vizur sana kwa ajili ya afya ya mtu.mana ukimpa ela nyingi unaweza ukajikuta unahudumia watu wawili yani yy na km ana mwanamke mwingine.mana kwa akili ya kawaida km alitaka kufanyia jambo zuri na mambo yameharibika angekuambia lkn km anafanyia ujinga haji kukuambia hata siku moja labda ww ugundue na uthibitisha ndo atakubal.lkn pia tafuta m1 wa marafiki zake atakuambie tu ukwel koz wanaume hua wanaelezena sana siri zao.

 

[Majigo]

kha!! unajua vijana wanaingia kwenye madeni maana unakuta bila mkwanja hupati K jamani!!! mara mkopo wa gari ili tuu aweze pata totoz mjini maana bila gari mwana totoz wanakuona huna kitu...nani akapande dala wakati kufuli hawavai lol.
sasa bii dada wewe hii ndio ilishakula kwako na hivyo kubaliana na hilo jambo. la msingi hapa nikuomba jamaa awe open abt his financial situation...ila kuwa tayari kusoma negative numbers hapo. baada ya hapo wewe itabidi uwe minster of finance hapo nyumbani maana jamaa inaelekea pamoja na kuwa bank manager somo la pesa lilipita kushoto. patience is needed hapa.

dada zetu jamani tunaomba mpunguze tamaa maana vijana wanajiweka kwenye madeni ili kuwapata magoma.

Umeongea Poa Sana Best!!
Kwenye Hatua Za Kutega Mingo,Pesa Zinafyonzwa Sana Na Hawa Viumbe!

 

[Majigo]

if umeingia kwenye ufalme wa mungu ni mwendo wa kuimba na kucheza???

Umenifanya Nicheke Sanaaaa!
Shukrani Kwako Mkuu!