Be bold and focused for, what ever happens in life has a purpose. Take some of the advice, analyse, add your own inputs and take Actions that may give the best results......However who knows! my be the Almighty is giving you a punishment for sin or two you commited in past!! Repent if so is the case and start a new life!
my life is meaningless
my life is meaningless
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Gugu, life has value higher than love for another Man (You are not Christ) do not kill either yourself or you and your child.
on behalf of God ''you will go to hell''.
-I like the words (I managed thru kuhangaika nikapata mabasi), this shows your head is fine.Now take your child and believe that what happened is the past and you have a new future with minimum financial,social and emotional cost and start over.
-I hope your child is below Seven years(the Law allows you to keep the child),take care of the child to the best of your ability(neve let the child know what is happening and do not blame the father in his/her presence)when he child comes to age he/she will fight for your right and judge between you two(you better be rightous on this one).
-you may need to keep away from men for a while (do not share your situations one on one as basically you are now vulnerable)
-Do not try alcohol/drugs to solve emotional traumas you will never recover.try faith will work for you very fast.try praying and do not be a religious fanatic be in the middle find: out who God is.
-Try pyhsical exercise a lot,do not try to sleep when you are not tired this will take away room to think over the issue many times as your head can not think beyond a certain point for now as your emotions are trapped in the situation.these two will help(Physical excise and prayers)
-As your child is growing make him a friend instead of a child,this will help you from having a troubled child and make you a successiful single mother.
on behalf of God ''you will go to hell''.
-I like the words (I managed thru kuhangaika nikapata mabasi), this shows your head is fine.Now take your child and believe that what happened is the past and you have a new future with minimum financial,social and emotional cost and start over.
-I hope your child is below Seven years(the Law allows you to keep the child),take care of the child to the best of your ability(neve let the child know what is happening and do not blame the father in his/her presence)when he child comes to age he/she will fight for your right and judge between you two(you better be rightous on this one).
-you may need to keep away from men for a while (do not share your situations one on one as basically you are now vulnerable)
-Do not try alcohol/drugs to solve emotional traumas you will never recover.try faith will work for you very fast.try praying and do not be a religious fanatic be in the middle find: out who God is.
-Try pyhsical exercise a lot,do not try to sleep when you are not tired this will take away room to think over the issue many times as your head can not think beyond a certain point for now as your emotions are trapped in the situation.these two will help(Physical excise and prayers)
-As your child is growing make him a friend instead of a child,this will help you from having a troubled child and make you a successiful single mother.
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Come on my dear why ending your life just be cause of some one who doesnt take care about you?Donot do such a stupid thing.Think about your son,where are you,please PM ,so we can help you
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ahaahhahahha bora umefafanyua!
mi kwanza nilikuwa nakumind kichini chini!
ibada tufanye wote ,misa tunadae wote ,sadaka ukale weweeeee
muumini nimuite mie,kanisa nianzishe mimi,baraka utoe weweeeeee
mimbari nipande mie,neno nilisome mie,upako utoe weeeee
majanga mbona majangaaaaa
eehehehhehhe kwa hiyo hiyo open marriage yenu inaruhusu mitala??
NAULIZA TU lol!
cc The Boss kwa maamuzi
bcc FP kwa ushauri
dcc(hiv huwa ipo) KIKUNGU kwa mwongozo
ecc(zitafika mpka zcc leo) eli kwa uzoefu
fcc Sikonge kwa marekebisho
gcc EMT kwa msaada wa kisheria
Fixed Point
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ha haaa, tangu lini umejenga interest na mitala mlongo wangu?
Mentor
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R u "Mliberali"??
Mtende
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gugu,i think jamaa anafanya hivyo becaus anaona unamnyenyekea na kumwabuu,calling,asking,carering and all that,may be try this,usimuulize kwa nini amchelewa kurudi,usimpigie sim,fanya kama una mpuuza for everything tena muonyeshe kwamba you dont care,i tell u mens are jelous akiona hivyo akili yake itaanza kurudi atajiuliza kwa nini unafanya hivyo na end of the day ataanza kujirudi
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kwa nini ujiue gugu? aisee hakuna anayependa kuachana na mtu anayempenda ila mazingira na uhalisia huwa unalazimisha watu kufanya hivyo, my friend had a similar problem like yours and she was forced to move out of the marriage na kipigo kibaya sana kidogo afe. alikaa hosp bila kumwona mumewe ni marafiki na ndugu zake ndo walomjali. it was terrible. please naomba unipm tuwasiliane nikukutanishe na watu ambao najua watakusaidia na u will have a new life kabisa. think of urself and ur son in the mean tym na where wil u go after death? what will be the destiny of ur soul?. hell obvious, killing urself is a sin like killing another person, pm me please
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JF kuna visa jamani, khaaa!!! Nilifikiri niko peke yangu.
Sasa wewe gugu wataka kujidhuru wakati Wanaume tupo kibao kabisa hapa Sikonge tumejaa kama Chungu cha Masangu au Makande, tena yale Makande ya Njugu mawe au Bambara Groundnuts.
Kama huyo hakutaki, wee njoo hapa Sikonge uunge tela na uwe Mke mwenza. Uzuri wangu ni kuwa najua kupenda sana tu na kujali familia nzima (Family Man).
Najua kwa wanawake au binadamu wanaokuwa Brainwashed inakuwa shida sana kubadili. Wanaume wakishaanza kutumia vitisho na Mwanamke akakubali kuwa manipulated, basi kwisha kazi yake kabisa. Jamaa anaweza kuwambia kanisubiri kwenye kiti pale ufukoni baharini na usiondoke, basi Mwanamke atakaa pale hata inyeshe mvua ya mawe.
Kuna dada mmoja nilishawahi kukutana naye, ana msuli mgumu kama wa Bondia. Kumbe kisa ni kuwa anacheza Martial Art. Sasa na yeye alikuwa kawekwa ndani na mumewe kwa miaka mingi pamoja na ukakamavu wake kwenye michezo. Tena dada mzuri kweli aisee na kajijazia mzigo mzuri tu kule Wanyamwezi tunapenda na Mtindi wa haja kwa ajili wa Wanaume wa Kidhungu. Ila bado aliwekwa kwenye kona hadi akawa Kondoo.
Siku moja akashindwa kuvumilia, akamuweka jamaa vitu vya uhakika kwa kutumia ujuzi wake. Sijui ilikuwa Karate au Kung-fu? Jamaa akaishia hospital kavunjwa vunjwa mifupa kadhaa. Dada wa watu akaishia kufungwa kifungo cha nje kwa kumpa kibano Binadamu mwenzake kupita kiasi ingawa na yeye alikuwa akibondwa sana tu ila hawezi kushtaki.
Muangalia Tina Turner na yeye alipata sana kipigo. Ila ikafika mwisho akajiondoa kwa mumewe na kuja kuwa Mwimbaji maarufu sana duniani. Nakumbuka concert yake ya mwisho, watu walisafiri kutoka kila kona ya dunia kuja kumuaga.
Kama uliweza kuhangaika na kuwa na Mabasi, basi anza upya na hangaika na utapata mengine mengi tu na mwisho Mwanaume atakayekupenda kwa dhati. Heri hata upate aliyeowa kama mie hapa kwani walau utajua umesimama wapi kuliko kudhani upo peke yako wakati mpo wengi. Sisi wanaume NDIVYO TULIVYO kwa bahati mbaya.
Nimemwambia snowhite awe wifi yake wa tatu dada FirstLady1 na Kaunga ila bado anaringaringa anataka hawa vijana wanaovaa mitepesho. Mambo ni Wazee vijana bana kama Sikonge hapa. By the way, hivi huyu FP kuna nini kinaendela juu yake maana huwa namuonaona hapa ila sijawahi kuongea naye hata siku moja.
Salaam Aleikum dada FP? Hahahaa nimejifunza kutoka kwa Lil Wayne......
Sasa wewe gugu wataka kujidhuru wakati Wanaume tupo kibao kabisa hapa Sikonge tumejaa kama Chungu cha Masangu au Makande, tena yale Makande ya Njugu mawe au Bambara Groundnuts.
Kama huyo hakutaki, wee njoo hapa Sikonge uunge tela na uwe Mke mwenza. Uzuri wangu ni kuwa najua kupenda sana tu na kujali familia nzima (Family Man).
Najua kwa wanawake au binadamu wanaokuwa Brainwashed inakuwa shida sana kubadili. Wanaume wakishaanza kutumia vitisho na Mwanamke akakubali kuwa manipulated, basi kwisha kazi yake kabisa. Jamaa anaweza kuwambia kanisubiri kwenye kiti pale ufukoni baharini na usiondoke, basi Mwanamke atakaa pale hata inyeshe mvua ya mawe.
Kuna dada mmoja nilishawahi kukutana naye, ana msuli mgumu kama wa Bondia. Kumbe kisa ni kuwa anacheza Martial Art. Sasa na yeye alikuwa kawekwa ndani na mumewe kwa miaka mingi pamoja na ukakamavu wake kwenye michezo. Tena dada mzuri kweli aisee na kajijazia mzigo mzuri tu kule Wanyamwezi tunapenda na Mtindi wa haja kwa ajili wa Wanaume wa Kidhungu. Ila bado aliwekwa kwenye kona hadi akawa Kondoo.
Siku moja akashindwa kuvumilia, akamuweka jamaa vitu vya uhakika kwa kutumia ujuzi wake. Sijui ilikuwa Karate au Kung-fu? Jamaa akaishia hospital kavunjwa vunjwa mifupa kadhaa. Dada wa watu akaishia kufungwa kifungo cha nje kwa kumpa kibano Binadamu mwenzake kupita kiasi ingawa na yeye alikuwa akibondwa sana tu ila hawezi kushtaki.
Muangalia Tina Turner na yeye alipata sana kipigo. Ila ikafika mwisho akajiondoa kwa mumewe na kuja kuwa Mwimbaji maarufu sana duniani. Nakumbuka concert yake ya mwisho, watu walisafiri kutoka kila kona ya dunia kuja kumuaga.
Kama uliweza kuhangaika na kuwa na Mabasi, basi anza upya na hangaika na utapata mengine mengi tu na mwisho Mwanaume atakayekupenda kwa dhati. Heri hata upate aliyeowa kama mie hapa kwani walau utajua umesimama wapi kuliko kudhani upo peke yako wakati mpo wengi. Sisi wanaume NDIVYO TULIVYO kwa bahati mbaya.
Nimemwambia snowhite awe wifi yake wa tatu dada FirstLady1 na Kaunga ila bado anaringaringa anataka hawa vijana wanaovaa mitepesho. Mambo ni Wazee vijana bana kama Sikonge hapa. By the way, hivi huyu FP kuna nini kinaendela juu yake maana huwa namuonaona hapa ila sijawahi kuongea naye hata siku moja.
Salaam Aleikum dada FP? Hahahaa nimejifunza kutoka kwa Lil Wayne......
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Nimependa ushauri wako na hasa hapo kwenye" tuzo ya mvumilivu bora wa mateso ya ndoa"....I wish wanawake wa kitzanzania wangekuwa na mawzo kama haya tusingesikiaa vilio..kumbe mtu anauwezo kiuchumi why cant u stand on ur own??mwanaume bongo?ndo bongo??kuna ndoa hapo sasa??
Sikonge
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Umeona ehh!! Yaani dada kama huyu na uchapa kazi wake wote aishie kuwa Nyama ya Udongo mapema namna hii? Hell no!
Kama kuna Mburula hamtaki, wapo wengine kibao wanamtaka. She should just OPEN HER EYES.....
Kama kuna Mburula hamtaki, wapo wengine kibao wanamtaka. She should just OPEN HER EYES.....
My dear, dont allow evil thoughts of suicide to cross your mind. Think about your son and other people who loves you dearly, huyo mwanume mpotezee tu hata akirudi next week wala usimuulize ametoka wapi. Get busy with your son and your job and pray to God you will soon find your happiness.
Sikonge
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Fixed Point
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hebu tafuta kwanza maandiko yangu, bila shaka hutapata shida kujua nimeangukia upande gani maana nipo open mno......
kila la heri kwenye kugombea ubunge......
ukishatangaza nia uje kuomba support.....
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