my life is meaningless

uuuuuuuwih haya maisha yalivo matamu! na hawa wanaume walivyo mababes hiv!
usijiue i see!
c'amon
achana na hayo makitu i see!
uko wa tahamani zaid ya hiyi ndoa!
ulizaliwa ukiwa wewe!hukuzaliwa ukiwa ndoa!
ulitoka kwenye tumbo la mama yako mwenywe na utarudi kwenye tumbo la dunia mwenywe!kyaaa!cha kushindwa kuishi kwenye hii dunia mwenyewe ni nini!(is at all ukiamua kutake that as a solution)vinginevyo maisha bado yapo wangu!
maisha na mapenzi bado yapo i see!
JUST BELIEVE AND NYANYUKA UPIGANIE FURAHA YAKO!wachana na hayo maaakili ya ur life is meaningless
YOUR LIFE IS VERY VERY MEANINGFULL!
 
Heee...pole dear!!kuna w2 cry for husb bt not this type,madame unakazi nzuri mtt na future nzuri kwa mume anaekudhalilisha na kukutesa!ndoa sio mateso kaa tafakari km maji ya shingo move on!!!ujiue wengine wafaidi heeee....acha kabisa omba mungu mume anauma akupe ujasiri!!

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uuuuuuuwih haya maisha yalivo matamu! na hawa wanaume walivyo mababes hiv!
usijiue i see!
c'amon
achana na hayo makitu i see!
uko wa tahamani zaid ya hiyi ndoa!
ulizaliwa ukiwa wewe!hukuzaliwa ukiwa ndoa!
ulitoka kwenye tumbo la mama yako mwenywe na utarudi kwenye tumbo la dunia mwenywe!kyaaa!cha kushindwa kuishi kwenye hii dunia mwenyewe ni nini!(is at all ukiamua kutake that as a solution)vinginevyo maisha bado yapo wangu!
maisha na mapenzi bado yapo i see!
JUST BELIEVE AND NYANYUKA UPIGANIE FURAHA YAKO!wachana na hayo maaakili ya ur life is meaningless
YOUR LIFE IS VERY VERY MEANINGFULL!
Thumbs up umeongea ukweli mtupu dear. Tena hapo kwenye red ni ujumbe tosha
 
try to stay away from that murderer,and you will see new sunshine and u will forget all those because God's loves u,and he has purpose on you,look forward and forget about that stupid man and don't think about killing yourself it will not help and will not change anything.
 
mbona hivi vitu ulivoandika ni vigumu sana kupractice?????
JF huwa inafurahisha kweli inapokuja michango ya mahusiano kuna watu humu wananchangia utadhani wanauzoefu wa mahusiano over years and years kumbe wako kwenye Ugirl friend na U Boy Friend wengine wezi wa wame za wetu humu balaa. Mimi yangu haya hapa ndugu yangu Guru.
TAFAKARI, Jitahidi kuishi hivi:
(1) Usimchukie yeyote, Hata kama atakukosea vipi
(2) Ishi Maisha ya kawaida, Hata kama upo juu
(3) Tarajia ushindi, Hata kama Mapito ni magumu
(4) Toa maamuzi yako, Hata kama utashawishiwa
(5) Onesha tabasam, Hata kama Moyo unavuja Damu
(6) Usiache kuwaombea maadui zako na kumweka Mungu mbele katika kila jambo!
 
Kwa nini binadamu mwingine akusababishe ukose raha ya maisha? Pia ulivyonunua mabasi ukaandikisha jina lake ilidhani atakupenda zaidi????

Jiamini
Jitambue
Jithamini

Unadhani ukinywa sumu utamkomoa? Si unakufa wewe yeye anaendelea na maisha yake? Tena anakusahau siku 2 tu?

Kwa nini unang'ang'ania mahali ambako hupendwi?

Thamini maisha yako

Hebu songa mbele achana na hayo mauza uza....

Binadamu mmekutana wote mna meno 32 bado anakupelekesha? Its obvious penzi limeisha chapa lapa usiwe mtumwa wa mapenzi

Mapenzi umeyakuta na utayaacha

In short acha ujinga songa mbele
 
Thank u all for all the encouragement, I never thought I would see ths morning and yes I did. I think God has a purpose for me. Thanks

IM glad u still have ur strength with ur.. Men r crocodiles.. I know hw I must feel bt believe me, if I were in ur shoes I'd have left him long ago.. Nina kazi halafu nimbabaikie m2 km huyo ? Kwa lipi? Jifunze kumdharau na kumchukia little by little u'll damp him.. I assure u my d.. All the best..
 
I'm deeply touched by your situation. Any body would just think as you did, but when you come out like this seeking for help it will be ok with you. My sister before you take any action consider this; what will happen to your son in your absence. Secondly is about your abusive hubby, once you commit suicide he will be the major benefactor and your son a loser. Your life is precious than the pig who is just sleeping around. He is not worthy of your attention, in fact you are much better off without him. He is the source of your misery and suffering under this sun. The best way is just to leave him alone because this door is closed for you, but other doors are open for you, just for you to choose one which is suitable for you.
 
huwezi amini sioni pa kuweka like!Any way, asante kwa ushauri mzuri, ni vibaya sana, kuweka furaha yako kwa kutegemea mtu mwingine. ni vizuri kujua 'happiness is a choice, not a result'.
Gugu, life has value higher than love for another Man (You are not Christ) do not kill either yourself or you and your child.
on behalf of God ''you will go to hell''.
-I like the words (I managed thru kuhangaika nikapata mabasi), this shows your head is fine.Now take your child and believe that what happened is the past and you have a new future with minimum financial,social and emotional cost and start over.
-I hope your child is below Seven years(the Law allows you to keep the child),take care of the child to the best of your ability(neve let the child know what is happening and do not blame the father in his/her presence)when he child comes to age he/she will fight for your right and judge between you two(you better be rightous on this one).
-you may need to keep away from men for a while (do not share your situations one on one as basically you are now vulnerable)
-Do not try alcohol/drugs to solve emotional traumas you will never recover.try faith will work for you very fast.try praying and do not be a religious fanatic be in the middle find: out who God is.

-Try pyhsical exercise a lot,do not try to sleep when you are not tired this will take away room to think over the issue many times as your head can not think beyond a certain point for now as your emotions are trapped in the situation.these two will help(Physical excise and prayers)

-As your child is growing make him a friend instead of a child,this will help you from having a troubled child and make you a successiful single mother.
 
mbona hivi vitu ulivoandika ni vigumu sana kupractice?????

Kweli Client3 hakuna hata moja unawezaa lifanya?kama ni hivyo unategemea kila kitu kusimamiwa na rafiki zako?anyway sijui kama comment yako ilikuwa utani au kweli...
 
Let me remind your brain bro. Life without challenge its like dead body in the coffin. Here imean if ure still alive challenge is a part of life. If ure going to suicide ure tuning ure mind like crazy. Take care of ureself and each other bro life is like amirror.
 
Mwenzako labda ana ndoa ya kanisani na kwao ameshaambiwa hamna kurudi!!!

Kurudi kwao kufanya nini while ni mtu mwenye kazi nzuri na uwezo wa kujitunza anao
We dada jikaze kike anza upya hata ndoa ya kanisani inavunjika
 
Very very interesting nakumbuka my past xperience when I look back!! Those owful days unampenda mtu mpaka unafikiri bila yeye maisha c kitu cha thamani nacheka sana but its the past I ve nothing to do with it it was all over . Am now living happily with my family
My advice: Only time can heal broken hearts
 
Aclimia kubwa wanawake walio kwenye ndoa wanaish bas 2 kwa kua hawatak kuacha watoto wao wakiteseka. Lakn kwa nin nyie baadh ya wanaume mnatesa wake zenu kias hik?
 

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