Mapenzi yanapokuwa uchafu

[Cynthia Chriss]

Ebu niambie Cynthia kuna mtu namjua ana shida kama hiyo?

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I have the same problem hata nikiwa kwenye mzunguko naona kinyaa kuandaa chakula watu wale,huwa sipendi kuwapa wanaume mikono na kwa sababu napenda utani niliowazoea huwa nawaambia sbb kiutani, tunacheka life goes.me hotelini nakula mazingira yanapolazimu sana na juice ya hotelini sinywi kabisaa.

Ila ndugu zangu wakisikia naenda kwao usafi utafanyika na nitajua tu,nafurahi wao wanaelewa hali yangu though sometimes inanicost sana tu.

 

[Mwananjengo]

Labda ni list mambo machache ambayo yatasaidia kunielewe (1)I hate food cooked by my patner or food stuff from her when she is in period despite how hygienic she is (2)Immediate washing my body after a shot even if the game is going on (3) Long time mental disturbance (sometimes hard to eat food) after observing bad hygienic condition or unpleasant smell from a person, hospitals/ markets etc (4) I like to live in place with low population, as such streets easly affordable in regions other than DSM I like to live upcountry (5) Sometimes I re wash glasses,cups and plates re clean table b4 use due to cleaness doubt, Here is the list in brief please more guidance

Kwa tabia hyo sahau kuoa,hakuna ambaye atakuweza kaka.Badilika au sahau kuoa kabsa.

 

[fabinyo]

kuna jamaa yangu anatatizo kama wewe,keshaachana na wasichana wake kibao,wasichana wanasepa kwani hawana cha kufanya wakienda kwake,hata akifuliwa atarudia tu,demu wake akinywa maji,wakati anaipeleka kinywani yeye anafuta maji kwenye kitako cha glasi,demu hata akitoka nje kumwaga take,huku nyuma jamaa anachukua fagio na kufuta alipokaa mwenzie!jamaa anakera kweli kweli,ona wataalamu wa akili watakusadia

 

[Kaunga]

Sijui tukusaidiaje?
Tafuta aliye kama wewe, huenda ikasaidia ila muangalie watoto msiwaweke kwenye sterile room wakashindwa kutengeneza kinga ya mwili.

 

[Kamawewe]

OK Lakini kwa sasa mimi ni hali inayonikosesha raha kwa sababu mwisho wa siku unaonekana unaringa au kugombana na watu, nimewahi kumuona Doctor siku moja lakini hakutake serious ujajua madactari wetu TZ hawawi serious mpaka waone mtu kapasuka kichwa ndio maana watu wenye matatizo ya kisaikolojia Tz hawana msaada wa kutosha, sijui nihospitali gani sahihi kwa shida yangu

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I have the same problem hata nikiwa kwenye mzunguko naona kinyaa kuandaa chakula watu wale,huwa sipendi kuwapa wanaume mikono na kwa sababu napenda utani niliowazoea huwa nawaambia sbb kiutani, tunacheka life goes.me hotelini nakula mazingira yanapolazimu sana na juice ya hotelini sinywi kabisaa.

Ila ndugu zangu wakisikia naenda kwao usafi utafanyika na nitajua tu,nafurahi wao wanaelewa hali yangu though sometimes inanicost sana tu.

 

[Cynthia Chriss]

Hata me cjui naona kuna mdau ametoa mchango no 4 unaweza kusaidia ,me nshakubali matokeo kusema naringa au nina nyodo hakuathiri nilivyo ingawa kuna wakati me mwenyewe najiuliza maswali kadhaa,mimi hata nguo yyangu haifuliwi na mtu

 

[Kamawewe]

OK lakini madaktari wetu mara nyingine ukiwaeleza issue kama hii wanatake easy sana ninasema hivyo kwa sababu nimeshawahi kumuona daktari, response yake amechukulia nina tatizo dogo sana wakati mimi hili tatizo linaniletea shida hasa kwenye mahusiano, nikaona labda wanaJF wanaweza kuniambia the right Dr or Hospital in TZ

kuna jamaa yangu anatatizo kama wewe,keshaachana na wasichana wake kibao,wasichana wanasepa kwani hawana cha kufanya wakienda kwake,hata akifuliwa atarudia tu,demu wake akinywa maji,wakati anaipeleka kinywani yeye anafuta maji kwenye kitako cha glasi,demu hata akitoka nje kumwaga take,huku nyuma jamaa anachukua fagio na kufuta alipokaa mwenzie!jamaa anakera kweli kweli,ona wataalamu wa akili watakusadia

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Kwa tabia yako tafuta cash mkuu yaaani pakee ya kutosha kuwa na maids watakaoishi chini ya nyayo zako kwa gharama ya mfuko wako ili uishi utakavyo!!!! Otherwise ukaishi kwa mama yako mzazi uwe mamaz boy!!!

Kuhusu mke mzee kwa mbwembwe hizo daaanh cant say never ila hakuna wa kuvumilia hiyo tabia mzee kwa wanawake wetu wa Kitanzania,wanataka kumiliki nyumba na domestic schedule sasa wewe na hizo tabia si utageuka kama mama kama housegirl!!!!!

Una marafiki ukiachilia mbali girlfriend?????!!!
Ukimshika mkono baba au mama unaenda kunawa pia???

Edited version ya wakojacko (joke)

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Kwa tabia yako tafuta cash mkuu yaaani pakee ya kutosha kuwa na maids watakaoishi chini ya nyayo zako kwa gharama ya mfuko wako ili uishi utakavyo!!!! Otherwise ukaishi kwa mama yako mzazi uwe mamaz boy!!!

Kuhusu mke mzee kwa mbwembwe hizo daaanh cant say never ila hakuna wa kuvumilia hiyo tabia mzee kwa wanawake wetu wa Kitanzania,wanataka kumiliki nyumba na domestic schedule sasa wewe na hizo tabia si utageuka kama mama kama housegirl!!!!!

Una marafiki ukiachilia mbali girlfriend?????!!!
Ukimshika mkono baba au mama unaenda kunawa pia???

Edited version ya wakojacko (joke)

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Hata me cjui naona kuna mdau ametoa mchango no 4 unaweza kusaidia ,me nshakubali matokeo kusema naringa au nina nyodo hakuathiri nilivyo ingawa kuna wakati me mwenyewe najiuliza maswali kadhaa,mimi hata nguo yyangu haifuliwi na mtu

We utaolewa tu kwani wanaume wengi huwa wanapenda mwanamke msafi wa level yako ila sasa kama una mdomo usio na staha ndo quishney..mtu katoka kazini ana njaa (hungry) umkazanie kwa kumkomalia kuwa hali mpaka aoge utapoteza pambano!!!!!

Wanaume kama watoto sometimes so the more you care the more likely utaolewa ila chunga kinywa mamy

 

[t blj]

Kwanza pole kwa kuwa sensitive sana kwenye mambo ya usafi, !!!nadhani umekulia na kuishi kwenye familia yenye uwezo mkubwa kifedha , ambayo ina element za kiselfish , usually hii scenario ina exist ili kutofautisha kati ya watoto mambo safi na choka mbaya, (kind of ubaguzi fulan hivi)na hayo unayosema yalikuwa attached kwako kwa kuwa hukupata life diversity yoyote . Usingeanzisha thread hii kama wewe ni mwenzangu na mimi umekulia kijijini maji ya kisima ,sabuni majani ya mpapai n.k
Unapata tabu kupata mtu wa kuwa naye kwa sababu fikra zako zinadhani kila unayekutana naye basi ameishi na kukulia mazingira kama yako , yes unaweza kumpata patner wa aina yako, lakini probabilty ni ndogo sana kwa ninavyojua! Wengi wa unaosema wanakushinda jua ni watu waliokulia makuzi ya kawaida sana na hawakuwa na means za kuufanya usafi kwa exreme unazotaka.

You need to tune yourself big boy !! Usijiendekeze ! Jiulize ukiumwa ukapewa kitanda muhimbili utakataa ka sababu ya hygenic ?The more sensitive the more vulnerable!

 

[Lord Lofa]

OK Lakini kwa sasa mimi ni hali inayonikosesha raha kwa sababu mwisho wa siku unaonekana unaringa au kugombana na watu, nimewahi kumuona Doctor siku moja lakini hakutake serious ujajua madactari wetu TZ hawawi serious mpaka waone mtu kapasuka kichwa ndio maana watu wenye matatizo ya kisaikolojia Tz hawana msaada wa kutosha, sijui nihospitali gani sahihi kwa shida yangu

kaka kuna mawili nenda milembe au jkt kama hupendi hiyo hali mwezi mmoja tu haitorudi tena

 

[Idimi]

Ur so naive

Usimhukunu, msaidie

 

[destiny1]

Kamawewe,

(1)I hate food cooked by my patner or food stuff from her when she is in period despite how hygienic she is

-So where do you normally have your meal? and who cooks?

(2)Immediate washing my body after a shot even if the game is going on

- Mmmh that's too much, hivi huwa unapenga makamasi kweli wewe?

(3) Long time mental disturbance (sometimes hard to eat food) after observing bad hygienic condition or unpleasant smell from a person, hospitals/ markets etc

- I guess you should then find a little world of your own...hii kinyaa imepitiliza atii mkuu

(4) I like to live in place with low population, as such streets easly affordable in regions other than DSM I like to live upcountry

- Tafuta au jenga nyumba huko, think that can be done uunh!

(5) Sometimes I re wash glasses,cups and plates re clean table b4 use due to cleaness doubt.

-If you do all that, why putting all the blames on em girls. I think washing em dishes and stuff is way of doing a little bit favor to urself

Wanawake wengi hawapendi wanaume wasafi waliopitiliza, yani nioshe kikombe na wewe uoshe tena mhhh! jirekebishe this time utaachwa wewe.

 

[Kamawewe]

Thanx mkuu kwa ushauri ingawa ninapenda ujue nimekulia familia ya kawaida na ninapenda ujue nimeishi kijijini tangu kuzaliwa hadi nilipokuwa na miaka kumi na mbili hizo shida nimepitia na hata siku hizi nikienda ninajaribu kuishi village life ingawa vijiji siku hizi vina huduma nyingi kukiko zamani lakini kiukweli nikienda ninapata shida kwa mambo niliyoyaongelea

Kwanza pole kwa kuwa sensitive sana kwenye mambo ya usafi, !!!nadhani umekulia na kuishi kwenye familia yenye uwezo mkubwa kifedha , ambayo ina element za kiselfish , usually hii scenario ina exist ili kutofautisha kati ya watoto mambo safi na choka mbaya, (kind of ubaguzi fulan hivi)na hayo unayosema yalikuwa attached kwako kwa kuwa hukupata life diversity yoyote . Usingeanzisha thread hii kama wewe ni mwenzangu na mimi umekulia kijijini maji ya kisima ,sabuni majani ya mpapai n.k
Unapata tabu kupata mtu wa kuwa naye kwa sababu fikra zako zinadhani kila unayekutana naye basi ameishi na kukulia mazingira kama yako , yes unaweza kumpata patner wa aina yako, lakini probabilty ni ndogo sana kwa ninavyojua! Wengi wa unaosema wanakushinda jua ni watu waliokulia makuzi ya kawaida sana na hawakuwa na means za kuufanya usafi kwa exreme unazotaka.

You need to tune yourself big boy !! Usijiendekeze ! Jiulize ukiumwa ukapewa kitanda muhimbili utakataa ka sababu ya hygenic ?The more sensitive the more vulnerable!

 

[t blj]

Thanx mkuu kwa ushauri ingawa ninapenda ujue nimekulia familia ya kawaida na ninapenda ujue nimeishi kijijini tangu kuzaliwa hadi nilipokuwa na miaka kumi na mbili hizo shida nimepitia na hata siku hizi nikienda ninajaribu kuishi village life ingawa vijiji siku hizi vina huduma nyingi kukiko zamani lakini kiukweli nikienda ninapata shida kwa mambo niliyoyaongelea

Aisee umenishangaza ! Kama uliweza kuishi kijinii miaka 12 katika familia ya kawaida ( hapa na assume kukamua majipu wadogo zako na kutoa funza bi mkubwa kulihusika ) nini kimekufanya ubadilike hivyo!! Nadhani saikolojia pia inahusika kiasi fulani, ila bado nakulaumu kwa ku entertain taboo ambazo bila kujua zimekutoa kwenye groung yako.

Katika dunia ya leo ukitaka kusurvive weka vingi kwenye "ignore list," machache sana weka katika "must have list" , imagine umesalimiana na mtu kakushika mkono uswazi! na maji ndo kama hivo yamekatika, si ndio mwanzo wa stress huo? Vipi ukiambiwa kuna kulala msibani (mkeka wa kushare) si unapata na presha?
Wengine tumetoka enzi ambazo shemeji yako akiingia siku alikuwa atumia matambaa (not disposable anayafua na kuanika ,wanaojua watakujuza kero zake) na msosi anapika anapakua maisha yaliendelea kama kawaida.

Bado nakushauri fanya mabadiliko bro inawezekana!

 

[chelsea fc]

tatizo wewe bo-yaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

 

[CharmingLady]

Mmmmh. .. pole mkuu, ngoja wakushauri!!!

 

[Kamawewe]

DUH haya shukrani ndio mambo JF

tatizo wewe bo-yaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

 

[Mlandege]

Pole sana Mkuu