Maana yake huwa ni nini?

Roger Sterling · May 17, 2016

But she caught me on the counter....(It wasn't me)

Saw me bangin' on the sofa...(It wasn't me)
I even had her in the shower....(It wasn't me)
She even caught me on camera....(It wasn't me)

She saw the marks on my shoulder....(It wasn't me)
Heard the words that I told her....(It wasn't me)
Heard the screams gettin' louder...(It wasn't me)
She stayed until it was over......

mgangawaukoo · May 17, 2016

Evelyn Salt said:
Ha ha ha ha ha hii kiboko

Kweli kbs everlyn salt, Unamuuliza mume wako eti unatembea na house girl? Huwa unategemea kujibiwa nn?
Kuna vinguchiro vingine tunapita kwa zarula Tu, ikitokea umejua kaa kimya!

JT2014 · May 17, 2016

Evelyn Salt said:
Good morning....

Wewe ma mwenzi wako mmegombana, ila mkosaji ni wewe hapo assume umefumwa na mawasiliano ya mchepuko, mwenzio anaamua kukuuliza/kukuambia kistaarabu kabisa tena kwa sweet language "mpenzi ni hivi ni hivi nimesikia, nimeona unatembea na fulani......

Wewe mkosaji sasa uvimbe, unune, uje juu, kijasho kikutoke yani unafura kama nyoka ilhali umekosea na ni kweli umekosea. Muda huo mwenzio hata hana hasira na wewe anakusemesha vizuri mkosaji umevimba vishavu kama viandazi yani unataka hadi uombwe msamaha.

Maana yake huwa ni nini jamani? Kuelewa akili za binadamu ni ngumu, Make hii ni zaidi ya defensive mechanism
. Unakua hutaki kuulizwa? Sasa hii inawezekana vipi ukose usiulizwe? Afu mbona kama kuulizwa inaleta unafuu flani kuliko kunyamaziwa?
. Unataka kuombwa msamaha? Kwa kipi sasa ulichokosewa?

Hakika huu ni ujinga first class japo maana yake huwa siijui, nishaiona mara nyingi.

Nb : 1:kufumwa ni mfano tu, chukulia kosa lolote lile ilmradi kosa
2: hii inahusu jinsia zote mwanaume na mwanamke

Hii isikupe shida,tafuta wataalam wa ufugaji
wa aina zote za wanyama,angalia uwiano wa jinsia
ukipata majibu utagundua ni kwa nini jinsia fulani huwa wananuna
wanapoulizwa maswali yahusuyo.....

Tee Bag · May 17, 2016

Evelyn Salt said:
Hawajaniko....za

Basi utakua na Rambo

bigmind · May 17, 2016

Evelyn Salt said:
Hawajaniko....za

Aliyekwambia mwanaume wa kiafrica anaomba msamaha hadharani nani???

Iko hivi atakuwa baba mjinga na mpuuzi kuomba msamaha kwa maneno kama haya;

Sahamani mke wangu nisamehe.

Sitarudia tena nakuahidi.

Nimekosa nisamehe.

African baba never give apologize on the spot, kidume ukiambiwa lazima kwanza ufule huku ukijua kabisa umekosea afu unapiga ubuyu hakuna kusema; badae sana unaanzisha vijizawadi na maneno fulani kumjenga mkeo huku ukijiandaa kuacha hiyo tabia kama mbaya.

Nimegundua wanawake wengi mnashindwa ndoa kwa mambo madogo tuu; mwanaume wa kiafrica haombi msamaha hapo hapo na kwa maneno tu bila kijizawadi.

Mkitaka hizo makitu kaolewe na mzungu sisi kwetu mfumo dume ndiyo utamu wa ndoa yenyewe na unamfanya mke anajiona yuko secure..!

Lusajo11 · May 17, 2016

NIMPENDENANI said:
Hapo inategemea kila mtu na moyo wake utakavyo mtuma na maamuzi yake,lakini mie No sikuombi msamaha nimekukuta na sms na wewe uka reply una hashukwa na mwanamke mwengine halafu una expect apology kutoka kwangu? mbona
atanikuta kwetu zamani namwambia sasa isiwe tabu ukahashukwa jinafas nae,lakini samahani simuombi hata avimbe mpaka apasuke..........

Mpendwa, ni kweli kuwa utaamua kurudi kwenu au umeandika kwa bahati mbaya tu?!

housegirl · May 17, 2016

bigmind said:
Aliyekwambia mwanaume wa kiafrica anaomba msamaha hadharani nani???

Iko hivi atakuwa baba mjinga na mpuuzi kuomba msamaha kwa maneno kama haya;

Sahamani mke wangu nisamehe.

Sitarudia tena nakuahidi.

Nimekosa nisamehe.

African baba never give apologize on the spot, kidume ukiambiwa lazima kwanza ufule huku ukijua kabisa umekosea afu unapiga ubuyu hakuna kusema; badae sana unaanzisha vijizawadi na maneno fulani kumjenga mkeo huku ukijiandaa kuacha hiyo tabia kama mbaya.

Nimegundua wanawake wengi mnashindwa ndoa kwa mambo madogo tuu; mwanaume wa kiafrica haombi msamaha hapo hapo na kwa maneno tu bila kijizawadi.

Mkitaka hizo makitu kaolewe na mzungu sisi kwetu mfumo dume ndiyo utamu wa ndoa yenyewe na unamfanya mke anajiona yuko secure..!

hivi kwanini kila kitu cha OVYO OVYO kinahusianishwa na wanaume wa Afrika?

housegirl · May 17, 2016

Heaven Sent said:
), kesi inakugeukia wewe, si undezi huo sasa. Huo ni ubabe + dharau

Hayo majibu si ya kumpa mpenzi wako unayemuhitaji, labda kama huwa mnakutana tu kibiashara.

Kuomba msamaha sio sign of weakness, ila ni ustaarabu, Utu na uungwana. Na msamaha hauna jinsia, hupendi kuomba msamaha basi Jitahidi pia usifanye makosa

me nashangaaga Hawa wanaume wanavyoongeleaga wanawake.
umemchukua mwanamke kwasababu unampenda au kwasababu ulitaka Mtu wa kupraktisia ubabe?

housegirl · May 17, 2016

bigmind said:
.

Mkitaka hizo makitu kaolewe na mzungu sisi kwetu mfumo dume ndiyo utamu wa ndoa yenyewe na unamfanya mke anajiona yuko secure..!

uliwahi kuwa mwanamke ukaona tabia hizo hufanya ahisi secure?

#first class stupid at its best

Chakachi · May 17, 2016

Defensive mechanism,ingawaje kw mbishi kama mm haitofanya kazi

T 1990 ELY · May 17, 2016

Heaven Sent said:
Hadi muda huo hujajua bado kinachoendelea, wewe ndo una kosa na kosa lako " kwa nini umemfukunyua" hahahha nacheka kama mazuri. Kuna watu kosa lake, ila kesi itaishia kuwa yako na mwisho wewe ndo utatakiwa uombe msamaha (nijikute tu mtcheew). Ndo maana me kuna muda nilikuwa nikifind kitu nafanya tu maamuzi magumu yaishe (sio nyie wa kwenye ndoa lakini teh). Coz unamkalisha mwenzako chini ili muongee, yeye kukiri kosa hataki afu bora anyamaze basi (nta-assume roho inamsuta), kesi inakugeukia wewe, si undezi huo sasa. Huo ni ubabe + dharau

Afu kwa hayo majibu, ningeshabeba moyo wangu nimesepa. Hayo majibu si ya kumpa mpenzi wako unayemuhitaji, labda kama huwa mnakutana tu kibiashara. Kuomba msamaha sio sign of weakness, ila ni ustaarabu, Utu na uungwana. Na msamaha hauna jinsia, hupendi kuomba msamaha basi Jitahidi pia usifanye makosa

Nimekupenda Bure Kwa Kweli Heaven Sent

Unatumiaga kinywaji chochote kile chenye kilevi?

Agiza tena bila hata kuuliza bill kwangu

Kwema lakini mkuu

Heaven Sent · May 17, 2016

housegirl said:
hivi kwanini kila kitu cha OVYO OVYO kinahusianishwa na wanaume wa Afrika?

Huku si ndo tunapractice sana mfumo dume. Ujue jamii zetu ziwalea wanaume wajione kama wao always ni "VICTORS". Unfortunately wamebaki kuwa "VICTIMS", coz no matter what wameshaambiwa wao ni superior kuliko sisi. Ndo maana unaona mtu kuomba msamaha anaona sio uanaume ila kufanya makosa ndo uanaume kamili. EPIC FAIL

housegirl said:
me nashangaaga Hawa wanaume wanavyoongeleaga wanawake.
umemchukua mwanamke kwasababu unampenda au kwasababu ulitaka Mtu wa kupraktisia ubabe?

Heaven Sent · May 17, 2016

T 1990 ELY said:
Nimekupenda Bure Kwa Kweli Heaven Sent

Unatumiaga kinywaji chochote kile chenye kilevi?

Agiza tena bila hata kuuliza bill kwangu

Kwema lakini mkuu

Ahsante mpendwa, me mzima kabisa. Kinywaji changu chai, so fanya fanya tu hela ya sukari mpendwa lol

Junior. Cux · May 17, 2016

Heaven Sent said:
Hadi muda huo hujajua bado kinachoendelea, wewe ndo una kosa na kosa lako " kwa nini umemfukunyua" hahahha nacheka kama mazuri. Kuna watu kosa lake, ila kesi itaishia kuwa yako na mwisho wewe ndo utatakiwa uombe msamaha (nijikute tu mtcheew). Ndo maana me kuna muda nilikuwa nikifind kitu nafanya tu maamuzi magumu yaishe (sio nyie wa kwenye ndoa lakini teh). Coz unamkalisha mwenzako chini ili muongee, yeye kukiri kosa hataki afu bora anyamaze basi (nta-assume roho inamsuta), kesi inakugeukia wewe, si undezi huo sasa. Huo ni ubabe + dharau

Afu kwa hayo majibu, ningeshabeba moyo wangu nimesepa. Hayo majibu si ya kumpa mpenzi wako unayemuhitaji, labda kama huwa mnakutana tu kibiashara. Kuomba msamaha sio sign of weakness, ila ni ustaarabu, Utu na uungwana. Na msamaha hauna jinsia, hupendi kuomba msamaha basi Jitahidi pia usifanye makosa

Nilikuwa nasubili jibu lako moyo wangu utulie lol!!!

Heaven Sent · May 17, 2016

Junior. Cux said:
Nilikuwa nasubili jibu lako moyo wangu utulie lol!!!

Hahaha kwa hiyo roho imetulia eeh???? Haya unaombaga msamaha au ndo ubabe wa kinyaki?

T 1990 ELY · May 17, 2016

Heaven Sent said:
Ahsante mpendwa, me mzima kabisa. Kinywaji changu chai, so fanya fanya tu hela ya sukari mpendwa lol

Hahaha hata huko uliko Heaven Sent nako sukari ni majanga, janga?

Au ipo ila bei ndo shiida siyo?

Nitafanya fanya hela ya sukari kwa njia ipi mkuu?

Kama vipi njoo pm without kabisa..... Just kidding

Brigedia Chan-ocha · May 17, 2016

Huyu naona huyo Mume wake ameliwasha.......afu mwaswali yako huwa ni ya kijanja-janja hivi, kumbe huwa ni wewe mwenyewe yamekupata.

Junior. Cux · May 17, 2016

Heaven Sent said:
Hahaha kwa hiyo roho imetulia eeh???? Haya unaombaga msamaha au ndo ubabe wa kinyaki?

umetulia kabisa.. nmeona nlichotegemea 🙂!!!

Msamaha kawaida yangu, ila kwa kitu nlichokosea kweli... sio maneno ya kuambiwa saloon [emoji126][emoji126]

Bilionea Asigwa · May 17, 2016

mgangawaukoo said:
Kuna mambo hutakiwi kuuliza hata Kama umeyajua!

teh teh teh
hii kali aiseeee

Ombudsman · May 17, 2016

Hii mara nyingi inatokea kwa yule mtu unaempenda na anajua unampenda kweli,anajua utomfanya chochote na kumuacha ni ngumu.

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