Ladies, will you stay with an abusive man for money?

[kui]

Kina dada, kuna hii habari ilitokea couple of weeks ago across the pond nimejaribu ku samaraiz!, huyu dada alipata kipigo toka kwa bwana(proffesional football player) na akaendelea kukaa mpaka kuolewa, good thing wenzetu don't play baadae ilivogundulika bwana alimpiga bibi and he's already 'up there' proffesionally, wakuu wake hawakuwa na ajizi wakamsimamisha kucheza. Nahisi sasa mkong'oto kwa mkewe utazidi kwa hasira za kukosa kazi.

When trash-talking TMZ exposed the tape that everyone knew Goodell and Company had viewed back in February, we all finally saw what domestic violence looks like prior to a black eye covered up by Cover Girl and a turtleneck hiding finger marks from being lifted feet-off-the-floor prior to being hurled across the room by husbands and lovers, ......
This most likely was not the first time Rice’s now-wife Janay Palmer felt the force of his fist…and it very well may not be the last. She continues to be the victim of Ravens owner Steve Bisciotti’s non-stop arrogance and ignorance in defending himself (and previously his then-high-priced running back), and we can only hope that eventually someone will mercifully wire his jaw shut.
The sad statistic is that most victims of domestic violence stay silent because they feel they deserve the abuse. They put themselves, their children and their pets in the line of fire, believing “it won’t happen again.”
When she had the chance to walk away, Janay stayed and then married this monster, possibly hoping for a changed man and a life of luxury as the wife of an NFL player with a multi-million dollar salary.
Did she fear jeopardizing his livelihood was worth jeopardizing her life?

Source: PRNewzer

MY TAKE: Elimu ni muhimu sana jamani, angekuwa na shule asinge tegemea ME 100%, at least angekuwa na akili ya kufikirai another alternative to make money, badala ya kuvumilia kipigo.

 

[Preta]

No.......binafsi I was born to hustle.......sasa huyo anayeninyanyasa sababu ya pesa ni nani.......?....nataka nimjue........

 

[Ablessed]

MY TAKE: Elimu ni muhimu sana jamani, angekuwa na shule asinge tegemea ME 100%, at least angekuwa na akili ya kufikirai another alternative to make money, badala ya kuvumilia kipigo.

Mkuu kweli elimu ni muhimu lkn utashangaa hata waliosoma bado wanaishi ktk hali hiyo. Nafikiri kikubwa ni mtu kujitambua na wakati mwingine binadamu ni complicated mno huwezi kumuelewa manake kuna wengine wanaoishi nao hawana mali utashangaa huyu mama/dada anang'ang'ania nini hutopata jibu.

 

[Honey Faith]

Aisee huo uvumilivu sina kabisaaa kwanza I hate kuwa na mtu mwenye pesa sana

 

[kui]

Mkuu kweli elimu ni muhimu lkn utashangaa hata waliosoma bado wanaishi ktk hali hiyo. Nafikiri kikubwa ni mtu kujitambua na wakati mwingine binadamu ni complicated mno huwezi kumuelewa manake kuna wengine wanaoishi nao hawana mali utashangaa huyu mama/dada anang'ang'ania nini hutopata jibu.

Word mkuu, a different point of view!

 

[kui]

Aisee huo uvumilivu sina kabisaaa kwanza I hate kuwa na mtu mwenye pesa sana

LOl!....chanzo cha maovu!

 

[The Boss]

Double standard ya American media...jay z alivyokuwa attack hakuna alie mlaani solange sanasana she is more famous...tiger wood alipigwa na mkewe no one talks about abuses....only kumlaani kwa cheating ...in this new world...men deserves all abuses...only to women ndo kesi...

 

[Khantwe]

Aisee huo uvumilivu sina kabisaaa kwanza I hate kuwa na mtu mwenye pesa sana

Wii ntafsirie bwana...

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

MY TAKE: Elimu ni muhimu sana jamani, angekuwa na shule asinge tegemea ME 100%, at least angekuwa na akili ya kufikirai another alternative to make money, badala ya kuvumilia kipigo.

Janay Rice ni college graduate. Hivyo kusema hana shule (au sijui unamaanisha nini kusema angekuwa na shule) si sahihi.

Lakini pia, licha ya Ray kumpa left hook iliyozima taa zake, huyo bibie naye, in all fairness to Ray, hakuwa innocent kivile.

Na kwa kusema hivyo simaanishi na condone domestic violence. Tout au contraire. Just trying to put things in their proper perspective and provide some semblance of balance.

Ukiangalia kwa slo-mo ile surveillance video iliyotolewa na TMZ, utaona kuwa kabla ya kulishwa ile left hook, Janay alimtemea mate Ray. Na inasemekana hata kabla ya hiyo incident ya kwenye elevetaor, huko kwenye casino alikuwa belligerent na alikuwa kanywa.

Janay Rice ni college graduate na nadhani anaweza kuishi maisha mazuri bila hata Ray. Plus, she is beautiful enough to cop herself another well to do man, if she is that kinda girl. But even with her education, I think she can stand on her own two feet quite comfortably.

 

[BAK]

Hili ni kweli kabisa Mkuu Ablessed. Kuna dada mmoja msomi na kazi nzuri na mshahara mzuri sana alikuwa anapata vipigo ambavyo kwa kweli hakustahili kabisa kuvipata. Vipigo hivi vilisababishwa na wivu wa hali ya juu na hasira za kupita kiasi toka kwa mumewe. Huyu dada anamuogopa mumewe utadhani ni muhalifu. Na alikuwa akitandikwa anatandikwa kweli saa nyingine hawezi kwenda kazini wiki nzima kwa jinsi alivyovimba uso.

Pamoja na usomi wake, kazi nzuri na mashahara mkubwa aliendelea kuwemo ndani ya hiyo ndoa. Alipokuwa akinihadithia maisha yake nilikuwa namuonea huruma sana na juhudi zangu za kumwambia afungashe virago ili awe mwenyewe ziligonga ukuta. Hana hata marafiki kutokana na wivu wa mumewe. Mara nyingi alikuwa anaonekana mnyonge kupita kiasi.

Mkuu kweli elimu ni muhimu lkn utashangaa hata waliosoma bado wanaishi ktk hali hiyo. Nafikiri kikubwa ni mtu kujitambua na wakati mwingine binadamu ni complicated mno huwezi kumuelewa manake kuna wengine wanaoishi nao hawana mali utashangaa huyu mama/dada anang'ang'ania nini hutopata jibu.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Double standard ya American media...jay z alivyokuwa attack hakuna alie mlaani solange sanasana she is more famous...tiger wood alipigwa na mkewe no one talks about abuses....only kumlaani kwa cheating ...in this new world...men deserves all abuses...only to women ndo kesi...

And had Jay Z swung at her, his career would have been over right then and there.

The double standard is more with the American society. Hitting a woman is considered a no-no but somehow a woman hitting a man is not condemned as much.

As far as I'm concerned, no one should get a pass when it comes to hitting. Condemnation ought to be meted out equally. But then again I know that in life, things aren't always fair.

Black folks can call themselves then N-word all they want but somehow someway others can't call them that. So go figure!

If the word was so offensive why call yourself that and then get bent out of shape when others of a different race use it?

 

[Honey Faith]

Wii ntafsirie bwana...

Sasa my wii unataka kunitoa nishai mbele za watu.Kwa mfano Ntuzu awe anakupiga kila siku na wewe unavumilia kisa ana hela.Je upo tayari kupokea kichapo kisa mtu ana hela?

 

[First Born]

Wii ntafsirie bwana...

kingeredha buana.. in-law kinakupa taabu?

 

[kui]

Janay Rice ni college graduate. Hivyo kusema hana shule (au sijui unamaanisha nini kusema angekuwa na shule) si sahihi.

Lakini pia, licha ya Ray kumpa left hook iliyozima taa zake, huyo bibie naye, in all fairness to Ray, hakuwa innocent kivile.

Na kwa kusema hivyo simaanishi na condone domestic violence. Tout au contraire. Just trying to put things in their proper perspective and provide some semblance of balance.

Ukiangalia kwa slo-mo ile surveillance video iliyotolewa na TMZ, utaona kuwa kabla ya kulishwa ile left hook, Janay alimtemea mate Ray. Na inasemekana hata kabla ya hiyo incident ya kwenye elevetaor, huko kwenye casino alikuwa belligerent na alikuwa kanywa.

Janay Rice ni college graduate na nadhani anaweza kuishi maisha mazuri bila hata Ray. Plus, she is beautiful enough to cop herself another well to do man, if she is that kinda girl. But even with her education, I think she can stand on her own two feet quite comfortably.

Well, kwenda shule si lazima 'kuwa na shule' she went to college yea, if she could stand on her she wouldn't have let him drag her to that point of knocking her out, she let him do that to her, and she victimized herself by not having a control of "her own life"

 

[MankaM]

Mmmhhh yani nakuwa mtumwa yan

 

[kui]

And had Jay Z swung at her, his career would have been over right then and there.

The double standard is more with the American society. Hitting a woman is considered a no-no but somehow a woman hitting a man is not condemned as much.
As far as I'm concerned, no one should get a pass when it comes to hitting. Condemnation ought to be meted out equally. But then again I know that in life, things aren't always fair.

Black folks can call themselves then N-word all they want but somehow someway others can't call them that. So go figure!
If the word was so offensive why call yourself that and then get bent out of shape when others of a different race use it?

There's no justification in hitting women PERIOD!, It doesn't matter who does it, from the top high to the bottom down, ni Ungese ni Ujinga ni Ufirauni ni everything you call kuingizwa, kwa ME to be precise!
There are reasonable ways to handle a fight (with women for this case) and any rational personal would choose that.

 

[MankaM]

Mmmhhh yani nakuwa mtumwa????? uwiiii huyo naye??? ashaona taa nyekundu lakin bado kaganda

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Well, kwenda shule si lazima 'kuwa na shule' she went to college yea, if she could stand on her she wouldn't have let him drag her to that point of knocking her out, she let him do that to her, and she victimized herself by not having a control of "her own life"

I don't think school or being educated (if that is what you are implying) has anything to do with anyone staying in an abusive relationship because people stay for a multitude of reasons.

There are plenty of 'educated' women and men (who make enough money to make it on their own) but who stay in abusive relationships.

And there are those who only have a GED but won't stay a second longer if you put your hands on them.

Those two scenarios render your point moot.

Therefore, I think, these things should be looked upon on a case by case basis rather than just broadly generalizing them.

 

[The Boss]

I don't think school or being educated (if that is what you are implying) has anything to do with anyone staying in an abusive relationship because people stay for a multitude of reasons.

There are plenty of 'educated' women and men (who make enough money to make it on their own) but who stay in abusive relationships.

And there are those who only have a GED but won't stay a second longer if you put your hands on them.

Those two scenarios render your point moot.

Therefore, I think, these things should be looked upon on a case by case basis rather than just broadly generalizing them.

Exactly .......

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

There's no justification in hitting women PERIOD!,

Okay, fair enough. On the flip-side, is there a justification for hitting men? Or for women hitting men? If so, what is that justification?

It doesn't matter who does it, from the top high to the bottom down, ni Ungese ni Ujinga ni Ufirauni ni everything you call kuingizwa, kwa ME to be precise!
There are reasonable ways to handle a fight (with women for this case) and any rational personal would choose that.

Hahahahaaa irrational hyperventilating!

You are only talking about men hitting women. But what about women hitting men? Do you think Solange was right attacking Jay Z the way she did?