Ladies, will you stay with an abusive man for money?

[ladykiokote]

Abusers ni kama players tu na wengi ni ma player...wanajua namna ya kuwaweka kwenye angle wanawake zao kiasi kwamba wakianza tabia ya kugawa kichapo; hawaondoki...

Wanawake wengine wanavumilia sababu walilelewa wakiona baba anamchapa mama...kaka anampiga dada..etc...

Mi siku ntakapopigwa kibao...ndio utakuwa mwisho...kwanza lazima nirudishie walau na mwiko kabla ya kufungasha virago...

Dah umenichekesha sana nyumbakubwa we tunaweza kukaa nyumba moja

 

[kui]

Abusers ni kama players tu na wengi ni ma player...wanajua namna ya kuwaweka kwenye angle wanawake zao kiasi kwamba wakianza tabia ya kugawa kichapo; hawaondoki...

Wanawake wengine wanavumilia sababu walilelewa wakiona baba anamchapa mama...kaka anampiga dada..etc...

Mi siku ntakapopigwa kibao...ndio utakuwa mwisho...kwanza lazima nirudishie walau na mwiko kabla ya kufungasha virago...

LOL!,..hahaaaa!, eti hata na mwiko,...lol!, umeona 'Madia's Family Reunion'? anafundisha jinsi ya kuwarudishia abusive men!,...it's funny!

 

[kui]

Kwa hiyo, kwa mtaji huo wewe unaona kuwa ni sahihi kwa mwanamke kumdunda mwanaume tani yake kwa sababu tu inaaminika kuwa "Mwanamke hawezi kutembeza kipigo cha maana kwa mwanaume"?

Women hitting men is okay, but men hitting women is never okay?

How about it is never okay for anyone to hit anyone?

.....and this's how it's supposed to be but, wewe ME na miguvu guvu Yako ukam chape KE?!....utachekesha!, better thing to do is to sit her down and talk like mature people

 

[Mahondaw]

That axiomatic fact still doesn't make it right for a woman to hit a man, period, end of sentence.

Domestic violence from anyone against anyone is bad any way you cut, slice, dice, or spin it.

Or what say you? Is it okay for women to hit men?

nop! its not okay kwakweli...twende mbele nakurudi nyuma....haikubaliki hii.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

.....and this's how it's supposed to be but, wewe ME na miguvu guvu Yako ukam chape KE?!....utachekesha!, better thing to do is to sit her down and talk like mature people

The best course of action is for both to put their emotions in check and not hit each other because it is never okay for anyone to hit anyone.

Women hitting men is just as bad as men hitting women because it doesn't solve or help anything. If anything, it makes things even worse.

Why would I smack the mother of my child upside the head or why would she do the same to me? Wrong is wrong no matter who does it.

If she is acting a fool I'll just ignore her and give her the silent treatment so long as she doesn't touch me.

 

[kui]

Wadada wengi tu wanapigwa na waume/wapenzi wao. Hawa wa MMU naona wao wanabahati ya kutopewa kichapo.

Hitting a lady shows how insecure a man is, but also some ladies gotta a certain attitude such that..it's hard to resist knocking them.

You'll be more respected if you'll be able to control yourself against her bad attitude!

 

[Mokoyo]

No.......binafsi I was born to hustle.......sasa huyo anayeninyanyasa sababu ya pesa ni nani.......?....nataka nimjue........

Mokoyo

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

nop! its not okay kwakweli...twende mbele nakurudi nyuma....haikubaliki hii.

That's my gal!

I owe you a cold one.....

 

[kui]

The best course of action is for both to put their emotions in check and not hit each other because it is never okay for anyone to hit anyone.

Women hitting men is just as bad as men hitting women because it doesn't solve or help anything. If anything, it makes things even worse.

Why would I smack the mother of my child upside the head or why would she do the same to me? Wrong is wrong no matter who does it.

If she is acting a fool I'll just ignore her and give her the silent treatment so long as she doesn't touch me.

What if she does, touch you?!

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

What if she does, touch you?!

My response will depend on how she touches me and it will be appropriate...

Say she is going after my eyes to gouge them out or she's holding a knife and charging at me....

Do you really think I'm not going to defend myself?

So given those hypothetical circumstances I'll do whatever it takes to defend myself and nothing will be out of bounds.

I got mouths to feed too and I'm not tired of living just yet.

 

[kui]

That axiomatic fact still doesn't make it right for a woman to hit a man, period, end of sentence.

Domestic violence from anyone against anyone is bad any way you cut, slice, dice, or spin it.

Or what say you? Is it okay for women to hit men?

Multiple times you are the ones who provoke us!, and if we hit, it's a 'hit back' and for a woman to come out swinging!, she's damaged and done!, emotionally.

 

[kui]

My response will depend on how she touches me and it will be appropriate...

Say she is going after my eyes to gouge them out or she's holding a knife and charging at me....

Do you really think I'm not going to defend myself?

So given those hypothetical circumstances I'll do whatever it takes to defend myself and nothing will be out of bounds.

I got mouths to feed too and I'm not tired of living just yet.

Defending yourself is one thing and there's a lot of ways to defend yourself like holding her but, hitting her just because she hit you?!, Naah!

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Multiple times you are the ones who provoke us!, and if we hit, it's a 'hit back' and for a woman to come out swinging!, she's damaged and done!, emotionally.

Welp, I'm not gonna play the blame game.

All I know is hitting is wrong and it should be discouraged and condemned.

 

[bibi.com]

Double standard ya American media...jay z alivyokuwa attack hakuna alie mlaani solange sanasana she is more famous...tiger wood alipigwa na mkewe no one talks about abuses....only kumlaani kwa cheating ...in this new world...men deserves all abuses...only to women ndo kesi...

Inaumiza ila ni kibao tu kimegeuka hata zamani makosa yote lawama zilikuwa zinabbebeshwa mwanamke. Mwanaume alikuwa ni malaika!

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Defending yourself is one thing and there's a lot of ways to defend yourself like holding her but, hitting her just because she hit you?!, Naah!

Don't start none won't be none.

And don't attack people and expect them not to defend themselves or expect them to defend themselves the way you want them to defend themselves.

In the heat of the moment there are no hard and fast rules to self-defense.

Violent people regardless of gender should not be given a pass.

 

[kui]

All I know is hitting is wrong and it should be discouraged and condemned.

• Don't start none won't be none.
  
  And don't attack people and expect them not to defend themselves or expect them to defend themselves the way you want them to defend themselves.
  
  In the heat of the moment there are no hard and fast rules to self-defense.
  
  Violent people regardless of gender should not be given a pass.

Agree, but men better be smart when it comes to defending themselves VS hitting a woman back, it's just not ok!

 

[nyumba kubwa]

LOL!,..hahaaaa!, eti hata na mwiko,...lol!, umeona 'Madia's Family Reunion'? anafundisha jinsi ya kuwarudishia abusive men!,...it's funny!

Nope; ndio nimeitafuta nataka nianze kuiangalia hivo...

 

[zimwimtu]

No.......binafsi I was born to hustle.......sasa huyo anayeninyanyasa sababu ya pesa ni nani.......?....nataka nimjue........

ha ha ha ha..., wewe kabisaaaa!!!! hapana labda mwingine. kila siku ndo comment zako zinalenga wanaume wenye hela, na kale ka picha kako ka wallet ilojaa dolali. we Preta na miss chaga mtakuwa wa mwisho kutoka kwa mwanaume mwenye pesa, hata mteswe vp mtakomaa pale pale. nyie iko penda hela sana.

 

[Preta]

ha ha ha ha..., wewe kabisaaaa!!!! hapana labda mwingine. kila siku ndo comment zako zinalenga wanaume wenye hela, na kale ka picha kako ka wallet ilojaa dolali. we Preta na miss chaga mtakuwa wa mwisho kutoka kwa mwanaume mwenye pesa, hata mteswe vp mtakomaa pale pale. nyie iko penda hela sana.

Ha ha ha.......za kuambiwa changanya na zako bobuu.........

 

[shansarie]

Double standard ya American media...jay z alivyokuwa attack hakuna alie mlaani solange sanasana she is more famous...tiger wood alipigwa na mkewe no one talks about abuses....only kumlaani kwa cheating ...in this new world...men deserves all abuses...only to women ndo kesi...

wanawake hoyee