Kupigiana simu kwa wanandoa

[To yeye]

Tutalifufua kwa Mafuta ya Upako

Thubutu

 

[To yeye]

Mm tunawasiliana through sms lkn no call yaani hata ile kumiss sauti ya mke wake?

Sad

 

[To yeye]

Kama Kansa unakufa taratibu

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Yaan ilikuwa balaa

 

[Macbook pro]

Aiseee....!!!

Mimi mvivu kuwasiliana mara Kwa mara pia na ni Ke. Nimevumiliwa nimechokwa, nimesemwa najikuta najitahidi ila siwezi.

So naweza sema labda kapata wa kumpigia na kumtext atakavyo au kaamua kunizoea.

Nawasiliana kukiwa na shida maalum inayohitaji kufanya hivyo na pia ni kutuma tu text, Kwa kweli kupiga ni mara chache mnoooooooo yaweza mwezi upite sijapiga.

Jamani muda wa kumisiana upatikane pia

Nakubaliana na wewe Mkuu, ila mtu anayejikosha hapa eti ni jambo la priority, mmh like serious!? Yaani eti kila ambaye anakua hakupigii simu mara kwa mara hajakuoa priority!?? Big No.
Na suala la kuwasiliana kwa simu wakati fulani linategemeana mambo mengi;
Mosi, Kazi unayofanya: Kuna makampuni simu huwa zinakabiziwa unapoingia na kupewa unapotoka kazini. Huyu anayefanya kazi za namna hii unaweza kumweka kwenye kundi la watu ambao hawajakupa kipaumbele.
Mbili, Wote mko na kazi au mmoja ana kazi mwingine mama wa nyumbani!?? Mgu ambaye hana kazi muda mwingi atapenda muongee sana labda masikini kijana wa watu kazi za qatu zinakuchosha sana unajikuta hata mood ya kuongea sana haipo lakini mwenzio akiwa hana akili kama huyu bata Bangida atasema hujampa kipaumbele. Kumbe masikini, unampenda na unampa kipaumbele sana ila sema mambo ni mengi na majukumu ya nyumbani yanakuchosha.
Tatu, Mapenzi ya kipindi tu mmeanza huwa yako moto na hiki anachokiandika huyu jamaa Bangida kinawezekana. Kila muda mtaongea na kuwasiliana mara kwa mara lakini mkisha zoeana kuna zile simu mnaongea lakini pia mnapeana space kwa ajili ya kila mtu kufanya kazi.
Kitu kibaya ambayi naweza ikuchukulia kitu hatari ni ile siku nzima imepita mwenzako hajakupigia hata mara mojana zinapita siku mbili au tatu. Na kimgine tutofautishe mapenzi ya majobless na watu ambao wanahangaika kutafuta mkate. Texting au Calls zinatosha kuwa means nzuri za kupashana taarifa na kujuliana hali.

 

[Samson Ernest]

Habarini za asubuhi wakuu, natumai ni wazima sana. Leo nina swali kwa wanandoa au wenye mahusiano ya mbali, mimi mume wangu siyo kwamba anafanya kazi nje ya mkoa ila amesafiri kikazi kwa muda tu ana kama karibia miezi 2.

Ila mwenzangu huyu hapigi simu ni ujumbe tu, sasa mimi hicho kitendo kinaniudhi sana na akipiga kidogo utasikia dk. zimeisha, sasa najiuliza dk. zimeisha anaongea na kina nani?

Sasa swali langu kwa wanandoa hasa wenye upendo na wake/waume/wapenzi wao, wanaweza kaa hata siku 3 bila kumpigia simu mwenza wake, yaani ni kawaida au kuna shida pahala?

Naomba maoni yenu hasa kwa wanaume waliokuwa makini na wake/wapenzi wao, namaanisha wenye upendo wa Agape.

Asipopiga simu piga wewe, akisema ameishiwa salio mpigie wewe. Uhai wa mahusiano yenu ni mawasiliano yenye afya.

 

[To yeye]

Tafuta kibenten akuondolee utoko, itaziba alfu uugue ufe uzikwe ikiwa nzima ina kilometa chache.

Sawa mkuu

 

[Macbook pro]

Nazidi kujifunza kila siku. Wengi wetu hii mitandao tunaichukua kama kuenjoy na tunapita lakin naamin kama uko conscious utazidi kubadilisha mtazamo juu ya mambo mengi.

Nilikuaga mtu mwenye pride sana yani ile ile. Nilikua kama wewe ndugu mleta mada. Kungoja kutumiwa message..kungoja kupigiwa..na tena namaind kabisa nisipotafutwa..tables turned aisee. Mbona nilinyooka.

Nikajifunza maturity is a very complex topic. Kuna mengi ya kubeba na kuacha along the road. Kuna mwandish aliandika akasema kama unaona mtu umeshasema juu ya jambo fulan na habadiliki badilika wewe.

Mpaka kumkubali kuwa nae it means alifit kwenye vigezo vya kuwa mume wako. Na uliahidi meng madhabahuni dada mzuri. Kwaiyo hii ndo katika shida yenyewe. Naomba umpende kama alivyo msela..usimuache. change your perception. Unapata vocha mpigie..muongee. inakuuma ongea nae mwambie. Asipobadilika badilisha mtazamo. Ona ni kitu cha kawaida kabisa. Kama anafanya majukumu yake na kukupenda ila hilo tu ndo dhaifu..basi mbebe...ndo dhaifu lake. Kama katika 100% ana 80% hiyo 20% ndo wewe sasa utaicover..

Usimfananishe na wanaume wengine eti kisa umeona fulan anapigiwa au flani alikua anampigia mpenzi wake basi na wewe unataka ufanyiwe ivo. Love sio pie (3.14) kwamba inafanana duniani kote. Kila mmoja ana namna anavyoexpress penz lake. Nakuaminia dada....be smart, be unique. Be more than ruby.

Well said Juan! Sending my hug . Kuna mtu hapo anataka kumpotosha eti kwamba ni suala la priority tu. Tuko tofauti tofauti, kila mmoja anayomazuri na madhaifu yake. Na ukiishi kwa kulinganisha hakika ndoa yao itakua ya shida. Unakuta analinganisha vile Bodaboda anavyompigia mara kwa mara zaidi hata ya mume wake, so sad.

 

[Mia ya noti]

Kuna MTU ananisugua mkuu

Acha kuficha Jimbo hiloo😂

 

[Bangida]

Nakubaliana na wewe Mkuu, ila mtu anayejikosha hapa eti ni jambo la priority, mmh like serious!? Yaani eti kila ambaye anakua hakupigii simu mara kwa mara hajakuoa priority!?? Big No.
Na suala la kuwasiliana kwa simu wakati fulani linategemeana mambo mengi;
Mosi, Kazi unayofanya: Kuna makampuni simu huwa zinakabiziwa unapoingia na kupewa unapotoka kazini. Huyu anayefanya kazi za namna hii unaweza kumweka kwenye kundi la watu ambao hawajakupa kipaumbele.
Mbili, Wote mko na kazi au mmoja ana kazi mwingine mama wa nyumbani!?? Mgu ambaye hana kazi muda mwingi atapenda muongee sana labda masikini kijana wa watu kazi za qatu zinakuchosha sana unajikuta hata mood ya kuongea sana haipo lakini mwenzio akiwa hana akili kama huyu bata Bangida atasema hujampa kipaumbele. Kumbe masikini, unampenda na unampa kipaumbele sana ila sema mambo ni mengi na majukumu ya nyumbani yanakuchosha.
Tatu, Mapenzi ya kipindi tu mmeanza huwa yako moto na hiki anachokiandika huyu jamaa Bangida kinawezekana. Kila muda mtaongea na kuwasiliana mara kwa mara lakini mkisha zoeana kuna zile simu mnaongea lakini pia mnapeana space kwa ajili ya kila mtu kufanya kazi.
Kitu kibaya ambayi naweza ikuchukulia kitu hatari ni ile siku nzima imepita mwenzako hajakupigia hata mara mojana zinapita siku mbili au tatu. Na kimgine tutofautishe mapenzi ya majobless na watu ambao wanahangaika kutafuta mkate. Texting au Calls zinatosha kuwa means nzuri za kupashana taarifa na kujuliana hali.

My nigga, take a chill pill.. mbona povu sana Negro? Nan kakushika wezere?
Ishu n kwamba you are blabbing arnd maneno meeengi bila point ya msingi.
U mean to tell me kwenye siku ya masaa 24 unakosa 15 minutes za kuongea na mtu?
As i said, most calls ha,ifiki hata dk 5, but its a way to show someone kua pamoja na kua uko na hectic day, u stil thinkin about them.
So mkuu, il be honest with you, im not here kutafta bebez, im in a happy relationship kwa muda mref sana na sio tabia yangu kutafta mahusiano mtandaoni. Kama umetoswa huko PM ni wewe mkuu.
Pambana na shida zako

 

[Macbook pro]

My nigga, take a chill pill.. mbona povu sana Negro? Nan kakushika wezere?
Ishu n kwamba you are blabbing arnd maneno meeengi bila point ya msingi.
U mean to tell me kwenye siku ya masaa 24 unakosa 15 minutes za kuongea na mtu?
As i said, most calls ha,ifiki hata dk 5, but its a way to show someone kua pamoja na kua uko na hectic day, u stil thinkin about them.
So mkuu, il be honest with you, im not here kutafta bebez, im in a happy relationship kwa muda mref sana na sio tabia yangu kutafta mahusiano mtandaoni. Kama umetoswa huko PM ni wewe mkuu.
Pambana na shida zako

The middle finger suits you idiot! Upinde wa mvua wewe, kama wewe unashikwa tako na kupakuliwa tope tulia huko huko. Nifuate PM for what reason!? Sikatai uko kwenye mahusiano cuz unatako laini ambalo huwa wanaume wanakupapasa ndio maana kimekua kitu cha kwanza kukiwaza. Stupid man is as alway a stupid. Kalia gunzi kama unaona Bwana ako hakutoshi maana naona u awashwa na unakuja na pigo zako za kiboya. Eti, it's matter of priority. Period
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[2sexy]

Insecurity hiyo inakusumbua
Wewe ukijisikia kumpigia mpigie hata mara kumi kama hapokei hapo shida nyingne

 

[Juandeglo]

Well said Juan! Sending my hug . Kuna mtu hapo anataka kumpotosha eti kwamba ni suala la priority tu. Tuko tofauti tofauti, kila mmoja anayomazuri na madhaifu yake. Na ukiishi kwa kulinganisha hakika ndoa yao itakua ya shida. Unakuta analinganisha vile Bodaboda anavyompigia mara kwa mara zaidi hata ya mume wake, so sad.

Well said..nimegain tena kwa point hii braza. Maisha yana namna yanatuhumble. Sometimes tunajikuta tuna principles..sijui ndo levels...tunasepa from reality.

Em tuchukulie kwamba tulikua kwa wazazi. Kwan kila kitu cha mzaz tulikipenda nope..lakin ilibidi tutii kwa sabab ni mamlaka. Wengne mama zetu walikua ni moto wa kuotea mbali lakin ndo tunatii maana tuko chin ya mamlaka zao.

Sasa hao ni wazazi lakin tulijifunza kuendanan na vle wanataka. Na tukawin. Sasa tumekutana na hawa partner ukubwan..kuna mambo inabidi tuadjust kabisaa...yani bila kujifunza kuadjust haya maisha utapata tabu sana...maana we umekulia kigoma mwenzako kakulia pwani. Mwanamke ndo hujenga nyumba.

Ukikutana na cement tofauti endana nayo. Kanuni za ujenz ni zilezile...ziko katika tamaduni, mila, vitabu vya dini...mtafute muumba wako siku za ujana wako...kama hii sector ni ya kiMungu then consult God through the books. Utapata maelekezo. Siongei kwamba najua sana. Najifunza kama wewe. Kama itakusaidia beba dear. Kama mbaya..achana nayo tupa kule.

 

[Bangida]

The middle finger suits you idiot! Upinde wa mvua wewe, kama wewe unashikwa tako na kupakuliwa tope tulia huko huko. Nifuate PM for what reason!? Sikatai uko kwenye mahusiano cuz unatako laini ambalo huwa wanaume wanakupapasa ndio maana kimekua kitu cha kwanza kukiwaza. Stupid man is as alway a stupid. Kalia gunzi kama unaona Bwana ako hakutoshi maana naona u awashwa na unakuja na pigo zako za kiboya. Eti, it's matter of priority. Period
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Things iv noticed.
1. You are a weak man who seeks validation and attention thru kutukana watu. A real man argues with facts n not curses. Usiendelee kujiaibisha in public
2. Watever i said, made you realize your insecurities and why you have been failing kwenye relationships zako. Thats why imekuuma.
So, i wont sit here n argue with you. Do wat you want n speak wat u want.

 

[Macbook pro]

Things iv noticed.
1. You are a weak man who seeks validation and attention thru kutukana watu. A real man argues with facts n not curses. Usiendelee kujiaibisha in public
2. Watever i said, made you realize your insecurities and why you have been failing kwenye relationships zako. Thats why imekuuma.
So, i wont sit here n argue with you. Do wat you want n speak wat u want.

Stupid young man, come sit on middle finger mf.

 

[Macbook pro]

Things iv noticed.
1. You are a weak man who seeks validation and attention thru kutukana watu. A real man argues with facts n not curses. Usiendelee kujiaibisha in public
2. Watever i said, made you realize your insecurities and why you have been failing kwenye relationships zako. Thats why imekuuma.
So, i wont sit here n argue with you. Do wat you want n speak wat u want.

Come a d eat my shit you little shit of Pig. Eti you are weak, come in person and see how am gonna satisfy your two holes(mouth n but ) to the Hell. Don't ever reply to me you mf

 

[Mlatino Zeshalo]

Mimi sipendi kupokea simu, yani sipendi nadhani kuna watu walishachoka kunipigia

 

[Nyambiza jr]

Kuna wTu wavivu kupiga simu. So kwa ufupi Uwe unampigia simu ww

umefunga uzi kweli hata mm nina tabia hiyo

 

[Macbook pro]

Mimi sipendi kupokea simu, yani sipendi nadhani kuna watu walishachoka kunipigia

Poleee mkuu, i awezekana kuna sababu kwanini upo hivyo.

 

[Mlatino Zeshalo]

Poleee mkuu, i awezekana kuna sababu kwanini upo hivyo.

Sababu kama ipo basi bado sijaijua. Lakini mwanzo nilianza kupenda kupiga simu mimi na siyo kupigiwa badae nikaanza kuwa mvivu kupiga na hatimae nikaacha kabisa. Texts ndo kabisa mvivu kujibu. Sasa hivi napiga simu nikiwa nashida ya MUHIMU SANA, kupokea mara nyingi napokea namba ngeni maana nimeapply sana kazi

 

[Aidanna]

Me naona ni weakness yake tu...
Binafsi mm sipendi kuchat chat.. mtu unashida na mm piga simu, nina shida nakupigiaaaaaa...
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