Kazi yangu ndio mume wangu

Kazi yangu ndio mume wangu

Kwa hakika mwanaume aliyekamilika na anayejitambua kamwe hawezi kuwa hivyo kwa kuwa inafahamika kuwa ni jukumu la mwanaume kutunza familia....lakini dada yangu siku hizi kidogo mambo yamebadilika wanawake nao wanajishughulisha sasa kuna ugumu gani kusaidiana na mwenzio katika mambo madogo madogo kama hayo.....??...kwa mfano utamuombaje mumeo hela ya pedi ikiwa nawe umaingiza kipato.....unapogoma kuchangia au kulipa ada ya mtoto wenu wakati unatambua kuwa mumeo yupo kwenye kipindi kigumu kifedha unadhani unamkomoa nani....???
Ndoa ni kusaidiana na kuthaminiana.....
Napata tabu kujua huo usawa mnaoulilia sijui unalenga nini....??.maana kwa maoni yangu ingetakiwa usawa muuonyeshe hapo kwenye kukabiliana na majukumu ya kifamilia....na sio kwenye mambo ya kipuuzi......

Akichangia, hand bag ya laki mbili na wigi la gharama atalipiaje? Unataka kazini muda wa breakfast na lunch aonekane ye mtu wa kawaida kuonekana anakula mgahawa wa pembeni local na sio kuagiza kile cha kule steers?

Asante Mungu yeye si mke wangu.
 
Nani nasema kuheshimiana kuwe one way street? If i love you it's obvious I'll respect you. Here's the problem that I've observed in most married couples, wives don't wanna share what they earn with their families. Ile dhana tuliyokuwa nayo zamani kuwa 100% inatoka kwa baba wanaume hawaitaki tena coz most of you guys have earnings nowadays, sasa kama una kipato kwa nini unamuacha mumeo aote mvi pekeye...wakati yawezekana kabisa yeye ana earn 500k na wewe una earn 1.5mk.

Wasaidieni waume zetu kujenga familia bora, msiwaache wabebe mizigo peke yao. Azawaiz mnakuwa singo mnaanza kusema kazi ndio mume wenu..teh!

Natumia simu mkuu. Sioni kitufe cha LIKE. Imekaa poa sana
 
Kaka nilichoona hapa jukwaan ni kwamba, wanaume ambao mnajitambua hamtaki kuamin kama hawa watu wapo lakin kaka amin usiamin wanaume wengi wa sasa ni tegemezi, huwez kuwaona kwasababu wew mnaonana kupiga story tu ila sis ambao tunaishi nao tunawajua, huwez amin kaka mim nilikutana na hili hapo nyuma, niliishi na mtu kila siku ananiambia unajua mim napokea mshahara mdogo kuliko wew mi wala sikuwa na tatizo na kwakua kunawakati alichua mkopo mi nilikuwa nafanya majukumu yote nyumban bila kinyongo zaid ya miaka 2, sasa kuna siku alisahau akarudi na salary slip mim wakati nafua nikaiona, kuangalia mshahara wake nilitaka kuzimi maana alikuwa anapokea mara 4 ya mshahara wangu, aliporudi nikamuuliza sana labda anajenga anajibu hapana,nikamwambia hii hela unaipeleka wapi akasema ooh wakati mwingine rafik zangu wananiazima. sikupata shida sana maana nilijua ni bingwa wa round bar na kurudi na matus nyumban. kwa hy kuwa tegemez sio kwamba mtu hana uwezo la! ila ni hali ya wanaume kujifanya hajui majukumu. naona umenielewa

sidhan kama kuna mwanamke anayeomba hela ya ped, mafuta, pichu, sijui kusuka kwa mwanaume, sipingi ila siamin kwa dhama hzi, mim najua mwanaume anaombwa "baby tuajenge au unasemaje, mwenzio namechoka kupanga au baby tutafute biashara ya kuongeza kipato"

Hapa umenena my dada. Hope kwingine unatumia hasira.
 
sikia wewe mgiriki mapenzi ni kuheshimiana pamoja na kusaidiana sasa demu mkigombana kidogo anakuambia kazi yangu ndio mume...ambae hana kazi atasema hivyo kweli?

Anamaanisha kwamba haumbabaishi chochote kwa 7bu haoni mchango wako wowote kwenye maisha yake,anaweza kuendesha maisha pasipo kuwa na wewe kwa sababu kazi yake inampa support,cha msingi timiza majikumu kama vitabu vya dini vilivyoandika.
 
Mda ambao mwanaume anatakiwa kusimama sehemu yake na mwanamke anasimamia wapi???

Samahani, Naomba kukuuliza, umeolewa?? Au umewahi kuolewa???

Nashindwa nikujibu nn, maana sielew hujaelewa wapi,

Ninaposema wanaume wasimame sehemu yao sio kwamba mwanamke akae asuburi kupokea namaanisha mume na mke wote watoe mchango ili maisha yaende, ninachokataa mim ni tabia ya mwanaume kumtegemea mwanamke afanye kila kitu nyumban yey pesa zake zakujengea heshima bar, Sijisikii kuongea zaid maana nishaelezea sana walioelewa wameelewa.

Suala la mim kuolewa, nimeolewa miaka 35 iliyopita na nina wajukuu wakubwa kama wew
 
Anamaanisha kwamba haumbabaishi chochote kwa 7bu haoni mchango wako wowote kwenye maisha yake,anaweza kuendesha maisha pasipo kuwa na wewe kwa sababu kazi yake inampa support,cha msingi timiza majikumu kama vitabu vya dini vilivyoandika.

Asante sana, muwe mnawafafanulia hvo hvo wanaume wenzenu ambao wanajifanya wamejitoa Ufahamu, hapo kisichoeleweka nin? hadi watu wanakurukupuka kwa jazba, kama mwanaume hasimami sehemu yake lazima hii mada impe shida.
 
..that's why you gotta be careful on your choices, don't just fall for a man coz he's got balls...! during courtship, you gotta talk about everything, including career & profession..be sure that you understand each other well, have a lot in common then you can make a second step..that's the meaning of courtship na sio kufanya research kama aweza kudinyana tu ili awe mume..NOPE...!

Wapo wasaiopenda wake zao wafanye kazi, lakini je wanaweza kuwahudumia 200%, most of the time the answer is NO! And if you sacrificed your life ili usome na kuwa na career, kwa nini leo mtu anakukuta ukubwani anakukataza usifanye kazi?? Akifa je, anaweza kukuachia rasilimali za kuiendeleza familia?

Eli79.....na nyie ME lakini wakati mwengine mnakuwaga na mawivu ya ajabuu, you reminded me of my male friend who doesn't want his wife to work for un believable stupid reason thinking that her male co workers might flirt with her, the lady is drop dead gorgeous, no kiddin'!, college educated and everything but no freedom, yaani the moment she signed those papers to take that man to be her "jail" she was signing for her freedom to be taken away!, sa mambo gani hayo!....the guy IS able provide but mh!
 
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Compromise kui, compromise bidada..! how many are you going to show the way out?
..sometimes you'll have to choose ''his way'' to keep the ship sailing...
siku nyingine yeye ndo atachagua kufata njia yako....!

...honey the ship will sail wether his behind is around or not!, as long as he ain't the Captai?!...the ship will keep floating!
Nyie ME mnapikika basii, a girl can use all spices you know in this world to spice things up lakini ndo kwaaanza.....
Mambo ya kukompromaizi mwanzo na kulea mabaya halafu munaingia kwenye ndoa and then you start acting up, and if I say something!, you tell me I signed for it??!...na ah!
I will compromise when it's absolutely necessarily to do so!, otherwise...baai!
 
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Anamaanisha kwamba haumbabaishi chochote kwa 7bu haoni mchango wako wowote kwenye maisha yake,anaweza kuendesha maisha pasipo kuwa na wewe kwa sababu kazi yake inampa support,cha msingi timiza majikumu kama vitabu vya dini vilivyoandika.

The best answer!
 
Nashindwa nikujibu nn, maana sielew hujaelewa wapi,

Ninaposema wanaume wasimame sehemu yao sio kwamba mwanamke akae asuburi kupokea namaanisha mume na mke wote watoe mchango ili maisha yaende, ninachokataa mim ni tabia ya mwanaume kumtegemea mwanamke afanye kila kitu nyumban yey pesa zake zakujengea heshima bar, Sijisikii kuongea zaid maana nishaelezea sana walioelewa wameelewa.

Suala la mim kuolewa, nimeolewa miaka 35 iliyopita na nina wajukuu wakubwa kama wew

Ahahahaa! Wajukuu wakubwa kama mimi!!!!

Kwa hapa nimekuelewa "Bibi Yangu". From today nami ni mjukuu wako.
 
Tatizo sio pesa kwanini awe na kiburi kisa tu anakazi. Yaan haonyeshi heshima kwa mwanaume wala kutimiza wajibu kama mwanamke ndani ya nyuma...

Nani anakiburi huyo?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
 
Tumewasikia wengi wakitoa kauli hiyo. Mara nyingi ni wale ambao hawajapata wenza wanaowataka. Na tumeshuhudia wengi pia wanakana kauli zao hizo baada ya kuwa kwenye mahusiano na wanaowapenda.
 
Kazi ni kazi na mume ni mume......ingawa mume huweza kuwa kazi.Ndukiiiiiiiii
 
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