Kazi yangu ndio mume wangu

[ERoni]

Kaka kwani mtu kusema kazi yangu ndio mume wangu ni dharau? je angemwambia boss wangu ndio mme wangu hiyo ingekuwa heshima? mim sifurahii binadam yoyote kumdharam mtu, ila sipendi mwanaume mzima anapokuwa tegemezi hiyo tabia naipiga vita kwasababu wanawake tupo wengi sana, sasa mwanaume kupenda kuhudumiwa mjin hapa ataolewa na kufanya wadada waendelee kukosa ndoa. mwanaume anatakiwa kusimama sehemu yake

Apologise lady, is it a personal issue? Talk to him...let him know how you're troubled. Badala ya kuilalamikia dunia ongea nae, you seem troubled bidada..!

 

[kui]

Hayo ni maneno ya mfa maji mie nadhani, hana option zaidi ya kuithaminisha kazi yake na mume...coz that's what she's got.

puh! Leez!,.....nyie ME wa kuaminika siku hizi mpaka nisithamini na kuwa serious na kazi yangu kwa ajili ya ME?!, na pia kama naweza fanya kazi kwa nini ni kiss @$$ na nitegemee ME?! Also, kuheshimiana ktk mapenzi should be a two way street without discriminating on who wear bigger pants in the house, and FYI, by me valuing my job over you!, I can have both, YOU, the job and freedom to do WHATEVER!, stay around but am not going to value you over my job, after all,

The house I live in, I depend on Me!
The car am driving, I depend on Me!
The thong am wearing, I depend on Me!

 

[Mgirik]

Huu ndo ushamba sasa
Kwan mtu unatafuta mwanamke msomi au inatokea tu? Jiongeze mama

ona sasa inatokea tu kiaje?

 

[KikulachoChako]

Kaka kwani mtu kusema kazi yangu ndio mume wangu ni dharau? je angemwambia boss wangu ndio mme wangu hiyo ingekuwa heshima? mim sifurahii binadam yoyote kumdharam mtu, ila sipendi mwanaume mzima anapokuwa tegemezi hiyo tabia naipiga vita kwasababu wanawake tupo wengi sana, sasa mwanaume kupenda kuhudumiwa mjin hapa ataolewa na kufanya wadada waendelee kukosa ndoa. mwanaume anatakiwa kusimama sehemu yake

Kwa hakika mwanaume aliyekamilika na anayejitambua kamwe hawezi kuwa hivyo kwa kuwa inafahamika kuwa ni jukumu la mwanaume kutunza familia....lakini dada yangu siku hizi kidogo mambo yamebadilika wanawake nao wanajishughulisha sasa kuna ugumu gani kusaidiana na mwenzio katika mambo madogo madogo kama hayo.....??...kwa mfano utamuombaje mumeo hela ya pedi ikiwa nawe umaingiza kipato.....unapogoma kuchangia au kulipa ada ya mtoto wenu wakati unatambua kuwa mumeo yupo kwenye kipindi kigumu kifedha unadhani unamkomoa nani....???
Ndoa ni kusaidiana na kuthaminiana.....
Napata tabu kujua huo usawa mnaoulilia sijui unalenga nini....??.maana kwa maoni yangu ingetakiwa usawa muuonyeshe hapo kwenye kukabiliana na majukumu ya kifamilia....na sio kwenye mambo ya kipuuzi......

 

[ERoni]

puh! Leez!,.....nyie ME wa kuaminika siku hizi mpaka nisiwe serious na kazi yangu kwa ajili ya ME?!, I don't think I'll choose you over my job, kuheshimiana ktk mapenzi should be a two way street and FYI, the dude is around but at the same time,........

The house I live in, I depend on Me!
The car am driving, I depend on Me!
The thong am wearing, I depend on Me!

Nani nasema kuheshimiana kuwe one way street? If i love you it's obvious I'll respect you. Here's the problem that I've observed in most married couples, wives don't wanna share what they earn with their families. Ile dhana tuliyokuwa nayo zamani kuwa 100% inatoka kwa baba wanaume hawaitaki tena coz most of you guys have earnings nowadays, sasa kama una kipato kwa nini unamuacha mumeo aote mvi pekeye...wakati yawezekana kabisa yeye ana earn 500k na wewe una earn 1.5mk.

Wasaidieni waume zetu kujenga familia bora, msiwaache wabebe mizigo peke yao. Azawaiz mnakuwa singo mnaanza kusema kazi ndio mume wenu..teh!

 

[Apologise lady]

Kwa hakika mwanaume aliyekamilika na anayejitambua kamwe hawezi kuwa hivyo kwa kuwa inafahamika kuwa ni jukumu la mwanaume kutunza familia....lakini dada yangu siku hizi kidogo mambo yamebadilika wanawake nao wanajishughulisha sasa kuna ugumu gani kusaidiana na mwenzio katika mambo madogo madogo kama hayo.....??...kwa mfano utamuombaje mumeo hela ya pedi ikiwa nawe umaingiza kipato.....unapogoma kuchangia au kulipa ada ya mtoto wenu wakati unatambua kuwa mumeo yupo kwenye kipindi kigumu kifedha unadhani unamkomoa nani....???
Ndoa ni kusaidiana na kuthaminiana.....
Napata tabu kujua huo usawa mnaoulilia sijui unalenga nini....??.maana kwa maoni yangu ingetakiwa usawa muuonyeshe hapo kwenye kukabiliana na majukumu ya kifamilia....na sio kwenye mambo ya kipuuzi......

Kaka nilichoona hapa jukwaan ni kwamba, wanaume ambao mnajitambua hamtaki kuamin kama hawa watu wapo lakin kaka amin usiamin wanaume wengi wa sasa ni tegemezi, huwez kuwaona kwasababu wew mnaonana kupiga story tu ila sis ambao tunaishi nao tunawajua, huwez amin kaka mim nilikutana na hili hapo nyuma, niliishi na mtu kila siku ananiambia unajua mim napokea mshahara mdogo kuliko wew mi wala sikuwa na tatizo na kwakua kunawakati alichua mkopo mi nilikuwa nafanya majukumu yote nyumban bila kinyongo zaid ya miaka 2, sasa kuna siku alisahau akarudi na salary slip mim wakati nafua nikaiona, kuangalia mshahara wake nilitaka kuzimi maana alikuwa anapokea mara 4 ya mshahara wangu, aliporudi nikamuuliza sana labda anajenga anajibu hapana,nikamwambia hii hela unaipeleka wapi akasema ooh wakati mwingine rafik zangu wananiazima. sikupata shida sana maana nilijua ni bingwa wa round bar na kurudi na matus nyumban. kwa hy kuwa tegemez sio kwamba mtu hana uwezo la! ila ni hali ya wanaume kujifanya hajui majukumu. naona umenielewa

sidhan kama kuna mwanamke anayeomba hela ya ped, mafuta, pichu, sijui kusuka kwa mwanaume, sipingi ila siamin kwa dhama hzi, mim najua mwanaume anaombwa "baby tuajenge au unasemaje, mwenzio namechoka kupanga au baby tutafute biashara ya kuongeza kipato"

 

[kui]

Nani nasema kuheshimiana kuwe one way street? If i love you it's obvious I'll respect you. Here's the problem that I've observed in most married couples, wives don't wanna share what they earn with their families. Ile dhana tuliyokuwa nayo zamani kuwa 100% inatoka kwa baba wanaume hawaitaki tena coz most of you guys have earnings nowadays, sasa kama una kipato kwa nini unamuacha mumeo aote mvi pekeye...wakati yawezekana kabisa yeye ana earn 500k na wewe una earn 1.5mk.

Wasaidieni waume zetu kujenga familia bora, msiwaache wabebe mizigo peke yao. Azawaiz mnakuwa singo mnaanza kusema kazi ndio mume wenu..teh!

so your message about sharing responsibilities's directed to married women right?!, then that's okay!, but then single women can do whatever they want to do with their money, and relate their work however they want to themselves, they can call it their hubby, their honey or anything since,....they're single anyways!, what's the problem??!!!

 

[MadameX]

mwanamke anaotoa usemi huu...ni dalili kubwa kuwa na mashaka na mahusiano yenu. Simply she doesnt see you as husdband material hasa kwenye upande wa majukumu.....yaani atafanya yote lakini hachezi na kazi yake ambao ni tegezi na faraja kubwa kwake.

 

[Apologise lady]

Apologise lady, is it a personal issue? Talk to him...let him know how you're troubled. Badala ya kuilalamikia dunia ongea nae, you seem troubled bidada..!

Umeninukuu vibaya bro, ilikuwa zaman hyo wakati bado bint miaka ya 90 hadi sasa 2014 nitaongeaje nae, nilishajiongeza sikunyingi na babu yako anayejua majukumu nipo happy na wajuu wangu mie, nikasema nije niwape wajukuu zangu changamoto, pamoja kaka

 

[angelita]

Tatizo mnavaa viatu sio size zenu, lazima viwapwaye.

 

[ERoni]

so your message about sharing responsibilities's directed to married women right?!, then that's okay!, but then single women can do whatever they want to do with their money, and relate their work however they want to themselves, they can call it their hubby, their honey or anything since,....they're single anyways!, what's the problem??!!!

Of course kui..my message is not directed to concubines and those one night stands that pips have. Even a mere girlfriend isn't my responsibility...I'd be supportive to her when necessary, otherwise her income is her business I wouldn't wanna know how much she earns coz it doesn't concern me. Hata mke wangu siwezi kuuliza ovyo eti mshahara haujaingia..that's bullshit to say the least. Kama hujaolewa usilalamike coz huyo jamaa hana dhamana wala jukumu kwako, kama anakupa its a favor. Buy thongs, drive a nice car, live in a mansion just coz you can afford, not at the expense of a "passerby"

 

[Ennie]

Inferiority complex hizi....

Na limeshakuwa gonjwa sugu sasa,mpaka wanakera!!!

 

[ERoni]

Umeninukuu vibaya bro, ilikuwa zaman hyo wakati bado bint miaka ya 90 hadi sasa 2014 nitaongeaje nae, nilishajiongeza sikunyingi na babu yako anayejua majukumu nipo happy na wajuu wangu mie, nikasema nije niwape wajukuu zangu changamoto, pamoja kaka

Babu yangu...we mtoto acha kunitukana..teh! Pamoja sana bidada, usimvunje babu mbavu kunako pembe sita...mwenzako keshachoka tayari.

 

[brenda18]

Haaahaaaah, hawakomi bado wamo tuu na ushaur wanaomba. Ts cmple, jiongezen tafuta HELA.

Hahahaa si unaona uzi wako waliupinga huku wanakuja kulialia, huyu akiwa mume wangu mbona angekuja kulia humu sana..... Mtu kapanic mpaka anashindwa kuandika vizuri

 

[OLESAIDIMU]

Hivi mwanamke anakusumbuaje mpaka maisha yasimame???!!
Mbona kuna wanawake wengi waelewa na wana nidhamu sana, kama umegundua umelamba galasa tupa kule get on and live your ways!!!!

Watu wanalewa daily na hawana viwanda vya pombe we unashindwaje kupata partner wa kusukuma naye siku???!

Labda mnachukulia ndoa kama lazima sawa ila ikiwa ngumu achana nayo tunza wanao keep going ukiwa too soft maisha utaishi kumridhisha huyo mke au mme!!!

 

[KikulachoChako]

Kaka nilichoona hapa jukwaan ni kwamba, wanaume ambao mnajitambua hamtaki kuamin kama hawa watu wapo lakin kaka amin usiamin wanaume wengi wa sasa ni tegemezi, huwez kuwaona kwasababu wew mnaonana kupiga story tu ila sis ambao tunaishi nao tunawajua, huwez amin kaka mim nilikutana na hili hapo nyuma, niliishi na mtu kila siku ananiambia unajua mim napokea mshahara mdogo kuliko wew mi wala sikuwa na tatizo na kwakua kunawakati alichua mkopo mi nilikuwa nafanya majukumu yote nyumban bila kinyongo zaid ya miaka 2, sasa kuna siku alisahau akarudi na salary slip mim wakati nafua nikaiona, kuangalia mshahara wake nilitaka kuzimi maana alikuwa anapokea mara 4 ya mshahara wangu, aliporudi nikamuuliza sana labda anajenga anajibu hapana,nikamwambia hii hela unaipeleka wapi akasema ooh wakati mwingine rafik zangu wananiazima. sikupata shida sana maana nilijua ni bingwa wa round bar na kurudi na matus nyumban. kwa hy kuwa tegemez sio kwamba mtu hana uwezo la! ila ni hali ya wanaume kujifanya hajui majukumu. naona umenielewa

sidhan kama kuna mwanamke anayeomba hela ya ped, mafuta, pichu, sijui kusuka kwa mwanaume, sipingi ila siamin kwa dhama hzi, mim najua mwanaume anaombwa "baby tuajenge au unasemaje, mwenzio namechoka kupanga au baby tutafute biashara ya kuongeza kipato"

Pole sana dada yangu kwa hakika ulipitia kipindi kigumu sana na huyo jamaa asiyejitambua....labda niseme tu kuwa ulikutana mtu asiye sahihi kwako...na hiyo haimaanishi kuwa wanaume wote tupo.......nakushauri achana na wavulana.....tafuta mtu mzima mwenye akili zake timamu.....kwanza ngoja nikuibie siri sisi wanaume kwa maana ya uanaume huwa tunajisikia fahari sana tunapotimiza majukumu yetu....tena mpaka vijiweni tunakuwa na sauti kwa kuwa unajiamini nyumbani kupo freshi......kwa hiyo tafuta mwanaume anayejisikia fahari kumtunza mkewe kama malikia................vile vile pia nyie wadada wa siku hizi mna sababu za kijinga pindi mnapochagua wenza wenu.....utasikia nataka six pack.....mara oooh nataka mwanaume mrefu and handsome....sasa huyo mwenye six pack muda wote anashinda gym ili kumaintain mwili wake atafanya kazi saa ili aweze kukuhudumia wewe....???........BADILIKENI WADADA....

 

[kui]

Of course kui..my message is not directed to concubines and those one night stands that pips have. Even a mere girlfriend isn't my responsibility...I'd be supportive to her when necessary, otherwise her income is her business I wouldn't wanna know how much she earns coz it doesn't concern me. Hata mke wangu siwezi kuuliza ovyo eti mshahara haujaingia..that's bullshit to say the least. Kama hujaolewa usilalamike coz huyo jamaa hana dhamana wala jukumu kwako, kama anakupa its a favor. Buy thongs, drive a nice car, live in a mansion just coz you can afford, not at the expense of a "passerby"

Peerfectoo!, sasa tumeelewana, the first message wasn't specific, and this one right here,....."jamaa hana dhamana wala jukumu kwako"......this worth some greens!
I came out defensive cause, sisi KE are being over stereotyped!, yaani hakuna jema tufanyalo likaonekana jema, usiposhugulika ukawa stay at home mom,(the way some husbands want) utanangwa,...and from what I got here, if you're a professional, career woman ndo kama hivi unanangwa, like what do you guys want us to do. ...lol?!

 

[kui]

Of course kui..my message is not directed to concubines and those one night stands that pips have. Even a mere girlfriend isn't my responsibility...I'd be supportive to her when necessary, otherwise her income is her business I wouldn't wanna know how much she earns coz it doesn't concern me. Hata mke wangu siwezi kuuliza ovyo eti mshahara haujaingia..that's bullshit to say the least. Kama hujaolewa usilalamike coz huyo jamaa hana dhamana wala jukumu kwako, kama anakupa its a favor. Buy thongs, drive a nice car, live in a mansion just coz you can afford, not at the expense of a "passerby"

.....true, and if he misbehave or do something I don't like, I won't cling to him but I'll make him choose either my way or the other way that leads to the "outside" door!

 

[Qtee]

Kama wewe ni sperm donor kwanini kazi yangu isiwe mume wangu

 

[Apologise lady]

Babu yangu...we mtoto acha kunitukana..teh! Pamoja sana bidada, usimvunje babu mbavu kunako pembe sita...mwenzako keshachoka tayari.

We! we! we! babu yako yupo fiti kunako 6×6 acha kabisa, yaani sitaki nikuueleze sana maana usije ukaiba maujuz ya kumuonyesha mwali wangu, ila babu ni nouma, miaka 60 kama anamiaka 27 vile. ngombe hazeki main mjukuu,