Hatua tano apitiazo mwanamke baada ya break up Vs mbili apitiazo mwanaume

[gileun]

Wanawake:
1. Kukasirika sana (Anger)
2. Kuukataa ukweli (Denying)
3. Kumpunguza thamani ampendaye kwa kuongelea negative sides
zake (Bargaining)
4. Kuwa na mawazo mengi (depression)
5. Kujipendezesha Zaidi/kujaribu kutafta mwanaume bora zaidi
(Making a better self/trying to meet a better man).

Kwa wanaume ni tofauti:
1. Self-destruction signs are shown (Hupunguza kujijali na hata kujidhuru sometimes) or
2. Much more distressed (Kuwa na mawazo mengi sana kulinganisha na mwanamke) they suffer great pain than women due to unbearable loss!
Je, kuna ukweli wowote hapa?

 

[FatherOfAllSnipers]

Kwanza tofautisha kati ya baharia na mwanaume.
Mimi kama mwanaume baharia Hatua hizo sijawahi zipitia, hizo wanapitia wamama.

 

[BROKE BOYS]

Me sinaga huo muda hata ukijinunisha ndo sina habar, aisha yupo nitachat nae nakusahau. MTAPATA TABU SANA

 

[Kamwene kamwene]

Diamond,
Sugu

Hawakuwai kuwa wachafu baada ya breakup

 

[Perfectz]

KUNA MAISHA BAADA YA KILA JAMBO. UKIJUA HIVYO HUTAJUTA KAMWE MAISHANI.
Hizo POROJO hapo ni za wauza vitabu, magazeti na blogs uchwara

 

[Karucee]

We women hurt so deep and we crash so fast.... but we recover in no time.

Ila ndugu zetu sasa mwanzoni wanajifanya wagumu, as we heal wao ndo wana sink sasa.

 

[Kasie]

Me sinaga huo muda hata ukijinunisha ndo sina habar, aisha yupo nitachat nae nakusahau. MTAPATA TABU SANA

Tuko pamoja, mtu akijipunguza kwangu aaagghh kwa raha zangu kuvuja kwa pakacha nafuu ya mchukuzi.

Nikiachana na Gwila naendelea kuzoeana na Nkundwe na Kasumba na Tulo. Mmoja wapo mazoea yakitiki tunaliendeleza gurudumu la Mahaba kwa raha zetu.

Sinaga muda wa kupendeza sababu ya mtu wala kuwaza ananiwazia nini. Nikishajiambia ajua... Ni mguu mbelee na hakuna kurudi nyuma.

Heee...!!! Kumbe nawaza kwa sauti, acha nikakamue maziwa....

Platinum Matata Kasinde.

 

[SophyMfumu]

Unaejiita baharia aibu yako

 

[Mr Devil]

Uo mda sina..kulia lia kisa penzi

 

[SK2016]

Hizo za wanaume hutegemeana.

Wale wanaowekeza kwenye mapenzi ndiyo huumia zaidi ikitokea wamepigwa chini. Au wale wanaotumia pesa nyingi na nguvu nyingi ili wapendwe ndiyo huumia sana.

 

[Maelau]

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Ukweli hili jina linatia kichefuchefu na sijui ni kwanini limepata umaarufu kiasi hiki hivi karibuni. Upande wangu mtu anayenirushia message ya whatsapp inayohusu neno baharia huwa siijibu kabisa. Kifupi huwa nakasirika sana.

 

[MLEVi Mmoja]

Hizo ni step za wanaume wa dar sio sisi wanaume halisi mabaharia

 

[MLEVi Mmoja]

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Mbona mnateseka

 

[Atoto]

Well said.

We women hurt so deep and we crash so fast.... but we recover in no time.

Ila ndugu zetu sasa mwanzoni wanajifanya wagumu, as we heal wao ndo wana sink sasa.

 

[hewizet]

Wanawake:
1. Kukasirika sana (Anger)
2. Kuukataa ukweli (Denying)
3. Kumpunguza thamani ampendaye kwa kuongelea negative sides
zake (Bargaining)
4. Kuwa na mawazo mengi (depression)
5. Kujipendezesha Zaidi/kujaribu kutafta mwanaume bora zaidi
(Making a better self/trying to meet a better man).

Kwa wanaume ni tofauti:
1. Self-destruction signs are shown (Hupunguza kujijali na hata kujidhuru sometimes) or
2. Much more distressed (Kuwa na mawazo mengi sana kulinganisha na mwanamke) they suffer great pain than women due to unbearable loss!
Je, kuna ukweli wowote hapa?

wanaume wa wapi kwanza au dar??

 

[Mother Confessor]

Hizo ni step za wanaume wa dar sio sisi wanaume halisi mabaharia

Umesoma maana ya baharia lakini hapo juu mlevi??

 

[Atoto]

Nimesoma comments nikaishia kutabasamu. Me wengi humu wanajifanya hawana cha kupoteza kwenye mapenzi and yet ndio nyuzi zao za kulialia na comments za maumivu zimejaa humu ndani.

Anyway, nawatakia healing ya haraka. Amen.

 

[gileun]

Nimesoma comments nikaishia kutabasamu. Me wengi humu wanajifanya hawana cha kupoteza kwenye mapenzi and yet ndio nyuzi zao za kulialia na comments za maumivu zimejaa humu ndani.

Anyway, nawatakia healing ya haraka. Amen.

Ni ngumu sana kwa binadam kukiri madhaifu yao,

 

[gileun]

Ni kweli, ingawa nadhan siyo wote ni baadhi tu

Hizo za wanaume hutegemeana.

Wale wanaowekeza kwenye mapenzi ndiyo huumia zaidi ikitokea wamepigwa chini. Au wale wanaotumia pesa nyingi na nguvu nyingi ili wapendwe ndiyo huumia sana.

 

[Black billionaire]

Mapenzi ukiwekeza kiasi icho ndiyo utaumia... Kuliko akina kupita nduki , kwanza tukiachana naona fresh tu napata kazi mpya.