Besides sex, these are other Reasons to Why Men cheat...

[Kaunga]

Sasa unabisha kuwa msaidizi wa mwizi naye ni mwizi?

Cheating is not stealing!
Na kama ni stealing, huyo mume/mke wa mtu si mwizi, yeye ni ndiye aliyeibwa na maza/faza house ndiye aliyeibiwa!

 

[Mnyama Hatari]

Cheating is not stealing!
Na kama ni stealing, huyo mume/mke wa mtu si mwizi, yeye ni ndiye aliyeibwa na maza/faza house ndiye aliyeibiwa!

If cheating is not stealing then what is it?

 

[bht]

Cheating is not stealing!
Na kama ni stealing, huyo mume/mke wa mtu si mwizi, yeye ni ndiye aliyeibwa na maza/faza house ndiye aliyeibiwa!

Kaunga, kama mmoja mwenye mahusiano anatembea na mmoja asiye na mahusiano ana cheat, huyo ambaye yuko single anafanya nini?

 

[Kaunga]

@MH
Are we talking about morals now, au who cheats who doesn't?

Cheating hufanywa na mtu aliyekuwa commited.
Kuiba mume/mke (kwa maana iliyozoeleka) hufanywa na Other wo/man ambaye yupo single!

Na zote ni immoral acts!

 

[Kaunga]

Kaunga, kama mmoja mwenye mahusiano anatembea na mmoja asiye na mahusiano ana cheat, huyo ambaye yuko single anafanya nini?

Kama nilivyomjibu MH, aliye single anaiba/tembea na mume/mke wa mtu.

And if l may add, anayecheat amezini ambayo to me, ni kufirnicate na kuvunja ahadi aliyoweka kwa mkewe/mumewe na Mungu.

Aliye iba amefornicate na kuvunja ahadi aliyoiweka kwa Mungu na kwake mwenyewe. Ndio maana nikasema naweza buy explaination ya Husninyo kuwa amejicheat mwenyewe!

 

[bht]

Kama nilivyomjibu MH, aliye single anaiba/tembea na mume/mke wa mtu.

Kwa hivyo matumizi ya maneno yanatagemea na mtendaji wa hiyo immoral act....'kwa mtazamo wako'!

 

[Mnyama Hatari]

@MH
Are we talking about morals now, au who cheats who doesn't?

Well, I brought up the moral aspect to further illustrate my point that it is just as wrong for anyone to knowingly sleep with someone who is already married. The operative word there being 'knowingly'.

You can't convince me that an unmarried woman who 'knowingly' sleeps with a married man is not wrong in doing that. If she knows that the man is married I'd question her morals. So morals are very much in play when we talk about fidelity and infidelity. So what part of that don't you understand?

Cheating hufanywa na mtu aliyekuwa commited.
Kuiba mume/mke (kwa maana iliyozoeleka) hufanywa na Other wo/man ambaye yupo single!

You are just splitting hairs.

 

[Zamaulid]

Nitafutieni mwanamke ambaye hacheat na nataka mnithibitishie kuwa kweli hacheat.

my wife of course!

 

[Ariella A.K]

Mi naona mostly wote wana-cheat tu kwa namna moja au nyingine. Coz ku-cheat hakuishii kufanya sex and or love making physically. Hata kama ww uko na mkeo au mumeo mna make love / sex halafu unawaza (kuvusha) uko na beyonce (mfano) au sijui uko na mwanaume mwingine hy nayo ni cheating!

 

[Mnyama Hatari]

my wife of course!

Hahahaaa okay, good for you!

 

[Kaunga]

Kwa hivyo matumizi ya maneno yanatagemea na mtendaji wa hiyo immoral act....'kwa mtazamo wako'!

Ukishatumia neno Cheat, maana yake kuna promise/ahadi iliyowekwa imevunjwa!

Lakini tukija kwenye moral issues, mimi nitakwambia hata 2 single people wakiji engage kwenye sex before marriage, ni kosa na if l may borrow Husy's phrase wanajicheat wenyewe achilia mbali kufornicate (kufanya uasherati).

Nakubaliana kuwa huyo Other wo/man ana moral responsiblity ya kuangalia maumivu ya maza/faza house; lkn mwenye obligation (both moral na kisheria) ya kukeep promise ni huyo cheater.

 

[neggirl]

Kila siku nawaambiaga watu hii makitu lakini wanabisha. Kuna kautafiti kengine nlikafanyaga nikagundua kuwa kama mwanaume hacheat basi mkewe anacheat. Nawasihi wanaume endeleeni kucheat responsiby ili wake zenu wasiwacheat. Atakayepinga au kuquote hii post lazima atakuwa cheater mzuri. Amina.

koh koh... mi chimo

 

[Mnyama Hatari]

Ukishatumia neno Cheat, maana yake kuna promise/ahadi iliyowekwa imevunjwa!

The problem is you are being too literal. To say someone is just as much a cheater doesn't mean that that someone is a cheater like the married party is.

Operative words there are "just as much" and are used to show that the unmarried party is also responsible and that his/her moral and sexual depravity should not be excused from blame.

 

[Kongosho]

atakuwa victim kama hakujua mwenzie kaoa au kaolewa.

Kama alikuwa anajua, nadhani ni akomplesi.

Kesi ya kuuwa, aliyesaidia kuficha maiti ni akomplesi, there is a victim there! Sasa kwa cheating, kama hakuna mtu wa kucheat naye hakuna kesi (so single guy/lady hapo ndio victim) hakuna akomplesi hapo.

 

[Ambitious]

Mi naona mostly wote wana-cheat tu kwa namna moja au nyingine. Coz ku-cheat hakuishii kufanya sex and or love making physically. Hata kama ww uko na mkeo au mumeo mna make love / sex halafu unawaza (kuvusha) uko na beyonce (mfano) au sijui uko na mwanaume mwingine hy nayo ni cheating!

Yeah...If its by the book,fantasizing is as bad as cheating since the intent is there the only thing missing is the when,where and how?

 

[bht]

Yeah...If its by the book,fantasizing is as bad as cheating since the intent is there the only thing missing is the when,where and how?

Very true because that act is born out that thought....

 

[Kaunga]

@MHThe thread is based on breaking marriage vows! That is cheatng!
The one who broke them is a cheater, hata kama alicheat na goat!

 

[Wkaijage]

Usikose kuangalia kipindi cha CHEATERS kila jumatano saa nne na nusu usiku chanel E halafu utasema nani muongo ME au FE? Usisahau

Sawa mkuu.
Ila it is true!

 

[Mnyama Hatari]

Men by nature, which was the sole reason they marry more than one wives in the past decades, but due to the recent religious practices and for economic reasons, it had been widely discouraged that men marry more than one wife, yet, men do marry more than one wife, maybe not officially, but with different girlfriends and concubines, so my question now is, do you agree that all men cheat on their wives and girlfriends? If you are a guy and you disagree, please convince the house, and if you are a lady and you disagree, give your prove for trusting your lover, husband, fiance, boyfriend so much that he doesn't cheat?

@MHThe thread is based on breaking marriage vows! That is cheatng!
The one who broke them is a cheater, hata kama alicheat na goat!

Well, the thread is not talking only about marriage. It also talks about girlfriends and boyfriends so it's fair to say it's about romantic relationships as a whole and not strictly about husband-wife or marriage only.

 

[Ambitious]

Very true because that act is born out that thought....

I agree...BTW why are people less offended when they are called thieves of other people's spouses than when they are branded cheaters in the whole infidelity scenario?Is it a personal quest to justify the unjustifiable?Can it be another egoistic move?
As far as i know cheating is perceived as being a coward and may be people want to look a bit daring.