Baba kalogwa na Mama wa Kambo, nifanye nini?

[Jasmoni Tegga]

For couples who are God-fearing, divorce is never an option -- it is strictly out of question, even if hawapendani mara nyingi. It seems huelewi hata unachosema.

 

[Kamukhm]

For people who are God-fearing, divorce is never an option -- it is strictly out of question. It seems huelewi hata unachosema.

What are you talking about!? So you trying to say during Moses times and prior; People were not God fearing!? Or The Omnipotent and Never Changing God just had a Jasmoni Tegga rendition!? Boss

Au unachokisema men/women will never get tricked/cheated into marriage!? Cause I think that's some form of [emoji48] tests that are permissible according to the bible (Remember Job)?

Life is not Black and White. There are so many shades and hues .. All I can say to everyone out there; is strive to do all your best and justly, (God help you).. but never throw a righteous card.

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

What are you talking about!? So you trying to say during Moses times and prior; People were not God fearing!? Or The Omnipotent and Never Changing God just had a Jasmoni Tegga rendition!? Boss

Au unachokisema men/women will never get tricked/cheated into marriage!? Cause I think that's some form of [emoji48] tests that are permissible according to the bible (Remember Job)?

Life is not Black and White. There are so many shades and hues .. All I can say to everyone out there; is strive to do all your best and justly, (God help you).. but never throw a righteous card.

Maneno mengi ya nini!? Divorce has never been and never will it be part of God's plan for marriage. Ndoa ina sifa ya holiness, exclusivity, unity na permanence.

 

[cariha]

Umalaya ni umalaya tu, tabia ya mtu. Unadhani three, four, five ama whatever number of women ambao mume malaya akiwaoa ndipo atatulia kwenye ndoa? I doubt.

Hawezi tulia huko kuruka ruka kunaathiri familia

 

[Rebeca 83]

Mwanaume anayeoa mke mwingine ili hali watoto hawajakomaa na kujitegemea ni selfish,kuvunja family bond kwa kuoa mke mwingine athari zake zinaenda beyond kizazi chake ...watoto kutoka unstable homes (sio wote) wengi huwa wana confidence issues, wana try soo hard to be 'accepted' which means saa nyingine wana fall into wrong groups....tena wengi wanakua na insecurities because of being hunted by their past,sasa usifikirie mtu huyu kutoka kwa environment hii nae ajenge a happy home... na hapo ndipo tunasema athari zimeenda hadi kwa wajukuu wake kwa kuchepuka kwake...

 

[Kamukhm]

Maneno mengi ya nini!? Divorce has never been and never will it be part of God's plan for marriage. Ndoa ina sifa ya holiness, exclusivity, unity na permanence.

Acha habari Uholliness bwana.. Unaongea kama unaishi before the times of Lucifer and michael! Shetani has his people today, and you want me to be unified permanently with demonic people just because it's a marriage!?

You are delusional! That was my last quote. Just believe what ever you decide!

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

Mwanaume anayeoa mke mwingine ili hali watoto hawajakomaa na kujitegemea ni selfish,kuvunja family bond kwa kuoa mke mwingine athari zake zinaenda beyond kizazi chake ...watoto kutoka unstable homes (sio wote) wengi huwa wana confidence issues, wana try soo hard to be 'accepted' which means saa nyingine wana fall into wrong groups....tena wengi wanakua na insecurities because of being hunted by their past,sasa usifikirie mtu huyu kutoka kwa environment hii nae ajenge a happy home... na hapo ndipo tunasema athari zimeenda hadi kwa wajukuu wake kwa kuchepuka kwake...

Hapo ndipo unachemka bila moto! Unasemaje hapa mume kumwoa mke mwingine?? Women should unabashedly make it clear to their prospective husbands that polygamy simply does not work! To redeem your statement: Mwanaume anayemtamani na kumkimbilia mke mwingine ilhali mkewe akiwa hai, NI BONGE LA SAMAKI MCHUUZI ("SALE-FISH")!!!

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

Acha habari Uholliness bwana.. Unaongea kama unaishi before the times of Lucifer and michael! Shetani has his people today, and you want me to be unified permanently with demonic people just because it's a marriage!?

You are delusional! That was my last quote. Just believe what ever you decide!

FYI: Mtu yeyote anayeingia "ndoani" bila kuzingatia angalau kanuni hizi kuu 4, anakuwa tu anapiga utalaleshi, siyo ndoa hiyo! By the way, niko thrilled sana kwamba angalau unaamini kwamba Shetani yupo. Implication ni kwamba unaamini pia Mungu yupo. Accordingly, I am really very curious to know how powerful do you believe your God to be! This is an eye-opener!

 

[Rebeca 83]

Hapo ndipo unachemka bila moto! Unasemaje hapa mume kumwoa mke mwingine?? Women should unabashedly make it clear to their prospective husbands that polygamy simply does not work! To redeem your statement: Mwanaume anayemtamani na kumkimbilia mke mwingine ilhali mkewe akiwa hai, NI BONGE LA SAMAKI MCHUUZI ("SALE-FISH")!!!

Nimeongea effects of kuchepuka goes beyond generations, chepuka kwa raha zako,ila ujijue kwa kufanya hivyo unaonyesha ubinafsi/uselfish....kama bado unaona hujamaliza 'ujana' usioe . Is not about us women deciding for you to marry another woman or not, IT IS YOU deciding marriage is NOT for YOU... there are a lot of options available for you,marriage should be the last option!

 

[Kamukhm]

FYI: Mtu yeyote anayeingia "ndoani" bila kuzingatia angalau kanuni hizi kuu 4, anakuwa tu anapiga utalaleshi, siyo ndoa hiyo! By the way, niko thrilled sana kwamba angalau unaamini kwamba Shetani yupo. Implication ni kwamba unaamini pia Mungu yupo. Accordingly, I am really very curious to know how powerful do you believe your God to be! This is an eye-opener!

@Jasmoni Tegga I am a believer.. but that doesn't make me naive too. Maisha ya leo you can't use all the time in the world working to change someone.

Tusijifungamanishe nira na wasioamini.. sometimes Unakutana na mwanamke kanisani kumbe yeye si muumini amekuja kutafuta mume..

Mnamaliza kuoana ..she goes back to her ways.. utaniambia nikae hapo nafanya nini!? Clearly She doesn't believe... Itakuwa mambo yale yale ya Adam na Hawa.. Unachomwa huku unalalamika ni huyu Mwanamke...

My God is Powerful and Able. I will stay aside and if HE meant for her to be my wife she will be. Mungu akitaka uelekee kulia utaelekea.. Wala haihitajiki nguvu ya kibinadamu...zaidi ya kujitoa.

Sitaki a perfect wife nor a perfect marriage.. just a perfect partner willing to help each other in the journey through earth to heaven..

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

Nimeongea effects of kuchepuka goes beyond generations, chepuka kwa raha zako,ila ujijue kwa kufanya hivyo unaonyesha ubinafsi/uselfish....kama bado unaona hujamaliza 'ujana' usioe . Is not about us women deciding for you to marry another woman,IT IS YOU deciding marriage is NOT for YOU... there are a lot of options available,marriage should be the last option!

Stop it, now! I personally think, believe & support the idea that marriage should be the very first option to any healthy individual! If you did not know, marriage has a component element that completes our humanness, na watu wanaojaribu kuikwepa wanapishana nayo na hawasalimiki -- si raia, maamuma, muumini, padiri, askofu wala shekhe. Can you say they are incomplete if they disregard it? I am not sure if they are not! Lastly, dhana ya "kula ujana uumalize, halafu ukatulie kwenye ndoa," ni blunder ya karne. Ni sawa na kutumia zaidi ya miaka 34 kumfundisha Christian Ronado futbol, baada ya kugraduate unamwajiri akafanye kazi ya civil engineering! AWKWARD IMPOSSIBILITY!

 

[Rebeca 83]

Stop it, now! I personally think, believe & support the idea that marriage should be the very first option to any healthy individual! If you did not know, marriage has a component element that completes our humanness, na watu wanaojaribu kuikwepa wanapishana nayo na hawasalimiki -- si raia, maamuma, muumini, padiri, askofu wala shekhe. Can you say they are incomplete? I am not sure if they are not! Lastly, dhana ya "kula ujana uumalize, halafu ukatulie kwenye ndoa," ni blunder ya karne. Ni sawa na kutumia zaidi ya miaka 34 kumfundisha Christian Ronado futbol, baada ya kugraduate unamwajiri akafanye kazi ya civil engineering! IMPOSSIBLE!

Mnhhh aliyekwambia ufanye uhuni ukimaliza ndio uoe nani??..incase hukunielewa nimemaanisha, kijana ajitambue especially through experiences,yeye sio mtu wa ku commit into a relationship,hawezi kutulia na mmoja usiwe naive mtu akiwa na hii character option ya kuwa na ndoa lazima iwe ya mwisho kwake,..kulazimisha ndoa na mtu wa hivi ni kukaribisha michepuko...Marriage is not about sex alone,is about creating a safe and happy 'FAMILY' sasa wewe kila siku michepuko...what are you teaching your kids?

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

@Jasmoni Tegga I am a believer.. but that doesn't make me naive too. Maisha ya leo you can't use all the time in the world working to change someone.

Tusijifungamanishe nira na wasioamini.. sometimes Unakutana na mwanamke kanisani kumbe yeye si muumini amekuja kutafuta mume..

Mnamaliza kuoana ..she goes back to her ways.. utaniambia nikae hapo nafanya nini!? Clearly She doesn't believe... Itakuwa mambo yale yale ya Adam na Hawa.. Unachomwa huku unalalamika ni huyu Mwanamke...

My God is Powerful and Able. I will stay aside and if HE meant for her to be my wife she will be. Mungu akitaka uelekee kulia utaelekea.. Wala haihitajiki nguvu ya kibinadamu...zaidi ya kujitoa.

Sitaki a perfect wife nor a perfect marriage.. just a perfect partner willing to help each other in the journey through earth to heaven..

Mpaka huyo fulani fulani aje kumtafuta mume kanisani ni wazi somehow somewhere in the course of time ameweza kujenga imani juu ya ubora wa kanisa na umuhimu wa Mungu, umeoana na wife wa jinsi hii, sidhani kama itakuwa busara na haki kuiangusha imani yake hiyo inayoanza kuchipuka. Nani ajuaye huenda Mungu amepanga "Mgeni njoo, mwenyeji amponyeshe!" People must understand that uzuri wa ndoa unakuja pale inapofanywa kuwa uwanja wa ustawishaji bora na darasa la ufumbuzi wa changamoto & matatizo ya maisha. Ndoa yenye mtazamo wa aina hiyo, furaha na upendo na ufanisi ni ada!

 

[Watu8]

Mambo ya baba yako achana nayo...

Pambana ufanikiwe mwenyewe na vitu vya kwako...

 

[Kamukhm]

Mpaka huyo fulani fulani aje kumtafuta mume kanisani ni wazi somehow somewhere in the course of time ameweza kujenga imani juu ya ubora wa kanisa na umuhimu wa Mungu, umeoana na wife wa jinsi hii, sidhani kama itakuwa busara na haki kuiangusha imani yake hiyo inayoanza kuchipuka. Nani ajuaye huenda Mungu amepanga "Mgeni njoo, mwenyeji amponyeshe!" People must understand that uzuri wa ndoa unakuja pale inapofanywa kuwa uwanja wa ustawishaji bora na darasa la ufumbuzi wa changamoto & matatizo ya maisha. Ndoa yenye mtazamo wa aina hiyo, furaha na upendo na ufanisi ni ada!

🙂 this will not end! Until you have met a terrible partner.. then you will realize it's not as easy as you put it..

And that means risking you life as well.. which I think is the most stupid thing to do. You version will work in a perfect world..

Shetani Anaijua Dini haswa.. ila hana nia ya kuamini na kujitoa... Sometimes that can manifest in people too.. kwenye scenario kama hiyo I advice kila mtu walk away!

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

Mnhhh aliyekwambia ufanye uhuni ukimaliza ndio uoe nani??..incase hukunielewa nimemaanisha, kijana ajitambue especially through experiences,yeye sio mtu wa ku commit into a relationship,hawezi kutulia na mmoja usiwe naive mtu akiwa na hii character option ya kuwa na ndoa lazima iwe ya mwisho kwake,..kulazimisha ndoa na mtu wa hivi ni kukaribisha michepuko...Marriage is not about sex alone,is about creating a safe and happy 'FAMILY' sasa wewe kila siku michepuko...what are you teaching your kids?

You heard me say it bila kumumunya maneno kwamba the so-called ndoa ambayo mnaingia meanwhile one or both couple wanaendekeza idea ya mchepuko, siyo ndoa -- huo ni umalaya kama umalaya mwingine! Period! Essence ya ndoa ni commitment. Umalaya ni kinyume cha hiyo commitment, disloyalty. Familia HAIWEZI KABISA kuwa "safe na happy" wakati wanandoa wananusa, wanakula na kunywa sumu ya uchepukaji. NEVER! You can take that to the bank!

 

[Rebeca 83]

You heard me say it bila kumumunya maneno kwamba the so-called ndoa ambayo mnaingia meanwhile one or both of the couple wanaendekeza idea ya mchepuko, siyo ndoa -- huo ni umalaya kama umalaya mwingine! Period! Essence ya ndoa ni commitment. Umalaya ni kinyume cha hiyo commitment, disloyalty. Familia HAIWEZI KABISA kuwa "safe na happy" wakati wanandoa wananusa, wanakula na kunywa sumu ya uchepukaji. NEVER! You can take that to the bank!

Mnhhhh I blame my poor writing skills, wewe mtu hunisomi kabisaa nachoandika

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

🙂 this will not end! Until you have met a terrible partner.. then you will realize it's not as easy as you put it..

And that means risking you life as well.. which I think is the most stupid thing to do. You version will work in a perfect world..

Shetani Anaijua Dini haswa.. ila hana nia ya kuamini na kujitoa... Sometimes that can manifest in people too.. kwenye scenario kama hiyo I advice kila mtu walk away!

You will not understand it until you first realize the enormous power of God and His eternal plan kwa ajili ya mwanadamu. Unazungumzia "risking your life" baada ya tukio??? I think risking ilifanyika pale mwanzoni ulipoamua kumpenda na kumtongoza na kumbembeleza binti wa watu hadi akakukubalia! Na, actually, wala hiyo siyo risk hata, bali ni RIZIKI -- BAHATI. Test kubwa ya upendo ni vile mnavyoshirikiana kuhandle changamoto za ndoa yenu. Vinginevyo, option ya kuvunja upendo wenu, ni option inayokaribisha uchepukaji.

 

[Jasmoni Tegga]

Mnhhhh I blame my poor writing skills, wewe mtu hunisomi kabisaa nachoandika

Sikusomi unachoandika kwa sababu what you write hakimantikiki asilani. Relationship ambayo uchepukaji na kuoa mke mwingine ni options mezani, siyo ndoa ni ndoana! Umenielewa sasa!??

 

[Kamukhm]

You will not understand it until you first understand the enormous power of God and His etrnal plan kwa ajili ya mwanadamu. Unazungumzia "risking your life" baada ya tukio??? I think risking ilifanyika pale mwanzoni ulipoamua kumpenda na kumtongoza na kumbembeleza binti wa watu hadi akakubalia! Na, actually, risk, ni RIZIKI -- BAHATI. Test kubwa ya upendo ni vile mnavyoshirikiana kuhandle changamoto za ndoa yenu. Vinginevyo, option ya kuvunja upendo wenu, ni option inayokaribisha uchepukaji.

Huo ni Mtazamo Chanya kutoka kwako. Na mimi naamini Kuna scenario I will agree with people who are divorcing...

Until you can tell me if Job did go back to his first wife(or not)..after the trials.. and if He didn't.. who orchastrated the life of Job after trials!?

If twas GOD, Did HE not see the importance of returning the first wife to demonstrate this Change of heart you are implying!?