Ya Adebayor yapo kila familia TZ?

[Crocozilla]

EMMANUEL ADEBAYOR
SEA, I have kept these stories for a long time but I think today it is worth sharing some of them with you. It's true that family matters should be solved internally and not in public but I am doing this so that hopefully all families can learn from what happened in mine. Also keep in mind that none of this is about money.

At the age of 17, with my first wages as a footballer, I built a house for my family and made sure they are safe. As you all know, I have received the trophy of African Player of the Year in 2008. I also brought my mother on stage with me to thank her for everything. In that same year, I brought her to London for various medical check ups. When my daughter was born, we contacted my mum to inform her but she immediately hung up the phone and didn't wanna know hear about it. Reading your recent comments, some people said my family and I should consult T.B Joshua. In 2013, I gave my mother money so she could consult him in Nigeria. She was supposed to stay for 1 week; but 2 days into her stay, I received a call saying she left. Apart from all that l also gave my mother a great amount of money to start a business of cookies and different items. Naturally, I allowed them to put my name and picture on them so they can sell more. What else can a son do in his power to support his family?

A couple years ago, I bought a house in East Lagon (Ghana) for $1.2 million. I found it normal to let my older sister, Yabo Adebayor stay in that house. I also allowed my half brother (Daniel) to stay in the same house. A few months later, I was on vacation and decided to go to that house. At my surprise, I saw many cars in the driveway. In fact, my sister decided to rent out the house without me knowing. She also kicked Daniel out of that house. Note that the house had about 15 rooms. When I called her and asked for explanation, she took about 30 minutes to abuse and insult me over the phone. I called my mother to explain the situation and she did the same as my sister. This same sister says I am ungrateful. Ask her about the car she is driving or anything she is selling today?

My brother Kola Adebayor, has now been in Germany for 25 years. He travelled back home about 4 times, at my expense. I fully cover the cost of his children's education. When I was in Monaco, he came to me and asked for money to start a business. Only God knows how much I gave him. Where is that business today?
When our brother Peter passed away, I sent Kola a great amount of money so he could fly back home. He never showed up at the burial. And today that same brother (Kola) is telling people that I am involved in Peter's death. How? He is the same brother who went and told inaccurate stories about our family to "The Sun" in other to take some money. They also sent a letter to my Club when I was in Madrid so I could get fired.

When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.

I would not say any anything about my brother Peter Adebayor because he is not here today. May his soul rest in peace.

My sister Lucia Adebayor keeps telling people that my dad told me to bring her to Europe. But what would be the purpose to bring her to Europe ? Everyone is here for a reason.

I was in Ghana when I received the news about my brother Peter being seriously ill. I drove the fastest I could to Togo in order to meet him and help. When I arrived, my mother said I could not see him and I should just give the money and she would solve everything. Only God knows how much I gave her that day. People are saying I didn't do anything to save my brother, Peter. Am I a fool to drive 2 hours to Togo for nothing?

I organized a meeting in 2005 to solve our family issues. When I asked them about their opinion, they said I should build each family member a house and give each of them a monthly wage.
Today I am still alive and they have already shared all my goods, just in case I die.
For all these reasons, it took very long for me to set up my foundation in Africa. Every time I try to help the people in need, they had to question me and all of them thought it was a bad idea.

If I am writing this, the main purpose is not to expose my family members. I just want other African families to lear[truncated by WhatsApp]

 

[Crocozilla]

Mwafrika atabaki kuwa mwafrika tu!
Tunauana huko South Africa weusi kwa weusi tutashindwa kurudishana nyuma? Ya Adebayor kawaida mno sisi hatuna kichwa wala mbele

 

[Blaki Womani]

Sadaka huanzia nyumbani.

dada mkubwa unalosema sawa unatoa sadaka mwisho inakuwa kero sadaka safi sio ya kulalama ya furaha na amani
huyo anayetoa msaada naye ana shida zake na anapitia magumu kupata mapato hayo ambayo ndugu wanachezea.

swala zuri sana kusaidia ndugu lakini inapofikia ndugu wanachezea mali wanayowapewa inaumiza na kwanini uendelee kupewa wakati wewe sio kilema waliozoea kupewa wanaendekeza uvivu wakijua yupo atakaeleta wale bila jasho

 

[Mfukutuzi]

EMMANUEL ADEBAYOR
SEA, I have kept these stories for a long time but I think today it is worth sharing some of them with you. It's true that family matters should be solved internally and not in public but I am doing this so that hopefully all families can learn from what happened in mine. Also keep in mind that none of this is about money.

At the age of 17, with my first wages as a footballer, I built a house for my family and made sure they are safe. As you all know, I have received the trophy of African Player of the Year in 2008. I also brought my mother on stage with me to thank her for everything. In that same year, I brought her to London for various medical check ups. When my daughter was born, we contacted my mum to inform her but she immediately hung up the phone and didn't wanna know hear about it. Reading your recent comments, some people said my family and I should consult T.B Joshua. In 2013, I gave my mother money so she could consult him in Nigeria. She was supposed to stay for 1 week; but 2 days into her stay, I received a call saying she left. Apart from all that l also gave my mother a great amount of money to start a business of cookies and different items. Naturally, I allowed them to put my name and picture on them so they can sell more. What else can a son do in his power to support his family?

A couple years ago, I bought a house in East Lagon (Ghana) for $1.2 million. I found it normal to let my older sister, Yabo Adebayor stay in that house. I also allowed my half brother (Daniel) to stay in the same house. A few months later, I was on vacation and decided to go to that house. At my surprise, I saw many cars in the driveway. In fact, my sister decided to rent out the house without me knowing. She also kicked Daniel out of that house. Note that the house had about 15 rooms. When I called her and asked for explanation, she took about 30 minutes to abuse and insult me over the phone. I called my mother to explain the situation and she did the same as my sister. This same sister says I am ungrateful. Ask her about the car she is driving or anything she is selling today?

My brother Kola Adebayor, has now been in Germany for 25 years. He travelled back home about 4 times, at my expense. I fully cover the cost of his children's education. When I was in Monaco, he came to me and asked for money to start a business. Only God knows how much I gave him. Where is that business today?
When our brother Peter passed away, I sent Kola a great amount of money so he could fly back home. He never showed up at the burial. And today that same brother (Kola) is telling people that I am involved in Peter's death. How? He is the same brother who went and told inaccurate stories about our family to "The Sun" in other to take some money. They also sent a letter to my Club when I was in Madrid so I could get fired.

When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.

I would not say any anything about my brother Peter Adebayor because he is not here today. May his soul rest in peace.

My sister Lucia Adebayor keeps telling people that my dad told me to bring her to Europe. But what would be the purpose to bring her to Europe ? Everyone is here for a reason.

I was in Ghana when I received the news about my brother Peter being seriously ill. I drove the fastest I could to Togo in order to meet him and help. When I arrived, my mother said I could not see him and I should just give the money and she would solve everything. Only God knows how much I gave her that day. People are saying I didn't do anything to save my brother, Peter. Am I a fool to drive 2 hours to Togo for nothing?

I organized a meeting in 2005 to solve our family issues. When I asked them about their opinion, they said I should build each family member a house and give each of them a monthly wage.
Today I am still alive and they have already shared all my goods, just in case I die.
For all these reasons, it took very long for me to set up my foundation in Africa. Every time I try to help the people in need, they had to question me and all of them thought it was a bad idea.

If I am writing this, the main purpose is not to expose my family members. I just want other African families to lear[truncated by WhatsApp]

It's such a sad story, sorry brother........!

 

[Mouse3]

Watu wengi ukiwaambia hasa sisi watanzania ukiwaambia kuwa hata ukizaliwa baba mmoja mama mmoja na Bill Gates huna 'haki' ya kulazimisha akusaidie, hatuelewi kabisa. Nimeona uzi wa Adebayor watu wengi wengine wanapiga hadi hesabu za kipato cha Adebayor na kuona 'ana ulazima' wa kusaidia ndugu zake nimeshangaa sana.

Ndio maana tuna ndugu ukiwaambia 'sina hela' inakua ugomvi kumbe washapeleleza hadi kujua mshahara wako au kipato cha biashara zako na kuanzia siku hiyo 'mahesabu ya maisha yao yote' yanaanzia na wewe huku huna hata taarifa kuwa kuna watu washajipa 'haki za kipato' chako simply sababu ni 'ndugu zako'.

Hapa ningependa nieleweke watu kusaidiana hasa ndugu ni kitu kizuri saana binaadamu jinsi tulivyo kutegemeana na kuombana misaada ni kitu hakikwepeki ninachokipinga hapa ni ile hali ya mtu kuona 'ana haki na ni lazima umsaidie' na usipomsaidia huyu mtu ananuna au wengine mnakua maadui na kukutangaza vibaya kama ndugu zake Adebayor.

Mbaya zaidi weengi wanaosaidiwa huwa hawana uchungu wa pesa na wengi hutumia kwa starehe huku wakitegemea zikiisha watasaidiwa tena haya mambo kila familia yapo TZ ni bora sasa tuanze wote kukumbushana kuwa hata mtu awe pacha wako kwa kuzaliwa kukusaidia ni hiari yake na asipokusaidia huna haki ya kumchukia na kumuona mtu mbaya.

'Kipato cha mtu ni haki yake peke yake' wengine ikitokea tumesaidiwa sawa isipotokea pia ni sawa 'yule ambae wote tuna haki ya kumuomba na kumlilia na kujiuliza why hatusaidii ni MUNGU peke yake'.

Duh! na wengine wanatishia kukulaani kama usiposaidia!

 

[everlenk]

Ndugu ni watu wa kwanza ambao Mungu amempa mtu hapa duniani, sasa kama hao pia hutawajali , binadamu ambao unashare nao damu na dna, sidhani kama una faida ya kuwa hapa duniani, NI LAZIMA kusaidia ndugu hilo halina ubishi, wala mjadala.

Umeongea vizuri sana kwamba ndugu ndiyo watu wa kwanza Mungu aliotupatia,kwa sisi wakristo Biblia inasema yeye asiye wajali wa kwao ni sawa na mchawi, kujali ndugu ni muhimu na ni lazima maana hata kwa kufanya hivyo unakuwa unaonyesha jinsi gani unampenda hata Mungu usiyemuona.


Lakini sasa naomba nitumie maneno ya kiingereza mawili nimeshindwa kupata ya kiswahili samahani kwa hilo, Support na Enable, kusupport ndugu zetu ni jambo zuri sana kama uwezo upo ni vizuri kuwasupport na wao wakaweza kusimama kwa miguu yao haijalishi hata wasiporudisha shukrani lakini kile kitendo cha wao kutonitegemea tena na wao wanaendesha maisha yao ni fahari kubwa sana, na tu naweza wasupport kwa njia mbalimbali kuwapeleka shule, kumsaidia aliye mgonjwa,kuwapatia mitaji n.k


Kuenable hatutakiwi kufanya mfano mtu umemsaidia umempeleka shule ameacha kusoma, okey hujakata tamaa ukaamua labda kumpatia kazi hataki kufanya kazi anataka umpatie hela akalewe, akafanye uhuni wake n.k mtu kama huyu ukiendelea kumsaidia ni dhambi kabisa maana humsaidii bali unaendelea kumuangamiza.

Au unakuta umesaidia ndugu wanatumia mali vibaya, mtu mnamjua ni mwizi kabisa anafanya tukio anaenda polisi mnahangaika kuhonga polisi kesi iishe eti unasema unamsaidia mwache avune alichopanda huyu humsaidii bali unaendelea kumuwezesha afanye maovu yake zaidi maana anajua na kesho atatolewa.


Tusaidie ndugu zetu na tusiache kufanya hivyo na tuhakikishe misaada yetu kweli inawatoa mahali walipo na kuwaweka mahali pazur zaid lakini misaada yetu inapokuwa ndo sababu ya kuwafanya wawe waovu zaidi, wavivu wasiopenda kufanya kazi, haina maana kwao na tukiendelea kuwaenable na siyo kuwasupport hakika twafanya dhambi mbele ya muumba wetu maana hata yeye amesema asiye fanya kazi na asile na pia akasema amelaaniwa amtegemeaye mwanadamu na kumfanya kuwa kinga ya maisha yake.

 

[FaizaFoxy]

hili ndiyo huwa linaniumiza pale mtu anapogeuza msaada kuwa haki

Kwa upande wangu nnahisi kuwatatulia matatizo yao ni haki yao, hususan kwa walio karibu nawe.

Utaona kuwa nimekwepa neno "msaada" kwani sikubali kuwa wa karibu yako unawapa "msaada", wa karibu yako ni haki yao kwako kuwatatulia shida zao zote, hata iwe mara 70 kwa siku. Waende wapi wakazitatuwe kama wewe una uwezo wa kuzitatuwa? Hata jirani yako, rafiki yako, mwenye shida yeyote wana haki zao kwako, seuse ndugu zako wa damu.

Na usichukulie wakija kwako wakisema "nisaidie" basi nawe ukachukulia huo ni "msaada", la hasha! hilo ni tatizo na ni wajibu wako kulitatuwa kama liko kwenye uwezo wako.

 

[Heaven Sent]

Kwa sisi waafrika + umaskini wetu, kusaidiana kwa wanandugu hakuepukiki. Sidhani kama kuna mtu anayefurahi kuishi kwa ufahari ilihali ndugu zako ni ombaomba barabarani. Ingawa wapo pia wachache wetu, ambao wamezaliwa na choyo tu. Hawataki kusaidia wengine, wakihofia maybe hao wanaowasaidia watafanikiwa zaidi yao. Hawakumbuki kuwa maisha ni kupanda na kushuka. Leo upo juu, kesho upo chini na hujui ni nani atakayekunyanyua juu tena.

Tatizo letu wengi hatuna Shukrani na haturidhiki kwa misaada tunayopewa. Mtu anakusaidia ili angalau na wewe ujikwamue usimame kwa miguu yako, but still tunataka Kila kinachoongezeka kwake, na kwetu kiongezekee hivyo hivyo. Mtu anakupa mtaji, ingawa sio guarantee Kwamba utatoboa kupitia huo mtaji; leo na kesho hakionekani ni nini umefanya na ule mtaji, afu still utegemee mtu akupe tena mtaji mwingine pasipo maelezo ya kutosheleza. Sidhani hata kama ingekuwa mimi Ningekuwa na moyo wa kukusaidia tena. Kama huwezi kujisimamia mwenyewe ukajikwamua, unataka me ndo nikufanyie kazi afu mwisho wa mwezi niwe nakulipa tu hela unayotaka?? khaaaa!

Mtu akiongezeka kipato inakuwa kero sasa. Kila Saa zitapigwa simu, huyu anataka hiki mwingine anaomba kile. Mnakaa tu kupigia budget vipato vya wenzenu. Mnataka hadi matumizi nyie ndo muwapangie sasa. Na usiombe ndugu akaomba kitu then ukamwambia maybe subiri hadi next week. Kama ndo umeoa, basi utaambiwa mkeo kashakulisha limbwata. Usinunue hata kitu kizuri ni kosa la jinai, utaambiwa unachezea hela. Hivi Mnataka wote mfe maskini jamani mmmmh?? Mwenzenu hata asijinunulie ki baby walker kisa nyie jamani

Na kuna wale ndugu ambao hawajuagi kusaidia wenzao hata kama wana huo uwezo. Mwingine ataombwa tu mtoto akakae likizo kwake coz kuna access ya walimu wengi wa tuition maybe, but atajinunisha na kutafuta tu excuse ili huyo mtoto asiende likizo kwake. Baadaye mtoto kamaliza shule labda, kajipatia kijikazi, yule ndugu ndo atakuwa wa kwanza kuomba misaada. Utasikia sasa, " yani aunt mshahara wako wa kwanza kitenge changu aunt " khaaaa tuwe na aibu jamani. Wapande wengine, kwenye kuvuna wewe huyo wa kwanza na kikapu chako mmmmh.

Tuache utegemezi, ndugu yako akifanikiwa shukuru tu, whether amekusaidia or not. Tujifunze kusimama kwa miguu yetu wenyewe. Ndugu asipokusaidia Sidhani kama ni busara kwenda kulalamika kwa watu. Yeye ndo anayejua anavyotafuta, anavyopata na anavyotumia. Kila mtu gharama zake za maisha zinaendana na kipato chake. So ukikumbukwa shukuru, na usipokumbukwa usifanye ndio kesi sasa. Tutakuja kuua ndugu zetu kisa stress zetu za utegemezi. Ukisaidiwa, saidika kweli na wewe usaidie na wengine. Sio muendelee kumkodolea macho mwenzenu.

 

[eltontz]

The Boss

Sadaka huanzia nyumbani.

Samahani hii post imekuwa ndefu kidogo kwa kuwa nnahisi hapa kuna darsa linalotuhusu sote, katika kutowa amma kwa kusaidia amma kwa furaha tu:

Binafsi hupenda sana kuona walio karibu waki demand kwangu kama vyao. Ni raha ilioje, ukiwa nao wa kudeka kwako ni raha sana na kutoa ukawapa ni raha zaidi kila niwezapo huwa siishi kuwapa na kuwadekeza. Nikiwa sina basi kweli.

Raha ya kutowa si lazima uwe ni msaada tu, huwa nnatowa zawadi za kila aina kwa kukumbuka tu ngoja nimpelekee zawadi fulani, huwa nnafurahi sana nnapoona mtu akiifurahia zawadi, iwe ya pesa taslim au chochote kile cha thamani kubwa au ndogo. Binafsi huthamini sana mtu anaenikumbuka kwa zawadi hata iwe kashata tu.

Binafsi nnahisi ni haki yao ku demand kwangu na binafsi sina haja ya kujuwa watafanya nini na huo msaada. Its their business, mimi kama nimetoa kwa kuambiwa kwa sababu fulani halafu akaenda akafanya mengine si kosa langu wala lake ni priorities tu. Na wala huwa siulizi kafanya nini wala sina muda huo, hiyo itakuwa masimango, sitarajii kufanya hivyo hata siku moja na wala simuwekei kinyongo, ili iweje? kwani inawezekana kabisa alidanganya kwa sababu zake tu na alihisi akikwambia kuwa nnahitaji kwa ajili hii utamkatalia, ni upunguani wake si wangu, kwanini nimhukumu kwa upunguani wake tu?

Nikitowa natowa tu, singoji shukurani wala sitaki kujuwa niliyempa kafanyia nini, nimempa na nikimpa mtu yeyote, wa karibu au wa mbali huwa sitazami tena kafanya nini, na starehe yake na furaha yake huwa ni furaha kwangu pia.

At the same time, kama nimemtuma nifanyie hiki akafanya kingine, hapo huwa nnauliza.

Hiyo ni mimi binafsi sijuwi wengine.

Nnawaasa vijana, msiwe kama Adebayor anatowa halafu anataka kujuwa wanafanyia alichotowa, si vyema hata kidogo, unless awe kawatuma nifanyieni hiki hawakufanya.

Mfano, analalamika, nilimpa fulani nauli akazike hakwenda, sasa hakwenda unalalamika nini? si ujinga huo? hakwenda ndiyo hakwenda wala usimuulize kwanini hakwenda.

Mamake na nduguze ku demand nyumba na mshahara wa kila mwezi kutoka kwake ni haki yao kabisa, na kama anauwezo angefanya tu bila kulalamika na kama hataki pia angesema bila kulalamika ni haki yake.

Anautangazia ulimwengu ili iweje? wamuone ni mwema sana? au wawaone waliokaribu yake ni wabaya? hata sijaelewa mantiki yake, lakini inaonesha "psychologically" inamtesa na anatafuta relief.

Binafsi nnawajuwa watu fulani (tena si mmoja wala wawili) Tanzania hiihii, wamewapa nyumba ndugu zao na wanawapa mshahara kila mwezi, bila kuwafanyia kazi yoyote, na huwatazama kwa kila shida zao na life goes on, raha mustarehe.

Faida gani ya kuwa na mali na fedha kama nduguzo na walio karibu yako hawawezi kudeka na kujifaraguwa nazo? Siioni.

Tatizo linakuja hapo kwenye highlight : wanakubali kwa moyo mmoja kwamba huna au umeishiwa ???

 

[Pukudu]

Mambo ya kiafrika bhna! Ukiwa strict na yako eti mke wako ndo anakufundisha anajengewa chuki hadi basi.

 

[everlenk]

The Boss

Sadaka huanzia nyumbani.

Samahani hii post imekuwa ndefu kidogo kwa kuwa nnahisi hapa kuna darsa linalotuhusu sote, katika kutowa amma kwa kusaidia amma kwa furaha tu:

Binafsi hupenda sana kuona walio karibu waki demand kwangu kama vyao. Ni raha ilioje, ukiwa nao wa kudeka kwako ni raha sana na kutoa ukawapa ni raha zaidi kila niwezapo huwa siishi kuwapa na kuwadekeza. Nikiwa sina basi kweli.

Raha ya kutowa si lazima uwe ni msaada tu, huwa nnatowa zawadi za kila aina kwa kukumbuka tu ngoja nimpelekee zawadi fulani, huwa nnafurahi sana nnapoona mtu akiifurahia zawadi, iwe ya pesa taslim au chochote kile cha thamani kubwa au ndogo. Binafsi huthamini sana mtu anaenikumbuka kwa zawadi hata iwe kashata tu.

Binafsi nnahisi ni haki yao ku demand kwangu na binafsi sina haja ya kujuwa watafanya nini na huo msaada. Its their business, mimi kama nimetoa kwa kuambiwa kwa sababu fulani halafu akaenda akafanya mengine si kosa langu wala lake ni priorities tu. Na wala huwa siulizi kafanya nini wala sina muda huo, hiyo itakuwa masimango, sitarajii kufanya hivyo hata siku moja na wala simuwekei kinyongo, ili iweje? kwani inawezekana kabisa alidanganya kwa sababu zake tu na alihisi akikwambia kuwa nnahitaji kwa ajili hii utamkatalia, ni upunguani wake si wangu, kwanini nimhukumu kwa upunguani wake tu?

Nikitowa natowa tu, singoji shukurani wala sitaki kujuwa niliyempa kafanyia nini, nimempa na nikimpa mtu yeyote, wa karibu au wa mbali huwa sitazami tena kafanya nini, na starehe yake na furaha yake huwa ni furaha kwangu pia.

At the same time, kama nimemtuma nifanyie hiki akafanya kingine, hapo huwa nnauliza.

Hiyo ni mimi binafsi sijuwi wengine.

Nnawaasa vijana, msiwe kama Adebayor anatowa halafu anataka kujuwa wanafanyia alichotowa, si vyema hata kidogo, unless awe kawatuma nifanyieni hiki hawakufanya.

Mfano, analalamika, nilimpa fulani nauli akazike hakwenda, sasa hakwenda unalalamika nini? si ujinga huo? hakwenda ndiyo hakwenda wala usimuulize kwanini hakwenda.

Mamake na nduguze ku demand nyumba na mshahara wa kila mwezi kutoka kwake ni haki yao kabisa, na kama anauwezo angefanya tu bila kulalamika na kama hataki pia angesema bila kulalamika ni haki yake.

Anautangazia ulimwengu ili iweje? wamuone ni mwema sana? au wawaone waliokaribu yake ni wabaya? hata sijaelewa mantiki yake, lakini inaonesha "psychologically" inamtesa na anatafuta relief.

Binafsi nnawajuwa watu fulani (tena si mmoja wala wawili) Tanzania hiihii, wamewapa nyumba ndugu zao na wanawapa mshahara kila mwezi, bila kuwafanyia kazi yoyote, na huwatazama kwa kila shida zao na life goes on, raha mustarehe.

Faida gani ya kuwa na mali na fedha kama nduguzo na walio karibu yako hawawezi kudeka na kujifaraguwa nazo? Siioni.

Hapa katikati Dada FaizaFoxy hapana aiseee nitatofautiana na wewe kabisa, kujua msaada unaoutoa unatumikaje ni sawa kabisa na wala si kosa, Mungu huyu anayetubariki anatutaka sisi wanawe tuvitumie vizuri sembuse sisi wanadamu? Toa usingoje shukrani lakini kujua msaada unaoutoa unatumikaje hakuna kosa kabisa, nitajisikia fahari sana mtoto niliyemsomesha kwa fedha zangu amekuwa Rais,amekuwa mfanya biashara mkubwa amekuwa doctor sitalaaum hata kidogo asiponikumbuka maana najua wapo wanaofaidika kupitia yeye.

Hivi kweli unaskia fahari kabisa mtoto umempa ada ya shule akalipe akaenda kufanyia mambo mengine ya ajabu mfano akahonga akafanyia mambo ya ajabu ajabu anakuja tena kwako unampa bila kuhoji chochote, anaenda kufanya yake tena anakuja kukwambia tena unampa bila kuhoji chochote wala hutaki hata kujua amezitumiaje anafanya hivyo tena na tena, je mtu kama huyu utakuwa unamsaidia au unamuangamiza?

 

[FaizaFoxy]

Tatizo linakuja hapo kwenye highlight : wanakubali kwa moyo mmoja kwamba huna au umeishiwa ???

Nnauhakika wanaamini ila wanakuwa wanyonge kwani mtu akujiae na matatizo anakuwa na mawazo ya kutatuliwa, unless awe ni ombaomba mzoefu, huwa hajali.

Kuna mama mmoja, pale mtaa wa Sikukuu na Nyarung'ombe, kwa Hassan Juisi, kwa wanaoijuwa kariakoo watapajuwa ni wapi na watamjuwa ni nani, hupenda kutegesha pale na anaombaomba wale wanaoenda kula chakula pale, siku hiyo mimi nimeenda na Gozi langu, na hata pochi sikuchukuwa, sina senti tano. Gozi langu limeshuka kwenda ku order chakula mimi nimebaki kwenye gari,

huyo bibi akaja kuomba msaada, nikamwambia, mama leo sina kitu In sha Allah siku nyingine, na nimeshawahi kumpa mara nyingi tu siku za nyuma, Hee, si anizozomokee, "Mungu asikupe maisha, ifikie na wewe uombeombe kama mimi", ikabaki nimeduwaa duwaa tu, mwili wote ukafa ganzi, lakumjibu sina. Kuja Gozi langu kumhadithia, akanambia achana nae huyo, ni teja la unga hilo.

 

[FaizaFoxy]

Hapa katikati Dada FaizaFoxy hapana aiseee nitatofautiana na wewe kabisa, kujua msaada unaoutoa unatumikaje ni sawa kabisa na wala si kosa, Mungu huyu anayetubariki anatutaka sisi wanawe tuvitumie vizuri sembuse sisi wanadamu? Toa usingoje shukrani lakini kujua msaada unaoutoa unatumikaje hakuna kosa kabisa, nitajisikia fahari sana mtoto niliyemsomesha kwa fedha zangu amekuwa Rais,amekuwa mfanya biashara mkubwa amekuwa doctor sitalaaum hata kidogo asiponikumbuka maana najua wapo wanaofaidika kupitia yeye.

Hivi kweli unaskia fahari kabisa mtoto umempa ada ya shule akalipe akaenda kufanyia mambo mengine ya ajabu mfano akahonga akafanyia mambo ya ajabu ajabu anakuja tena kwako unampa bila kuhoji chochote, anaenda kufanya yake tena anakuja kukwambia tena unampa bila kuhoji chochote wala hutaki hata kujua amezitumiaje anafanya hivyo tena na tena, je mtu kama huyu utakuwa unamsaidia au unamuangamiza?

Kila mmoja na mawazo yake na muono wake, wangu ni kama nilivoandika juu hapo.

Ukinisoma vizuri utaona tofauti ya msaada na kutatuwa matatizo. Wangu wa karibu huwa siamini kama nnawapa msaada, huwa ni haki yao, na kusomesha mtoto wa karibu au yeyote yule niliyeamuwa kumsomesha ni haki yangu kujuwa mafanikio yake na kama ana matatizo ni haki yake niyatatuwe.

 

[Victoire]

Yapo tena sana tu,halafu wanaosaidiwa wanachopenda ni pesa zako tu,maana ukigeuka tu wanakupiga majungu kweli,wengine wananawaombea wenzao wafe ili warithi

 

[jackline1]

Mambo ya kiafrika bhna! Ukiwa strict na yako eti mke wako ndo anakufundisha anajengewa chuki hadi basi.

mimi nahisi hata matatizo ya Adebayo yameanza kutokana na mke au mchumba- ndugu wanaona mwanamke anafaidi kuliko wao--- hii ndio root cause ya matatizo katika jamii yetu

 

[Jerrymsigwa]

Ndugu ni watu wa kwanza ambao Mungu amempa mtu hapa duniani, sasa kama hao pia hutawajali , binadamu ambao unashare nao damu na dna, sidhani kama una faida ya kuwa hapa duniani, NI LAZIMA kusaidia ndugu hilo halina ubishi, wala mjadala.

Sio lazima kusaidia ndugu, ndio maana Mungu akatupa compassionate heart ili kufanya kile unachoona unaweza na sio kulazimishwa

 

[Jerrymsigwa]

Nnauhakika wanaamini ila wanakuwa wanyonge kwani mtu akujiae na matatizo anakuwa na mawazo ya kutatuliwa, unless awe ni ombaomba mzoefu, huwa hajali.

Kuna mama mmoja, pale mtaa wa Sikukuu na Nyarung'ombe, kwa Hassan Juisi, kwa wanaoijuwa kariakoo watapajuwa ni wapi na watamjuwa ni nani, hupenda kutegesha pale na anaombaomba wale wanaoenda kula chakula pale, siku hiyo mimi nimeenda na Gozi langu, na hata pochi sikuchukuwa, sina senti tano. Gozi langu lineshuka kwenda ku order chakula mimi nimebaki kwenye gari, huyo bibi akaja kuomba msaada, nikamwambia, mama leo sina kitu In sha Allah siku nyingine, na nimeshawahi kumpa mara nyingi tu siku za nyuma, Hee, si anizozomokee, "Mungu asikupe maisha, ifikie na wewe uombeombe kama mimi", ikabaki nimeduwaa duwaa tu, mwili wote ukafa ganzi, lakumjibu sina. Kuja Gozi langu kumhadithia, akanambia achana nae huyo, ni teja la unga hilo.

Duh aiseee! Kuna omba omba ni wakali kweli ukimwambia huna na anaona unaendesha gari ama umependeza. Mkuu pole hao watu wa hivyo ni wa kuachana nao kabisa hata next time usimpe

 

[Von Mo]

Kwa upande wangu nnahisi kuwatatulia matatizo yao ni haki yao, hususan kwa walio karibu nawe.

Utaona kuwa nimekwepa neno "msaada" kwani sikubali kuwa wa karibu yako unawapa "msaada", wa karibu yako ni haki yao kwako kuwatatulia shida zao zote, hata iwe mara 70 kwa siku. Waende wapi wakazitatuwe kama wewe una uwezo wa kuzitatuwa? Hata jirani yako, rafiki yako, mwenye shida yeyote wana haki zao kwako, seuse ndugu zako wa damu.

Na usichukulie wakija kwako wakisema "nisaidie" basi nawe ukachukulia huo ni "msaada", la hasha! hilo ni tatizo na ni wajibu wako kulitatuwa kama liko kwenye uwezo wako.

Hapana hujaelewa what i mean Madame, pale ndugu yako au mtu yeyote mwenye uhitaji anapokuja kwako unaweza kumsaidia, lakini siyo anakuja na kesho, na kesho kutwa..... halafu ukimwambia sipo vizuri may be next time'' sasa hapo ugomvi unaanza, je wewe hapo utakuwa na umekosea wapi? kwamba unampomsaidia mhusika then anabadili kuwa ni haki yake ya msingi inakuwaje???

For your information hatutaendelea ikiwa tutabaki na akili ya utegemezi:
Ulemavu wa fikra ni mbaya kuliko ulemavu wa viungo vya mwili.....
Marekani huwezi kwenda bila kuthibitishwa kwa ujio wako kwao, yani unakwenda kwa nani, utakaa siku ngapi, nani atakugharamia siku zote, ukiwa na mtoto mdogo utakaa nyumbani miaka miwili au umpeleke mahali pa day care(costly),
so in short ukimkuta rafiki yako anakula hawezi kukukaribisha kwani haukuwepo ktk bajeti yako.....
Why should i pay for you???????
People are lazy, they talk about sex 24/7....without thinking of other aspects of their life,
Tuwasaidie watu kujitegemea lakini siyo kututegemea.
---i am done

 

[FaizaFoxy]

Hapana hujaelewa what i mean Madame, pale ndugu yako au mtu yeyote mwenye uhitaji anapokuja kwako unaweza kumsaidia, lakini siyo anakuja na kesho, na kesho kutwa..... halafu ukimwambia sipo vizuri may be next time'' sasa hapo ugomvi unaanza, je wewe hapo utakuwa na umekosea wapi? kwamba unampomsaidia mhusika then anabadili kuwa ni haki yake ya msingi inakuwaje???

For your information hatutaendelea ikiwa tutabaki na akili ya utegemezi:
Ulemavu wa fikra ni mbaya kuliko ulemavu wa viungo vya mwili.....
Marekani huwezi kwenda bila kuthibitishwa kwa ujio wako kwao, yani unakwenda kwa nani, utakaa siku ngapi, nani atakugharamia siku zote, ukiwa na mtoto mdogo utakaa nyumbani miaka miwili au umpeleke mahali pa day care(costly),
so in short ukimkuta rafiki yako anakula hawezi kukukaribisha kwani haukuwepo ktk bajeti yako.....
Why should i pay for you???????
People are lazy, they talk about sex 24/7....without thinking of other aspects of their life,
Tuwasaidie watu kujitegemea lakini siyo kututegemea.
---i am done

Mwache aje hata mara sabini kutwa, kama ni wangu ni haki yake.

 

[serio]

The Boss



Its their business, mimi kama nimetoa kwa kuambiwa kwa sababu fulani halafu akaenda akafanya mengine si kosa langu wala lake ni priorities tu. Na wala huwa siulizi kafanya nini wala sina muda huo, hiyo itakuwa masimango, sitarajii kufanya hivyo hata siku moja na wala simuwekei kinyongo, ili iweje?

Nikitowa natowa tu, singoji shukurani wala sitaki kujuwa niliyempa kafanyia nini, nimempa na nikimpa mtu yeyote, wa karibu au wa mbali huwa sitazami tena kafanya nini, na starehe yake na furaha yake huwa ni furaha kwangu pia.

At the same time, kama nimemtuma nifanyie hiki akafanya kingine, hapo huwa nnauliza.


Mfano, analalamika, nilimpa fulani nauli akazike hakwenda, sasa hakwenda unalalamika nini? si ujinga huo? hakwenda ndiyo hakwenda wala usimuulize kwanini hakwenda.

EMMANUEL ADEBAYOR

• When my daughter was born, we contacted my mum to inform her but she immediately hung up the phone and didn't wanna know hear about it.

• A couple years ago, I bought a house in East Lagon (Ghana) for $1.2 million. I found it normal to let my older sister, Yabo Adebayor stay in that house. I also allowed my half brother (Daniel) to stay in the same house. A few months later, I was on vacation and decided to go to that house. At my surprise, I saw many cars in the driveway. In fact, my sister decided to rent out the house without me knowing. She also kicked Daniel out of that house.

• My brother Kola Adebayor, has now been in Germany for 25 years. He travelled back home about 4 times, at my expense. I fully cover the cost of his children's education. When I was in Monaco, he came to me and asked for money to start a business. Only God knows how much I gave him. Where is that business today?

• When our brother Peter passed away, I sent Kola a great amount of money so he could fly back home. He never showed up at the burial. And today that same brother (Kola) is telling people that I am involved in Peter's death. How?

• They also sent a letter to my Club when I was in Madrid so I could get fired.

• When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.

• I was in Ghana when I received the news about my brother Peter being seriously ill. I drove the fastest I could to Togo in order to meet him and help. When I arrived, my mother said I could not see him and I should just give the money and she would solve everything. Only God knows how much I gave her that day. People are saying I didn't do anything to save my brother, Peter. Am I a fool to drive 2 hours to Togo for nothing?
  

• Today I am still alive and they have already shared all my goods, just in case I die.

no, sio kwa ndugu kama hawa.... this is too much.