poa rafiki, pole sana.....
of all the people, wewe? kwa nini hukuni-call? lol!
usijilaumu, wakati mwingine tunafanya vitu ili tujifunze rafiki. ukiona unajutia ujue kuna kitu umejifunza kutukana na tendo ulilolifanya.... naamini halitarudia tena.
ha haaa, hapo kwenye RED, unajua ile mtu anakuja kukuambia "hii ni siri"....Kumwamini mtu si lazima muwe karibu kila saa mnaongozana
Kuna watu unawaambia vitu fulani sababu una hakika uko salama kwao
Au unaweza mwambia mtu kitu sababu unahisi ana upeo huo wa kushauri hicho ulichomwambia.
Kuna mtu aliwahi niomba ushauri/maono yangu juu ya jambo fulani, nilishangaa, niliona ni too sensitive
Hapo hapo ni mtu mzima kwangu na ana mke, nikajiuliza kwa nini asimwulize mkewe, sikupata jibu.
Kuna siku nikamsikia anapiga story tu ila akasema 'wakati mwignine unakosa wa kuuliza nyumbani sababu unakuta mwenza hana upeo huo'. Mie nikajikonektia dot na lile aliloniuliza, nikabaki 'mmh!'
ha haaa, babu, ndo hicho alicholalamika......Hujamtendea haki huyo jamaa....lol!
Kwa nini hukubadilisha na kumpa dozi kidogo ya hasira??
Babu DC!!
ha haaa, hapo kwenye RED, unajua ile mtu anakuja kukuambia "hii ni siri"....
huwaga nawaambia "wait a minute..... kabla hujaniambia, umeshamwambia nani tena?"
kama ulishamwambia mtu hata mmoja, naomba usiniambie.... maana ikishavuja huko hutakuwa na uhakika nani kaivujisha, sitaki kuwa miongoni mwa watu utakaowahisi......
ha haaa, nimekusoma rafiki......Nimeongeza chumvi kidogo, sijutii kumreprimand huyu binti yangu maana hajatulia kabisa. lakini kweli sometimes the anger gets better on me, ila nimejifunza deep breathing baada ya kugonga geti siku moja kazini waliponiudhi. Shida yangu huwa nashout, and l can do anything nikikasirika kweli.
ha haaa, yaani haya mambo yana majaribu saana.....Ha ha ha, umenikumbusha dad mmoja
Alikuwa ukimwambia 'siri', anasema usim=niambie tu
Nikishajua ni siri ndio nataka kusema zaidi
watu kama hao pia wapo Marejesho, lakini wewe unakuwa ulishafanya kazi yako..... hutajilaumu.
Ila kuna watu ukienda kumwomba ushauri ndo yale anakuambia "yaani kakufanyia hivyo? yaani huyo jamaa ni wa kumkodia ndundiko kwenda kumsuta,
hafai kabisaaaa"..... hapo unafanyaje? si unajiongezea
hasira?
ha haaa, hapo kwenye RED, unajua ile mtu anakuja kukuambia "hii ni siri"....
huwaga nawaambia "wait a minute..... kabla hujaniambia, umeshamwambia nani tena?"
kama ulishamwambia mtu hata mmoja, naomba usiniambie.... maana ikishavuja huko hutakuwa na uhakika nani kaivujisha, sitaki kuwa miongoni mwa watu utakaowahisi......
umeona eeeh! hilo ndo ninalolikwepa mimi....swali muhimu sana..maana kuna watu wanaweza waambia hata watu watano,kila mmoja kwa wakat wake..na wote wakaambiwa ni siri kwaiyo watunze..ikivuja zaidi hapo ndo lawama zinaanza
ha haaa, niPM tu nitakushauriFP naomba number yako na mimi niwe nakupigia, niko na stress nyingi sana siku hizi.
la muhimu ni wewe kutimiza wajibu wako, mengine unamwachia mwenyewe.....Kweli hapo unakuwa umeshatimiza wajibu wako sasa unamwachia akili yake nayo ichambue lipi zuri lipi baya
Ni kweli kabisa King'asti, nina rafiki wa hivyo pia..... juzi ananiambia hataki ushauri wa ku-cool down, nikamwambia you have called the wrong person then...... kwa bahati mbaya hana mwingine wa ku-share naye hicho kitu.... patamu hapo.Rafiki yangu kipenzi(i hope you read this) alinitumia msg siku moja akisema 'now i know!!!'.
Baadae akanitumia nyingine:
When in hard times or upset i call someone i know ananipenda.
When happy or in good tidings i call someone ninajua nampenda.
Then i also knew at that very moment. Confirmed kuwa tunapendana. We share the bad, good and the dirty. Ni raha sana kuwa na such a kind of a friend. Someone who will always stand by you and help you be more wiser kwa kuangalia mambo kutoka angle nyingine.