Naona mmesahau kidogo hii kitu mliyosoma mkiwa form one
(characteristics of living things) ya kwamba "they respond to
stimuli" . Mfano mmea hufuata mwanga, au nikiwa na minya
ndimu na wewe ulo karibu udenda lazima utakutoka. Hii
hutokea kwasababu viumbe hu-respond to stimuli.
Huwezi kusema unamsimamo mkali ukashindana na biology.
Katika mazingira sahihi (right conditions) kama utashikwa
shikwa vizuri (tarrr tiiib) kwa kisingizio cha kazi ya kupakwa
rangi (feeling innocent) you'll lower your guards down.
Utaanza kujiseme kimoyo moyo, "lakini hii ni profession yake"
lakini baada ya muda mwili wako utaanza ku respond, (you
know temp rising, lil tinglin', gettin' w*t). Hapo utaendelea ku
justify kwamba "lakini hakuna anaye niona" n.k.
kinesthetic touching and kinesthetic descriptive words are
very powerful b'cause they affect us on a neurological level
(out of your control).
Usijecheza kabisa na neurology yako hata siku moja. Mfano
watu wakiwa "interrogated" huwa wanakiri kosa bila kujua
kwasababu wanakuwa wamechezewa kiakili (mind fu**ed).
Wanatumia vitu kama modelling, presupposition, rapport,
outcome na feedback kuteka akili ya subject.
Kwahiyo cha muhimu ni kuwa mbali na vishawishi, usije jikuta
asali kidogo inapoteza kitu kikubwa kama kuvunjika ndoa na
baadae kuharibu saikolojia ya watoto ambao hawakuomba
kuzalia katika hiyo familia.
Ni wajibu kama watu wazima wenye busara kuyapina mambo
kabla hatujayafanya.