Wanaume kukosa uaminifu, chanzo ni wanawake

MtamaMchungu said:
Wanawake kutwa kucha kulalamikia wanaume sio waaminifu!! Charity begins at home, ni wanawake wangapi wenye mahusiano na wanaume wenye mahusiano na wanawake wenzao huku wao wakijua tena in worst cases watu wenye familia?

Why should it be wanaume tu kulaumiwa, kwa nini wanawake wasianze wao kwa kujiheshimu na kuheshimu mahusiano ya wanawake wenzao?


Hata kwa kesi ambazo mwanamke anaingia kwenye mahusiano na mwanaume bila kufahamu kuwa the man is engaged somewhere, pia ni uzembe.

Alifanya juhudi gani kuhakikisha anajua relationship status ya mwanaume?

Je, alikataa mahusiano kabla ya ndoa, kwa sababu kama kila mwanamke angesubiri ndoa, na kila mwanamke angekataa mahusiano kabla ya ndoa cases za cheating zitapungua sana.


Mzigo wa kukosa uaminifu ni wetu sote, tushirikiane kuutokomeza.
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Kweli.sio muda wote wanaume tu
 
Natafuta serious girl anayejitambua na aliyetayari kuanzisha mahusiano mapya,awe na umri usiozidi miaka 25
awe anaishi mbeya me napatikana iyunga anitafute kwa 0659496544 tuma sms ntakucall:rolleyez:

- awe anajiheshimu
- upendo wa kweli
-mwaminifu
anayejihisi ana vigezo anitafute
 
Me naona watu wengi wana-divert from the main point which is hata wanawake wana sehemu yao ya ku-play kuhakikisha mahusiano na ndoa zinakuwa imara. They are also supposed to learn how to say NO
 
MtamaMchungu said:
Ki-biological hilo ndio jukumu hasa la mwanaume, kutafuta mating opportunities.

- Mwisho wa siku, adui wa mwanamke ni mwanamke mwenyewe, kwanini wakati anajua kuwa huyu mwanaume ana familia anakubali
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Mating opportunities my ass.

As if we are in the jungle.

Wewe unaejijua una familia kwa nini usichukue hatua ya kuilinda familia yako kwa kutochepuka?

It begins with you.
 
Karucee said:
Mating opportunities my ass.

As if we are in the jungle.

Wewe unaejijua una familia kwa nini usichukue hatua ya kuilinda familia yako kwa kutochepuka?

It begins with you.
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Ukitaka kushindana na ukuta, utashindwa tu.

Huo ndio ukweli ingawa hizi dini na the so called usawa unachangia ku-stigmatize hili la mwanaume mmoja wanawake wengi. But whether you accept it or not, that is the way men are built. Unaweza ukadhani mimi ndio muhuni namba moja hapa nchini, on the contrary, I have always been in a monogamous relationships all my life, lakini ukweli naujua.

Mwanaume kukaa na mwanamke mmoja milele ni kazi ngumu sana. Ndio maana nikasema, women should do more. Jifunzeni kusema, "No I can not share a man with someone else". Kwa sababu kuna cases nyingi sana za wanawake kudate watu huku wakijua fika kwamba wako involved somewhere.

Wakati niko chuo jamaa yangu alikuwa na girlfriend lakini alikuwa mbali kidogo. Basi akaamua kuwa na kidumu mjini hapa, akamtafuta binti mmoja akampa sound, yule binti akamkataa. Jamaa akaona isiwe tabu, akampotezea. After a month or so, girlfriend wake alikuja chuoni kumuona jamaa, the guy akatafuta lodge akaenda kukaa huko wiki nzima. The other girl wa pale chuo, akasikia the guy yupo somewhere na girlfriend wake. Kwanza she was shocked, lakini baadae akatulia.

After a week jamaa alivyorudi, yule binti akamtafuta jamaa akamuuliza vipi nilisikia hivi na hivi, jamaa akamwambia ni kweli, I was with my girlfriend all this time. Maajabu yule binti akamwambia but I also love you. Jamaa akamwambia si unajua nina girlfriend. Binti akajibu, am okay being number two, and I wont even interfere with you main relationship. Ndio uhusiano wao ukaanzia hapo. The main woman akija, binti inabidi aweke pause mpaka aondoke and that went on for 3 college years.

In this case, mwanaume amefuata urges zake kumtongoza yule msichana..... lakini msichana baada ya kujua kwamba the guy is involved somewhere why did she say no. Kila mtu ana kosa hapa, lakini mwisho wa siku ni "wanaume wanaume wahuni". Nafasi ya mwanamke katika hili iko wapi??
 
MtamaMchungu said:
Ukitaka kushindana na ukuta, utashindwa tu.

Huo ndio ukweli ingawa hizi dini na the so called usawa unachangia ku-stigmatize hili la mwanaume mmoja wanawake wengi. But whether you accept it or not, that is the way men are built. Unaweza ukadhani mimi ndio muhuni namba moja hapa nchini, on the contrary, I have always been in a monogamous relationships all my life, lakini ukweli naujua.

Mwanaume kukaa na mwanamke mmoja milele ni kazi ngumu sana. Ndio maana nikasema, women should do more. Jifunzeni kusema, "No I can not share a man with someone else". Kwa sababu kuna cases nyingi sana za wanawake kudate watu huku wakijua fika kwamba wako involved somewhere.

Wakati niko chuo jamaa yangu alikuwa na girlfriend lakini alikuwa mbali kidogo. Basi akaamua kuwa na kidumu mjini hapa, akamtafuta binti mmoja akampa sound, yule binti akamkataa. Jamaa akaona isiwe tabu, akampotezea. After a month or so, girlfriend wake alikuja chuoni kumuona jamaa, the guy akatafuta lodge akaenda kukaa huko wiki nzima. The other girl wa pale chuo, akasikia the guy yupo somewhere na girlfriend wake. Kwanza she was shocked, lakini baadae akatulia.

After a week jamaa alivyorudi, yule binti akamtafuta jamaa akamuuliza vipi nilisikia hivi na hivi, jamaa akamwambia ni kweli, I was with my girlfriend all this time. Maajabu yule binti akamwambia but I also love you. Jamaa akamwambia si unajua nina girlfriend. Binti akajibu, am okay being number two, and I wont even interfere with you main relationship. Ndio uhusiano wao ukaanzia hapo. The main woman akija, binti inabidi aweke pause mpaka aondoke and that went on for 3 college years.

In this case, mwanaume amefuata urges zake kumtongoza yule msichana..... lakini msichana baada ya kujua kwamba the guy is involved somewhere why did she say no. Kila mtu ana kosa hapa, lakini mwisho wa siku ni "wanaume wanaume wahuni". Nafasi ya mwanamke katika hili iko wapi??
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You are contradicting yourself.

On one side you state that man is polygamous by nature and on the other, we women are to blame for this.

How?

Does that mean the polygamy aspect is regardless of species? Or are you keen to just throw the blame on women? Come out clearly, what is your point, oh mating opportunist?
 
Karucee said:
You are contradicting yourself.

On one side you state that man is polygamous by nature and on the other, we women are to blame for this.

How?

Does that mean the polygamy aspect is regardless of species? Or are you keen to just throw the blame on women? Come out clearly, what is your point, oh mating opportunist?
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Actually it's complicated. Let me put it this way....


It's natural that a man would seek to have sex with as many women as he can. Possibly every woman except ndugu zake for some genetic reasons flani hivi....


On the other hand, nature has moulded a woman in a way that she carefully chooses who can she sleep with, i.e not any man that comes around....


So who is in control? Obviuosly, women are in control. And if women make careless decision, a man will almost always never say NO. Who is to be blamed in this situation, a man who approaches every woman, or a woman who carelessly accepts every man?


Mwisho wa siku, as long wanawake wataendelea kukosa umakini na kuwa warahisi, hizi case za cheating zitaendelea na kuongezeka zaidi.
 
MtamaMchungu said:
Actually it's complicated. Let me put it this way....


It's natural that a man would seek to have sex with as many women as he can. Possibly every woman except ndugu zake for some genetic reasons flani hivi....


On the other hand, nature has moulded a woman in a way that she carefully chooses who can she sleep with, i.e not any man that comes around....


So who is in control? Obviuosly, women are in control. And if women make careless decision, a man will almost always never say NO. Who is to be blamed in this situation, a man who approaches every woman, or a woman who carelessly accepts every man?


Mwisho wa siku, as long wanawake wataendelea kukosa umakini na kuwa warahisi, hizi case za cheating zitaendelea na kuongezeka zaidi.
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What I can deduce from this is a man who cheats with some degree of burden on his mind called guilt.

But instead of taking this bitter pill and desisting from such an abhorrent dead, decides to shift the blame on women.

Dude, if you kept your pants zipped who would bring them down by force? SMDH!

Men should be held accountable for their actions without blaming it on women, There is nothing complicated about it.
 
Karucee said:
What I can deduce from this is a man who cheats with some degree of burden on his mind called guilt.

But instead of taking this bitter pill and desisting from such an abhorrent dead, decides to shift the blame on women.

Dude, if you kept your pants zipped who would bring them down by force? SMDH!

Men should be held accountable for their actions without blaming it on women, There is nothing complicated about it.
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What brings them down is the force of nature.....
 
Karucee said:
Well I speak for the right in mind!!

The masses might be as dumb as you are

Tell them I said Hello!!
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Hahaha

I shall not become a monkey simply because someone has called me a monkey - PW Botha

Wape salamu zao wanausibiri Mr Rights..... Tell them watengeneze vinyago vyao
 
MtamaMchungu said:
Hahaha

I shall not become a monkey simply because someone has called me a monkey - PW Botha

Wape salamu zao wanausibiri Mr Rights..... Tell them watengeneze vinyago vyao
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We are not waiting for Mr Right.

Some of us are much brighter than that.

And you are not gonna come anywhere within our reach.

And mark you we are married.

Haha.
 
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