Uzuri wa sura na umbo la Mwanamke Muhimu kwenye mahusiano

Mtume anatuasa

Tuoe wanawake wazuri,

Tuoe wanawake waliotoka familia zenye vipaji,

Tuoe wanawake waliotoka familia za wasomi,


Sasa haya matabaka mengine sijui kwa nini hakuyazungumzia,

kwa mwenye uelewa anifafanulie zaidi.

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Evelyn Salt said:
Hayo nayajua, ndio nakuuliza kuna maana gani sasa kuwa na mtu uliechagua kuspend nae maisha yako yote halafu unakua uncomfortable kuwa nae mahali kisa muonekano wake???

Mfano yule askofu machachari....yani mke wake wengi tulimjua siku ya press conference akimtetea mme kuwa vile viuno sio vyake yani hata madhabahuni haendi nae....mna dhambi sana nyie.
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Ila wabaya wanakuwa na k tamu balaa

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elishaezekiel said:
Uzuri wa muonekano muhimu mtu asikudanganye...

Tena nawashauri vijana, weka mwanamke mzuri wa mwonekano ndani. Wapo wanawake wazuri wenye akili sana tu kichwani...

Ina maana gani kuwa na pesa plus an ugly woman ndani... Raise standards kwenye appearances za wanawake unaodate...

Kuna watu kwa Kweli wanatia huruma, wana kila kitu, maisha mazuri. Kazi nzuri, Gari nzuri, nyumba nzuri, kijana ana look nzuri ila linapokuja swala la kuchagua inakua kama wamelogwa, ana mwanamke sijui kamtoa wapi..
Maslahi yake anayakanyaga kabisa.

Elevate your taste... hustle... get money....buy yourself good things...get yourself cute women... namaanisha beautiful women... achana na ugly women wakajifie huko ... mwanamke hawezi kumuangalia mwanamme mbaya marambili...

Kuna harusi ilifanyika juzi juzi hapa kati ya a tall girl and a short man hope all munaijua... look closely at the girl... she was not happy cause alienda against a lot of women standards...

Achana na wanawake ugly eti kisa akili au ucha Mungu.. nani kakwambia!! Hizo ni psychological compensations tuu... kucover up defects kwenye look...

Ningewashauri wanaume wawaige wanawake kwenye kuchagua... Women always go for the best man in the group...
Wanaume sasa... huruma.

Kingine mwanamke unaweza ukamshape kama upo matured kichwani... ukambadilishia kabisa mtazamo wa maisha ukabaki unajimegea tunda lako safi na akakuona the one and only...her King.

Another point
Pick beautiful women ambao ndo wanamaliza legal age limits... ukijipenda utakwepa usumbufu wa mapolisi... maisha yako ni mali...

Especially hawa wanaonaliza form four na kupitiliza diploma au wale wanaoingia chuoni...

Usidate mwanamke 25 and above... au single mom... no love there... girls... go for young adult women... beautiful girls... 18-24

Kuna jamaa alikuwa waziri wa fedha na sasa ni mtu mkubwa tu ... sijui ni raia namba ngapi hivi... very bright... economist mzuri kabisa ila His choice daa!!!

Kuna people za kawaida tuu ila they are enjoying...
Elevate your Taste... Sharpen your taste... via intercourses tutawasidia wengi
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Muogope MUNGU!

Kama Kuna watu hawana fikra Kama zako usiwashawishi,
Hizo ni fikra mbaya Sana ktk jamii

Nawaheshimu Sana wanaume wanaoamua kuoa bila kuweka vigezo kama unavyotaka wewe

Hao wanawake wenye sura mbaya, wasio na elimu ni dada zetu, shangazi zetu na pia tunazaa watoto Kama hao,

Tunahitaji watoto wetu waolewe, shangazi na dada zetu waolewe

Acha ujinga bro!
Nimekumind kinyama..!!!
 
elishaezekiel said:
Uzuri wa muonekano muhimu mtu asikudanganye...

Tena nawashauri vijana, weka mwanamke mzuri wa mwonekano ndani. Wapo wanawake wazuri wenye akili sana tu kichwani...

Ina maana gani kuwa na pesa plus an ugly woman ndani... Raise standards kwenye appearances za wanawake unaodate...

Kuna watu kwa Kweli wanatia huruma, wana kila kitu, maisha mazuri. Kazi nzuri, Gari nzuri, nyumba nzuri, kijana ana look nzuri ila linapokuja swala la kuchagua inakua kama wamelogwa, ana mwanamke sijui kamtoa wapi..
Maslahi yake anayakanyaga kabisa.

Elevate your taste... hustle... get money....buy yourself good things...get yourself cute women... namaanisha beautiful women... achana na ugly women wakajifie huko ... mwanamke hawezi kumuangalia mwanamme mbaya marambili...

Kuna harusi ilifanyika juzi juzi hapa kati ya a tall girl and a short man hope all munaijua... look closely at the girl... she was not happy cause alienda against a lot of women standards...

Achana na wanawake ugly eti kisa akili au ucha Mungu.. nani kakwambia!! Hizo ni psychological compensations tuu... kucover up defects kwenye look...

Ningewashauri wanaume wawaige wanawake kwenye kuchagua... Women always go for the best man in the group...
Wanaume sasa... huruma.

Kingine mwanamke unaweza ukamshape kama upo matured kichwani... ukambadilishia kabisa mtazamo wa maisha ukabaki unajimegea tunda lako safi na akakuona the one and only...her King.

Another point
Pick beautiful women ambao ndo wanamaliza legal age limits... ukijipenda utakwepa usumbufu wa mapolisi... maisha yako ni mali...

Especially hawa wanaonaliza form four na kupitiliza diploma au wale wanaoingia chuoni...

Usidate mwanamke 25 and above... au single mom... no love there... girls... go for young adult women... beautiful girls... 18-24

Kuna jamaa alikuwa waziri wa fedha na sasa ni mtu mkubwa tu ... sijui ni raia namba ngapi hivi... very bright... economist mzuri kabisa ila His choice daa!!!

Kuna people za kawaida tuu ila they are enjoying...
Elevate your Taste... Sharpen your taste... via intercourses tutawasidia wengi
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Low thinking
 
Love is feeling
Hivi jamani inawezekana mwanamke akakupenda ile deep feeling zake zote zipo kwako then baada ya muda akakupotezea/akakuchoka??? msaada mwanazengo.
 
Rosicky said:
Love is feeling
Hivi jamani inawezekana mwanamke akakupenda ile deep feeling zake zote zipo kwako then baada ya muda akakupotezea/akakuchoka??? msaada mwanazengo.
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Ndio inawezekana sana tu mkuu, wanawake ni viumbe ambao hubadilika muda wowote .
 
APEFACE said:
Mtume anatuasa

Tuoe wanawake wazuri,

Tuoe wanawake waliotoka familia zenye vipaji,

Tuoe wanawake waliotoka familia za wasomi,


Sasa haya matabaka mengine sijui kwa nini hakuyazungumzia,

kwa mwenye uelewa anifafanulie zaidi.

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Hujaelewa vizuri ndugu yangu.

Kwanza, Hadith haipo kama ulivosema. Ipo hivi;

This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”


Alichomaanisha Mtume hapo alikuwa anaelezea au kuonesha kuwa watu huoa wanawake kwa sababu ya uzuri, mali, nasaba au dini. Kisha yeye akasisitiza tuchague mwenye Dini.

Soma zaidi;

Commentary on the hadeeth, “A woman may be married for four things…”​

14-11-2006

Question 34170​

I have read your Article No. 22 on ( Rulings on Marriage ) I particularly did not understand the following phrase. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: (Women may be married for four things: wealth, beauty, lineage or religious commitment)
Does this mean the woman has to be wealthy, beautiful, come from a good ancestral family and be religiously committed? The final one on religious commitment is very clear to me and I too firmly believe in it; but the others arent. Please clarify. .

Answer​

Praise be to Allah.

This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”

There is nothing in this hadeeth to suggest that it is enjoined or encouraged to marry a woman for her beauty, lineage or wealth. Rather what it means is that these are things that people look for in marriage. Some look for a wife who is beautiful, some look for a wife who is descended from a noble family, some look for a wealthy wife, and some look for a wife who is religiously-committed – and this last is what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) encouraged when he said: “Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”

Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Sharh Muslim:

The correct view concerning the meaning of this hadeeth is that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke of what people usually do, for they seek these four characteristics, the last of which in their view is religious commitment, but you who are seeking to follow the right way should seek the one who is religiously committed. This is not a command to do so… This hadeeth encourages us to seek the company of religiously-committed people in all things, because the one who keeps company with them will benefit from their good attitude and good ways, and will be safe from any bad influence from them.

Al-Mubaarakfoori said in Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi:

Al-Qaadi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: It is the people’s custom to seek certain characteristics in women and to choose a wife for a certain quality. It befits those who are religiously-committed to base their actions on religious guidance, especially with regard to matters that are serious and have lasting effects.

The scholars differed greatly as to the meaning of the words, “May your hands be rubbed with dust.” Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Sharh Saheeh Muslim:

The most correct view is that of the muhaqqiqeen, that this is a phrase which originally ‘May you become poor’, but the Arabs customarily used it in a sense other than its original meaning, so they would say things such as, ‘May your hands be rubbed in the dust,’ ‘May Allaah kill him, how brave he is!’, ‘May he have no mother,’ ‘May you have no father,’ ‘May his mother be bereft of him,’ ‘Woe to his mother,’ and so on which they would say in the context of denouncing, rebuking, criticizing, expressing outrage encouraging an action, or expressing admiration, and so on.

And Allaah knows best
 
elishaezekiel said:
Uzuri wa muonekano muhimu mtu asikudanganye...

Tena nawashauri vijana, weka mwanamke mzuri wa mwonekano ndani. Wapo wanawake wazuri wenye akili sana tu kichwani...

Ina maana gani kuwa na pesa plus an ugly woman ndani... Raise standards kwenye appearances za wanawake unaodate...

Kuna watu kwa Kweli wanatia huruma, wana kila kitu, maisha mazuri. Kazi nzuri, Gari nzuri, nyumba nzuri, kijana ana look nzuri ila linapokuja swala la kuchagua inakua kama wamelogwa, ana mwanamke sijui kamtoa wapi..
Maslahi yake anayakanyaga kabisa.

Elevate your taste... hustle... get money....buy yourself good things...get yourself cute women... namaanisha beautiful women... achana na ugly women wakajifie huko ... mwanamke hawezi kumuangalia mwanamme mbaya marambili...

Kuna harusi ilifanyika juzi juzi hapa kati ya a tall girl and a short man hope all munaijua... look closely at the girl... she was not happy cause alienda against a lot of women standards...

Achana na wanawake ugly eti kisa akili au ucha Mungu.. nani kakwambia!! Hizo ni psychological compensations tuu... kucover up defects kwenye look...

Ningewashauri wanaume wawaige wanawake kwenye kuchagua... Women always go for the best man in the group...
Wanaume sasa... huruma.

Kingine mwanamke unaweza ukamshape kama upo matured kichwani... ukambadilishia kabisa mtazamo wa maisha ukabaki unajimegea tunda lako safi na akakuona the one and only...her King.

Another point
Pick beautiful women ambao ndo wanamaliza legal age limits... ukijipenda utakwepa usumbufu wa mapolisi... maisha yako ni mali...

Especially hawa wanaonaliza form four na kupitiliza diploma au wale wanaoingia chuoni...

Usidate mwanamke 25 and above... au single mom... no love there... girls... go for young adult women... beautiful girls... 18-24

Kuna jamaa alikuwa waziri wa fedha na sasa ni mtu mkubwa tu ... sijui ni raia namba ngapi hivi... very bright... economist mzuri kabisa ila His choice daa!!!

Kuna people za kawaida tuu ila they are enjoying...
Elevate your Taste... Sharpen your taste... via intercourses tutawasidia wengi
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Waoneee huruma watoto wako acha kmpangia mtu Cha kchagua wanwake wazur wengi hawaolew n kupga na kupita hivi
 
Mwangwi said:
Hujaelewa vizuri ndugu yangu.

Kwanza, Hadith haipo kama ulivosema. Ipo hivi;

This hadeeth was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4802) and Muslim (1466) from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) who said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Seek the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”


Alichomaanisha Mtume hapo alikuwa anaelezea au kuonesha kuwa watu huoa wanawake kwa sababu ya uzuri, mali, nasaba au dini. Kisha yeye akasisitiza tuchague mwenye Dini.

Soma zaidi;

Commentary on the hadeeth, “A woman may be married for four things…”​

14-11-2006

Question 34170​

I have read your Article No. 22 on ( Rulings on Marriage ) I particularly

And Allaah knows best
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