ushauri pliz: Nafikiria divorce

[ayanda]

Asante kwa kujirekebisha pengine utarekebisha na tabia yako ya kusema ovyo na ndo maana mme anakushinda ayanda. Usipende kuwa jamvi la wageni Ayanda. Tabia yako mbaya na kwa bahati mbaya hukuchapwa na wazazi wako ndo maana uko hivyo. Mgeukie muumba

ah na wewe bana, mume kanishinda how wakati yeye ndo anabembeleza kwangu mpaka namuonea huruma siku hizi.

hebu niondolee ujinga wako hapa, jamvi la wageni demu wako sijui mkeo.

na wew utakua suruali tu

 

[ayanda]

hautaki divorce kwa sababu ya mumeo kukucheat, bali unataka urudiane na mtu wako wa 42 years sasa tukupe ushauri gani na decision umeishafanya. pole, chukua hatua in which you will be happy. (una watoto???)

hata hujaelewa mada nzima.

anyway, hii mada ishapitwa na wakati maana uamuzi nimeshachukua na hivi sasa am dealing with other important issues.

am not even thinking about marriage, as i said i have alot of work on my table

 

[Honest boy]

try again dada jaribu kurudisha upendo nd kumbuka y u lovd him coz dah hao watoto watakua affected more than u can imagine

 

[ayanda]

Nadhan amekupata! Ngoja aje tuone.

hey, i was having fun u know just kupunguza tensions.

i didnt mean anything u know, hapa JF naingiaga kujirusha tu nikichoka na kazi.

I didnt mean it seriously, besides siwezi take such a heavy decision like divorce so fast. Nilikua na stress so nikahitaji kujipunguzia kwa kushare with these people.

Dont take it serious bana! but i have tried to hide your identity si umeona?

ah sometimes its fun kujibizana na watu usiowaona wala kuwajua.

hope tumeelewana baby boy.

 

[ayanda]

try again dada jaribu kurudisha upendo nd kumbuka y u lovd him coz dah hao watoto watakua affected more than u can imagine

thanx, unajua nimeshatulia na walasifikirii divorce, nafanya mambo mengine ya maana kuliko divorce

 

[Leonard Robert]

ata nikikushauri nitapoteza muda coz unaonekana una conclusion tayari

 

[Brahnman]

hey, i was having fun u know just kupunguza tensions.

i didnt mean anything u know, hapa JF naingiaga kujirusha tu nikichoka na kazi.

I didnt mean it seriously, besides siwezi take such a heavy decision like divorce so fast. Nilikua na stress so nikahitaji kujipunguzia kwa kushare with these people.

Dont take it serious bana! but i have tried to hide your identity si umeona?

ah sometimes its fun kujibizana na watu usiowaona wala kuwajua.

hope tumeelewana baby boy.

Basi ngoja tuendelee kupunguza tension! Kumbe hukuwa silias,anyway,umejitahidi kuhide identity yangu? Can you tell me how did you managed to hide my identity, it seems zat you know me. Nadhan kwa sasa umepunguza stress sasa eeeh!

 

[ayanda]

Basi ngoja tuendelee kupunguza tension! Kumbe hukuwa silias,anyway,umejitahidi kuhide identity yangu? Can you tell me how did you managed to hide my identity, it seems zat you know me. Nadhan kwa sasa umepunguza stress sasa eeeh!

ah bwana nilikua seriuos but not sure 100% so nilitaka nipate ideas so ikabidi ile mada niiweke vizuri ili watu wasije jumlisha then wanaweza hisi bure si unajua tena naogopa. But majibu yote niliyowapa watu ni TRUE but nimechanganya kidogo details.
wewe how did u know tulimeet kanda ya ziwa wakati unasoma? and how did you know my home?

 

[ayanda]

Basi ngoja tuendelee kupunguza tension! Kumbe hukuwa silias,anyway,umejitahidi kuhide identity yangu? Can you tell me how did you managed to hide my identity, it seems zat you know me. Nadhan kwa sasa umepunguza stress sasa eeeh!

i know you alot kwani wewe si kafman, kwani si tuliwahi chart PM?

 

[nanjilinji]

nani kakwambia nagawa kama njugu wewe, kwani wewe nimekupa. Yani kumpa mtu mmoja nje ndo nimegawa kama njugu?

hebu niondokee

Unajisahau, unakumbuka kabla ya kuolewa maBF wako wote? Umesahau kuwa kaka yangu alikumega, mjomba pia akakufaidi. Nakumbuka walikuwa wakisema. Ulipoolewa ndo vidumu kama kawa. Mimi hujanipa maana ni mdogo wako lakini subiri, wakikuchoka utakuja kwetu maserengeti boys!!! Natamani kupanda hilo gari lako.

 

[nanjilinji]

nyoooooo uniduu wewe labda nikiwa maiti sio mzima hivi.

Utanihonga tu ukichuja, hivi mdogo wako bado mzuri kama zamani? Nilimpenda sana wakati ule

 

[nanjilinji]

ah na wewe bana, mume kanishinda how wakati yeye ndo anabembeleza kwangu mpaka namuonea huruma siku hizi.

hebu niondolee ujinga wako hapa, jamvi la wageni demu wako sijui mkeo.

na wew utakua suruali tu

Ayanda, si unajua bado sijaoa mpaka nifike 30. Siwezi oa na miaka 22. Lakini dada yangu acha umalaya, tulia mume anakuenjoy tu. Hivi ulishapima? Tembelea angaza ayanda

 

[ayanda]

Ayanda, si unajua bado sijaoa mpaka nifike 30. Siwezi oa na miaka 22. Lakini dada yangu acha umalaya, tulia mume anakuenjoy tu. Hivi ulishapima? Tembelea angaza ayanda

hata mimi naona.

angaza nilishaenda, kwani si ulinipima wewe mwenyewe au umesahau?

 

[ayanda]

Utanihonga tu ukichuja, hivi mdogo wako bado mzuri kama zamani? Nilimpenda sana wakati ule

kwani wewe ni shoga? maana wadogo zangu wote ni wa kiume.

 

[ayanda]

Unajisahau, unakumbuka kabla ya kuolewa maBF wako wote? Umesahau kuwa kaka yangu alikumega, mjomba pia akakufaidi. Nakumbuka walikuwa wakisema. Ulipoolewa ndo vidumu kama kawa. Mimi hujanipa maana ni mdogo wako lakini subiri, wakikuchoka utakuja kwetu maserengeti boys!!! Natamani kupanda hilo gari lako.

pole sana naona unaumia mwenyewe lol hebu ngoja nichek nahisi kuna tusi nilikutukana juzi nadhani bado una hasira na mimi, yaani ungejua mwenzio walaaaa ndo kwanza naona raha!

 

[hekimatele]

Nimesoma thread yako ila kwa haraka haraka nnachokiona hapo ni kuwa wote mmeamua kusalitiana kwa sababu mmoja alianza kumsaliti mwenzake. Waswahili wanasema mwaga mboga nimwage unga. Sasa ukitaka salama, usijaribu kukimbilia talaka. Haitakusaidia sana. Hata huyo unayedhani anakufaa na miaka yake 42 sijui, hatakusaidia lolote. Yamkini ana wengine zaidi yako huko nje kwa hiyo kukimbia tatizo moja kunakupelekea kukutana na mengine elfu 3 huko nje. Sasa ni bora ukakaa na kuishauri nafsi yako kama inataka kudeal na matatizo lukuki ya nje au kukabiliana na lako moja la ndani.
You might want to say, staying will add no value neither solve what is currently prevailing but I can only tell you, you are far better off where you are than where you want to go.
Grasses always look greener on the other side. Eyes can be deceiving at times. Don't let this be that time.
I have seen more people who made it by staying and fight than those who gave up and ran away. Life changes them completely for the worst especially those who ran away. God will deal with your situation. In fact God hates divorce. it is written in Bible. And if at all you consider doing it, just remember that Biblically you are not allowed to enter in another marriage until your husband dies. Remember, the only divorce that God recognises is when your spouse departs (Akitangulia kwenda mbele za haki). Contrary to that, bible calls it adultery.
No heaven for adulterers.
Counselling can do a lot more to you than gossips from friends. get a person you cn trust to take you through spiritual counselling and you will be up and running in no time.
God brings together, Satan scatters. And that is exactly what Satan wants to do in your life right now.
Two wrongs dont make it right. Just because he has done you wrong does not qualify you to repay him with the same.
Think about your kids and your future that you are so concerned about, in fact your future is safer with God than any where else.
I humbly submit.

 

[nanjilinji]

hata mimi naona.

angaza nilishaenda, kwani si ulinipima wewe mwenyewe au umesahau?

Acha utani nenda na itakuwa bahati mbaya kama utakuwa negative maana nasiki (kwa waliopata bahati mbaya kuonja tunda lako) kuwa huwa hutumii kinga. Uzuri wako wote huo unauchezea. Kaa na mmeo tu

 

[nanjilinji]

kwani wewe ni shoga? maana wadogo zangu wote ni wa kiume.

Ayanda kwa uongo!!! Usijisheue wadogo zako wawili ni wanaume na wawili ni wasichana (ladies maana sijui kama bado)

 

[ayanda]

Ayanda kwa uongo!!! Usijisheue wadogo zako wawili ni wanaume na wawili ni wasichana (ladies maana sijui kama bado)

haya basi umepatia.

unanichosha bana,

asante lakini kwa kuchat na mimi, acha basi niendelee na kazi.

 

[ayanda]

Nimesoma thread yako ila kwa haraka haraka nnachokiona hapo ni kuwa wote mmeamua kusalitiana kwa sababu mmoja alianza kumsaliti mwenzake. Waswahili wanasema mwaga mboga nimwage unga. Sasa ukitaka salama, usijaribu kukimbilia talaka. Haitakusaidia sana. Hata huyo unayedhani anakufaa na miaka yake 42 sijui, hatakusaidia lolote. Yamkini ana wengine zaidi yako huko nje kwa hiyo kukimbia tatizo moja kunakupelekea kukutana na mengine elfu 3 huko nje. Sasa ni bora ukakaa na kuishauri nafsi yako kama inataka kudeal na matatizo lukuki ya nje au kukabiliana na lako moja la ndani.
You might want to say, staying will add no value neither solve what is currently prevailing but I can only tell you, you are far better off where you are than where you want to go.
Grasses always look greener on the other side. Eyes can be deceiving at times. Don't let this be that time.
I have seen more people who made it by staying and fight than those who gave up and ran away. Life changes them completely for the worst especially those who ran away. God will deal with your situation. In fact God hates divorce. it is written in Bible. And if at all you consider doing it, just remember that Biblically you are not allowed to enter in another marriage until your husband dies. Remember, the only divorce that God recognises is when your spouse departs (Akitangulia kwenda mbele za haki). Contrary to that, bible calls it adultery.
No heaven for adulterers.
Counselling can do a lot more to you than gossips from friends. get a person you cn trust to take you through spiritual counselling and you will be up and running in no time.
God brings together, Satan scatters. And that is exactly what Satan wants to do in your life right now.
Two wrongs dont make it right. Just because he has done you wrong does not qualify you to repay him with the same.
Think about your kids and your future that you are so concerned about, in fact your future is safer with God than any where else.
I humbly submit.

hivi wapi nilisema kwamba nataka kwenda kwa mtu?

why nyote mnadhani kuna sehemu nataka kwenda?

do u think i cant live bila kua na ndoa?

hii ishu ya mwanaume wa nje mbona mnaiwekea mkazo sana? is not a big deal anyway, nilimention tu

Anyway thanx, but right now am not focusing on marital issues nipo busy na issues nyingine tofauti. Besides, its almost a week tangu niweke hii mada hewani, so nimeshatulia na nina mipango mingine tofauti.

I think wadau mmelikuza sana hii ishu, yani it looks bigger than it reality.