Uko wapi baba?

[Mentor]

Kwa nini kuna mentality ya mtu mzima wa miaka 25 kuonwa mtoto? Kwa nini huyu "mtoto" hakumtafuta baba miaka yote mpaka anakuwa 25? Hata akimuona baba na kugundua baba yake hapendi hiki anapenda kile ndo aanze kumlea akiwa na miaka 25?

Hatujamwita mtoto..ni binti mtu mzima na ni wakati muafaka anaopaswa kumtafuta mzazi wake.

 

[ladyfurahia]

Pole ndugu yangu, mwombe mungu atakuonesha tu ila mwambie mama yako kama baba yako anao ndugu wengine ili uweze kumtafuta dad wako kwani mzazi ni mzazi hata kama alikutupa ipo siku atakutafuta kwani damu nzito kuliko maji

 

[ladyfurahia]

WE Mentor hebu nenda kule nimekuweka online wewe

Hatujamwita mtoto..ni binti mtu mzima na ni wakati muafaka anaopaswa kumtafuta mzazi wake.

 

[Kiranga]

Hatujamwita mtoto..ni binti mtu mzima na ni wakati muafaka anaopaswa kumtafuta mzazi wake.

Undugu kufaana, usambe kufanana.

 

[Mentor]

Undugu kufaana, usambe kufanana.

Hatafuti wa kufaana anatafuta kile kilicho kizito kuliko maji!!!!!
Angekuwa anatafuta wa kufaana angemtafuta wakati anasoma..anytime alipokuwa mdogo for varied reasons kama mama labda kumtesa, au kukosa uwezo wa kujikimu..
Lakini hii ya sasa is more of identity search...damu nzito ndugu yangu acha tu!!!

 

[Nndu wa Selote]

Malezi ya wazazi wote wawili yalikuwa yanahitajika zaidi huku ulikotoka kuliko unakokwenda. Sijui kwa nini mamako anapokuambia babako alifariki hutaki kumuamini wakati amekulea kwa zaidi ya miaka ishirini sasa akiwa peke yake. Hivi ni yupi anatangulia kuwa na uchungu na mwingine.... mzazi kwa mtoto au mtoto kwa mzazi??? Kama yuko hai na hakukutafuta tangu ukiwa na miezi sita unadhani ukimpata ndo itakuwaje??? Tena mtoto wa miezi sita ambaye hujawahi kumtia machoni hadi anafikia miaka 25 utamtambua ? Ukimpata akakukataa kwamba hakujua? Na kweli hakujui ...any way mtakwenda kwa DNA test. Ili iweje? aje atie saini kwenye cheti chako cha ndoa?

 

[Mentor]

@Prisss,
nakuona online hebu njoo and shed some more light into this topic u started...!!!

 

[chiko]

Ningekuwa mie wewe, kwanza ningempongeza mama for being there. Angeweza kuwatelekeza. Lakini ameonyesha yeye ni mwanamke kweli na kukomaa na wanawe. Baba ambae hana time na mimi, hata tukikutana kwa bahati mbaya atahitaji kuwa na sababu nzuri sana sana za kwa nini hakuweza kuwa kwenye maisha yangu japo kwa barua!

Move on, like ur mom! Kafa huyo kwenye ajali ya mv maisha! Unaweza kumjua akaishia kukumess up tu! Na kukuvuruga for the rest of your days. Haumuhitaji kwa ajili ya maisha yako kuwa complete!

Issue ni kujua huyo mtu(BABA) anakaaje ama ni mtu wa aina gani, sio kwa sababu ya 'MAHITAJI'!!!!!!

 

[Kiranga]

Hatafuti wa kufaana anatafuta kile kilicho kizito kuliko maji!!!!!
Angekuwa anatafuta wa kufaana angemtafuta wakati anasoma..anytime alipokuwa mdogo for varied reasons kama mama labda kumtesa, au kukosa uwezo wa kujikimu..
Lakini hii ya sasa is more of identity search...damu nzito ndugu yangu acha tu!!!

Identity haitafutwi kwa sperm donor, unless na wewe unataka kuwa sperm donor.

 

[Mwanaweja]

mwanangu nipo shambani nafukuza radi

bujibuji unatisha unafukuza radi????

 

[Mentor]

I met my biological mother when I was 17. It wasn't anything like I expected, but it was a worthwhile experience, at least to answer all those questions that I had. People who have grown up with their biological parents will never understand the need to know.

 

[The Boss]

Natumaini utakuwa hujakatishwa tamaa na mitazamo ya watu ambao hawaoni umuhimu wa wewe kumtafuta baba yako.

Kama moyo wako unakusukuma kumtafuta ili hatimaye ujiridhishe nafsini mwako basi na mtafute huyo baba yako.

Maisha ni yako mwenyewe. Kumtafuta baba yako si kufanya makosa. Mtafute uridhike uendelee na maisha yako.

Kila la kheri.

Nakuunga mkono
kuna mambo meengomno ambayo mtu anaweza 'kurithi' bila kujijua kuwa amerithi
mengine ni biological zaidi
unakuta kumbe his or her biological father alikuwa left
handed na yeye yupo hivyo au magonjwa serious ya kurithi na tabia pia
its good to find out

 

[Bujibuji Simba Nyamaume]

bujibuji unatisha unafukuza radi????

Mwanaweja, nimefungua darasa la shughuli hiyo

 

[munisijo]

Ningekuwa mie wewe, kwanza ningempongeza mama for being there. Angeweza kuwatelekeza. Lakini ameonyesha yeye ni mwanamke kweli na kukomaa na wanawe. Baba ambae hana time na mimi, hata tukikutana kwa bahati mbaya atahitaji kuwa na sababu nzuri sana sana za kwa nini hakuweza kuwa kwenye maisha yangu japo kwa barua!

Move on, like ur mom! Kafa huyo kwenye ajali ya mv maisha! Unaweza kumjua akaishia kukumess up tu! Na kukuvuruga for the rest of your days. Haumuhitaji kwa ajili ya maisha yako kuwa complete!

Pole King'asti, u talk like someone who pass through alot of ....(Worse) before!Mpaka kaja hapa jamvini it means n bora zaid kumfahau kuliko kuto....

 

[Prisss]

Hii familia ya "Rugangila" note: siyo "ra" ni "la" ina historia fulani katika nchi ambayo Mwl. Nyerere hakupendezwa nayo! "Enock Rugangila" alishantangulia mbele ya haki siku nyingi sana...!(RIP), na wala hakuwa kwenye ajali ya Mv Bukoba.

Naomba uendelee na maisha yako na mama yako na nduguzo na mshukuru Mungu kuwa umeweza kufika hapo ulipo...!

Ameni

Baba Enock, my Grand fadher in assumption, pliz unaweza kunifafanulia kidogo kuhusu hiyo familia ya Enock Rugangila
tafadhali? Alitangulia mbele ya haki akiwa wapi? Ni nchi gani hiyo aliyokuwepo ambapo mwalimu Nyerere hakupendezwa nayo? tafadhali naomba nifunulie.

Ni dhahiri nitaendelea na maisha yangu kwa namna yeyote ile, lakini kujua kuhusiana na hili kutayafanya maisha hayo yawe meaningful zaid

 

[Prisss]

Ningekuwa mie wewe, kwanza ningempongeza mama for being there. Angeweza kuwatelekeza. Lakini ameonyesha yeye ni mwanamke kweli na kukomaa na wanawe. Baba ambae hana time na mimi, hata tukikutana kwa bahati mbaya atahitaji kuwa na sababu nzuri sana sana za kwa nini hakuweza kuwa kwenye maisha yangu japo kwa barua! Move on, like ur mom! Kafa huyo kwenye ajali ya mv maisha! Unaweza kumjua akaishia kukumess up tu! Na kukuvuruga for the rest of your days. Haumuhitaji kwa ajili ya maisha yako kuwa complete!

Mama mwenyewe aliniacha nikiwa mdogo nimelelewa na bibi kuanzia nikiwa na miaka mitatu coz mama aliolewa na huyo baba yao na wadogo zangu mi nikabaki kwa bibi na babu ndo aliyeniandikisha shule nimekujakuishi na mama tayari nikiwa na maisha yangu

 

[Prisss]

Nakuunga mkono kuna mambo meengomno ambayo mtu anaweza 'kurithi' bila kujijua kuwa amerithi mengine ni biological zaidi unakuta kumbe his or her biological father alikuwa left handed na yeye yupo hivyo au magonjwa serious ya kurithi na tabia pia its good to find out

Thanks

 

[Mentor]

Mama mwenyewe aliniacha nikiwa mdogo nimelelewa na bibi kuanzia nikiwa na miaka mitatu coz mama aliolewa na huyo baba yao na wadogo zangu mi nikabaki kwa bibi na babu ndo aliyeniandikisha shule nimekujakuishi na mama tayari nikiwa na maisha yangu

Kiranga come read this...!

 

[Kiranga]

Kiranga come read this...!

What makes you think I haven't?

Look, it's natural for one to want to know her father.

I am just keen on being a realist and not setting her expectations up, a father who has had no contact for all these years is not much of a father and may actually prove to be a negative influence on the daughter's live. In my opinion she should spend time to re-acquint herself with her mother, whom apparently she hardly know as supposed earlier.

She can go and look for her father all she wants, but if the father turns out to be a selfish prick, she can't say people did not warn her.

Of course there is always the unforeseen, which may validate the opposition camp hoping for the miracle of a good ending.

Or simply satisfying that human weakness disguised as itching curiosity.

Moral of the saga? Msizaezae ovyo, mtawapa watoto wenu shida.

 

[Chief]

Kati yangu ninayeheshimu the cold fact kwamba baba hajataka contact na wewe unayeendekeza ndoto za a deadbeat dad kum complete mtoto nani emotional hapa?

Hadithi yako hsihusiani vilivyo na kisa hiki kea sababu baba wa kisa hiki anajua kuna mtoto.

Hii sio cold fact bali ni assumption tu. Kwanza tumeambiwa kuwa huyu baba kafariki zamani sana, kwa hiyo inawezekana zaidi hakumtafuta kwa kuwa alishakufa na sio kuwa hakutaka kumtafuta.