The HSPs (Highly Sensitive Persons)

The HSPs (Highly Sensitive Persons)

Vipi kwa mtu ambaye ana combination of the two...yaani kuna kipindi in life he feels very comfortable being around people na yote yafananayo na kujichanganya kwenye jamii, HALAFU kuna vipindi anakuwa hataki kabisa kujichanganya kwenye jamii, the same jamii ambayo few months back he enjoyed being around them.

Huyo anakuwa kundi gani?
 
Kiranga said:
This is partly due to high intelligence, but an even higher intelligence is knowing how to control your inner HSP.

I may have some aspects of that, or it could just be my sense of investigation and need for justice and correction of wrongs makes me to think that.

Even if I think people are boring, I would challenge myself to learn from them.Or challenge myself to teach them. Or challenge myself to survive in a boring situation, thinking that if I am smart enough, I ought to find or make something interesting out of it.

I sometimes tend to believe that someone who cannot spell right may not be up to par in a philosophical discussion, because they do not pay attention to detail. One could interpret that as me being overly sensitive about format.

But the funny thing is, on the other hand, I balance that with being very tolerant of unstructed communication (In a Whatsapp group, I would shun a "Topic of The Day" form of discussion and embrace a freer format).

Also, the way I overcome my sensitive side is by looking at myself as an intelligent person whose mind cannot be disturbed by anyone whom I think is less intelligent than myself - quite often a significant part of the population here at JF at least. It is a bit narcissistic.

Yeah.

I think I am too narcissistic to be overly sensitive. I may actually be overly insensitive.

Case in point, I would think nothing of calling someone as an ignoramus if I have the evidence to show that. To me it does not matter much how the other person feels, as long as I have the right evidence to support my case. I look at it as possibly helping the other person realize their position and possibly correcting it.

Enough self analysis.
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Well, u are narcissistic, that's somehow far from being an HSP though u may hold some traits of HSPs. An HSP is concerned about himself and others.

Hope you are not being too narcissistic hence having a narcissistic personality disorder.

As for me, the presence of people at any given time and place is simply stressful.
 
Reina princess said:
Asante.

Uzuri hii hali si ugonjwa. Watu wanatakiwa waelewe tu kuwa kuna personality ya namna hii, wasiwe critical, watuelewe tu.

Mimi na connect na wanyama wengi, mbwa, paka, kuku, bata, nguruwe, ng'ombe, mbuzi, nyani, samaki na wengine wengi isipokuwa nyoka.

And trust me, wanyama wananijua, ninawajua, tunajuana... We really get along very well. We connect on the highest spiritual level. Animals are just incredible. They are loving, understanding, humble, so pure in heart, just name it.

Huyu wa jf kwa kuwa ni Nyani naweza ku connect..... Teh.
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I see..

Another question...and please feel free to pass if you don't feel comfortable.

Do you sometime go through periods where you experience suicidal ideations?

And I've got to give you kudos for being able to know yourself that well.

Some of us don't even know who we are. I don't think I know what my personality is and I've never even bothered to try to find out.

But that's probably due to my '*** it' attitude. I don't know...
 
Reina princess nimeuliza swali hapo juu naomba unijibu...
 
Gwamahala said:
Vipi kwa mtu ambaye ana combination of the two...yaani kuna kipindi in life he feels very comfortable being around people na yote yafananayo na kujichanganya kwenye jamii, HALAFU kuna vipindi anakuwa hataki kabisa kujichanganya kwenye jamii, the same jamii ambayo few months back he enjoyed being around them.

Huyo anakuwa kundi gani?
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That's a normal person in his highs and lows.
 
Imebidi niingie "gugo" nijisomee zaidi...nimekutana na hii. Mnaizungumziaje, kuwa 30% of HSPs ni extroverts!
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Nyani Ngabu said:
I see..

Another question...and please feel free to pass if you don't feel comfortable.

Do you sometime go through periods where you experience suicidal ideations?

And I've got to give you kudos for being able to know yourself that well.

Some of us don't even know who we are. I don't think I know what my personality is and I've never even bothered to try to find out.

But that's probably due to my '*** it' attitude. I don't know...
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Suicidal??? That's scary.

Never have I had such an idea.

U people just don't get it, do u

HSPs prefer being alone but they are not lonely. They prefer being alone so as they can process everything that's around them.

Things that ordinary people ignore, HSPs take them very seriously and carefully digest them, every small detail.
So we are very busy, our minds are not idle.

We find fulfillment and great joy in nature and from a few people who understand us, we enjoy our own company. . Music is an icing on the cake... How can we be Suicidal???

We, on the contrary wonder how other people cope with this social world. Loud people and objects, rude and inconsiderate people, very busy environments, social gatherings.
It's simply over stimulating and too much for the brain... And that's a recipe for suicide.

That's why after a very busy day, we simply need a quieter place, sip a cup of tea, gaze at nature, analyse things and enjoy life.

Sio tena kutoka na mashosti kwenda sijui out. Ni kutafuta kachanganyikiwa.

And do a personality check, u never know what you might come up with.
 
Reina princess said:
Suicidal??? That's scary.

Never have I had such an idea.

U people just don't get it, do u

HSPs prefer being alone but they are not lonely. They prefer being alone so as they can process everything that's around them.

Things that ordinary people ignore, HSPs take them very seriously and carefully digest them, every small detail.
So we are very busy, our minds are not idle.

We find fulfillment and great joy in nature and from a few people who understand us, we enjoy our own company. . Music is an icing on the cake... How can we be Suicidal???

We, on the contrary wonder how other people cope with this social world. Loud people and objects, rude and inconsiderate people, very busy environments, social gatherings.
It's simply over stimulating and too much for the brain... And that's a recipe for suicide.

That's why after a very busy day, we simply need a quieter place, sip a cup of tea, gaze at nature, analyse things and enjoy life.

Sio tena kutoka na mashosti kwenda sijui out. Ni kutafuta kachanganyikiwa.
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Well, one way towards 'getting it' is to avoid making declarative statements and ask questions.

Some of us are not shrinks and this is the first time even hearing it.

Bear with us, will you?

So, how can you connect with this Nyani?

This Nyani needs some connection man....

Oh...and, is it fair to call you people worriers?
 
Nyani Ngabu said:
Well, one way towards 'getting it' is to avoid making declarative statements and ask questions.

Some of us are not shrinks and this is the first time even hearing it.

Bear with us, will you?

So, how can you connect with this Nyani?

This Nyani needs some connection man....

Oh...and, is it fair to call you people worriers?
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Do u think Nyani can connect with an HSP?

And yes u can call us worriers because at some point we are concerned about things not turning out right.
 
Nyani Ngabu said:
Nyani is a very well-rounded fella. Very easy to get along with. He'll have no issues connecting with an HSP.
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Will Nyani understand if I burst into tears by just watching what I consider a sad movie? (which may seem ok to others)
 
Gwamahala said:
Vipi kwa mtu ambaye ana combination of the two...yaani kuna kipindi in life he feels very comfortable being around people na yote yafananayo na kujichanganya kwenye jamii, HALAFU kuna vipindi anakuwa hataki kabisa kujichanganya kwenye jamii, the same jamii ambayo few months back he enjoyed being around them.

Huyo anakuwa kundi gani?
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Nimeuliza hii kitu, mtoa mada Reina princess naomba mtazamo wako tafadhali.
 
Reina princess said:
Will Nyani understand if I burst into tears by just watching what I consider a sad movie? (which may seem ok to others)
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Of course he will.

Nyani understands that people are different. Different in every sense of the word.

Some are stoic and some, like you, wear your heart on your sleeve.

It's life.

And life is this big old intricate phenomenon and he embraces it wholeheartedly.

No half-steppin'.
 
For a man being HSP makes him seen like a fag!!
 
Nadhani umejibiwa hapo juu #90 mkuu Gwamahala said,hii mada imenibamba sn nko nayo mwanzo mwisho
 
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