Single parents . . . Yes you Can . !!!!

[snowhite]

Namkumbuka sana huyu mfanyakazi mwenzangu wakati huo.Ilikuwa ni mwaka 1998 wakati nilipokua nafanya kazi pamoja nae,na ni mwaka huohuo alipata matatizo kazini yaliyopelekea kuyavuruga maisha yake kwa muda
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Wakati mimi nakwenda kwenye kampuni ile nilimkuta na ni mkubwa kwangu kiumri,jamaa yangu huyu alikuwa ni mpenda starehe na wanawake,lakini pia alikua na mtoto wa miaka minane na alikua ameoa,kitendo chake cha kupenda starehe na akina dada kilipelekea akala fedha za kampuni kitendo kilichosababisha asimamishwe kazi na baadae kufukuzwa kabisa
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Kampuni iliamua kuchukua chochote alichokua anamiliki ikiwa ni pamoja na samani alizokua nazo alipokua amepanga.Maisha yakawa magumu sana
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Mkewe alifariki kwa ajali ya kugongwa na gari kitendo kilichomchanganya sana jamaa yangu huyu akawa kama amerukwa na akili,chakula cha kula yeye na mwanae kikawa tabu kupatikana
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Siku moja akiwa mwenye mawazo mengi huku machozi yakimtoka bila kujijua,mwanawe akawa amelala kwenye box ambalo ndicho kilichokuwa kitanda chao aliamka na kumwambia baba yake maneno yafuatayo;
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"Baba mama ameniambia usingizini kuwa amekusamehe kwa uliyokuwa unayafanya,ameniambi nikuambie hayo na amesema pia ufanye kazi na kumuomba Mungu ili maisha yawe mazuri na zawadi pekee utakayompa ni kuyabadili maisha yako"
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Jamaa alijikuta analia kwa sauti mbele ya mwanae wa kike kwa uchungu
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Kwa nguvu aliyopata siku ile alijituma sana na amefanikiwa kujenga nyumba mbili na ni mfanya biashara ya vipuri vya magari,mwanae yupo mwaka wa pili SAUTI
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Nimekupeni kwa ufupi sana uzoefu wa single parent huyo ili mjifunze anglau kidogo.Najua sio jambo dogo mzazi mwenzako akuache na familia,iwe kwa kifo au kukukimbia lakini fahamu kuwa UNAWEZA kuishi na ukayabadili maisha na kuwa mazuri zaidi
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Usijilaumu au kujilaani kwa lolote,jifunze kupitia makosa,hakuna asiekosea,songa mbele
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Kama mkeo/mumeo amekukimbia na amekuachia watoto,usiogope wanao watakua baraka kwako,songa mbele

shikamoo shemeji!nakuamkia tuu!MUULIZE Dark City kwanini!lol

 

[snowhite]

Shem,huyu dawa yake inachemka ngoja aje home leo!

kwani leo mbn una hasira san shem!
ni ile jero tuu au! Kaunga kwani hukuacha uji wa ulezi leo asubuhi mbn hiv mpenzi wangu!

 

[snowhite]

Eiyer were you in child labor? In 1998 si ulikuwa 12 weye!
Single parents we rock coz we work harder for place of two, n no complains!

nilishamtwanga shikamoo mie!kumbe kaniiibia! Eiyer una kesi ya kujibu!

 

[Dark City]

shikamoo shemeji!nakuamkia tuu!MUULIZE Dark City kwanini!lol

Hahahahahhaahhahahah,

Una nini nami wewe mdodo wangu snowhite??

Leo natamani likizo kidogo...

Ila ukweli ni kwamba siku zote maisha lazima yasonge mbele..with or without wale tunaowapenda....

Kuomboleza milele ni dalili ya kujitafutia kiama....

Babu DC!!

 

[Blue G]

Yeaaaaahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

at least am cool..keep on feeding our minds

 

[The Monk]

Is good to see you here!!

Thanks Eiyer, your presence triggered my attention.

Maisha yana mabo mengi sana mengine yapo ndani ya uwezo wetu na mengine nje ya uwezo wetu. Tunayaangalia maisha kwa mtazamo upi ni jambo la muhimu sana. All in all nimejifunza kutotafuta visingizio na kulaumu wengine kwa mambo yanayo nihusu.

Be blessed

 

[Blue G]

Haya maneno mazuri sana, japo sred imelalia kwa single parents ila huu ujumbe ni beyond single parents, unatwanga kotekote...be blessed

Thank you very much Samaritan and be blessed too.

 

[Eiyer]

nilishamtwanga shikamoo mie!kumbe kaniiibia! Eiyer una kesi ya kujibu!

Shem kunani tena????Huyo achana nae nina ka bifu nae, gfsonwin amejitahidi kusuluhisha imeshindwa!Na ngorongoro haendi!

 

[Mamndenyi]

Mwanaume akikuacha msamehe tu
songa mbele uone kama hautafanikiwa.

kwa wanaume sijui wakiachwa inakuwaje.

 

[Kaunga]

Kaunga kumbe umefanya "child abuse" apo kwa Eiyer

Jamani nilikuwa namkuza ili awe pro; halafu he was 19 when l had him about two years ago! LOL

 

[Kaunga]

kwani leo mbn una hasira san shem!
ni ile jero tuu au! Kaunga kwani hukuacha uji wa ulezi leo asubuhi mbn hiv mpenzi wangu!

Amezira kunywa eti kisa asali imeisha. Sukari hatumii huyoo!

 

[Eiyer]

Jamani nilikuwa namkuza ili awe pro; halafu he was 19 when l had him about two years ago! LOL

Tatizo lako hujui kutumza siri!

 

[Eiyer]

Amezira kunywa eti kisa asali imeisha. Sukari hatumii huyoo!

Sasa kwanini umefanya kusudi?

 

[Dena Amsi]

Since when????????

Ulipoandika hili bandiko.