Tyta
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Single mums and dads come this way
Single mums and dads come this way
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ERoni
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Ungetupa uzoefu wako sista ili tujifunze changamoto, jinsi unavyoweza kuwa baba na mama kwa wakati mmoja, na vile watoto wanavyojisikia kuishi bila baba karibu..!
Miss Kim
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I am proudly a single parent and i have never regretted my decision to become one. Actually becoming a mother has been one of my greatest achievements so far. Waking up each morning besides my beautiful baby is a true blessing and i always thank God for this beautiful opportunity to be called a mother.
Just to recap a bit about my past.....nakumbuka ilikua mkwa 2010 nilipokutana na huyu kaka and right from the word go i knew he was bad news ila i have always had a thing for "bad boys", huwa niko attracted to such. Basi one thing led to another and all was beautiful & dreamy, everything i would have imagined about him came true. He gave me 6 good months of nothing but pleasure & heaven on earth (hihihihihiii). Anyways to cut the long story short, nikaja gundua i was 2 weeks pregnant surprisingly i was at peace with myself. Right from the word go i knew i wanted to have this baby and one thing i was certain about was that there was no way i was getting this dude involved. So taratibu i started cutting him loose, nikaanza punguza mawasiliano, akitaka tuonane mm nampiga chenga. Kuna kipindi akawa anatamani sana tuonane but mm nikawapa natafuta visingizio, luckily tupo mikoa tofauti & didn't have common friends so interaction was minimal.
Nikiwa almost 9 months pregnant nikakutana na ndugu yake kwa bahati mbaya, huyo ndugu yake si akaenda mwambia jamaa. He flew from wherever he was to where i was to come confirm if i was truly pregnant, tena alinifanyia suprise nisijue kama anakuja. We talked a lot that evening, akaniuliza maswali mengi sana & i never gave him the answers he was looking for. Eventually akarudi zake kwao na life likaendelea. He comes to visit whenever he's around & he supports us as a friend na hadi leo hii sijawahi mwambia kama yy ndo baba wa mtoto wangu.
Ukweli ni kwamba i had my reasons for keeping him at bay about my son's father's identity, hiyo ni siri yangu & i believe that God will understand, hopefully my son will come to understand me when he finally grows up enough to comprehend such things.
Being a single parent has been a blessing in disguise, nimepata breakthroughs za ajabu mno katika shughuli zangu & my life has changed for the best. Lifestyle yangu has changed for good & if i had a second chance at life i wouldn't change a thing about it! I am happy & thankful every single day.
Mnisamehe kwa Kiswaglish changu na story ndefu..hihihihiihihhiii... bottom line is i am a proud parent to the most amazing boy under the sun & would forever be grateful to my "bad boy" for giving me such a beautiful baby, by boy is gonna go places, Mungu atupe uzima tu!
Just to recap a bit about my past.....nakumbuka ilikua mkwa 2010 nilipokutana na huyu kaka and right from the word go i knew he was bad news ila i have always had a thing for "bad boys", huwa niko attracted to such. Basi one thing led to another and all was beautiful & dreamy, everything i would have imagined about him came true. He gave me 6 good months of nothing but pleasure & heaven on earth (hihihihihiii). Anyways to cut the long story short, nikaja gundua i was 2 weeks pregnant surprisingly i was at peace with myself. Right from the word go i knew i wanted to have this baby and one thing i was certain about was that there was no way i was getting this dude involved. So taratibu i started cutting him loose, nikaanza punguza mawasiliano, akitaka tuonane mm nampiga chenga. Kuna kipindi akawa anatamani sana tuonane but mm nikawapa natafuta visingizio, luckily tupo mikoa tofauti & didn't have common friends so interaction was minimal.
Nikiwa almost 9 months pregnant nikakutana na ndugu yake kwa bahati mbaya, huyo ndugu yake si akaenda mwambia jamaa. He flew from wherever he was to where i was to come confirm if i was truly pregnant, tena alinifanyia suprise nisijue kama anakuja. We talked a lot that evening, akaniuliza maswali mengi sana & i never gave him the answers he was looking for. Eventually akarudi zake kwao na life likaendelea. He comes to visit whenever he's around & he supports us as a friend na hadi leo hii sijawahi mwambia kama yy ndo baba wa mtoto wangu.
Ukweli ni kwamba i had my reasons for keeping him at bay about my son's father's identity, hiyo ni siri yangu & i believe that God will understand, hopefully my son will come to understand me when he finally grows up enough to comprehend such things.
Being a single parent has been a blessing in disguise, nimepata breakthroughs za ajabu mno katika shughuli zangu & my life has changed for the best. Lifestyle yangu has changed for good & if i had a second chance at life i wouldn't change a thing about it! I am happy & thankful every single day.
Mnisamehe kwa Kiswaglish changu na story ndefu..hihihihiihihhiii... bottom line is i am a proud parent to the most amazing boy under the sun & would forever be grateful to my "bad boy" for giving me such a beautiful baby, by boy is gonna go places, Mungu atupe uzima tu!
Evelyn Salt
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Miss Kim
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Hahahahaaa!!! Una utani wa ngumi ww, loh! (no offense taken). Sababu zangu zilikua za msingi sana & they are still valid,usione watu tunacheka na kuongea humu, some of us have been through hell & back but we still manage to smile, pick ourselves up & live life like there's no tomorrow!
Miss Neddy
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hahaha
Nanaa
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Ila una roho ngumu mumie....Huoni unawadhulumu mtoto na baba? Unamdhulumu mwanao furaha ya mapenzi ya baba, tena bora baba angekataa but inaonyesha jamaa alikuwa tayari kuchukua majukumu yake....!
Dont be selfish, think about your Kid, una uhakika gani atakuja kuelewa sababu zako za kumficha baba yake? Think again mumiee....!!!!
nyumba kubwa
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Lazima atakuwa ameangalia faida na hasara za maamuzi yake...
Ila nasikia bora watoto wa kike...watoto wa kiume wana demand kujua baba zao hata kama baba alikuwa na makosa kiasi gani...
Evelyn Salt
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Baba atajisikia vibaya pia na kama alikuwa hana roho mbaya, ndo atajifunza kuwa na roho mbaya na kama mtoto hajafanana nae kuna uwezekano pia wa kuwa na shaka kuwa sio wake, mmh whatever the reasons ila Miss kim hajawa fair kwa hilo
Miss Kim
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Asante Nyumba Kubwa, watu wachache sana wataweza elewa kwann nilifikia maamuzi haya but it was for the best & i don't need to explain to anyone my reasons for doing so. Naelewa fika kwamba ipo siku kijana wangu atataka kujua ukweli kuhusu babake & i pray that when that time comes i will have the courage to explain to him & hopefully atanielewa.
Miss Kim
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Thank you for your concern ila kuna mambo hutoweza kuelewa and unfortunately i cannot make you understand. Sijamdhulumu mwanangu haki yake na ipo siku atakuja elewa tu kwann it had to be this way. Namshukuru Mungu the people in my life understood my reasons for doing so & respected my decision to do so, maisha sio kama uyajuavyo tu, there's always a second side to the coin.
Nanaa
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Kila la kheri, Mola akukuzie....ila kwa sababu ni dume halitokusumbua sanaa...Mtoto wa kiume huwa na mapenzi na mama yake....Nadhani angekuwa wa kike ingekuwa story nyingine....!
Miss Kim
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Maisha yanatufunza mambo mengi sana & if there's one thing that i have learned about life is that "survival is for the fittest!".
Miss Kim
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CharmingLady
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Ngoja nami niwe pembeni yako tuwe wasomaji pamoko!
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