Have you ever been secretly in love with your bestfriend (of different gender?) How did it end? Personally, i just remembered my experience, miaka ya nyuma i had a very close male friend, he was my best friend (atleast by then) but his feelings changed as days went by and suddenly one day he told me what he felt.. I thought why nt giving it a try.. THAT WAS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE WE EVER MADE! It never worked as a couple.. After we broke up there was no close friendship anymore. And now, we are just two people who knew each other.