Nipo katika wakati mgumu saaana

jackson27 · Oct 2, 2009

hi wadau wa JF.sikizeni kisa changu
kipindi nasoma nikuwa na madem wingi &nimekuwa nikiachana nao kwani they were not girls of my dreams,hiyo baada ya kukaa nao muda.
sasa nimemaliza chuo nafanya kazi ktk moja ya intrenationa organization,with good salary more than 2m/month,i have car,everything in my house,kiwanja nk.but suala la mke linanisumbua kichwa.sioni wakufaa na access na mademu imeanzapungua kwa sababu ya ubize wa kazi.(unajua ukifanya kazi na wazungu)muda unaenda , vicheche nahfia kuseezi dreams zangu.i feel lonely.
ushauri wa kujenga wadau.

Lussadam · Oct 2, 2009

Kama hamna wa kufaa, jiunge na Upadre

najma · Oct 2, 2009

mimi nipo ila je utameet my creterial , nafkili nina sifa zote ila ndio ivyo kama uko tayari tuwasiliane

mimi-soso · Oct 2, 2009

sali kaka yangu, mwenza mwema hutoka kwa Mungu.

Atakuletea hukohuko katika u-busy wako, vumilia hakuna aliyekufa kwa kukosa mwenza.

mdau2009 · Oct 2, 2009

najma said:
mimi nipo ila je utameet my creterial , nafkili nina sifa zote ila ndio ivyo kama uko tayari tuwasiliane

atawasiliana na wewe vp?

The Boss · Oct 3, 2009

aiseee hiyo situation unayopitia na mimi naipitia vile vile its funny unapokuwa shule au unapokuwa huna kazi unakutana na wanawake wengi wanaofaa kuolewa
but once unapokuwa umesha settle na uko ready kuoa,,,,,ni ngumu kuliko mtu anavyofikiria.......
na wanawake wakishajua unatafuta wa kuoa...
wanakujia kwa staili tofauti......unaweza ona kila mwanamke anafaa kumbe wapi.
omba mungu aiseee.

The Boss · Oct 3, 2009

najma said:
mimi nipo ila je utameet my creterial , nafkili nina sifa zote ila ndio ivyo kama uko tayari tuwasiliane

ila ndo hivyo??????????fafanua...

Mbu · Oct 3, 2009

jackson27 said:
hi wadau wa JF.sikizeni kisa changu
kipindi nasoma nikuwa na madem wingi &nimekuwa nikiachana nao kwani they were not girls of my dreams,hiyo baada ya kukaa nao muda.
sasa nimemaliza chuo nafanya kazi ktk moja ya intrenationa organization,with good salary more than 2m/month,i have car,everything in my house,kiwanja nk.but suala la mke linanisumbua kichwa.sioni wakufaa na access na mademu imeanzapungua kwa sababu ya ubize wa kazi.(unajua ukifanya kazi na wazungu)muda unaenda , vicheche nahfia kuseezi dreams zangu.i feel lonely.
ushauri wa kujenga wadau.

....jichanganye mkubwa...

socializing inasaidi sana mkubwa... hudhuria minuso kadhaa i.e send offs, harusi, office parties, family day out, ...pia jichanganye kwenye misiba, na vikao vya harusi nk...kule unakutana na mabinti kwenye 'natural-habitat!'...

hii maisha ya 8am-5pm kwa ofisi, 8pm-11pm internet, sio mtindo kabisa aisee,...

Mvina · Oct 3, 2009

najma said:
mimi nipo ila je utameet my creterial , nafkili nina sifa zote ila ndio ivyo kama uko tayari tuwasiliane

Weka na wewe vigezo vyako hapa watu wakuchangamkie shauri yako mida ndo hiyoo na umri ndo huoo..
Au kwa vile umeona salary zaidi ya 2M ,nyumba na gari nini?

Maria Roza · Oct 3, 2009

Kila la kheri ila utapata tuu kaka hakuna shaka

MNDEE · Oct 3, 2009

jackson27 said:
hi wadau wa JF.sikizeni kisa changu
kipindi nasoma nikuwa na madem wingi &nimekuwa nikiachana nao kwani they were not girls of my dreams,hiyo baada ya kukaa nao muda.
sasa nimemaliza chuo nafanya kazi ktk moja ya intrenationa organization,with good salary more than 2m/month,i have car,everything in my house,kiwanja nk.but suala la mke linanisumbua kichwa.sioni wakufaa na access na mademu imeanzapungua kwa sababu ya ubize wa kazi.(unajua ukifanya kazi na wazungu)muda unaenda , vicheche nahfia kuseezi dreams zangu.i feel lonely.
ushauri wa kujenga wadau.

Pole sana usitie shaka umeleta shida yako jamvini itashughulikiwa. Je uko tayari kupimwa ukimwi? Pia ingekuwa bora ukitaja umri na eleza unatafuta mtu wa aina gani na expectations zako itawasaida wale wenye interest kufanya maamuzi.

Saikosisi · Oct 3, 2009

jackson27 said:
hi wadau wa JF.sikizeni kisa changu
kipindi nasoma nikuwa na madem wingi &nimekuwa nikiachana nao kwani they were not girls of my dreams,hiyo baada ya kukaa nao muda.
sasa nimemaliza chuo nafanya kazi ktk moja ya intrenationa organization,with good salary more than 2m/month,i have car,everything in my house,kiwanja nk.but suala la mke linanisumbua kichwa.sioni wakufaa na access na mademu imeanzapungua kwa sababu ya ubize wa kazi.(unajua ukifanya kazi na wazungu)muda unaenda , vicheche nahfia kuseezi dreams zangu.i feel lonely.
ushauri wa kujenga wadau.

tatizo lako huyo 'dream girl' wako utakuwa umemuwekea criteria nyingi mno - tafuta demu hata kama ana 75% ya criteria zako chukua.
la sivyo utaishia kuwa lonely mpaka kufa kaka.
mambo mengine ya dream girl ni kwenye movie, novel na dream, many dreams never come true,
maisha ndio haya haya angalia sana...

Kweli · Oct 3, 2009

jackson27 said:
hi wadau wa JF.sikizeni kisa changu
kipindi nasoma nikuwa na madem wingi &nimekuwa nikiachana nao kwani they were not girls of my dreams,hiyo baada ya kukaa nao muda.
sasa nimemaliza chuo nafanya kazi ktk moja ya intrenationa organization,with good salary more than 2m/month,i have car,everything in my house,kiwanja nk.but suala la mke linanisumbua kichwa.sioni wakufaa na access na mademu imeanzapungua kwa sababu ya ubize wa kazi.(unajua ukifanya kazi na wazungu)muda unaenda , vicheche nahfia kuseezi dreams zangu.i feel lonely.
ushauri wa kujenga wadau.

Hivi kwa nini wabongo tunapenda misifa? Sijui mambo ya kujisifia magari, majumba, mishahara, sijui nafanya kazi na International organisation ili iweje? I am sorry, too much irrelevant information.
Kwanza ungejitahidi angalau katika composition and grammar, kwa sababu kwa muandiko huu hapa juu hao wasichana watakufikiria ni kihiyo fulani, kutokana na elimu yako (you should be able to write better than this) huna uhalisia ama uko katika matani.

Nono · Oct 3, 2009

jackson27 said:
hi wadau wa JF.sikizeni kisa changu
kipindi nasoma nikuwa na madem wingi &nimekuwa nikiachana nao kwani they were not girls of my dreams,hiyo baada ya kukaa nao muda.
sasa nimemaliza chuo nafanya kazi ktk moja ya intrenationa organization,with good salary more than 2m/month,i have car,everything in my house,kiwanja nk.but suala la mke linanisumbua kichwa.sioni wakufaa na access na mademu imeanzapungua kwa sababu ya ubize wa kazi.(unajua ukifanya kazi na wazungu)muda unaenda , vicheche nahfia kuseezi dreams zangu.i feel lonely.
ushauri wa kujenga wadau.

Kwa jinsi ulivyojipamba mwenyewe, hapo ndipo tatizo lilipo. Yaani kuwa wewe ulikuwa ukibadilisha mabinti kama sarawili. Unajionyesha mwenye kujisifia mno hadi kusahau kuwa maisha ni zaidi ye fedha, gari nyumba n,k. Shuka chini, uweke thamani ya utu na pia thamani ya wale unaowaona ni wa matawi ya chini, hapo utafanikiwa. Vinginevyo kwa minjonjo yako, malkia ashakuwa mzee, hawezi tena kukuzalia mke!

Abunwasi · Oct 3, 2009

Mimi nilikuwa hivyo hivyo enzi hizo kila demu baada ya muda walikuwa wananiboa. nilijaribu sampuli kwa sampuli lakini hali ilikuwa hivyo. kutokana na pressure ulizonazo sasa pamoja na wazee nikachukuwa kimwana ambacho kama kingeingia mashindano ya umiss lazima angekuwa katika kumi bora.
Eeeh bwana nilijuta niliishi naye miaka 6 baada ya hapo nikaachia ngazi na kuapa kuwa sitaoa tena lakini bwana mungu mkubwa baada ya muda si mrefu anitokea malaika wangu ambaye ninae hadi sasa na amini usiamini tangu nimeoa ni miaka 15 lakini nilichepuka mara moja tu na sidhani kama kama nitamsaliti. sala zangu kila siku ni kuwa tuishi hadi kifo kitutenganishe.
Hivyo bro don't force it utapata tu mbona wako wengi tu?

Pretty · Oct 3, 2009

Nenda kijijini ukaoe, wasichana wengi tu wapo. Ukishampata usisahau kumuendeleza kielimu.

PakaJimmy · Oct 3, 2009

Maria Roza said:
Kila la kheri ila utapata tuu kaka hakuna shaka

Wewe vipi Maria Rosa...uko booked? Mi naona unamfaa huyu jamaa...lol

Mike 1234 · Oct 3, 2009

PakaJimmy said:
Wewe vipi Maria Rosa...uko booked? Mi naona unamfaa huyu jamaa...lol

maana yuko mbomba kweli kama ni picha yake kweli inayoonekana hapo!

Nwaigwe · Oct 3, 2009

jackson, acha misifa hiyo post yako imejaa kujisifia tuuuu, kwa dizain hiyo binti makini huwezi kumpata utaishia kupata wapenda pesa. Anyway sikujua kuwa hili tatizo kumbe hata wanaume mko nalo...cha kufanya cool down na tafuta kwa makini, mungu kakupa ufahamu uutumie.Wale wanaosema subiri mungu atakuletea waongo! mchumba anatafutwa huku ukimwomba huyo mungu wako. Jichanganye kama ulivyoshauriwa, ukiwa makini utapata binti makini pia.bon chance!

Kibongoto · Oct 3, 2009

Utapata dem anaependa mwanaume mwenye mshahara wa 2m/month,international organization job yako na gari lako. Nimecheka kwelikweli,kama ukionana na dem ukaanza hayo mambo ya mshahara na gari na wapi unafanya kazi ujue umemkosa kama kweli girl ni analytical. Mijisifa sio tool ya kupata mke mwema,badilisha strategy utapata!

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