Nani msumbufu hapa?

Alaik · Feb 15, 2016

Baada ya kujifunza mengi tangu nikiwa chuoni na hata sasa nafanya kazi nimeona niulize jambo hili kwenu wadau;
Inakuwaje msichana( mwanamke) analalamika na kusema huyu kaka/Baba ananisumbua sana. Wengi wanasema nimeshamkataa lakini bado hasikii, sasa swali langu linakuja kama ulishamkataa anakusumbuaje? Maana simu akipiga unapokea, SMS akituma unajibu, akikuita mahali unaenda sasa nani msumbufu? Natamani kusikia maoni yenu tofauti tofauti kulingana na background zetu toafauti juu ya mahusiano maana Mimi binafsi naamini msichana akiamua kusema NO huku anamaanisha basi ni ngumu kwa mwaume kumsumbua je hili jambo likoje hasa kuhusu nani msumbufu!
Karibu kwa maoni, ushauri pia mawaidha na uzoefu

motonkafu · Feb 15, 2016

Ndo tatizo kubwa walonalo wanawake wengi hawana msimamo wa moja kwa moja ni sitaki nataka na defensive mechanism ooh ananisumbua sana kumbe keshaliwa mda

Super human · Feb 15, 2016

Mwanamke kutongozwa ni suna. Hata ukisikia anasema hapendi kutongozwa sio kwel but anataka kuonyesha demand bado ipo. Ni kawaida afu hua ukiwatongoza hua wana tabia ya kuwaambia wenzao ili wajichukulie ujiko. kuna Dada mmoja niliwahi mtongoza akaendelea kuwaaambia wenzake japo nilimtongoza once

Nyani Ngabu · Feb 15, 2016

Alaik said:
Mimi binafsi naamini msichana akiamua kusema NO huku anamaanisha basi ni ngumu kwa mwaume kumsumbua

Hili ni kweli kabisa.

Mtu kama hataki umsumbue ni vigumu kumsumbua.

Ila hao wengine huwa wana visebusebu tu.

linguistics · Feb 15, 2016

Sasa akisema hataki wakati anafanya unayotaka km una akili timamu si unajua tu kuwa amekukubali? Kwa sababu matendo hukidhi haja maridhawa kuliko maneno.

Alaik · Feb 15, 2016

Nyani Ngabu said:
Hili ni kweli kabisa.

Mtu kama hataki umsumbue ni vigumu kumsumbua.

Ila hao wengine huwa wana visebusebu tu.

Nyani Ngabu nashukuru maana hawa Dada zetu hawajajua potential walizo nazo

rubii · Feb 15, 2016

ukiona hivyo we endelea kumsumbua tu kuna dalili zote za kucheza goma

Alaik · Feb 15, 2016

rubii said:
ukiona hivyo we endelea kumsumbua tu kuna dalili zote za kucheza goma

Rubii hivi kwanini mtu asiwe na msimamo?

Ushimen · Feb 15, 2016

Wakati wa ujana wangu hapakua na mambo ya usumbufu kwenye kuzoza.
Sikuzile ilikua ni kupimia mida wa mlimbwende akielekea kisimani, then unamfuata huko huko, kisha ukimsemeha akasimama kwanza unamsoma usoni hadi utambue nini anamaanisha, kisha unamkata gwala tu basi,unakua umemaliza maneno

The Boss · Feb 15, 2016

Hiyo inaitwa 'sitaki nataka'

Jimena · Feb 15, 2016

Ila kuna mwingine hata umwambieje haelewiii, hata usipopokea simu atakutext au kukufata fata yani mtu mpaka unachukia

rubii · Feb 15, 2016

Alaik said:
Rubii hivi kwanini mtu asiwe na msimamo?

Hata mimi sijuiii.....

Lepanto · Feb 15, 2016

The Boss said:
Hiyo inaitwa 'sitaki nataka'

Unamtokea mdada through mobile siku za mwanzo anaonyesha kusikitika na kulaumu kuwa unamshushia hadhi but as time goes ananyooka mwenyewe.

Migomba · Feb 15, 2016

Yaani usumbufu ni kwamba hutoi hela

Super human · Feb 16, 2016

Ushimen said:
Wakati wa ujana wangu hapakua na mambo ya usumbufu kwenye kuzoza.
Sikuzile ilikua ni kupimia mida wa mlimbwende akielekea kisimani, then unamfuata huko huko, kisha ukimsemeha akasimama kwanza unamsoma usoni hadi utambue nini anamaanisha, kisha unamkata gwala tu basi,unakua umemaliza maneno

bro Ushimen umenikumbusha walikua wanaweka mkono kufunika macho, Afu nianguse tu sambi sa kwako we unaendeleza game tu

Ja60 · Feb 16, 2016

WENGINE HAWAWEZI KUKUPA DIRECT NO KWA SABABU ANATAKA UWE KARIBU NAE LAKINI SIO KIMAPENZI ZAIDI

pilato93 · Feb 16, 2016

Ushimen said:
Wakati wa ujana wangu hapakua na mambo ya usumbufu kwenye kuzoza.
Sikuzile ilikua ni kupimia mida wa mlimbwende akielekea kisimani, then unamfuata huko huko, kisha ukimsemeha akasimama kwanza unamsoma usoni hadi utambue nini anamaanisha, kisha unamkata gwala tu basi,unakua umemaliza maneno

hao ni wale nyangusage si sambi sako menyewe hivi nyani ngabu huna undugu nao hawa wajukuu wa mkwawa

pilato93 · Feb 16, 2016

Jimena said:
Ila kuna mwingine hata umwambieje haelewiii, hata usipopokea simu atakutext au kukufata fata yani mtu mpaka unachukia

sasa usipo sumbuliwe wewe nani asumbuliwe

Analyse · Feb 16, 2016

The Boss said:
Hiyo inaitwa 'sitaki nataka'

Na usababishwa na tamaa. Kupenda kula bila kuliwa.

Senee · Feb 16, 2016

Hao wanaowasumbua sio wanawake ni wasichana

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