My husband cheated on me with my best friend

[BADILI TABIA]

kinachokuumiza kichwa hapo ni huo utegemezi tu........ Unawaza ukichukua hatua shule nayo inayoyoma

 

[measkron]

Kongosho naandika kitu hapa af we taPsiri
mwanadamu akishikwa anatia/anatiwa anaweza kumkana mamake mzazi!

My wifi Hii kiboko.... Hadi kumkana mama mzazi... Nimechekaje!

 

[Karucee]

Talk what? Kwa mfano?

RAfiki? across territory yangu? niongee naye nini?

Kongosho, ni kuongea kwa kipigo aisee. Mtandike vizuri ahame mji. Selo mjini hapa silazwi.

 

[Kongosho]

Rafiki yangu akinionjea utamu wangu basi tena

Sina energy ya kumtukana wala kumpiga

I will surrender na kumwachia territory

Kongosho, ni kuongea kwa kipigo aisee. Mtandike vizuri ahame mji. Selo mjini hapa silazwi.

 

[sarikoki]

I had some friends over Friday night. I had to work the next day, so I went to bed at 1030. Woke up at 1 and my bed was still empty. I didn't hear anyone and the house was dark. I slipped outside, (Where we had been drinking), and turned on the porch light, to find my best friend and maid of honor going down on my husband. We have been together for 8 years, and not even married for 1. We bought a house 3 years ago, and I am in nursing school, so he pays for everything. 48 hours ago I loved him and thought we would be together forever. I still love him, but all I can think about is that picture of their naked bodies together. He lied about all of the details at first, but now I think he has told me evything except why it happened. Which I think is the most important part. Thats how I will know if he can ever be trusted again. He says that he has no idea why.

I dont think he has ever done this before. And I know that alchol is no excuse, but I truly think that if he had not been drunk this never would have happened. He is the worlds stupidest drunk. He agreed And I know that he loves me. But will I ever feel like he really truly loves me again?How can I ever be intimate with him after this?

I guess what I am wondering, is do relationships ever end happily after something like this?

If you still love him, why seaking for advice...go on keep on loving him. Thats a problem of be americanized...hapa nyumbani angeenda kumgongea gesti... pole sana.

 

[Kongosho]

When kid blood is caught putting, can deny biological mother
(Kayumba Oyee; kidblood - mwanadamu, tia-put)

Kongosho naandika kitu hapa af we taPsiri
mwanadamu akishikwa anatia/anatiwa anaweza kumkana mamake mzazi!

 

[snowhite]

When kid blood is caught putting, can deny biological mother
(Kayumba Oyee; kidblood - mwanadamu, tia-put)

aahhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahhahahahah we mtoto akili zako aliyekuloga kashajifia!

 

[Kongosho]

Ung'eng'e hapa umelala

Nilisoma sekendare kabla ya Asprin

aahhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahhahahahah we mtoto akili zako aliyekuloga kashajifia!

 

[snowhite]

Ung'eng'e hapa umelala

Nilisoma sekendare kabla ya Asprin

Asprin huyu wa juzi tu hapa!

 

[KUCHI]

As i see from ur words it seems ur mind is not settled, and for that matter u cant make a goodjudgement while in such pressure, i think its better u spear some time allmost a month so that ur heart will re gain strength and the advices given will help you to draw a good conclusion. my suggestion is :1. Amua kumpenda zaidi uyo jamaa yako ili ashangae na kukuogopa maana kawaida wanaume wanajua akifumaniwa mahusiano yan avunjika asa ukimpenda zaidi ataogopa na ata loose confidence juu yako automatically ur relationship itachanua upya kama maua ya saa nne, kumkimbia uyo mumeo kutamwongezea credit uyo mdada na ndo atazidi kuku weka uchi. 2. Learn your weekness usiwe mrahisi hivyo kuamini watu to such extent hakikisha unajitahidi kuwa close na mumeo ili vishetani visipate nafasi mfano ungemshauri mumeo mkaenda kulala pengine iyo gem isinge pigwa but ulileta uzungu kwa mwanume wa kiafrica moto mara moja , hapo lawama ni kwako mwenyewe.

 

[King’asti]

Mlinzi? With all the fat and obese pigs all over the place?
Spare me! Natalia, come teach this old dog her route kwi kwi

Are you still tamthiliaring ur self?
Grow up kid!

Find the mlinzi wenu and pay him back mbele yake

 

[Kongosho]

Fat pig has no game, ataishia pakazwa mayonaizi bure, and mume hataona wivu

But ze mlinzi au shamba boy has muscular chest and seven -packs, atajuua mume cheater kushuhudia

Mlinzi? With all the fat and obese pigs all over the place?
Spare me! Natalia, come teach this old dog her route kwi kwi

 

[Asprin]

Ung'eng'e hapa umelala

Nilisoma sekendare kabla ya Asprin

:lalala:

Asprin huyu wa juzi tu hapa!

:banplease:

 

[Ndahani]

Are you still tamthiliaring ur self?
Grow up kid!

Find the mlinzi wenu and pay him back mbele yake

Heeeeeheeee...wewe....asijaribu. Ni kujidhalilisha. Atulize boli na kuangalia kizuri cha kuanza nacho...

 

[Asprin]

A worst person here is your friend he had to stay far from your husband quietly knowing that you belong to him and not her,and your husband too did a mistake,but you have two options to forgive him or not.I know now he still claims that he loves you and he is now giving some excuses of doing so an begging you to trust him again,if you forgive him just be open with him tell him that it's not easy to regain trust to him so soon and so he should give you some time,this will make him regreat for what he's done.I realy feel sorry for you it's a pity,to hell your selfish friend and may you be able to regain the normal situation you had at first with your man.

Says who??

 

[KAYENGA]

Acha roho mbaya kwan kizur ni kula na ndugu yako

 

[NATA]

Sasa kila akiwa anakunywa pombe ndio atakuwa anafanya hivi. Msamehe kama ni pombe tu.

Huyo ni cd wakiume chukua hatua!

 

[Blue G]

sayz Blue G.don't you trust that???????????

Says who??

 

[Marga]

The lady was a mere friend because THE BEST FRIEND can never do what she did.

Well said!

 

[mwathu]

Yatupasa tuwe tunasamehe, si kwa maana ya kukubali kushindwa, au kukubali uonevu na unyanyasaji la hasha bali tufanye hivyo kwa ajili ya furaha na amani ya mioyo yetu, kosa lilikwishafanyika haliwezi kufutika kwa kuachana nae na pia usidhani kuwa utampata mtu smart wa kutokuwa na makosa. Unapokuwa na mpenzi unapaswa kuchunguza mapungufu yake na ujipime kama una uwezo wa kuyabeba, hayo ni mapungufu yake so jitahidi uyabebe (uibebe aibu yake) zungumza nae mueleze jinsi gani amekukwaza lakini usiruhusu shetani awatenganishe kwani mmeshatoka mbali na mmefanya mengi pamoja, kusamehe ni njia nzuri na nafuu kwa furaha yako ingawa chungu kuliko kuachana nae kwani itakugharimu zaidi kumpata mtu mwingine mwenye mapenzi na sifa kama au zaidi ya huyu ulienae. Pole sana but ni maisha na ndio ukubwa. kwenye mapenzi slogan inayotumika ni trust no one suspect everyone. hakuna rafiki wa kuamini mbele ya mpenzi wako.