VoiceOfReason
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- Nov 4, 2010
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Well doing the deed does not necessarily mean the doer intend it to be found out.., hence the action was not intended to hurt (If it happens someones find out it was not desired)One can't find out without occurence.
Well I cant change that, but tell me how can something you don't know hurt you unless when the culprit did not use protection hence bring you other baggageWhat you don't know doesn't hurt you? I don't fully subscribe to that notion.
Mkuu their is contradiction in what your saying as well as generalizing the issue how do you know all the cheaters motives of being discrete if your not in their shoes... The truth remains by being discrete the partner wont find out and hence wont get hurtBeing discreet usually is for covering your own ass and NOT because they don't want their partners to get hurt. If you don't want to hurt your partner just don't cheat, period.
Mkuu why do people cheat.., is it because of lack of love..?, because of their urge to taste every fish in the sea?.., because they hate their partners?, because of their fantasies of having this or that?, because of their big appetite of sex?, because of bad morals and selfishness?;Now you are talking out of both sides of your mouth. Being unfaithful to your partner is not loving your partner for if you love him or her you will be faithful.
Mkuu people are unfaithful for a million of reasons and lack of love is not necessarily the reason..
And for the definition of True Love is Subjective... and maybe just a few of us have ever encountered it and if we go by the definition given below maybe non of humans will ever encounter love
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 [SUP]4[/SUP] Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. [SUP]5[/SUP] It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. [SUP]6[/SUP] Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. [SUP]7[/SUP] It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
[SUP]8[/SUP] Love never fails.