Kwanini "michepuko" ihalalishwe kwa wanaume?

Roger Sterling

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Bado ninapinga mkuu, kwanza kuna risk ya kuambukizana magonjwa, pili ni quality time ya kuwa na mke wako utaipata saa ngapi? Ninadhani dhana nzima ya kuwa na mke mmoja ilikuwa sehemu ya socialization au ustaarabu na kuhakikisha mali inakuwa controlled katika kundi la familia pia dini. Kwanini kule Cana Yesu asifungishe ndoa ya wake wengi?
Ikishahalalishwa, then itakuwa ikifanyika salama na kwa umakini ili kuepuka magonjwa. Na pia itapangwa ratiba au mazingira maalum ili hiyo "quality time" isiwe affected.
 

Sky Eclat

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Ikishahalalishwa, then itakuwa ikifanyika salama na kwa umakini ili kuepuka magonjwa. Na pia itapangwa ratiba au mazingira maalum ili hiyo "quality time" isiwe affected.
I know what I am talking about, kuna familia jirani nilipokuwa mdogo, baba alikuwa mfanyabiashara maarufu tu, alikuwa na wake wane, mmoja alimnunulia nyumba jirani na kwetu. Mizunguko ya yule baba ilikuwa ni siku nne kila nyumba, piga mahesabu 4x4 ndiyo unamuona tena mume. Wengine walianza kuchepuka, haijulikani aliyeleta HIV ni nani lakini ilikuwa ile miaka ya 90, waliondoka wote.
 

CHARMILTON

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Be honest, unagegeda kila siku Monday to Sunday?
Narudia tena, mwanaume akiwa kwenye hali ya kawaida bila ugonjwa ama msongo wa mawazo, yupo tayari kugegeda MUDA WOWOTE.
Halafu wanaume tuna tabia moja ya ki-primitive sana, mwanaume anaweza kugegedana na mwanamke wake hadi akawa exhausted kiasi cha kumtabiria kifo, lakini ikitokea mbunye nyingine mpya sijui hata nguvu zinatoka wapi, utadhani ni mwaka umepita bila kugegeda.
 

Roger Sterling

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I know what I am talking about, kuna familia jirani nilipokuwa mdogo, baba alikuwa mfanyabiashara maarufu tu, alikuwa na wake wane, mmoja alimnunulia nyumba jirani na kwetu. Mizunguko ya yule baba ilikuwa ni siku nne kila nyumba, piga mahesabu 4x4 ndiyo unamuona tena mume. Wengine walianza kuchepuka, haijulikani aliyeleta HIV ni nani lakini ilikuwa ile miaka ya 90, waliondoka wote.
Ndio maana nimezungumzia sana michepuko, sio ndoa.
 

Emmadogo

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KWANI UKINUNUA KUKU WANUNUA JOGOO WANGAPI NA TETEA WANGAPI? ( LAZIMA JOGOO MMOJA TETEA 3)AU JOGOO 2 TETEA HATA 6
 

Emmadogo

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ndio maana nikasema mwanaume akichepuka sio kwamba hakupendi bali ni anatimiza mahitaji yake kimwili kadri inavyombidi. but mwanamke akichepuka jua hakupendi
 

Josaje Mtui

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Kiuhalisia mwanaume kuchepuka sio basic need bali ni necesary need .. Lkn ili kulinda dhana ya mchepuko wife hatakiw sio tu kujua bali hata kuhis kama kuna kitu kama hicho kinaendelea na inanoga zaid pale unaechepuka nae nayy pia anakuconsider ww kama mchepuko wake yaan awe mke wa mtu hapo mtakua salama saaaana coz kila mtu anaenda kwa tahadhari akizngatia kutokuharibu ndoa yake....
Always kuchepuka kunaleta game flan hv amazing coz kila mtu anajitahid kumfunika huyo anaemuibia
True.halafu ainaga mazinguzi
 

Josaje Mtui

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Hapa mimi mwenyewe nina mmama wangu mtu mzima tena ana wajukuu nyumba ya pili hapo nachepuka nae kiroho safi na mmewe yupo.ikihalalishwa mimi nahamia huko mazima na kwangu ahamie yeyote tu nitakua naenda kusalimia tu...mchepuko mtamu jamani
 

CHARMILTON

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Laiti mngejua ni kiasi gani mtu unaumia ukigundua mwenzi wako anachepuka...mngeacha hata kufirikiria habari za kuchepuka....
Ndo hapo ujifunze namna ya kutenganisha hisia zako za maumivu na nyege za mtu rijali.
 

Sky Eclat

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Hapa mimi mwenyewe nina mmama wangu mtu mzima tena ana wajukuu nyumba ya pili hapo nachepuka nae kiroho safi na mmewe yupo.ikihalalishwa mimi nahamia huko mazima na kwangu ahamie yeyote tu nitakua naenda kusalimia tu...mchepuko mtamu jamani
Hivi huyo mama mwenye wajukuu mnapiga story, what do you have in common to talk about? Au mkikutana ni shughuli moja tu?
 
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