Mkuu,
Kupingana na wewe au mtu mwingine does not mean that we hate you or other person. Najua unajua first impression ndiyo inayo matter zaidi. Once you mess on your first impression it will take time to convince others that you are the real deal. It will take time.
Nakumbuka ulishawahi kuuliza huku kama Roma ilijengwa kwa siku moja. Si tunaweza kuanza kidogo kidogo? Na kama unabomoa ili ujenge upya it could take even more time. This was just a single programme and certainly people can not use one event to definitely say that things has changed or improved. Give both sides time. Ningependa nikuone unakuja hapa kuikana thread yako. Give both parties time.
By the way, you do not need to have justified reasons to hate someone because no tool has been invented to justify hate in the first place.