I think I'm gonna go to hell in a handbasket for this

I think I'm gonna go to hell in a handbasket for this

BAFA said:
Doooh thats beyond imagination. These are fantasies, desires, and wishes at deeper level hatar sana
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This is not a fantasy , it is a real situation that has afflicted many people because of their very close relationships with their parents while growing up. The results of such relationships result in boys finding it very hard to cope with other women simply because they cannot match their mother's love and vice versa to the girls!! Consequently, this condition has led to boys finding it hard to get married and even when they try marriage it does not workout; likewise girls do not sustain their marriages and some just decide not to get married!!

I came across this concept when I read a book called "Sons and Lovers" by D.H Lawrence. Anybody with such an affliction should seek professional help!!
 
I always knew you were weird but heeey, you got me off guard aisee.
Sikuwahi jua this condition existed and i know someone who never recovered. He is 40+ and hates his father to the core and hates anyone talking to his dad and he might still be a virgin. Im sorry im laughing, dah.

But you shoukd repent. You and Kiranga need Jesus (kiranga dont change the focus of this useful thread. Tunajifunza hapa)
Nyani Ngabu said:
What...are you having a moment or something...? Hahahaaaaa
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King'asti said:
I always knew you were weird but heeey, you got me off guard aisee.
Sikuwahi jua this condition existed and i know someone who never recovered. He is 40+ and hates his father to the core and hates anyone talking to his dad and he might still be a virgin. Im sorry im laughing, dah.

But you shoukd repent. You and Kiranga need Jesus (kiranga dont change the focus of this useful thread. Tunajifunza hapa)
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Just when you think you know, that you've finally figured me out, I hit you with another one.

But on a serious note, did you really not know about Oedipus Complex?

Not even an inkling?
 
hahahahahahaha sio mzima wewe!
mi huwa nafkr huwa inaisha kiaina!

mi nna scenario mbili nahs clings with urs!
wanangu wakubwa ni girls ,asee kuna muda nahs nawaonea wivu wanavonibeat kwa my husband(yeeees he was my hubbie before him being their father)psyuuu so wasijifanye kumjua saaaaaana kiasi mimi niwapishe!

-iiiila sasa nawaelewa!maana mi mwenyewe kila nikimwangalia mume wangu namwona babangu(the looks,mustach na macho heeee!,am I in love with my poppa)hell no but he is the Best man i ever knew!mamangu alikuwa anadeka bana!
NN sio vizr lakin kuleta haya mamada kwa mrengo huu,ungeacha kule kule kwenye PE 101.
 
BAK said:
Je, hali hii inapokuwa vice versa i.e. mzazi kumtamani mwanae inaitwaje? Nimesoma na warembo wawili mmoja shule ya msingi na mwingine shule ya sekondani wote walikuwa wazuri sana. Hawa wote walitembea na Baba zao hadi kupata watoto, watoto ambao hawakuwa na akili nzuri.

Huyu wa sekondari mama yake alifariki hivyo Baba ndio akahamia kwa binti hadi kumpa mimba na mtoto kuzaliwa, baba alikuwa na nafasi ya juu katika shirika moja la umma. Njembas nyingi tulimuogopa huyu kumpigia speed kwa sababu ya hili la kutembea na Baba yake pamoja na kuwa alikuwa mzuri mno. Yule wa shule ya msingi hatukujua ni mazingira yapi yaliyofanya hadi baba yake aanze kutembea naye hadi apate ujauzito. Aliweza kuificha mimba vizuri kwa masweta hadi kujifungua na kutokukosa masomo.
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hii hutokea pale binti anapoanza kuchipukia na kucopy baadhi ya vitu au vitu vingi toka kwa mama,katika kipindi hicho baba hukumbuka enzi zao alivokua anamtokea au mapenzi ya uchumba,hapo akili huama kwa muda au mazima na kutamani kulisha ubongo na mwili kile alichopewa enzi hizo,tamaa huzidi uvumilivu hivo nafasi ikipatikana hukamilisha desires zao.
note: legally its an offence either incest,sexual harassment, unnatural,rape,defilement etc
 
Huwa naangalia tu mtoto mdogo wa kiume anavyokuwa na wivu wakati anapoona mama yake either anamchumu baba au wanacheza kimahaba. Anakuwa na wivu hadi kulia kabisa. Sasa hizi feelings za kumpenda maza ukikuwa nazo hadi ukubwani inakuwa abomination asee...!
 
It's only normal to be jealousy of your parent's attention and affection and want them all for yourself, but feeling some typa way towards her/him, that's quite scary bruv. You should go talk to a specialist to ease that guilt Chief, before it ruins your life.
 
snowhite said:
hahahahahahaha sio mzima wewe!
mi huwa nafkr huwa inaisha kiaina!

mi nna scenario mbili nahs clings with urs!
wanangu wakubwa ni girls ,asee kuna muda nahs nawaonea wivu wanavonibeat kwa my husband(yeeees he was my hubbie before him being their father)psyuuu so wasijifanye kumjua saaaaaana kiasi mimi niwapishe!

-iiiila sasa nawaelewa!maana mi mwenyewe kila nikimwangalia mume wangu namwona babangu(the looks,mustach na macho heeee!,am I in love with my poppa)hell no but he is the Best man i ever knew!mamangu alikuwa anadeka bana!
NN sio vizr lakin kuleta haya mamada kwa mrengo huu,ungeacha kule kule kwenye PE 101.
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snowhite ni EP 101 Nyani Ngabu ni stage katika ukuwaji wa watoto na hii huwa ni stage ya tatu kuanzia miaka 3-6, sijuhi wewe ulikuwa miaka mingapi.Huwa inatokea kwa watoto wengi tu na haitakiwi kumuharasi kwa kipindi hicho.
 
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Wakati mwingine hali hii inatokana na wazazi wenyewe kukaa mikao mibaya mbele ya watoto wao ambao tayari wamepevuka. Na hapo kinachofuatia ni mtoto kumtamani mzazi wake kingono.
 
Kyenju said:
Miaka 6 mtoto amamtamani mamake kimahaba?
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Hiyo ni stage ambayo kwa mtoto wa like mapenzi yake anahamishia kwa baba na wa kiume anahamishia kwa mama chunguza kwa makini watoto wa stage hiyo,kwa undani zaidi nenda kasome theory ya psychosexual in childhood development.
 
Well hali hiyo imekutokea WEWE na OEDIPUS peke yenu!

Jokes aside;

Usijali Nyani Ngabu, you are not alone. Ingia google utawapata wenzako wengi tu. Mnaweza mkaanzisha Anonymous group lenu!
 
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Nyani Ngabu said:
Damn it!

Y'all gonna guilt-trip me even more by making it look as if I'm the only one who went through it.
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You aint the only one who went through it bro! Rather, you are one of the very few who have the guts to speak it out....
 
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