Isumbwile
JF-Expert Member
- Dec 12, 2012
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Habari zenu wadau,
Its not a new topic kivile..., ila inabidi nilete kwenu great thinkers...frnds with sex benefits na sio frnds with benefits cuz benefits zaweza kuwa nyingi,hapa specifically sex benefits. Hapa i mean una zombi lako ambaye mnajuana kabisa that ili kusatisfy ur sex urges anakuwando mtu wa ku-do naye and hawezi kataa and vice versa applies to u. Anakujua vizuri and u2 unamjua fika.
I was once in that situation long ago and it was disastrous in the end,...now my best frnd is in the same trouble. Nimejaribu kumwambia dat i have been thea n done that and mara nyingi it usually doesnt end up well. Anajitetea dat wote wapo bize, he is a banker hapa mjini full bize 24/7 na mdada ameajiriwa kwa private firm ya wahindi yaani full kubanwa so hawana muda wa kusocialize kivile..., so kuavoid risks na magonjwa according to him wao wanabanjuka kivyao with no strings attached. The truth is dat wote wapo so determined with accomplishments in their lifes meaning dat demu yupo so workaholic and my frnd is also soo into work.
Nimempa few demerits like unakosa chance na good ladies dat may come around cuz unakuwa na mentality dat tayari unae wa ku-do naye or wanaweza ku end-up together wakati hawapendani deeply. And its true they are just good frnds lakini swala la luv feelings lipo so faint.
I need so more mawazo and views from wadau ili niweze kum-advice huyu rafiki yangu before its too late and things get complicated or worse....
Its not a new topic kivile..., ila inabidi nilete kwenu great thinkers...frnds with sex benefits na sio frnds with benefits cuz benefits zaweza kuwa nyingi,hapa specifically sex benefits. Hapa i mean una zombi lako ambaye mnajuana kabisa that ili kusatisfy ur sex urges anakuwando mtu wa ku-do naye and hawezi kataa and vice versa applies to u. Anakujua vizuri and u2 unamjua fika.
I was once in that situation long ago and it was disastrous in the end,...now my best frnd is in the same trouble. Nimejaribu kumwambia dat i have been thea n done that and mara nyingi it usually doesnt end up well. Anajitetea dat wote wapo bize, he is a banker hapa mjini full bize 24/7 na mdada ameajiriwa kwa private firm ya wahindi yaani full kubanwa so hawana muda wa kusocialize kivile..., so kuavoid risks na magonjwa according to him wao wanabanjuka kivyao with no strings attached. The truth is dat wote wapo so determined with accomplishments in their lifes meaning dat demu yupo so workaholic and my frnd is also soo into work.
Nimempa few demerits like unakosa chance na good ladies dat may come around cuz unakuwa na mentality dat tayari unae wa ku-do naye or wanaweza ku end-up together wakati hawapendani deeply. And its true they are just good frnds lakini swala la luv feelings lipo so faint.
I need so more mawazo and views from wadau ili niweze kum-advice huyu rafiki yangu before its too late and things get complicated or worse....
