M.E.M.A
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- Jul 27, 2013
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Hili tangazo la CRDB, mama anamwambia mwanae akavae kwanza suruali, '..tena ile ninayoipenda..'.
Natafakari: Mama is so concerned kijana wake 'atatokelezeaje', pili she even has her 'favourite' Son's trousers. Imagine the son marrying a woman who can't match the Son's mother concerns about him, isn't it sufficient to conclude that the marriage would likely 'feel' inadequate to the Son somehow? Isn't that an avenue for 'restlessness', 'inner hunger' that leads to 'extra marital' affairs - a son's self quest for something he is accustomed to having all his life but don't have now'?
Nimekumbuka mtu mmoja kwenye semina moja..alisema "kijana wa kiume mwanamke wa kwanza kukutana naye maishani ni mama yake. Anajifunza upendo wa mwanamke kupitia kwa mama yake, na quality na picha ya mwanamke maishani mwake huwa na reference kwa mama". Naamini ni sahihi kabisa..maana nimewahi kusikia kijana akisema..'mimi nikiwa mkubwa nataka nimuoe mama'!!? Sasa tatizo litakuwa pale atakapopata mismatch ya mama yake kwa kweli ndoa italack something.
Mwisho..sehemu kubwa ya mama wakwe hawaivi na wakwe zao (wake) kwa kuwa mama anaona mwanae anakuwa mistreated.
Haya wadada/wanawake humu, mnazijua favourites za wanaume zenu? Kama hamzijui basi cheating itaendelea hadi mtu apate mahali ambapo kuna chembechembe za 'mama'.
"Mimi namuomba Mungu anipatie mke mwenye quality za mama yangu."
Natafakari: Mama is so concerned kijana wake 'atatokelezeaje', pili she even has her 'favourite' Son's trousers. Imagine the son marrying a woman who can't match the Son's mother concerns about him, isn't it sufficient to conclude that the marriage would likely 'feel' inadequate to the Son somehow? Isn't that an avenue for 'restlessness', 'inner hunger' that leads to 'extra marital' affairs - a son's self quest for something he is accustomed to having all his life but don't have now'?
Nimekumbuka mtu mmoja kwenye semina moja..alisema "kijana wa kiume mwanamke wa kwanza kukutana naye maishani ni mama yake. Anajifunza upendo wa mwanamke kupitia kwa mama yake, na quality na picha ya mwanamke maishani mwake huwa na reference kwa mama". Naamini ni sahihi kabisa..maana nimewahi kusikia kijana akisema..'mimi nikiwa mkubwa nataka nimuoe mama'!!? Sasa tatizo litakuwa pale atakapopata mismatch ya mama yake kwa kweli ndoa italack something.
Mwisho..sehemu kubwa ya mama wakwe hawaivi na wakwe zao (wake) kwa kuwa mama anaona mwanae anakuwa mistreated.
Haya wadada/wanawake humu, mnazijua favourites za wanaume zenu? Kama hamzijui basi cheating itaendelea hadi mtu apate mahali ambapo kuna chembechembe za 'mama'.
"Mimi namuomba Mungu anipatie mke mwenye quality za mama yangu."