Do You Wait For Your Spouse Before You Eat?

[Money Stunna]

Indeed,it is common amongst new couples to eat together.It's usually two times daily I.e morning and night.In the afternoon,everyone is busy at work.Then I wonder if they sustain this habit for a long time.I remember when I accused a friend for not always eating with his wife and guess his response?He said his wife is too fast when eating and for swallow foods,her wraps are heavier than his.I said to myself;is my friend refering to his wife as a glutton?

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Now,as a married person what's your take on this.And as a single will you wait or not?
Thank you!

 

[SnowBall]

You probably can do it at the beginning of your marriage, however, as days go on everybody eats at her/his own time.

 

[Mamndenyi]

hivi utamngojea mtu anayerudi majogoo yameshaanza kuwika ili uje mle naye au.

 

[Zion Daughter]

Mie nakula kwa ratiba.. saa 12 au moja jioni mwisho.. Sasa mtu anakuja saa nne au tano usiku nimsubiri si ntajitesa??Hata afya yangu hairuhusu..

 

[Oxlade-Chamberlain]

It depends. If the wife cant wait its all good.

 

[Money Stunna]

Mie nakula kwa ratiba.. saa 12 au moja jioni mwisho.. Sasa mtu anakuja saa nne au tano usiku nimsubiri si ntajitesa??Hata afya yangu hairuhusu..

na mwanzo wa ndoa ilikuaje?

 

[Money Stunna]

hivi utamngojea mtu anayerudi majogoo yameshaanza kuwika ili uje mle naye au.

wengi mapenz yanapoanza ula pamoja wanasubiriana kama mme naye atawai kurudi,lakin siku zikiendelea uko mbele,mme anachelewa kila mtu anakula kivyake,inafikia hatua wanakula kwa hotel kila mtu kivyake,ndani ni kulala tu

 

[nhyama]

It seems nonses, eating 2gether does not signify how much u lv ur cauple, co i dont see logic waiting each other 2 eat.

 

[HorsePower]

Ni jambo jema kusubiriana kama kuna uwezekano wa kufanya hivyo - ni mbadala wa kutoana 'out'! Kula pamoja hujenga upendo zaidi na pia hutoa fursa ya kuongea na kupeana updates za mambo fulani fulani kama familia. Kitendo hiki kwa sehemu husaidia kuimarisha ndoa.

Ila kama muda hauruhusu kutokana na ratiba za kikazi au harakati za kutafuta maisha, ni vyema kutafuta muda mwingine wa ziada kuspend pamoja na umpendaye na pengine hata kutoka naye out kama zoezi la kusubiriana nyumbani wakati wa kula linakuwa gumu!

 

[Penelope]

Ni vizuri kama wote mkila pamoja ILA WANAUME walio wengi wanachelewa kurudi nyumbani,,sasa mtu utawezaje kumsubiria arudi wakati mda unaenda,njaa inakolea wakat sanyingine unakuta jamaa yupo mahali anachoma nyama na kushushia na kilaji,,,we ugali unapoa na kuchelewa kula usiku chakula hua akifanyi kazi tena,,,kitambi tu

 

[Money Stunna]

Ni vizuri kama wote mkila pamoja ILA WANAUME walio wengi wanachelewa kurudi nyumbani,,sasa mtu utawezaje kumsubiria arudi wakati mda unaenda,njaa inakolea wakat sanyingine unakuta jamaa yupo mahali anachoma nyama na kushushia na kilaji,,,we ugali unapoa na kuchelewa kula usiku chakula hua akifanyi kazi tena,,,kitambi tu

du umeongea ukweli mtupu asa nilipoweka red

 

[everlenk]

Inategemeana na mazingira,for women prefer more to eat with their husband but men are so far cause most of them are latecomers at night, si tu kula na wife bali na familia nzima huwa inafurahisha sana na inaongeza upendo ktk familia.

 

[Zogwale]

Supper kwa familia nyingi ambazo zina watoto wadogo ni saa 1 jioni. Na kwa wakubwa ni saa 2 usiku!! sasa wewe kubwa langu unarudi nyumbani alfajiri utapata muda wa kukaa na familia? Inasikitisha nyumba nyingine baba anaonekana weekend tu tena kwa masaa!!! Hajua mtoto mzima, amesoma nini shule na kujua pia tabia za mtoto wako!!! Ila tusipoangali itagharimu sana familia nyingi!! Ni hatari sana mtoto kuona upendo wa houseboy (kaka) na housegirl (dada) ni bora kuliko mzazi!!

 

[Bilionea Asigwa]

hakuna kusubiriana mkuu...hapa njaa ikinibana ni kutupia tuu.......mahaba chumbani si mezani bana....

 

[Money Stunna]

hakuna kusubiriana mkuu...hapa njaa ikinibana ni kutupia tuu.......mahaba chumbani si mezani bana....

mbona mwanzo mlikuwa mnakula wote,mkishazoeana sana basi kila mtu kimpango wake mnakutana kwa bed tu

 

[Bilionea Asigwa]

mbona mwanzo mlikuwa mnakula wote,mkishazoeana sana basi kila mtu kimpango wake mnakutana kwa bed tu

dah mkuu kwa mwendo wa wanawake kununa nuna kusiko na mpango yaani unaweza kulala njaa kila siku aisee maana dah..........

 

[Nyalotsi]

dah mkuu kwa mwendo wa wanawake kununa nuna kusiko na mpango yaani unaweza kulala njaa kila siku aisee maana dah..........

hii imeniacha hoi mpaka jirani yangu ndani ya basi anashangaa.

 

[Bilionea Asigwa]

hii imeniacha hoi mpaka jirani yangu ndani ya basi anashangaa.

teh mkuu usione mtu katega bar jioni mida ya kutoka job hataki kwenda home mpaka WIFE alale ukadhani kapenda... STRESS TUPU.....

 

[kui]

whatever's going on, sad..eating together is supposed to be a FAMILY THING (dad,mom,kids) it makes a strong,loving family. Eti kids eat at 7p, mom 10p and then she goes straight to bed, and dad eat at 5am?!!, thats why parents wana vitambi visivoisha

 

[BAK]

THANK YOU!!! 😛oa😛oa😛oa

whatever's going on, sad..eating together is supposed to be a FAMILY THING (dad,mom,kids) it makes a strong,loving family. Eti kids eat at 7p, mom 10p and then she goes straight to bed, and dad eat at 5am?!!, thats why parents wana vitambi visivoisha