Kichumi, kisiasa etc. ni tofauti ni kimapenzi. You can separate everything , na si kila anachotaka mwanamke A kinafanana na mwanamke B.
Kwa kifupi, wanawake wanataka uhuru wa kuchagua wanachokitaka maishani. Why should I live my life based on what a man says I should or should be? What I can or can't do? Watu wanatoaga mifano kama "kwahiyo mnataka wanaume wazae pia? ", which is literally nonsense.
Women can do more than cook, clean, have your babies and be there for your pleasure. We have hopes and dreams and demand that you respect them. Is that so hard to understand?