Dhana ya haki sawa baina ya wanaume na wanawake

Dhana ya haki sawa baina ya wanaume na wanawake

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Kataka uchunguzi wangu usio rasmi nimegundua mara nyingi wanawake huwa wanataka haki sawa kama wanaume katika nyanja zote za kimaisha, I means kiuchumi, kijamii na kisiasa.

Ila kinachonishangaza katika suala la mahusiano wanataka wa-treat
-iwe kama special group, sijajua kwa nini. Maana ikiwa una mpenzi wako wa kike(ukiondoa mke) atataka umuhudumie kama mlemavu yaani chakula, mavazi, malazi na vatu vingi vya anasa.

Cha kushangaza wanakuja na simple argument eti mwanaume ni jukumu lake kuhudumia tena kwa kulazimisha(shinikizo la kimapenzi) pia ni one direction flow of serves, eyi wanawake punguzeni hayo mawazo potofu maana najau kuacha kabisa humuwezi kumbukeni tupo zama za ubepara (if you don't work, you don't earn anything)
 
Haki haitakuwepo kama mwanamke atategemea mwanaume ampe kila kitu hiyo ndo siri ...na kama wanawake wakiamua kujitegemea kwa kila kitu inamaana mwanamke anaanza kula kwa jasho na sababu ya hizi sindano za ganzi na operation basi hakuna tena kuzaa kwa uchungu...kwa wale tunaoamini ktk biblia basi hapo dunia itakuwa ya ovyo sana..haijuliakani nani mwanaume nani mwanamke...ni mwendo wa stress stress depression...

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Haki haitakuwepo kama mwanamke atategemea mwanaume ampe kila kitu hiyo ndo siri ...na kama wanawake wakiamua kujitegemea kwa kila kitu inamaana mwanamke anaanza kula kwa jasho na sababu ya hizi sindano za ganzi na operation basi hakuna tena kuzaa kwa uchungu...kwa wale tunaoamini ktk biblia basi hapo dunia itakuwa ya ovyo sana..haijuliakani nani mwanaume nani mwanamke...ni mwendo wa stress stress depression...

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Strong point,barikiwa sana!
 
Things/treatments are differ from one Men/person to another,

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Ndio but stick kwenye general idea. majority of women wanataka wahudumiwe asif wao huwajaumbwa kufanya kazi au ni wild beast ambao hawafanyi kazi ,yaani wanajipatia mahitaji kupitia nature!
 
Wanawake wa aina hii wanafanya mambo kinyume na maumbile, inasikitisha ikiwa wanafanya hayo kwa mwanaume mwenye maumbile makubwa.
 
Kataka uchunguzi wangu usio rasmi nimegundua mara nyingi wanawake huwa wanataka haki sawa kama wanaume katika nyanja zote za kimaisha, I means kiuchumi, kijamii na kisiasa.

Ila kinachonishangaza katika suala la mahusiano wanataka wa-treat
-iwe kama special group, sijajua kwa nini. Maana ikiwa una mpenzi wako wa kike(ukiondoa mke) atataka umuhudumie kama mlemavu yaani chakula, mavazi, malazi na vatu vingi vya anasa.

Cha kushangaza wanakuja na simple argument eti mwanaume ni jukumu lake kuhudumia tena kwa kulazimisha(shinikizo la kimapenzi) pia ni one direction flow of serves, eyi wanawake punguzeni hayo mawazo potofu maana najau kuacha kabisa humuwezi kumbukeni tupo zama za ubepara (if you don't work, you don't earn anything)


Kichumi, kisiasa etc. ni tofauti ni kimapenzi. You can separate everything , na si kila anachotaka mwanamke A kinafanana na mwanamke B.

Kwa kifupi, wanawake wanataka uhuru wa kuchagua wanachokitaka maishani. Why should I live my life based on what a man says I should or should be? What I can or can't do? Watu wanatoaga mifano kama "kwahiyo mnataka wanaume wazae pia? ", which is literally nonsense.

Women can do more than cook, clean, have your babies and be there for your pleasure. We have hopes and dreams and demand that you respect them. Is that so hard to understand?
 
Haki haitakuwepo kama mwanamke atategemea mwanaume ampe kila kitu hiyo ndo siri ...na kama wanawake wakiamua kujitegemea kwa kila kitu inamaana mwanamke anaanza kula kwa jasho na sababu ya hizi sindano za ganzi na operation basi hakuna tena kuzaa kwa uchungu...kwa wale tunaoamini ktk biblia basi hapo dunia itakuwa ya ovyo sana..haijuliakani nani mwanaume nani mwanamke...ni mwendo wa stress stress depression...

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Naomba utambue kuwa wanawake, given the chance, would rather be independent than dependent on a man. Ukiona mwanamke hajitumi na ni tegemezi kwa mwanaume ujue hayo ni malezi aliyopewa na yanatokana na mazingira yanayowakandamiza wanawake kwa mfano, kukatazwa kuenda shule, kuchungwa siku nzima, kufungiwa ndani, kufundishwa jinsi ya kuhudumia wengine na si kujitegemea. Matokeo ni mwanamke anaeishi kutumikishwa na wengine.

Huo mfano wa sindano za ganzi sielewi, ina maani kutaka kupunguza maumivu wakati wa kijfungua ni ishu pia? Je ulishawahi sikia uchungu wa uzazi? Maumivu bado unayapata hata na hiyo sindano ( sijawahi tumia, lakini I will not judge those that opt to use it as a last resort). People die from child birth all the time, it's not a game.

Labda niulize , kinachomfanya mwanaume aitwe mwanaume ni nini hasa? What defines what constitutes male work /duties or female work/duties?
 
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