Dhana ya haki sawa baina ya wanaume na wanawake

[HoneyBee]

Hawaa ni viumbe dhaifu toka enzi...pambana na hali zao..!

HAHAHAHA. Mama yako ni dhaifu pia au? How does this logic work exactly.

 

[Pain killer]

HAHAHAHA. Mama yako ni dhaifu pia au? How does this logic work exactly.

Wew n me au ke ....naona unanikamia.
...iyo ipo waz

 

[HoneyBee]

Wew n me au ke ....naona unanikamia.
...iyo ipo waz

???

 

[HoneyBee]

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Kazi zenye mazingira kama haya yapo Bongo lakini????

Kama ni kulima, kubeba kuni, kubeba zega, kusomba taka taka, wanawake wapo asilimia kubwa kwenye mazingira kama haya, tofauti na nchi zilizoendelea.

Wanasema jamii zinazothamini wanawake ndizo zilizoendelea zaidi. Take a moment to see which societies are more advanced na zipi zilizo nyuma na utaona wanawake mazingira yao yalivyo utapata jibu lako.

Women's rights are crucial for our advancement as a society. Wanaume hamuwezi kusonga mbele bila wanawake.

 

[suley hazard]

HAHAHAHA. Mama yako ni dhaifu pia au? How does this logic work exactly.

Mama yake pia ni mwanamke. Tunaposema mwanamke ni dhaifu hatumaanishi kuwa hana uwezo wa kufanya jambo fulani la hasha,
tunamaanisha kuwa peke yake hawezi na anahitaji uwepo wa mwanaume kumlinda na kumsaidia kuhakikisha kuwa anakuwa salama, anapata mahitaji muhimu na anatoshelezwa kwenye kile ambacho hawezi kujikamilishia peke yake.

Mwanamke anamhitaji mwanaume amuongoze na amtie nguvu kwenye nyakati ngumu. Kumbuka kuwa mwanamke "ana kifua chepesi", ni mwepesi wa kukata tamaa, ni mwepesi wa kuishiwa nguvu na pia ni mwepesi wa kubadili uelekeo wakati wowote ule.

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[KikulachoChako]

Usawa baina ya mwanamke na mwanaume utapatikana endapo tu mwanaume ataanza kuziona siku zake......

 

[- kANA -]

Kichumi, kisiasa etc. ni tofauti ni kimapenzi. You can separate everything , na si kila anachotaka mwanamke A kinafanana na mwanamke B.

Kwa kifupi, wanawake wanataka uhuru wa kuchagua wanachokitaka maishani. Why should I live my life based on what a man says I should or should be? What I can or can't do? Watu wanatoaga mifano kama "kwahiyo mnataka wanaume wazae pia? ", which is literally nonsense.

Women can do more than cook, clean, have your babies and be there for your pleasure. We have hopes and dreams and demand that you respect them. Is that so hard to understand?

HAKI SAWA is overrated!

Ladies, if you want something fight until you get it. Stop seeking for sympathy, cause that only shows how weak you are!

- KANA -

 

[KikulachoChako]

Kuhalisia mwanamke ni sehemu ya mwanaume kwani hata uumbwaji unatokana na kutoa spea kwenye mwili wa mwanaume.......

Mwanamke ni kiumbe mdogo sana kwa mwanaume hivyo basi haipaswi kushindana naye bali kumdharau tu......

Mwanamke ni kama mfupa uliopinda.....ambapo ukisema uunyooshe utauvunja.....na ukisema uuache kama ulivyo ni usumbufu kwako....so unatakiwa uishi naye kwa akili na sio nguvu.....

Mwanamke anapigania usawa ambapo hata yeye mwenyewe kwenye nafsi yake anajua kuwa haupo.......!!!

 

[HoneyBee]

Usawa baina ya mwanamke na mwanaume utapatikana endapo tu mwanaume ataanza kuziona siku zake......

Tunajua wanaume na wanawake wanatofautiana kibaiolojia. Tatizo ni wanaume kuziona sifa za wanawake kuwa kama udhaifu, kwa mfano wewe kutoa mfano wa mwanaume kupata siku zake ni njia mojawapo ya kutukana na kusanifu maumbile ya wanawake.
You are using nonsensical logic to diminish the conversation.

 

[HoneyBee]

HAKI SAWA is overrated!

Ladies, if you want something fight until you get it. Stop seeking for sympathy, cause that only shows how weak you are!

- KANA -

Why do you feel the need to tell me what is or isn't overrated? If I say I would like to work x hours, earn x amount and live in x location, marry at x, have x many children and have my partner have xyz qualities, is that such a terrible thing?

Equal right is about CHOICE.

 

[- kANA -]

Naomba utambue kuwa wanawake, given the chance, would rather be independent than dependent on a man. Ukiona mwanamke hajitumi na ni tegemezi kwa mwanaume ujue hayo ni malezi aliyopewa na yanatokana na mazingira yanayowakandamiza wanawake kwa mfano, kukatazwa kuenda shule, kuchungwa siku nzima, kufungiwa ndani, kufundishwa jinsi ya kuhudumia wengine na si kujitegemea. Matokeo ni mwanamke anaeishi kutumikishwa na wengine.

Huo mfano wa sindano za ganzi sielewi, ina maani kutaka kupunguza maumivu wakati wa kijfungua ni ishu pia? Je ulishawahi sikia uchungu wa uzazi? Maumivu bado unayapata hata na hiyo sindano ( sijawahi tumia, lakini I will not judge those that opt to use it as a last resort). People die from child birth all the time, it's not a game.

Labda niulize , kinachomfanya mwanaume aitwe mwanaume ni nini hasa? What defines what constitutes male work /duties or female work/duties?

This phrase tends to irritate me every time I come across it."If given a chance"

Given by who?

What about men, who gave us the so called chance?

Mara nyingi badala ya kupigania haki za wanawake hua mnaishia kupigania upendeleo kwa wanawake!

- KANA -

 

[Sukari Yenu]

Enzi za zamani walikuwa hawahesabiwi hawa.....mi hata safarini nikifuatana na mwanamke najihesabu nasafiri na mtoto au peke yangu kabisa. Ukiwawazia ni watu kamili utaumia kichwa....hawa ni viumbe wa ajabu sana.

Sukari Yenu

 

[HoneyBee]

Kuhalisia mwanamke ni sehemu ya mwanaume kwani hata uumbwaji unatokana na kutoa spea kwenye mwili wa mwanaume.......

Mwanamke ni kiumbe mdogo sana kwa mwanaume hivyo basi haipaswi kushindana naye bali kumdharau tu......

Mwanamke ni kama mfupa uliopinda.....ambapo ukisema uunyooshe utauvunja.....na ukisema uuache kama ulivyo ni usumbufu kwako....so unatakiwa uishi naye kwa akili na sio nguvu.....

Mwanamke anapigania usawa ambapo hata yeye mwenyewe kwenye nafsi yake anajua kuwa haupo.......!!!

I am convinced African men hate women. Not all, but many of you do.


Wewe na akili zako kweli unaamini ile hadithi uliyosimuliwa toka kwenye biblia kuwa wanawake ametengenezwa toka kwa ubavu wa mwanaume. Ukifanya xray , wanaume na wanawake have the same number of ribs.

Deep down men know just how weak they are. There are more women than men in the world. The reason women still entertain you is because you hold some power ( economic, biological in order to reproduce) but as the world is evolving and we are becoming more independent and having more choices on who to reproduce with, your importance is diminishing.

MEN NEED WOMEN MORE THAN WOMEN NEED MEN.

The sooner women realize this , the better things will be.

 

[HoneyBee]

This phrase tends to irritate me every time I come across it."If given a chance"

Given by who?

What about men, who gave us the so called chance?

Mara nyingi badala ya kupigania haki za wanawake hua mnaishia kupigania upendeleo kwa wanawake!

- KANA -

To quote another user:

"Enzi za zamani walikuwa hawahesabiwi hawa.....mi hata safarini nikifuatana na mwanamke najihesabu nasafiri na mtoto au peke yangu kabisa. Ukiwawazia ni watu kamili utaumia kichwa....hawa ni viumbe wa ajabu sana.
Sukari Yenu"

This is the thought process we are surrounded by. This is a reality for women. We are not seen as whole, functional human beings, but merely bodies that need to be directed, ignored, made to do things that make others ( most of the time men) comfortable. Our purpose is seen as to serve the wants and needs of men first.

As a man, you really do not realize how much privilege you have.

To want to be seen as a whole si upendeleo.

 

[- kANA -]

Why do you feel the need to tell me what is or isn't overrated? If I say I would like to work x hours, earn x amount and live in x location, marry at x, have x many children and have my partner have xyz qualities, is that such a terrible thing?

Equal right is about CHOICE.

Your reply is another good description of how weak the female gender is!

Opinions are like noses, we all have one! Its not a crime when other people give out their opinions on what you do or what you believe!

I like honey, I hate the bees!

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- KANA -

 

[HoneyBee]

Enzi za zamani walikuwa hawahesabiwi hawa.....mi hata safarini nikifuatana na mwanamke najihesabu nasafiri na mtoto au peke yangu kabisa. Ukiwawazia ni watu kamili utaumia kichwa....hawa ni viumbe wa ajabu sana.

Sukari Yenu

Narudia tena, wanaume wa kiafrica hampendi wanawake. May you see the light.

 

[Demi]

Siwezi kuchangia hii mada.
MBITIYAZA njoo unisaidie kuchangia, muite na Neybright pia

 

[BIGstallion]

Kweny mapenzi uwe na rule moja" all or nothing",... !!?,..relationship must be business wise,give and take,

 

[HoneyBee]

Your reply is another good description of how weak the female gender is!

Opinions are like noses, we all have one! Its not a crime when other people give out their opinions on what you do or what you believe!

I like honey, I hate the bees!

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- KANA -

How does that make me weak?

You like honey ( what women have to offer)
You hate the bees ( what you have to work through to get to what women have to offer)

That is what it boils down to. I stand corrected on my last opinion, many men ( not African) enjoy what women have to offer but do not want to deal with the humanity of women. Independence of women threatens the status quo, and that's what men do not like, as evident by these threads questioning why women even want equality in the first place.
Deep down you realize that once women are fully in charge of their destiny, you will become forced to deal with women as HUMAN BEINGS and not your baby making machine or house cleaner. A full human with wants, desires and dreams. Imagine that!

 

[Mathias Raymond Nyakapala]

Kataka uchunguzi wangu usio rasmi nimegundua mara nyingi wanawake huwa wanataka haki sawa kama wanaume katika nyanja zote za kimaisha, I means kiuchumi, kijamii na kisiasa.

Ila kinachonishangaza katika suala la mahusiano wanataka wa-treat
-iwe kama special group, sijajua kwa nini. Maana ikiwa una mpenzi wako wa kike(ukiondoa mke) atataka umuhudumie kama mlemavu yaani chakula, mavazi, malazi na vatu vingi vya anasa.

Cha kushangaza wanakuja na simple argument eti mwanaume ni jukumu lake kuhudumia tena kwa kulazimisha(shinikizo la kimapenzi) pia ni one direction flow of serves, eyi wanawake punguzeni hayo mawazo potofu maana najau kuacha kabisa humuwezi kumbukeni tupo zama za ubepara (if you don't work, you don't earn anything)

Wewe.......naomba namba yako nikutumie japo vocha kama pongezi najua hauna shida ila kwa maneno haya huku kwetu ulitakiwa uweke kikapu mbele yako tutumbukize hela kukupongeza......

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