Cheti cha Kuzaliwa kiwe na option ya 'single parent'

[cariha]

Sasa you are my wife.. halafu nina mtoto nje... Utaniruhusu niende kumuona weekend mbili kwa mwezi!? 😀

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Wewe kamuone tu mwanao hyo haina shida lakini sio kuniletea mzigo wako nilee huko kuzeeshana sasa. Wewe nenda kafanye yote utajiju as long as you don't abandon ur child

 

[cariha]

Sio weekend mbili tu, Every weekend unatakiwa ukawaone kisheria. Ndio uwe na bond na Watoto wako, cheza nao mzoeane. Sio Watoto wako wanakuona Kama mpita njia

Hafu huwa hawana bond na Wanao wanasingizia mama za watoto kuwaharibu mtu Hana mda na watoto siku wakimuona wanamuona ni stranger tu

 

[Masokotz]

A
Are you serious? Hujui Dunia ilivyo? Jadili Kama mtu mzima, mimba hazikataliwi?

Mkuu,usipanick.Kuna vibinti vinafikiri mwanaume akishavipa mimba ndo vimepata njia ya kumweka lockdown halafu vikifanyiwa ukauzi vinaanza kusema vimetelekezwa mara sijui hatuweki majina ya baba kama vile wasipoweka majina wanamkomoa baba kumbe maskini vinathibitisha ukweli kwamba vyenyewe ni viranga.JUST bitches trying to make themselves feel GOOD.The child has a right to their father regardless

 

[Kamukhm]

Wewe kamuone tu mwanao hyo haina shida lakini sio kuniletea mzigo wako nilee huko kuzeeshana sasa. Wewe nenda kafanye yote utajiju as long as you don't abandon ur child

Hahaha! Sasa mengine yapi..
Ushauri tulee sote .. mzazi mwenzangu awe anakuja kusalimia.. you might end up being friends ...who knows.

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[Grena]

Mkuu,usipanick.Kuna vibinti vinafikiri mwanaume akishavipa mimba ndo vimepata njia ya kumweka lockdown halafu vikifanyiwa ukauzi vinaanza kusema vimetelekezwa mara sijui hatuweki majina ya baba kama vile wasipoweka majina wanamkomoa baba kumbe maskini vinathibitisha ukweli kwamba vyenyewe ni viranga.JUST bitches trying to make themselves feel GOOD.The child has a right to their father regardless

Dude have some respect, Sasa mtu Kama wewe unamuita mama mtoto wako bitch unategemewa uwekwe kwenye cheti Cha kuzaliwa?? Grow up Man

 

[Kamukhm]

Sio weekend mbili tu, Every weekend unatakiwa ukawaone kisheria. Ndio uwe na bond na Watoto wako, cheza nao mzoeane. Sio Watoto wako wanakuona Kama mpita njia

Na aliyeoa ila ni mfanyakazi wa Tanapa mama Mwl. Idodi!?... Baba Akienda kazini miezi mitatu bila kuona watoto.. huyu bond inakuwaje Mkuu 😀?!

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[Grena]

Na aliyeoa ila ni mfanyakazi wa Tanapa mama Mwl. Idodi!?... Baba Akienda kazini miezi mitatu bila kuona watoto.. huyu bond inakuwaje Mkuu 😀?!

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Kifupi bond ya Watoto na mzazi aliye mbali huwa ngumu. Labda mawasiliano yawe mazuri Sana , simu kila Mara na WhatsApp video calls ziwakutanishe na watoto Mara kwa Mara

 

[Irenga]

Nikulazimishe for what. Amini unachoamimi Mkuu.

Hapa lazima tueleweshane sio kuja na mawazo ukadhani yako sahihi na kila mmoja atakukubalia . Na pia punguza chuki dhidi ya Wanaume umeishia kuwashambulia, kuwadhalilisha na kushindwa kung'amua makosa ni yako kushindwa kuchagua Mwanaume/Mwanamke sahihi wa kuzaa nae pia hata Wanawake wanatekeleza na kutupa Watoto lakini haya yote yanatatuliwa Ustawi wa Jamii na sio RITA!

 

[Grena]

Hapa lazima tueleweshane sio kuja na mawazo ukadhani yako sahihi na kila mmoja atakukubalia . Na pia punguza chuki dhidi ya Wanaume umeishia kuwashambulia, kuwadhalilisha na kushindwa kung'amua makosa ni yako kushindwa kuchagua Mwanaume/Mwanamke sahihi wa kuzaa nae pia hata Wanawake wanatekeleza na kutupa Watoto lakini haya yote yanatatuliwa Ustawi wa Jamii na sio RITA!

Mkuu nani amekwambia na chuki na wanaume? Hii ni forum mijadala inaletwa ili ijadiliwe.

Mtu akileta mada huku haimaniishi yeye ndo muhusika, hivi vitu viko kwenye jamii yetu vinatokea lazima tuvijadili.

Na Mimi Hoja yangu sio ustawi wa jamii sababu sijasema Mambo ya matunzo hapa. Naongelea Haki ya mama kuwa na Uhuru wa kuchagua Kama baba ambaye katekeleza mtoto, awe kwenye cheti Cha kuzaliwa au lah Jambo ambalo RITA ndio wanadeal nalo.

 

[Irenga]

Mkuu nani amekwambia na chuki na wanaume? Hii ni forum mijadala inaletwa ili ijadiliwe.

Mtu akileta mada huku haimaniishi yeye ndo muhusika, hivi vitu viko kwenye jamii yetu vinatokea lazima tuvijadili.

Na Mimi Hoja yangu sio ustawi wa jamii sababu sijasema Mambo ya matunzo hapa. Naongelea Haki ya mama kuwa na Uhuru wa kuchagua Kama baba ambaye katekeleza mtoto, awe kwenye cheti Cha kuzaliwa au lah Jambo ambalo RITA ndio wanadeal nalo.

Ujadili kwa kutofunga akili ili upate Ufahamu jumuishi sio uje ukiwa na majibu yako kichwani [ ukirudia kusoma mirejesho zako utajiona ulivyo Feminist dhidi ya Wanaume] Ahsante, naomba kuishia hapa!

 

[Masokotz]

Dude have some respect, Sasa mtu Kama wewe unamuita mama mtoto wako bitch unategemewa uwekwe kwenye cheti Cha kuzaliwa?? Grow up Man

Whho care,Sipendi tu Tabia za wanawake kujifanya Victims.The fact is the right to be identified as a father has nothing to do with the the fathers' ability to provide.To me this is very personal.Women need to accept the fact that if you get pregnant and the man does not take responsibility it is not the fault of the child.Huwezi kumnyima mtoto haki ya kumfahamu baba yake hata kama ni mnywa gongo just because amekataa kuprovide.The fact remains kumbwe in reflect your taste and selfishness.You are ashamed to let your child know that you actually dated an irresponsible man by denying them their basic right.That makes you a looser.

 

[Kamukhm]

Kifupi bond ya Watoto na mzazi aliye mbali huwa ngumu. Labda mawasiliano yawe mazuri Sana , simu kila Mara na WhatsApp video calls ziwakutanishe na watoto Mara kwa Mara

Bond ya watoto ni Mama grena..

Tupo tuliokuwa na wazazi kazi zinawahitaji kusafiri muda mwingi wa mwaka.. ila we loved our father and he loved us back.. mama ndiye aliye tusaidia.. bila yeye isingewezekana maana hakukuwa na simu miaka hiyo..

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[Masokotz]

Ujadili kwa kutofunga akili ili upate Ufahamu jumuishi sio uje ukiwa na majibu yako kichwani [ ukirudia kusoma mirejesho zako utajiona ulivyo Feminist dhidi ya Wanaume] Ahsante, naomba kuishia hapa!

Mkuu nani amekwambia na chuki na wanaume? Hii ni forum mijadala inaletwa ili ijadiliwe.

Mtu akileta mada huku haimaniishi yeye ndo muhusika, hivi vitu viko kwenye jamii yetu vinatokea lazima tuvijadili.

Na Mimi Hoja yangu sio ustawi wa jamii sababu sijasema Mambo ya matunzo hapa. Naongelea Haki ya mama kuwa na Uhuru wa kuchagua Kama baba ambaye katekeleza mtoto, awe kwenye cheti Cha kuzaliwa au lah Jambo ambalo RITA ndio wanadeal nalo.

Haki ya mama inaanzia na kuishia katika dating game,Once you get pregnant haki za mtoto ndo zina kuwa na msingi.It is just selfishness to think that to hide the guy who got you pregnat could absolve you from your irresponsible behaviour.It reflects your taste in men.Sio kosa la mwanao ni kosa lako na huwezi lifix kwa kumficha mtoto.NEVER.

 

[Grena]

Bond ya watoto ni Mama grena..

Tupo tuliokuwa na wazazi kazi zinawahitaji kusafiri muda mwingi wa mwaka.. ila we loved our father and he loved us back.. mama ndiye aliye tusaidia.. bila yeye isingewezekana maana hakukuwa na simu miaka hiyo..

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Yeah but as a father too sometimes you wish to have a bond with your kids sema ndo hivyo chapa lazima zitafutwe na Mama ndio kimbilio pekee linalobaki.

 

[Masokotz]

Bond ya watoto ni Mama grena..

Tupo tuliokuwa na wazazi kazi zinawahitaji kusafiri muda mwingi wa mwaka.. ila we loved our father and he loved us back.. mama ndiye aliye tusaidia.. bila yeye isingewezekana maana hakukuwa na simu miaka hiyo..

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Huyu bibie anataka kumuadhibu mtoto kwa kosa lake la kuwa na poor taste in men.Maana anajua kwamba the fact remains kwamba the Child did not choose thea father but her and now things are messed up she is trying to hide.

 

[Grena]

Haki ya mama inaanzia na kuishia katika dating game,Once you get pregnant haki za mtoto ndo zina kuwa na msingi.It is just selfishness to think that to hide the guy who got you pregnat could absolve you from your irresponsible behaviour.It reflects your taste in men.Sio kosa la mwanao ni kosa lako na huwezi lifix kwa kumficha mtoto.NEVER.

Really Who is more irresponsible than a deadbeat dad?? Running away from his responsibility

 

[Masokotz]

Really Who is more irresponsible than a deadbeat dad?? Running away from his responsibility

Cammon,It refelects a womans test in men.The child should not be denied the right to know of his deadbeat dad just because you are dumped.A dad would not reject his true child but a dad would reject an overbearing woman who thinks that having a child with a man puts him at her mercy.

 

[Grena]

Cammon,It refelects a womans test in men.The child should not be denied the right to know of his deadbeat dad just because you are dumped.A dad would not reject his true child but a dad would reject an overbearing woman who thinks that having a child with a man puts him at her mercy.

What mercy are you talking about? Stop the nonsense and provide for your kids. There is no excuse for being a deadbeat dad

 

[Kamukhm]

Yeah but as a father too sometimes you wish to have a bond with your kids sema ndo hivyo chapa lazima zitafutwe na Mama ndio kimbilio pekee linalobaki.

Bottom line we need each other.. sisi tunaweza kuwa irresponsible ..unworthy to your eyes.. but sadly we are the seed of life to that boy or girl.. and that is our right to be recognized and the right of the child to be informed.

Haya mengine nahisi kutakuwa na ugumu sana kudeal nayo kisheria..maana yako more personal.

Kwanza malezi ni nini!?

Ni fedha!? Ni uwepo!? Je uwepo na fedha vinaweza kuwa interchangeable!? Kama hapana tunawezaje kuvipima ili vitolewe kwa usawa!? Kama ndiyo nani anapaswa kukaa na mtoto.. mzazi mwenye uelewa na maadili bora au Mama tu by default!?

Tukishindwa kuoana, tukagombana sheria itatoa provisions zipi!? Lazima tulee pamoja!? ..je mama akibaki na mtoto, na baba hawezi kuhudumia kifedha, ila uwepo pekee.. itakuwaje!?

Nadhani sheria kukaa kimya kwenye hili.. ni busara kubwa sana,. Hili ni la busara.. na tukikaa tukaacha kujiangalia wenyewe for once.. na tukaangalia Mtoto na future yake.. wote will come around fine.

Sasa Mkuu, kweli utakaa hapo mtoto wako hajala vizuri na wewe una uwezo, kisababa yake alimtelekeza!? Au utakaa kuchukia mtoto wako amenawiri na kupendeza kwa nguvu zako kisa baba yake alimtelekeza!? Is there love for that kid!?

Maana love for my kids Trumps everything.. I don't care what you didn't do.. am proud a d happy my kids are doing fine.. that's love

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[Masokotz]

What mercy are you talking about? Stop the nonsense and provide for your kids. There is no excuse for being a deadbeat dad

The fact is.providing for children is my duty BUT dealing with an overbearing woman can actually make the whole process a punishment.In that case you can not blame a man who chooses to stay away from a venomous woman.It is a fact you cannot hide your poor taste in men by punishing the KID and denying them right to know their parents.SUCH is a FACT.