cheaters need love too

[MwanajamiiOne]

acid katoa kauli kwamba hao wanaoitwa "wasaliti"
wanahitaji upendo pia. jambo ambalo nami naliafiki kwani
nao ni binadamu kama wengine.

Kaka Tajiri nakubaliana nawe but swali langu ni kuwa kama ni cheaters it means tayari wana love somewhere but they are not satisified thats why they cheat.........and they say once a cheater is a cheater so no matter how much love you give a cheater s/he will always cheat...........then why bother??

 

[MwanajamiiOne]

Unless we define what love do they need............the one from the cheated one or that from the one s/he cheats with..................

 

[Michelle]

It might be true,do they seek that LOVE outside the people they love? To err is human,we do not call that love but LUST,because they have love from the ones they are attached to,what takes them out is called LUST! :ban:

 

[Dr Lizzy]

acid katoa kauli kwamba hao wanaoitwa "wasaliti"
wanahitaji upendo pia. jambo ambalo nami naliafiki kwani
nao ni binadamu kama wengine.

Na wanaodanganywa wanastahili ehh??

 

[Elia]

Every one diserve love

 

[Elia]

My love if cheaters need to be loved (or need love) why would they trade the one they have? Coz its obvious that if they are caught cheating, trhe possibility of loosing the love they have is big, but they do not care means they do not need one............

Someone can walk into your life and it is not until after they walk out that you realize that they were even there​

 

[GodfreyTajiri]

inawezekanaa kabisa huko kunakotegemewa kwamba lipo pendo
hakuna upendo ndio maana wanaishiaa kulitafuta kwengine.
aidha inawezekana pendo alipatalo halimtoshelezi au limemkinai

Kaka Tajiri nakubaliana nawe but swali langu ni kuwa kama ni cheaters it means tayari wana love somewhere but they are not satisified thats why they cheat.........and they say once a cheater is a cheater so no matter how much love you give a cheater s/he will always cheat...........then why bother??

 

[Mbu]

Kaka Tajiri nakubaliana nawe but swali langu ni kuwa kama ni cheaters it means tayari wana love somewhere but they are not satisified thats why they cheat.........and they say once a cheater is a cheater so no matter how much love you give a cheater s/he will always cheat...........then why bother??

Unless we define what love do they need............the one from the cheater one or that from the cheated with..................

...MwanajamiiOne, the definition 'may fall' into four categories;

a] Security Love - ...Cared and nurtured

b] Friendship Love - ...Open and comfortable

c] Romantic Love - ...Lustful

d] Unconditional Love - ...Sincere love

Acid, ni upendo gani unaoutafuta bro?

Wanaume 'wengi' ni "predators," wana crave romantic love, ...'uchu' ukimshika atafanya kila hila akidhi fantasies zake.
Wanawake 'wengi', ...being "Preys," wana crave security, ndio maana utakuta hata advocates wa "chungu na mafiga matatu" hawaoni tabu kuyajadili haya siku hizi kwenye hizo Kitchen Party zao.

Almuradi kwenye haya maisha ya kisasa kuporomoka kwa maadili kunakochangiwa na ugumu wa maisha, na uchu wa kujirahisishia maisha haraka haraka kunaongeza maradufu infidelities.

Exposures na technolojia pia zimewezesha kwa wenye mioyo myepesi kushawishika ku cheat, hata kwa wale walio katika unhappy relationships, lakini hawataki kuvunja ndoa zao.
Mbaya zaidi, kila anaye cheat ana sababu yake 'ya maana' tu...!

"an optimistic would say a glass is half full, while a pessimist would say it is half empty."

 

[GodfreyTajiri]

hapo ndio kwenye busara, kwani muonja asali huchonga mzinga

Unless we define what love do they need............the one from the cheater one or that from the cheated with..................

 

[TIMING]

acid katoa kauli kwamba hao wanaoitwa "wasaliti"
wanahitaji upendo pia. jambo ambalo nami naliafiki kwani
nao ni binadamu kama wengine.

Thanks mkuu.... Umenielewa vyema. Hapa najaribu kuwakilisha feelings za cheaters, probably i am one of them...

 

[TIMING]

Kaka Tajiri nakubaliana nawe but swali langu ni kuwa kama ni cheaters it means tayari wana love somewhere but they are not satisified thats why they cheat.........and they say once a cheater is a cheater so no matter how much love you give a cheater s/he will always cheat...........then why bother??

Kamanda.... Cheaters need love, whether they get or not its another stuff... Tell me, how do we feel when cheat

 

[Nsiande]

R.. the problem is,most of the time these people don't/won't change!!Watadanganya sirudii sirudii ila mwisho wa siku anarudi kule kule!Some get a kick out of it...some do it out of disrespect for their partner and some simply because they have these silly excuses to justify their actions!Mpaka hapo ni ngumu kwa wao kuacha maana wanafurahia hiyo hali..labda kama alilazimishwa/zimika..hiyo itakua kesi nyingine!

I agree, people do it not bcoz they r lonely or need to fill a void, they do it bcoz they get a kick out of it, the very fact thts its cheating add to the excitement, the planning and all that

What they need is to put themselves in their partners' perspective, how hurt they will be if they will be on the other side,

So the love they need they can get from their respective others, the only guys that I don't call cheaters are those who do it openly and don't care less for their partner's feelings, these aint cheaters! No sir these are simply animals

 

[Darlingtone]

AD, LIzzy, BAK and sfm.... in a way and if you really dig deep, many of us a cheaters in a way, and we always crave for love.... indeed we look for love!!!

i happened to witness an incidence where a cheater was crying for forgiveness and blame loneliness and ignorance for cheated... then said to myself... cheaters need love too

Does that mean they cheat because they do not receive enough love and attention from their partners?? Kuna watu ni sex maniacs hata umuachie atembee nayo mfukoni bado ata-cheat

 

[Mbu]

Does that mean they cheat because they do not receive enough love and attention from their partners?? Kuna watu ni sex maniacs hata umuachie atembee nayo mfukoni bado ata-cheat

Dah, very nice avatar Darlingtone...!
"What the eye does not admire the heart does not desire."

 

[birungi]

all of us need love too, dont matter a cheater or hitter.
you never know alichofanya huenda kimemuuma, na unapomuonyesha au kumpa love unamcomfort.:hug:it show how much u care(even if....)

 

[Dr Lizzy]

Thanks mkuu.... Umenielewa vyema. Hapa najaribu kuwakilisha feelings za cheaters, probably i am one of them...

Owkey then....Basi tukubaliane kwamba na wao wanahitaji..but they sure don't DESERVE it!Not before they learn to respect their partners feelings!

 

[Chauro]

ivi naomba kuuliza naweza pata maana ya neno LOVE maana naona huwa sielewi maana yake huwa linanichanganya

 

[Chauro]

sijakuelewa lizzy in maana cheaters hawana feelings au?umeshawahi kujiuliza kwanini wanacheat

Owkey then....Basi tukubaliane kwamba na wao wanahitaji..but they sure don't DESERVE it!Not before they learn to respect their partners feelings!

 

[Dr Lizzy]

in maana cheaters hawana feelings au?umeshawahi kujiuliza kwanini wanacheat

Tatizo sio kwamba wao hawana tatizo ni hawajali za wengine!Naamini visingizio wanavyotumia hamna hata kimoja kisichozuilika! Wangekua wanajali wenza wao k.m kama kuna kitu hawapati kwenye mahusiano yao wangesema na kujaribu kutatua tatizo!Ikitokea huyo mwenza akashindwa kabisa kuelewa na hicho kitu ni muhimu sana kwake(Cheater) aondoke mazima!Hamna sababu inayompa mtu kibali cha kucheat!

 

[TIMING]

It might be true,do they seek that LOVE outside the people they love? To err is human,we do not call that love but LUST,because they have love from the ones they are attached to,what takes them out is called LUST! :ban:

its love and not lust sweetheart.... we visit killers in teh jail cells, we greet fisadis everyday, then we also need to share our passion and love with cheaters too... they are one of us

its just denials that delienate us from cheaters, while we are one and the same thing