FA
Nuh Im done with shool, .............there is a possibility that I may never attain hizo achievement as noted above but that doesnt mean nisijaribu kuzipigania. ...............Besidesif I was to think that way, then in the same token what if our union never works na mimi nimesha give up my life dreams??
dah, nimefurahi sana kuona kwamba kuna akina dada wanaojitambua... wenye dreams, wanaojua kwamba maisha is all about paying bills, wanaojua kwamba kila kitu (including love) kinapaswa kuthaminishwa na fedha, wanaotambua kwamba mtu akitoa msimamo tofauti ni unyanyasaji etc.... yeah, huku ndio kujitambua kunakohitajika kwa mwanamke wa karne hii....
Thank you, thank you, thank you............................can is ay thank you again for this useful post!??😛oa
JS
Billionaire my dear?? I can only wish. Halafu its not kuwa ni-kiembark into the life journey with him my dreams will be shattered, hapana ni kuwa to see my life plans to completion I need my job a year longer than I had anticipated. Imean i can come home and we can pull our resources together to get them accomplished but what good will that do to my sense of accomplishment. Mind you, the key aspect in all of this is "me" and "myself worth"..........ie as in yeah i Nemo did this, and not we did it!
PS
I know it sounds a bit on the selfish side but hey what's the point of endurng all this life hussles with nothing to show for?
Kipipi
ouch............I thought you are my friend!!?? Haya mwaya nimefunguka macho, as they say wengi wape.......na kwa kuwawengi wamesema usemavyo, basi I have not other choice but to admit defeat!
JS
Duh,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,yaani that is exactly what my sister said....as for your other question, I guess I do love him but regardless love shouldnt be the reason to make one forego their life long dreams. Should it?
Nemo,
Hapo kwenye red ndipo kwenye tatizo. Kama ulikuwa unampenda unconditionally wala usingekuja hapa kuomba ushauri. You aren't yourself sure if you really love the guy. The guy might also have noticed this and that is why he has decided to give you the ultimatum before opting for his plan B. He doesn't want you to blame him later for any decision he might take.
Kwa kifupi the ball is in your side. Hata hivyo, kweli unataka kuolewa naye whilst you still guessing if you love him? Kwa sasa the best way forward is to step two steps back and think carerely kama kweli unampenda. Don't rush kuolewa na mtu ambaye una-guess kama unampenda. You need to love him dearly. Otherwise, it is not worth it.
Go back to square one. Do you really love him?
I guess I just dont do well with ultimatums or men exerting their will on my life!
What happened to FAITH??
Hivi Nemo wacha niulize sijui kama utanijibu ili wote humu tujue: what kind of dreams are you referring to here? maana kuanzia mwanzoni you have been on to this dream thing sasa ni dreams gani hizo? wanna be a billionaire or something? dreams ambayo you are 100% sure kwamba uki-embark yourself into life commitment it will all be shattered?
Nemo,
Hapo kwenye red ndipo kwenye tatizo. Kama ulikuwa unampenda unconditionally wala usingekuja hapa kuomba ushauri. You aren't yourself sure if you really love the guy. The guy might also have noticed this and that is why he has decided to give you the ultimatum before opting for his plan B. He doesn't want you to blame him later for any decision he might take.
Kwa kifupi the ball is in your side. Hata hivyo, kweli unataka kuolewa naye whilst you still guessing if you love him? Kwa sasa the best way forward is to step two steps back and think carerely kama kweli unampenda. Don't rush kuolewa na mtu ambaye una-guess kama unampenda. You need to love him dearly. Otherwise, it is not worth it.
Go back to square one. Do you really love him?
I m unable to buy into the premise that that one acting irrational ie "me throwing out the window my dreams" is the a measure of the so called love
Pole dadake..
Kwa ninavyoona kweli ashukuru ya kwamba umemwambia mapema..
Pili labda anasema tu hivyo kwa sababu ya hasira fulani mpe muda ata
adopt hiyo situation tu.. Na akija kwa wazazi watakuelewa tu . furaha ya mtoto
amani kwa mzazi..
Ahsante AD, this is comforting!😛oa
EMT
Jamani EMT, kama nilivyo elezea hapo mwanzo "the guess" came form the fact that love is subjective. Had my response been I loved this man unequivocally then, mark my words the arguments would 've turned to, "how can I claim that yet I cant make some sacrifice", how love is giving, etcetera etcetera....................lakini as much as I believe in love and the butterflies in the stomach, I m unable to buy into the premise that that one acting irrational ie "me throwing out the window my dreams" is the a measure of the so called love
No probs..
Anyway hivi leo si ndo Valentine yenyewe...
Em tumia zile teknic zetu za kike umnanilii
alainike kidogo hata kwenye simu, you never know
waweza muingia akayeyuka na kusema " we have to stop this ****,
your mine , i love you so much, just concentrate with what your doing now..
will be waiting .. 😛oa
Nadhani moyo wako hauko sana kwake ila unataka tu kutumia hako ka ultimatum kake kama kisingizio. Ebu fikiria kama wewe ndo ungekuwa umeahidiwa na ukasuburi halafu akaongeza mwaka ungejisikiaje? Si tungesikia vilio na shutuma kwamba wanaume siyo waaminifu?