Will you marry a jobless man? Toa maoni yako

Will you marry a jobless man? Toa maoni yako

How can one be jobless? Hata kuuza karanga nishindwe? Mungu aniepushe, after all.
 
Kinyozi wetu said:
Love won’t put food on my table — Genevieve Nnaji, Actress

Love can’t put food on my table. The fact is that the man in question is jobless. That will only succeed in frustrating whatever I put in the relationship. So, I won’t marry a jobless man, nor will I advise anybody I know to do so.
No matter how much love any man would profess, don’t forget that money makes the world go round. You need both finance and love to make any relationship survive. If you want to remain in the light of love is everything, don’t forget that someday, you may fall sick and there’ll be no money for treatment. Will your lover boy also tell the doctors of his undying love to save your life?

That’s a lifetime mistake — Eva Ogoro, Musician.

Well, it depends on the kind of man. I don’t see anything wrong in marrying a man who has just lost his job, especially, if I was in a relationship with him and he had proposed marriage to me before losing his job. It won’t be nice to leave him for someone else. But to say I want to dream of marrying a man who has no job at all will be a lifetime mistake. When you get yourself tied to such a man, then you would have signed your death warrant because he’ll milk you financially, emotionally, psychologically and otherwise.
In fact, my parents will destroy me first before I get hooked to such a man. All the love in the world can’t make up for joblessness because the man will end up being envious of all your effort to make money.

He shouldn’t be looking for a wife — Nike Johnson, Artist.

Why on earth will a jobless man be looking for a wife? A man who has no job obviously cannot take care of himself. How then is he supposed to take care of someone else?
Even in the Bible when God created Adam, he gave him a job first, which is taking care of the garden. And it was after giving him a job that God saw the need for him to have a helper and gave him a wife. So, the woman is meant to be a helpmate and not the head of the family. Some of our women go into marriage all in the name of love while they overlook an important factor like finance.
Yes, it is good to love but open your eyes while doing that. I won’t marry a jobless man for any reason.

He’s worse than an infidel — Lisa Onu, Actress.

Ah! I’ll not marry a jobless man…o. What will he teach my children? A jobless man is a lazy man because I get very uncomfortable, even as a woman when I’m jobless. God himself made it clear that a man should soil his hands and be able to put food on the table for his home. The fact that our women are beginning to do all kinds of stressful jobs does not take away the responsibility of the man as the provider. There’s also a portion of the bible which says that a man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel. So, why should I marry a jobless man?
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It's interesting how women are rushing to quote a biblical aphorisms when it comes to finance in relationship yet they indulge in gender equality fantasy!

I always say women are mysterious creatures!
 
Lizarazu said:
It's interesting how women are rushing to quote a biblical aphorisms when it comes to finance in relationship yet they indulge in gender equality fantasy!

I always say women are mysterious creatures!
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Its human behaviour likes to claim the justice than to fulfill it.
 
King'asti said:
Nadhani inategemea. Why is he jobless ndio suali la msingi. Anaweza kuwa jobless kwa sababu ni mvivu, mzembe, hataki kujiongeza wala kujikubali. Manake binafsi naamini kama ajira ikishindikana atabeba hata zege just to make ends meet. Unamuona kabisa mambo hayajakubali lakini anajisukuma na kujituma kuhakikisha anakuwa mwanaume. Huyo anafaa kuwekeza for the future.
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Habari za masiku! Ulipotea rafiki karibu tena JF
 
conor said:
Na magagula na yenyew yanasema eti no..we sura mbaya na kuzalishwa ulishazaliwa, uko kwny miaka 29+ mwenye kaz na hela ake akuoe akupeleke wap [emoji13] [emoji13] [emoji13] [emoji13][emoji13] [emoji13] [emoji13] [emoji13] [emoji13] [emoji90]
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heeee kama umezalishwa ndo jukumu lako kulea watoto wa dunia nzima??? akalelewe na mamake ndoa na mwanaume asiokuwa na kazi bado jibu ni NO huwezi beba zigo lako utaweza la mke na watoto?!?! tena kama huna kazi hata kut.mba hutakiwi kuwazia
 
nyanji said:
Huu ujobless sijaelewa.Mwanaume anaweza akawa anaweza kutimiza majukumu ila hana kazi ya kueleweka.Kwa mfano ni tapeli,mwizi na anaendesha maisha yake kupitia hiyo kazi sasa sijui na hiyo ni kazi?
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Hivi unaweza ukawa hauna kazi na ukatimiza majukumu yako!!! Unayatimizaje kwamfano!!!

Huo utapeli, ujambazi si ndio kazi yenyewe japo sio halali.
 
Lizarazu said:
It's interesting how women are rushing to quote a biblical aphorisms when it comes to finance in relationship yet they indulge in gender equality fantasy!

I always say women are mysterious creatures!
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Si kama nyie mnavyokimbiliaga kuwatumia role model wenu akina Suleiman inapokuja kwenye uzinzi. Na kama vile ambavyo mkisikia suala la pesa mnakimbilia kutusaidia kuhubiri haki sawa.

Tunataka haki sawa sio wajibu sawa maana as a man utabaki kuwa mwanaume tu nami nitabaki kuwa mwanamke na kila mmoja ana wajibu wake.
 
msmimi30 said:
heeee kama umezalishwa ndo jukumu lako kulea watoto wa dunia nzima??? akalelewe na mamake ndoa na mwanaume asiokuwa na kazi bado jibu ni NO huwezi beba zigo lako utaweza la mke na watoto?!?! tena kama huna kazi hata kut.mba hutakiwi kuwazia
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Kweli kabisa.
 
espy said:
Hivi unaweza ukawa hauna kazi na ukatimiza majukumu yako!!! Unayatimizaje kwamfano!!!

Huo utapeli, ujambazi si ndio kazi yenyewe japo sio halali.
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Duh kumbe nazo ni kazi![emoji1]Nilikua sijui
 
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